Left-Out Blues

Besides getting soccer ball right in the gut, my LEAST favorite feeling is when I feel left out of something. You know, like all of a sudden your friend starts chillaxin’ with someone else, or your older brothers are invited to go someplace and you’re not—it’s not a great feeling, is it?

Not so long ago, this girl Julie “Fabulous” Faber was having this crazy birthday party at her house. She got her parents to buy stuff to make it Hawaiian-themed, and she even handed out fruit-smelling invitations! Maeve, Katani, Charlotte, and Isabel all got invitations—except me.

So, yeah, I felt pretty rotten! I mean, being the “Ave” and all, I tried not to let it bother me, but feeling left out really hurts. Sometimes, feeling left out makes you question yourself. Like, “What, am I not good/popular/fun enough to go to this party?!”

It turned out that Ms. Fabulous Faber said I was “too immature.” Whatever. I like to have fun and be silly sometimes. That doesn’t mean I’m immature. In fact, EXCLUDING people is what makes HER immature.

So, what did I do about my left-outness? You’ll have to read book #7 Freaked Out to find out. But here’s a hint: I def did NOT let it spoil my evening!

you tell us ...

When have you ever felt left out? What did you do about it?

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Comments (239)

bookworm614 writes:

	Dear Maevegirly, If they are leaving you out, so what, I bet they are missing out on a great person. Just do what I did and make new friends. Just don't ditch them when your other friends come back. Hope this works! Bookworm614

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maevegirly writes:

	i feel kinda left out because one of my bffs hangs out with all of these others girls who don't do anything! they just talk and gossip. ugh! so i have to hang out with my other bff instead.

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bookworm614 writes:

	The worst time I was left out was when my best friends hooked up with the new girl, and the new girl decided that even though I was really nice to her, she didn't want to like me. So I was stuck wandering around the playground all by myself for like a month. On the plus side, I met new people and made like eight friends! -Bookworm614

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reader818 writes:

	i was left out from popular girls but I don't care because they just leave me out because they want to feel better. If you've been left out, I feel your pain. -reader818

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algreen12 writes:

oh and 1 more thing! popular or wanna be popular girls will tease or make fun of other girls to make sure that u think that u need them more than they need u!i like 2 call this "cool resistance" cuz they think their cool by being mean 2 u!this just means they r insecure. but, popular people r only as popular as we make them!like, if no one liked miley cyrus, she wouldn't be as well known !

hope this helps!
~algreen12

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algreen12 writes:

	gyfie, my advice 2 u is to know that if people r ignoring u, know that its THEIR LOSS cuz their missing out on knowing a great person! ~algreen12

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volleyballer09 writes:

	one time my 3 BFFs, A***, L, and L** all had a sleep over without me i cried because the next day i invited L* over and she's like L*** and A*** are over... :'[ ]':

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iloveyou13 writes:

	one time i felt left out too. the most popular girl in school invited every body ecept for me. what i did is on my birthday, i invited everybody ecept for her. and then she told me how she felt to be left out like me. so she promised that next year, she'll invite me to her birthday party and i promised to her that next year i'll invite her too.

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cutie1356 writes:

	ma friends ask dis girl named K for candy, but ever time i ask when thy got it they say someone else gave it to them. and when i ask K for candy she says she doesn't have any

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dancerqtpie24 writes:

	my friends went everywhere without me and did everything without me it really hurt and even tho they apologized i still dont feel as close because it damaged our relationsip also if they realy were a friend they never would hav done that in the first place so we arent quite as good of friends

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shalom girl writes:

	when i moved to a new school no one would talk to me i felt so left out!

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♥swimchick♥ writes:

see i just broke my arm and my friend at a swimming party and i couldnt swimm so most people hung out with me even if i rally didnt care becuase they were having fun and i didnt want To ruin it so i would say i have awsome friends i ♥ all my friends and my boyfriend J*** when i get left out i just put myself back in & tell my friends wahst happen then there all like omg im soooo sorry so i forgive but what ever u do dont leave anyone out its just not right so when yall get left out put urself back in smilies/grin.gif

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Babygurl3637beaconstreet writes:

	ACTULEY IT WAS MY BDAY AND MY COUSIN AND HER FRIEND WAS INVITED AND MY FRIENDS RODE IN THE CAR WITH ME AND MY COUSIN RODE IN THE CAR WITHOUT ME AND THEY SAID IN THE CAR LETS NOT TALK TO HER FOR LIKE 30 MINUTES AND WHEN WE GOT TO THE HOTEL THEY DID NOT TALK TO ME AND I FELT SO LEFT OUT IT WAS MY COUSIN AND ON MY BIRTHDAY I FELT SO SAD IT WAS HORIBLE

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swimdude44 writes:

	I HATE BEING LEFT OUT! Dudes, I totally get it.. it STINKS!!!

