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The Boy Friend (friend who is a boy)

Boys are totally fun to hang out with sometimes as just friends. But, don't you hate it when other people start saying that you LIKE like your friend that's a boy? It's soooo annoying!

I think people just want something to gossip about. AND, I think the girls who do gossip about that type of stuff might actually JEALOUS of the fact that some girls don't see the big deal in going out and shooting some hoops with the guys.

The truth is, anyone can do it -- you just have to relax and have fun! All that stuff you see on TV about girls being "girly" in order for a boy to like them is sooo old-fashioned. In fact, I think the best thing you can do is just not think about getting boys to like you AT ALL. Just be yourself! Get out there and have a good time... leave the crushes and stuff on the bench.  Take a few minutes and tell us all about it on our NEW Dating and First Kiss Survey .


you tell us ...
Can girls just be friends with boys without people thinking we LIKE like them?

Later,




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soccerGod writes:

every since i been talking to boys and hanging with them alot during skool and after skool people expseically girls been treating me differently, like some wat of the girls come up to me and say "hey can u ask ur friend other there if he wants to go out or like hey why do u hang with boys alot?" i am sick and tried of it! there my friends!! they r different from girls, they dont care how i look or act, and they dont have drama, the only girl that hangs with me and my boys as my friend is my Bfflife she understand me and she hangs with me, and all the girls get jeoulse of me and her always hanging with the boys at their table or where ever they are and just cuz my friend as boy walk with to skool these two girls been lookingg at me werid, so yeah
so yeah

soccer god
 

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JIMJOE writes:

loopylooneyhilo.
i think it depends on how u like him and how long uve known him if its one of those whatever relationships dont if u truly luv him then u should if u really dont want 2 just tell him dat it makes u uncomfortable if he really likes u hell understand
 

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loopylooneyhilo writes:

i really like this guy but i have been out with him he wants me to kiss him but i have never kissed a boy should i!
 

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LoyalTrustworthyBFF38 writes:

Actually, some of my friends make fun of me and actually WANT me to like people.But they do only do say it around me.
Although, i am friends with some guys.But i do not like em.But there is a guy a do like.
 

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prei4cake writes:

TOTALLY!!! Girls can be friends with boys without people thinking you like him. It really depends on ur timing though. If u have been best buds with the boy since like kindergarten then yeah. But if you r friends with a boy in middle school then it can go both ways. Its fun to have someone other than a girl to talk to. Boys like sports so if ur into sports then u have someone to talk to about it.
 

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cooldude482 writes:

Dear Avery,

it's ok to have friends that are boyz. everyday in school i play basketball with some of the most xtremly cute boyz. they are totally funny, but sometimes when just play with them, a person in my class seems that he alway know my crush even if i change it, but i don't want him to know and he is always correct
what should i do?
 

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happey writes:

I like hanging out with the boys. Sometimes they get mad at me but we are still friends.They r so cool. I just love them.
 

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mydadandmomrock! writes:

YA, sometimes it is annoying when you have a friend thats a boy and one of your friends like him (like like him) but i have a bf
 

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fairestofALLxO writes:

when i wasnt going out with my AMAZING bf, i wood talk 2 ppl , not my best guy firends but just some guy and then my firends think im in love w/him already! and now whats worse, is when i talk with some guy (when im going out with my bf) my firneds think i like HIM and then they tell my boyfriend and ughhhhh ....
add heartz pleez!!!
 

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celticfiddle11 writes:

my best friend is a guy... and while we were sitting at our lunch table he blurted out to EVERYONE that he liked me!! i was soooo embarassed! but i just acted like nothing had happened and soon he liked another girl! problem solved! but everyone still jokes around about it!!!! they all think we are going to get married or something! i mean really, what are they thinking!!!!!
 

