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Left-Out Blues

Besides getting soccer ball right in the gut, my LEAST favorite feeling is when I feel left out of something. You know, like all of a sudden your friend starts chillaxin’ with someone else, or your older brothers are invited to go someplace and you’re not—it’s not a great feeling, is it?

Not so long ago, this girl Julie “Fabulous” Faber was having this crazy birthday party at her house. She got her parents to buy stuff to make it Hawaiian-themed, and she even handed out fruit-smelling invitations! Maeve, Katani, Charlotte, and Isabel all got invitations—except me.

So, yeah, I felt pretty rotten! I mean, being the “Ave” and all, I tried not to let it bother me, but feeling left out really hurts. Sometimes, feeling left out makes you question yourself. Like, “What, am I not good/popular/fun enough to go to this party?!”

It turned out that Ms. Fabulous Faber said I was “too immature.” Whatever. I like to have fun and be silly sometimes. That doesn’t mean I’m immature. In fact, EXCLUDING people is what makes HER immature.

So, what did I do about my left-outness? You’ll have to read book #7 Freaked Out to find out. But here’s a hint: I def did NOT let it spoil my evening!

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When have you ever felt left out? What did you do about it?

Later,

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Dec 1, 2008
kays kool writes: Comment
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I have great friends and family and we never leave anbody out.

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Oct 31, 2008
BSgirl2008 writes: Comment
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 Today was my birthday. I thought I would have tons of fun at school. Instead I got in a fight with all my friends. When they went off and left me to play together with themselves I was left by myself. Alone, on my birthday. I hated the feeling and never wanted to feel like that again. The good thing is at the end of the day we all made up and were friends again.

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Oct 31, 2008
BFF_1998 writes: Comment
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i just put it a side don't let it bother you

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Oct 18, 2008
huggagle13 writes: Comment
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 MSGONZO99,

If theyre whispering about you than u should talk to ur friend about that! BUT MAKE SURE U WERE ABSOLUTE ABOUT THEM WHISPERING ABOUT YOU! sometime u hear things that arent neccasairily true. so just talk to ur friend and maybe ask them what they were talking about. if they were whispering about u and she didn't take for her actions than hang out wit ur REAL friends

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Oct 12, 2008
msgonzo99 writes: Comment
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me 2 one time at the playgroud i went 2 play with my freind and someone else was with her and they kept whipoering mean things about me i heard them

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Oct 9, 2008
PointeShoe101 writes: Comment
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 I hate being left out.

xoxo

Pointe♥

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Sep 7, 2008
gabby1034 writes: Comment
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yup, i have been left out once. my best friend was invited to this girl's sleepover party and i wasn't .  aww i feel bad 4 u. 

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Aug 31, 2008
kel1197 writes: Comment
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Yup. :( It was not fun. I was talking about them to my classmates and we were next to each other and they didn't even notice I was talking about them. But now were are all friends!!!

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Aug 31, 2008
soccergirl333 writes: Comment
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A lot of times my friends will make plans without me. I always get frustrated, but I know that they're friends too, so I don't want to seem like a hog, and tell them. But I also have this friend who used to be my only best friend, and now I don't like her that much. My bffaeaeae and her walked to school together on the first day, even though I know that my bffaeaeae doesn't like her, too. I asked her why and she said that my kinda not friend's mom almost forced her mom to let her drop my kinda not friend off at their house so they could walk together. I believe her because my kinda not friend's mom gets really involved, in the annoying sense. And sometimes I feel like none of my friends like me anymore, just because they won't call or text me and make plans with me. Although this still happens sometimes, my sister told me at the beginning of sixth grade that maybe I could start making plans, instead of waiting for someone else to do it for me. After that I started making more friends, and not being alone of friday nights wondering why no one wanted to hang out with me. I know it sounds pathetic, but if you feel left out, then just start making your own plans, and sometimes your friends will want to hang out with you more, because they start to feel left out, if they're the jealous type.

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Aug 21, 2008
broadwaygal31 writes: Comment
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 u go girl!! (myboo123!)

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Aug 20, 2008
myboo123 writes: Comment
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 i felt left out when my sister made me take care of her baby its hard. but then i told her this is her baby not mine!!!!

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Aug 20, 2008
broadwaygal31 writes: Comment
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 never stops dancing,

why does that girl annoy u so much? i would like to know cuz some of my friends annoy me EVERY DAY!

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Aug 20, 2008
Deonie101 writes: Comment
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 When I felt left  out I talked to  the person who made me felt out and told them how i was feeling and they understanded and included me!

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Aug 20, 2008
PuppyLover26 writes: Comment
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 I figured it out properly!

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Aug 19, 2008
lala0298 writes: Comment
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well i am sort of never left out but some times wenever i say something a qom says some thing to another qom about me and then wen a ask wut they say nothing

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Aug 19, 2008
broadwaygal31 writes: Comment
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 when i felt left out i just told the person and that cleared up everything but sometimes it's not that easy! if you really don't want to feel left out anymore do what i did and if that doesn't work then pssshh they r not real good friends! hope this works!!