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smileyface27 writes:

	that happened once-- i mean sometimes-- i mean, when u r with a group of friends and sometimes u feel left out, like invisible... Just talk to your personal friends and say what happened and what did u do or maybe say "did u have an exciting night". sincerely, smileyface27

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michellerocksout writes:

	Daer gyfie, Well, that is how I am at school too.I only have two friends I am close to in my class, plus my best friend is in the other class!!! But I would bemore than happy to be your friend. Your friend, michellerocksout

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abz writes:

gylfie,
That is to bad, i have had that same thing happen to me all the time, what i first recommend to keep your head up, don't let others see u upset, 2nd, i recommend that maybe u should go up to some new girls and start talking to them, 3rd there almost always is someone else going thru that same thing look for someone that u may notice sitting by themselves or looking upset, and maybe u most likely will find a friend !
--abz
good luck
hope this helps
fell free to ask ?'s or talk to me any time smilies/cheesy.gif

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gylfie writes:

	I feel sooooo left out at school right now. No one is talking to me or playing with me. Does anyone have any advice? -gylfie

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michellerocksout writes:

	Dear leaftoria, Well, you can try being friends with her friends and talk to them when she is talking to them. Just a thought. Your friend, michellerocksout

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leaftoria writes:

I'm feeling really left out at my new school.I came here last year but I just made a friend this year because my sister and her friend forced me to be friends with my sisters friends little sister who is friendless like me and becaused our sisters forced us to be friends she was the closest I came to a friend here.But the problem is she's only here in the afternoon and I have no one to play with at first recess and when she's away.We're trying to make new friends but it seems like she's the one making friends.How should I make friends?

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AnimalGirl10 writes:

	soccergirl108- You skipped fourth grade!? You must be pretty smart then. I should skip a grade but I'm already the youngest kid in my class and I don't want to be any younger. I understand how you feel. I'll be your friend. -AnimalGirl10

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michellerocksout writes:

	Dear soccergirl108, You know what, dont get mad. I will be your friend. I will never be mean to you like they do. Right now, I am pretty sad though. Anyways, TTYL. Your friend, michellerocksout

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soccergirl108 writes:

	I Have been left out on a lot of things. Because I skipped fourth grade, and am more interested in sports than in tv, i don't know anything that people r talking about!!! I totally have barely any friends. Every one just sort of looks at me wierd when i try to join in the conversation. HELP! P.S. Anyone want to be my friend????? soccergirl108

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michellerocksout writes:

	Dear mmw1217, I think it is really good that you just ask one of your other friends to come over when you are left out. That is a great thing.Good for you that you are friends with boys. I also loved that all you did was walk away. I wish I could do that just like you. Your friend, michellerocksout

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mmw1217 writes:

i have been left out so many times!Like one time in third grade a girl came over and asked if i would like to be her frined insted off the other girl i was with.she pulled me off my feet and made me walk with her.Soon i got used to this.sometime later she made me promise no to talk to my other friend.By then she had already said that i would!then she tolled me everything she didnt like about my other friend.two days later my other friend asked if she would be her friend too and i said...YES!the other girl got mad and tolled my friend that i said i didnt like her then they both did not like me!So i walked away.i was sitting on the bars when a group of boys came over and asked if they could be my friends!So i got more frinds!

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mmw1217 writes:

	When i was left out of something like a sleepover i just invited someone to my place!

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abz writes:

	michellerocksout, Well, that is nice to hear some feed back.It can be hard, but if you are strong enough no one should get to you. --abz

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michellerocksout writes:

	Dear Nhikhung, Tell your friends how you feel abou this. They were your friends before "that girl" came in. They will understand. Ask them to be your partner before "she does. Your friend, michellerocksout

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Nhikhung writes:

	Well, at my school I have 3 friends, until I introduced my fiends to this other girl that I wanted to be friends with. Now the girl is brain poisining them!!! She tells them not to be my friend and when ever we get into groups she always takes my most best out of the 3 friends and be's her partner!!! Now usually I don't have partners cuz no one else likes me... she makes me so FRUSTRATED!!!