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fairestofALLxO writes:

denimgirl07;
i agree, u talk about a guy and then your friends think u like him! but that doesnt count 4 me i have a boyfriend
 

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BSG Fan writes:

I think the same way i have alot of boys that are my friends and girls owns say they like like you or you like like them i hate that!!! every time someone tells me that i say like " No I don't they are just my friend and to leave it at that!!"
 

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diana323 writes:

sometimes boys are good sometimes they go crazy
 

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BSG Fan writes:

Ok i need advice : i have this friend who is a guy n he stares @ me all day .. n when i want 2 hang out @ school itz kinda weird cuz i think he likes me ... wat should i do?
 

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softballgirl96 writes:

Hey Thanks abz that might work he like down the street
 

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abz writes:

if you want any advice i am totally her for you, and if you r new i can show u around
--abz
 

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GeminiChik writes:

TOTALLY!!!!!! smilies/smiley.gif smilies/smiley.gif smilies/smiley.gif
i used 2 b shy around boys, and i still am, sometimes. but last year i learned boys can b pretty fun. Yeah i know that cootie stuff got old back in second grade but a lot of girls still think hanging out with goys is SO not cool. but guys can b totally gr8, nice awesome people and terriffic freinds. So, in 5th grade, i gave guys a shot, and they r totally worth it, even if they can b annoying. =P. in fact, some of my closest freinds r boys. so despite the myth cootie factor, if you break social barriers and say hello 2 some boys, you might b finding a new freind!!!
 

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camelnofear writes:

Dear Avery,
I have a boyfriend and he isn't scared to talk to me... the thing is I get kind of nervous because my friends are big mouths when they are over and my dad doesn't know... should I tell him that I have a crush but I don't want to have anything weird between us. I need help now before I have to figure out to keep things private and stay best buds or tell him and make me talk about it....

HELP!

Camelnofear
 

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LizBet writes:

I really like this boy in school and i want to be friends with him any advice
 

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swim4ever513 writes:

gUYS CAN BE JUST FRIENDS, imean, Just cause your a girl doesnt mean that u HAVE 2 have a boyfriend
 

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swim4ever513 writes:

there is this guy in one of my classes, and he is so cute!!! i have a huge crush on him He might like me, and he sacts like it, but then he flirs with other girls..what should i do!!!
 

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Shoppingirl101 writes:

yes but tell people that u r just friends.
 

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fairestofALLxO writes:

oceanangel:
yeah sometimes thats true!! but i have a bf
 

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fairestofALLxO writes:

i hav sooo many guyfriends and i have a boyfriend
 

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abz writes:

dear Avery,
My friends that i thought i was close to but turned on me, so sat by myself in art(small class and got split into 2 groups with only 5 girls in mine)the rest sat together and left me out on purpose. So 2 guys came over and sat with me.(1 of them my friends said he liked me.) But really i just wanted to be friends with both nothing more, so we sat and talked and now r friends.this just shows how guys r nicer than girls really.
so yes you can be friends with guys and who cares what people say.
--abz

 

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abz writes:

well, i have some advice for softballgirl 96:you should go up to him and explain everything to him to let him know that you only like him as a friend
 

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softballgirl96 writes:

I have a frined who is a boy but I have been friends seince like when we were 2!! I really like him as a friend but now that I am older people see us as a "Couple". I HATE IT!! Even my BFF's and mom say you guys are so cute togather. =( I think he is avoding me because of the roumors and I still want to hang out what shoulds I do!?!?!?
 

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monkeyrok67 writes:

Yea you can be a friend to a boy but I have a crush on a boy named ** any advice on what to do
 

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denimgirl07 writes:

I just hate it when people say u r going out even though you aren't. I used to have a friend who was a boy and people teased us constantly. Now were not friends but I wish I had other guy friends. What also bugs me is when you are just talking to a boy or say something about him and people somehow get it in their heads that you like him.

 

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luvcats567 writes:

spellbee12-So does mine.Well he doesn't I don't think.All his friends say he does but he tells me he don't.And I go out with his friend.But he blushed when I started talking to my boyfriend cuz that's when my boyfriend told me that his friend liked me.
 