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Aug 17, 2008
disneystar2 writes: Comment
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    If you are left out try to make the best of it and call other friends and do stuff with them!!!

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Aug 16, 2008
bookworm12 writes: Comment
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so i know i just wrote  but im trying 2 find an online key pal id really like 2 have 1 so if any of u are interesdid leave a note k bi 

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Aug 16, 2008
bookworm12 writes: Comment
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 heyyy guys fellow adivicers u rock my sox

so i havnt herd form any of u in a while so leave me anote i have an awsome cousin she rox  and all of u do 2

i misssss u guys write 2 me  

pleaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaazzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

oh and bsggirl14 no biggie dont get rid of thier friendship forev you might want it back

Qoute of the day: would u mind if i 2 checked it out!!!!!

U GUYS ROCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Aug 16, 2008
jen11 writes: Comment
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 dear,big girl you should not feel left out those girls are just queens of mean I have a few of them in my school you should not listen to the they are just being mean you should really look and gusse what they are not your friends they just said that to probily get a good lagh out of you if they were your friends last year then remember people change over the summer you just should tell them yo guys tell me the truth do you do this to me what did I  ever do to you you guys are not my tru friends you are just realy mean to people and guess what I do not take that so just back of and stop 

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Aug 13, 2008
bgirl101 writes: Comment
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 SO Sad........

  two of my BFFs r both the same country. And sometimes i feel left out that they plan secret sleepovers behind my back. with out even telling me. sometimes i ask them what their talking about and they just giggle and walk away. so sometime i feel like i dont have any real friends at school

  Any advice??????

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Aug 12, 2008
Sapreea writes: Comment
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One time in gym class my friend was a teem capten and she promise to pick to me first and she dent and she pick all the good players and I was pick last and I got stuck whith the mean girl and besides I am all was last.

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Aug 12, 2008
Cinnamon Apple writes: Comment
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 Fullcircle around soccer,

 Well, first of all do not tell this girl anymore secrets, no matter and tempting it is. And since you obviously already told her some secrets, say to her , "I trusted you with my secrets and you told everyone. Maybe we shouldn't be that close friends anymore because no true friend does that." Or something like that. Good luck!

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Aug 11, 2008
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When my friend (only one friends does this) tells a sercret righht in front of my face and does tell me.I have not found a way to stop it. Can any one tell me how to slove this?

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Aug 10, 2008
glamous_dancer writes: Comment
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 Help i am confused... I wanted to go over to stay in U.S.A bud my parents was like ok no.... Ok no...

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Aug 9, 2008
BSGirl14 writes: Comment
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 here is a left out story that will make anyone feel bad...

I was at the mall and i see my two friends, as soon as i see its them i yell over " Hey Guys". They see me and one of them starts to talk to me and the other drags her out totaly ignoring me. then 5 minutes later when i walked out of the mall- they came back in and ignored me again. I was like how rude. Only one of them is talking to me now and she has to many excuses- takes it from me BSG Club- People who are rude to you then cover with excuses, dont deserve to be your friends :(

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Aug 4, 2008
bookworm12 writes: Comment
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Dear bookhog

NOBODY will pick on u at least they better not u rock add me and ill give u further advice  c ya Ps: addddddddd meeee pleazzzzzzzzzzzzzz

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Aug 4, 2008
abz writes: Comment
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michellerocksout

That's ok, well QOM=Queen Of Mean

--abz

If u want more help just ask

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Aug 3, 2008
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Dear abz,     Well, I am not as brave as you. I couldnt go up to her. And that other girl, umm, well she doesnt talk about me but still, thans so much for your help!!!!!       Your friend, michellerocksoutPost Script: Idk what QOM means?

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Aug 3, 2008
lpfalz writes: Comment
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 I have sat at lunch all alone before but then some of my friends such as a*** came and sat with me

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Aug 3, 2008
bookhog writes: Comment
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i have a question- this year i will the new kidbut i have no idea how to handle the first day !!! i am sonervous!! what if people think i am geeky? i need advice now!!! please help me!!!

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Aug 2, 2008
lightblue6456 writes: Comment
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I always feel left out when im with my friends and thy tlak without me, just remeber they're your friends.

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Aug 2, 2008
abz writes: Comment
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nikkichick26

Thanks!I went through a rough patch at school but i always stand up for myself, i am not afraid of them, and i have self respect and confedance!

--abz

sorry if messy writing fast!

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Aug 2, 2008
abz writes: Comment
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michellerocksout

Alright i am here to help!First off u can ask me to be your friend,if u want cause i think that u asked me, well next she sounds like a QOM.What u need to do is not let her get in your way.If she talks mean about u stand up for yourself!Be cool and calm though.U acn go up to that girl that u like and say hi ummm can i get your e-mail?I am sure she will give it to u!If u hear her talking about u ever go up to her and be hum excuse me about could u stiop acying soooo imature?Because u could just talk  to me about that instead of being soo low that u have to tell others to feeel better about yourself?and stuff like that soo she knows u won'y pit up with her.

--abz

hope this helps a litttle ask more ?'s and i will answer!

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Aug 1, 2008