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michellerocksout writes:

	Dear abz, You are so right. That is what I do. I just brush it of. Sometimes I agree with the people who are doing that to me and they get annoyed. I love doing that. Your friend, michellerocksout

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abz writes:

I have felt left out many times.One time i was at school and u know when u see girls whispering about u, that's what happened to me. So i decide to let them be mean, but i was not going to be apart of it.So i moved to another table and sure enough. Two people walked over and joined me. Now this is the funny part, it was two guys!When they first sat down i didn't know what to do then, we started talking and it turns out that they were better at being nice then girls, and they really cheered me up!it was so nice to have a friend!Sometimes the least thing that u would expect to happen happens to u way more then u would think, next time when u start to feel left out, get happy and don't let it affect u.
--abz
sorry about it being long!

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abz writes:

	it really does not feel good when u r left out.That why when u feel left out u should get happy don't hang out with people that make u feel sad! --abz

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MaeveKatani writes:

	Hey Ninthmoon, (Since I already know you from school) You r totally NOT the least popular person in the grade!!! C*** is. And whether you're popular or not, u'll always b my bffaeaeaeaeaeae (bestfriendforeverandeverandeverandeverandeverandeveran dever) for life! -MaeveKatani-

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ninthmoon writes:

I know what you mean. I know I'm the least popular person in the grade, or at least it feels that way a lot. People will be talking about a movie or something and I might say "O, I love that movie!" And they'll give me a weird look and walk away. I'm still working on the problem. But a few things 2 keep in mind r:
1. 2 have an 'in' group, u need 2 xclude people.

2. If u learn more about what's popular, u can join in on the conversation. they might start listening to ur views!

Hope this helps,
9th Moon

XP

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michellerocksout writes:

	Dear catlover, Ask your friends if you can hang out with them to. Do you ever ask if you can go wit them. Dont get to hurt. Dont you have any other friends? They can help you through a tough time. Your friend, michellerocksout

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catlover111 writes:

	2 of my best friends moved and now my 2 other friends always pick each other for partners (NEVER me) and it hurts my feelings. They always go to each other's houses and do stuff behind my back.

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babygal34 writes:

	wow that s really not real friends u know

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babiikriselle writes:

	Dear Shoopalulu, Are they REALLY your best friends? I mean, if they hang out with that girl who is mean and obnoxios, wouldnt that make them mean and obnoxious? You can also try to put your differences aside and try to be friends with her. Your friend, michellrocksout

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Shoopalulu writes:

	some of my best friends really like this other girl who I really don't like. shes mean and obnoxius except some of my friends still like her, and I always feel upset when they do stuff together. I need advice!!! xoxo shoopalulu

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michellerocksout writes:

	Dear advicegiver, Tell your BFFs how you feel. That is not right. Or ask to play or hangout with them more often. Hope this helps. Your friend, michellerocksout

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advicegiver writes:

	with bffs occasionally i feel left out.

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michellerocksout writes:

	Dear JoeJonas____, I feel the same way. Only, I dont do anything about it. You are really truely brave.Well, my friend has become best friends with her mean friends again. She ditched me. Thats what happened. Your friend, michellrocksout

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JoeJonasLuvU writes:

	Well, I have a group of "friends" who ALWAYS play alone at break and they do that almost every day. What i did was that i told them that "If you don't want to play with me, you can just tell me and I'll play with the guys!" Have you ever had a situation when you had to tell your friends you won't be their friends if they are rude or something?

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kittycoo98 writes:

	Hey,just because she did not invite you,does not mean you're not cool. It just means she does not know how awesome you really are.

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michellerocksout writes:

	Dear nellgirl, Who cares what other people think. It is good for you to count on your friends. That girl is just jealous of you. Your friend, michellerocksout

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michellerocksout writes:

	Dear nellgirl, Good for you!!! You look past the bad things and look at the good. YOu have a good soul. Your friend, michellerocksout

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michellerocksout writes:

	Dear pandalover613, Tell your friends how you feel about that. If you cant get the guts to do that,then ask one of your friends ahead of time that you want to be their partner. Hope this help!!! Your friend, michellerocksout

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michellerocksout writes:

	Dear pandalover393, Well, you are just diferent. That is good if you are asking. Who cares if you dont get invited to all the popular girls parties. Just brush it off. That new girl just doesnt understand. Do not let it get to you. Do you have any close friends at school? Your friend, michellerocksout P.S. You have got a friend in me!!! I would totally invite you to my party!!!