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brianna320007 writes:

yeah girl all you do is just hang out with ' em but all you do is tell people that i do not not like him but i like to hang with him
 

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spellbee12 writes:

OMG!!!!!!!!!!!! MY BEST GUY FRIEND LIKES ME.my bffs skd him if he wud go out w/me& he said yes[i think hes just sayng that bcuz its the week o valetins day]!he was gng 2 ask me on valentines day,but i guess he was 2 nervous.iv e been kinda avoidng him 2 avoid him askng me,but i also dont wan him 2 think i LIKE him cu i dont.my bffs keep teasng him about it,7 he blushes.my rents wont let me hav a bf [i havnt told them about this] so my fiends think i shud justdo it aniway.
I NEED HELP;IWANT 2TELL HIM I DONT LIKE HIM,BUT I ALSO DONT WANT 2 MAKE HIM SO MAD HELIKE NEVER TALKS 2 ME AGAIN[some boys like that}HELP!!!!!!
 

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babygirl428 writes:

i hang out Im preety much like friends with all of the boy TOTALY! one of my friends is a boy
 

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lilmissmollymoo writes:

''oh no'' theres a boy comeing to me!!!I NEED ADVICE!!!WHAT SHOULD I DO!
 

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lilmissmollymoo writes:

I LOVE BOYS they are so cute!
 

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Animal/Sport Lover writes:

i have alot of guys that are my friends and I do not have a crush on them!! They are just friends of mine!! I think having guys as your friends is much better then having girls as your frineds (some times)
 

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sealgirl writes:

I once had a guy friend who i thought was REALLY my 'friend'. turns out on Valentine's Day last year, he told me he had a major crush on me and asked me to be his girlfriend...
i was the one 'crushed'! i only wanted to be his BFF, not his GF [girlfriend]
 

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cokecola writes:

Dear Avery,

I would say,you don't have to like boys.They can be your friends too no matter what.Sometimes I even think boys are better friends then some girls.Most girls at my school are really mean.Anyway,boys can be your friends too but,if you want them to be your crush,it's your choice.But I usually just tell the boy that I have a crush on him.So if you do,maybe his feelings will change about you.

 

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beacongirlsrules_jazlyn43 writes:

Totally Avery I have alot of friends that are boys and they get the picture. So have friends that are boys just dont act flirty unless hes ur crush. smilies/smiley.gif

 

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missgarfieldlove writes:

TOTALY! one of my friends is a boy
 

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soccergrl1010 writes:

i always talk to the boys at my school. Im preety much like friends with all of them. My girlfriends are always like "so,ive seen you been hanging out with him for a while" or "why are you always around him" it gets really annoying and some of my friends are shy to talk to the boys cuz they have a crush on them or something.whats the big deal? just because your a girl doesnt mean you can only hang out with boys or just because your a boy doesnt mean you can only hang out with a boy. you should hang out with who you want to hang out with.
 

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kittin122 writes:

Boys are totaly awesome to hang around with and you dont always have to like them. At my school I hang around with the girls but I mostly hang around the boys. The girls are always saying to me "I see how you look at him you so like him" that is getting old. I wish that they would just leave me ALONE. Now having a boyfriend isnt that bad but boys that are friends are even better

 

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oceanangel writes:

Guys are actually nicer than girls here in my new school. I transfered to another campus in the middle of the year (DONT do that EVER! it STINKS!!) and the girls already have friends/cliques so I don't really have any friends except for the people who transferred with me, and I'm SO not used to having so less friends, cuz I was popular in my old schools (but im NOT snobby), and the guys were actually nicer to me then the girls.

oceanangel

 

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moishra35 writes:

I went skiing with my boyfriend and some of his friends showed up. It was a little weird but he acted ok about it so i has to pretend i was to
--BSG LOVER!!!!
 