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nellgirl writes:

	My friends told me that when they were at this girl's birthday party they saw some very mean things that she was saying about me on her phone. They were very mad at her for saying that about me and it was nice of them to help me.

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nellgirl writes:

I have some friends who like each other a lot more than they like me...... but that doesn't get me down because I have a lot of other friends who can make me feel better. Also I have some other friends who always go out to lunch together durring lunch at school, it bothers a lot more people then me but we still have probably more fun then they are in the plain old caffateria!! It's so comferting knowing that I have other friends and can have just as much fun!

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pandalover613 writes:

Ever since I moved to Colorado, I don't feel like I have real friends all of the time. 2 of My friends that are in my class always pick each other when they are doing partners and they never pick me to be their partner. smilies/sad.gif

In my afterschool, we have tennis on thursday and when we have teams of 2, 2 of my friends that go to afterschool always go with each other and they don't ever go with me. smilies/cry.gif

It always makes me feel left out. smilies/cry.gif

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pandalover613 writes:

I have been left out. Once in 3rdd grade, my whole class got invited to A** (the most popular girl in the grade) except for me. Later I heard her telling her friend that I was to weird. I was so sad and I feel really bad. Now that I moved from Masssachusetts to Colorado, I don't get invited to any birthday parties because I'm new. Once, this girl that was also new invited every girl in my class to her party but me and I was hurt. I was nice to her and everything, but she still didn't invite me. smilies/sad.gif

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jbsings writes:

	my friends just started pretending they were mad at me. I came to them at recess an they said ' we dont want to hang out with someone who isnt cool enough for us' and it really hurt my feelings and they truned everyone against me in the class!! so now i hate school bc no one likes me! so im changing schools next year!!

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michellerocksout writes:

	Dear wawa122195, Good for you!!! You are a really great friend. You are great. Can we be friends because I admire your kindness. Your friend, michellerocksout

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wawa122195 writes:

I haven't felt left out but my best friend has. One time, me and my other two best friends had a sleepover and my third best friend wasn't even invited! I felt really bad because I thought that the friend who was left out and the friend who was having the sleepover were really close. The next day my friend who was left out expressed to me and the other girl at the sleepover that she felt really sad that she wasn't invited. So what did I do about it? Well my friend who felt left out and I are going to have a sleepover this Sunday with another of our good friends. I hope now my friend who had felt left out will now feel special because we are going to have a sleepover and will be able to spend some quality time together.

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michellerocksout writes:

Dear catlover111,
I am really really really sorry I have to say this. Here is the story. I have two best friends. One is **, one is **. ** and I have been friends since the second grade. No best friends. It now seems like we are drifting apart. I became best friends with ** in the fourth grade. I though life was great because we were all the best of friends. Turns out I was wrong!!! ** wanted to be closer friend with me.I was really sad. I mean I wanted us all to share secrets together. I really want us to be like super close friends but it is not like that. Wel this is not about me. The point is me and ** are closer even though I have have known ** longer and have been friends longer with her. Me and ** go to places to together. I also go with ** sometimes. Why dont you ask your two BFF's if you can hang out with them. Hope this helps.
Your friend,
michellerocksout smilies/grin.gif

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michellerocksout writes:

	Dear KayGal101, You should consult with your friends about this. Ask them if it is all right if you go. Hope this helps. Your friend, michellerocksout

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michellerocksout writes:

	Dear BSGlover123, I totally want to be your long distance friend. Ty for commenting on my advice. I really didnt think anyone thought that my advice was that great. You are the best. You rock. Your friend, michellerocksout

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KayGal 101 writes:

	i just got invited 2 a party, but i realized more tham 3 of my frendz aren't going & i have the most fun WITH them.

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chicgirlygal writes:

Sometimes I feel left out because my best friend sometimes goes and play with other people. I doesn't bother me at all. It's just that I always hear them talking about stuff we would never dream talking about and it really bugs me. It's like shes to different people on around me and another round her other friends. But I never let it get to me and niether should anyone else who feels the same sometimes.