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gotboys writes:

i do the same thing i hang out with a lot of boys and one just happened to like me so now we are boyfriend and gf but i still hang with my guy friends but everyone says i need to stop because i already have a bf but i won't listen beacuse i like hanging with them
 

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FLG 04 09 95 writes:

sometimes guys are actually better than girls. with boys u have none of the same drama that you have with girls....its alot easier to ask a good guy friend for advice about ur crush (they are a guy to) i have lots of guy friends that i ask for advice wen i need help with something.....they allllll rock!!!
 

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mallmaniac writes:

Duh you can soooooooo just be freinds most of my freinds are guys
 

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daffyduck09 writes:

Yeah of course they should be allowed to i have a friend in school and he is really nice
 

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bunnybaby000 writes:

Hi bunnybaby000 here
i was becomeing friends with a boy at my church.last year his little brothers said right in front of me and him that he liked me .at first we didn't pay mutch attention but then his little brothers they started saying that he was my boy friend , making jokes and other stuff .after a few weeks we started not to talk to each other . HELP! what should i do i wan't to be friend again

 

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laxrox12 writes:

one of my best freinds is a boy somtimes boys are more fun to hang otu with to and somtimes there actually good fro advice shocker i know lol seruisly though last year most of my freinds were boys and thats ok
 

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*feistlover* writes:

I wave to guys, I ask them how they are. I play with them, joke around with them. Tease them, (Fun way not mean way), so yeah, they are really good friends, except ofr my crush, I cant do any of the above to him. I can hardly look at him without blushing! Oh well. Thats ok.
 

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day2daydreamer writes:

yes and no people r SO single minded
l8r!
day2daydreamer
 

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mfernanda1999 writes:

YOU CAN
 

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xoxox93 writes:

One of my best friends is a boy and we never stop talking. We know all of each others secrets including who we have cruses on! Guy friends are the best.
 

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soccerGod writes:

ijoke around with boys but that doesnt mean i like them sure i talk to them and laugh with them, but sometimes when i am talking to a really cute guys as a friend i get a weird feeling in my stomcach but i cant stop it oh well
 

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pennek writes:

hey guinea pigs luver! do u have a guinea pig? i Do i luv them also
 

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muga123 writes:

Avery I don't know what to do. I mean do you remember that boy I said that I played with at recess? Well my friend hates him...... well actually she said that he is mean to every one. And he is perfectly nice to me. Also he is in fourth grade and I am in fifth grade. Anyway there is also this boy in my class. He is a trouble maker and I like him and I think he likes me. But everyone else EVEN THE TEACHERS hates him. So basically I have these two boys that I like and everyone hates them but I love them. What should I do?????? Please answer this.
 

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fashion_angel writes:

I have many boyfriends(friend who is a boy) at my school. my friend hangs out with millions of boys that she now hangs out with. she made them when she got into the boys soocer team. she plays with boys all the time. And this year our group of friends are becomeing apart. Its sad but I sat with boys and I sit with the best boy in 5th grade. And most of the girls want to sit with him. I was the frist girl to sit next to him. And since I sat with him my friendship is geting riped apart
well bye Avery
 

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babygirl212#1 writes:

well i have tons a boys that are friends and i dont lilke any of them but i know some like me and i only like 1 but i act cool around him cause come on im in 5th grade goin to middle school !!!!! after this year i gotta practice im ending elemen. school and im gonna have to change alil. what do u think avery
 

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daddyzgirlz02 writes:

yeah tat is totally true but wat if u do like them and they want to be more than friends but u r not aloud. what would u do
 

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Sparkylo writes:

My friend and I have a Friend and he is a boy and everyone thinks we are boyfriend and girlfriend! What should I do Avery?
 

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BSG Fan writes:

I totally agree with you. I think girls are allowed to hang out with the guys and they don't have to like each other. I go with you all the way.
 

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limited2 writes:

I have this one friend at school (I switched schools but he's still my friend) and I REALLY love hanging out with him. But a couple of my friends keep teasing me about liking him, even though I really don't!
 