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Mette writes:

	Keakat727, you don't have to be interested in what your friends are interested in. my friends talk about fashion quite often and i'm really not interested in it, but there are other topics we talk about. so i don't feel left out. if they talk about nothing else try to start a conversation about something else. if that doesn't work out i don't know what you should do. Mette

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Keakat727 writes:

	i feel left out a lot cuz my two friends r totally obsessed with manga and they r always reading them but i dont like manga all that much what did i do? i tryed getting interested in it 2.it didnt really work out.

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catlover111 writes:

	My two best friends are actually best friends with each other and they're always doing things with each other and then when they come to school they won't stop talking about what they did.

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BSGlover123 writes:

	thanks michellerocksout the is awesome your giving such good advice! want to b long distance friends??? your friend ~BSGlover123~

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cherrybubble writes:

	i will tell the person that i fell left out, and it is not fair.

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loli_pop_gal123 writes:

	I feel left out when my friends taalk and never let me talk in any chat

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michellerocksout writes:

	Dear BSGlover123, You do not have to have any best friends besides your close friends. You can still have distant friends and not be left out. Hope this helps. Your friend who hope this helps, michellerocksout

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Kdancer135 writes:

	i really don't get y u were left out!!! u TOTALLY aren't immature!!!! ur awesome!! XOXO, Kdancer135

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BSGlover123 writes:

	i alway's feel left out my "friends" and i feel like have no friends what do i do? help! ~BSGlover123~

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girlteen2 writes:

	I'm so sorry for u Avery! That's happened to my friend once, and she was really upset. Focus on the good parts of life, such as the other members of the BSG!

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BSGme writes:

	yeah. my best friend got a new one who is so mean and I hate her but I pretend to like her (i haven't invited her to my party... duh) so I found a new group to play with but they aren't the best my old bestie is basically my problem is I have no bestie!!! the new group has 3 besties (not me!!!) but then two argue a lot... I am going to be BFF's with E**!!!

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dorthylee87 writes:

	Don't let her get you down Avery you just be you and have all the energy or all the fun you want to have if she does it again no big deal hang out with your family that night and maby a movie night or you could hang with Marty!!!!

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violetbutterflyblue writes:

	some people are not nice that way like one time my old best friend invited one of my best best friends to her party when they were not really friends

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marybelle240 writes:

	i really never like how people could just be in power because they are either "cool","rich", or if their "popular". they always think they can get everything so easily. and if a person thinks if they can hang out with them they can be like them too. people should know that we are equal. and they hurt people's feelings and they just laugh and say its just a joke. but its really not funny.

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xox11jaymee writes:

	well whenever i am left out..i do feel sad..but instead of that getting to me i try to cheer myself up by go hanging out with my frineds or something..or i go talk to my mom

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ms2cute4u writes:

Avery I felt the same way once.Like my bff since third grade started hanging out with the most popular girl in my class now that we are in sixth grade and I felt pretty left out. smilies/sad.gif

But when she left in fifth grade she went to another school and made new freinds there(I was still her bff)and this year a girl from her school came here so now we are all bff and things are back to normal(thank goodness)well i hope you handle that not getting invited thing.

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marybelle240 writes:

	I exactly know what you mean.one day rl in my class started to pass out invitations to her party and i never got one. i felt s bad eveyone started alking about it an i guess jus had to ignore it. but one of my friends saw me and she told other people and they said the would not go unless i went.i felt so happy

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berry_cherry writes:

	Ave, You are my fave BSG! You are so outgoing and fun, Julie is wrong for not inviting you! You are totally right! SHE is immature. I think you are awesome and you do NOT need to change!! LOVE YA!! --- !bERRY_ChERRY!

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Watermelon26368 writes:

	I was once left out. me and my friend were at a dance 2gether and my other friend was there and my 2 friends kept talking and whispering to each other and wouldn't include me in the conversation! i felt so horrible and i was really annoyed. now im not friends with either of them anymore , but not because of what they did to me then; they've done a lot worse things.

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boycrazy67 writes:

	I was once left out. me and my friend were at dance 2gether and my other friend was there and my 2 friends kept talking and whispering to each other and wouldn't include me in the conversation! i felt so horrible and i was really annoyed. now im not friends with either of them anymore, but not because of what they did to me then; they've done a lot worse things.