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CountyGal1043 writes:

That's what happened with my friend. Although eventualy they did become BF/GF, people did tease them.
 

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Mette writes:

i don't really have a boy friend (friend who is a boy), but i get along with them very well. we have just six boys in our class and eighteen girls. so some girls really make fun of the boys, but i don't. we wouldn't like it the other way round, would we? and the boys are really nice by the way.
 

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babygirl141996 writes:

even if you think you aint got no chance just listen to your own heart talken and listen to the rhythem dont ever miss a beat cause in this worldits not just leaps and twirls so take a seat for reality
 

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IRM97 writes:

OMG, I Have that problem to just say whatever if they dont belive you just forget about it its your own life hang out with who you want to hang out with whoever you want
 

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lolalexiedancer writes:

Of course! People can think what they want to think, but you know the real truth! And if it does get on your nerves, just say to them,"I like this boy to be friends with, not date him!"
 

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swong939 writes:

This is frustrating! Just because I'm friends with a different gender, a lot of people say we like each other.I mean, with guy friends you get a totally relashonship than with girls!!!
 

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ibrieal writes:

yeah whell I hang out with a boy whell more than 3 but that dose not mean I like them my friends think I do but thats what they think so don't lison to who said that
 

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babymegan90 writes:

Ya same here! Every time i talk to a guy my friends are like you have a crush on him!
 

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clunkie13 writes:

i really like a guy at my school by im too scared o say any thing!!!

HELP!!!
 

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bsg8 writes:

why did u put boy as a friend i thaught it sed boyfriend the real one!!!!!!!!! smilies/shocked.gif smilies/shocked.gif smilies/shocked.gif smilies/shocked.gif smilies/shocked.gif smilies/sad.gif smilies/sad.gif smilies/sad.gif smilies/sad.gif smilies/sad.gif
 

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goavery101 writes:

I hate it when people do that at school its soooo anoying stop whispering!!!! smilies/sad.gif smilies/wink.gif
 

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averyrulez writes:

i hate it when i joke with guys and then all my friends say i like him! guys and girls can be just friends
 

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drmsrntrlty writes:

of course you can. you can be friends with guys. i have at least 20 guy friends i havent went out with before. Ignore everyone who says you like him. hes your friend and nothing can stop that.
 

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soccerGod writes:

well everytime when i talk or hang around the aboy people think i am flirting with him which i not i hate when people think like that just because they dont have a boy as a friend that they can pick on other people and make up lie that they like him smilies/angry.gif
 

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JessOrigliasso writes:

I have a friend thats a boy and everybody thinks he's a freak! Even one of his friends! but i dont think thats true. What should i do? smilies/sad.gif
 

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halbopm writes:

hi girl !!!!!!!!
i really need u to resond bye
 

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guineapigluver writes:

i have that same problem! i have this friend ian that i have known for my whole life and he's like a great friend but my older brother simon always threaten to tell ian i want to marry him if i don't do what my brother says! i jus like him as a friend cuz he's nice and funny! argh! :-)
 

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Shawty090595 writes:

You area totally right cause people think i like a boy just because i hang out with them unless i tell them that i'm just hanging out with them.

peace,
Shawty
 

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sunshinedancer writes:

yea. like AMBERY94 said, its much easier 2 hang with guys tho cuz they arent catty like girls. (r toward each other.)
 

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halbopm writes:

i have a boyfriend (the one tht is more then a friend) but then i also have other boy friends(the one tht r just friends) and i have people that think tht i am cheating on my boyfriend cuz i hang out with my boy friends more than i do my boyfriend in school but wht they dont know is tht my boyfriend is playing football with his Buddies wht should i do ?
 

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ambery94 writes:

guys can be friends too. there is this guy at my school who is so sweet, and he is friends with some girls. people don't think they like him. just tell people ur friends. usually u are if u are more comfortable together.
 