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dani_gurl writes:

	i know how it is to be left out. once my club got invited to a party and that girl who was holding the party was one of my friends. she hardly speaks to me anymore

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BSG Fan writes:

I feel left out cuz oneday my friends were talking about going to my friend's gala that she's having and would not tell me. then at school they started talking about it and rubbing it in my face so then I felt left out and was almost crying in front of all my friends it was a total desaster and I will never forget that moment of my life and will always bring it up but now they promised me that they would tell me everythingthat they will do or going to do....

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FutureMrsNickJonas writes:

	I feel left out sometimes with my friends! Like Its not that thewy don't include me in their convo its just i usually have nothing to say so i just zone out sometimes and then something funny happens and i feel totally left out of the joke!

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dolphinluva2397 writes:

	Sometimes im left out when one of my "x-friends" tries to steal my friends.

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socerluver96 writes:

	I felt left out when my bf started hanging out with a new girl! but instead of getting upset i just started hanging out with them and now everything is ok!!!

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averyisthebest writes:

	i tried to convince my friends not to go to the pool party. They didn't listen. They said they agreed with **. I didn't have cool enough clothes! THey're my friends! but we r good again averyisthebest

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miley4110 writes:

	I feel like I'm being left out by my friend right now ,sometimes when she's talking to someone and I ask what they're talking about she says "Oh,nothing."

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guitarcrazy9 writes:

	I have these 2 friends and they were my best friends. But now, whenever I try to talk to them they complettly ignore me. They always go off and talk and laugh right in my face or go off with each other and leave me. What should I do?

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chocolatte writes:

Don't let exclusive people get you down. You can still have fun without them ruining it. Sometimes you feel really lonely, but there are plenty of people out there who are nice and who are in the same position you are in. So instead of moping about, go and have some fun with them! Also, try to face the fact that people who exclude you aren't your friends. Don't pretend like it was just a misunderstanding when you really know it wasn't. And don't let it bug you- you are really cool and if they don't know that, than too bad for them!

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May_Gemini* writes:

When I was in the 4th grade, there was this girl at my school and she handed out invitations in front of me and didn't invite me. It hurt my feelings a lot. I just talked it out with my grandma to make me feel better. I talked about how rude it is to leave someone out when they know about the party. Her excuse was, her parents wouldn't allow her to have too many people. But, like she invited people she barely kmew. I think she did it out of jealousy, and I'm not trying to speak highly of myself, but what else could it be?

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Kaija1997 writes:

	I know what it feels like! In second grade i was left out in 3rd grade i was used and in 4th grade i was ditched. Just forget about the people who left you out and get on with your life! now i have friends who sometimes leave me out but i just tell them and then they totally include me! SPEAK YOUR MIND!

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pinkiemonkey6 writes:

	sometimes my friends all have a sleepover but don't invite me, then tell me the next day, oh wow, my sleepover was sooo fun!! you totally should have been there! and they talk about something they did there for ever, and i have no idea what they mean!! it makes me sooo mad!

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hearts8 writes:

	At lunch my two bffs always are talking about this after school class they take together. i have no idea what they are talking about. i am also allergic to dairy so when somebody has a birthday they hand out pieces of cake to everybody, except me since i am allergic. i always feel so left out. does anyone have any advice for me?

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Hermione2 writes:

	Thanks for the stories at least I know somebody had felt the same way that makes me feel better all the time when somebody had the same moment.

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lilbabynk1229 writes:

	kids in my class sometimes make a study group i always get left out. When i get left out i feel like i am invisiable

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neelygirl929 writes:

	This kid named ** who hurt my dog in Kindergarten and is very bossy is having a birthday party. All the girls were invited except me!! I am angry because I never did anything to her. Even my BFF is going!!None of my friends even care. They tell me "Whatever"and walk away. Avery do have any advice??

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santafelover writes:

	Hermione23... of course you wrote to me! I didn't see your other comment. Oops! Disregard most of what the first comment said posted by me.

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santafelover writes:

	Hermione23... thanks for agreeing with me. At least I think you were responding to my comment! Sounds like you have had that done to you before. Oh well... just brush it off your sleeve and be the "bigger person!" Catcha later. BTW... you must love Harry Potter!

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BSGgal writes:

	I felt left out when practicly everyone got invited to an AWESOME birthday party and I wasn't invited. Sure I felt left out but I also ignored it.

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swim4ever513 writes:

	Avery: thanks so much!! your asvice worked! my friends are not exluding me anymore!

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