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sunshinedancer writes:

that is really hard cuz a lot of people get the wrong idea!! but its totally cool 2 hav a guy friend!!!
 

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pink9987 writes:

Here is some advice for boy-lover,

Don't be a boy to make him like you be yourself, that's how God wanted you. If that's the person you want to be with, cherish every moment of it. Because you might not know when it's time to say good-bye
pink9987
 

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cutiegirl10 writes:

yes you can I have LOTS of friends that are boys its ok!!! smilies/grin.gif

Yep, totally OK.

Later,
 

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lilruby105 writes:

I tottaly think that you can, but most people think that if your a girl you can not be friends with boys!! smilies/tongue.gif smilies/tongue.gif smilies/cool.gif smilies/shocked.gif smilies/sad.gif smilies/grin.gif smilies/grin.gif smilies/grin.gif smilies/cheesy.gif smilies/smiley.gif
 

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violetglow writes:

People are thinking that because now, if people are boyfriend and girlfriend, they spend a LOT of time together. It's just another stupid thing that only those who have to worry about it can solve. Because, if you talk to those that are thinking that and you say that it's not what they're thinking, they'll just think yah sure whatever. I agree with you. I have a lot of friends who are just guys. How do I avoid the rumors is between me, the guys, and you Avery. smilies/wink.gif
 

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SportzsGrl3 writes:

supergurl1324, u are totally right. people need to stop thinkin that. LAter

SportzsGrl3 smilies/tongue.gif
 

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London162 writes:

I hang out with a boy and sometimes i think i like him because we always hang out and sometimes we just like to hang out and call eachother on the phone

Whether you like him or not, it's cool to just hang out or talk on the phone anyway. I mean, you guys are still friends, right?

Later,
 

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supergurl1324 writes:

LIKE TOTALLY! Y WOULD PPL THINK THAT U LIKE A GY JUST BCAUZ U HANG OUT WITH HIM????? IT IS LIKE TOTALLY STUPID!! DONT U THINK SO???? CAUZ BOYS R SOMTIMES REALLLY COOL SOMETIMES
 

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drama08 writes:

I have friend thats a boy and pepole teas us just ecnor them just be happy you have friends not in a mean way thoe sincerly drama08!
 

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coco7468 writes:

I kno wut u mean. Our "group" has guys and girls in it. Well two boys and five girls. I try to be friends with them all and be nice(even tho I dont like half them really) and them I just try to be nice to the guys too and the rest always say you were flirting when u werent!!! It gets so annoying and I hate it!

Me too! I'm always talking to Dillon in the hallway, and people think we're like flirting. Sooooo not the case!

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BSGfan12 writes:

Totally, those people are just looking for some excitement, and as long as YOU know that you only like the boys as friends you're ok. smilies/cheesy.gif
 

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SportzsGrl3 writes:

Hey amatomboy I no what u mean. Ive been friends w/ the boyz since kindergaten.
 

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lilmoma writes:

Hi Avery

yes you can have guy friends i have lots !!!!!!!
sometimes guy friends can get so close they become alot more!!111 smilies/smiley.gif but it is a good thing to have guy frinds as well as girl friends !!!!!!!!! i hate to be teased !!!!!!!!
doyou have a boyfriend yes or no?

Nope! No boyfriend for me, and I'm totally happy with that for now.

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dani_gurl writes:

well i hang with this guy and someone actually thought i liked him! but i did have this other guy in my mind smilies/grin.gif
 

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sweetygurl writes:

Hey, I know what ur talking about. I liked this guy and he liked me back so everyone thinks we went out. SERIOUSLY! U know what I mean? smilies/angry.gif
 

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amatomboy writes:

I hav a rely close frinds who r grls. But mostof mi frinds hav ben boys sins kindergarden. u no, we just tease eachother & do stuf lik 2 tuch. sum of my frinds think i hav a crush on one boy that i sit nex to bcuz we r rele close frinds. He made me sine a contract to be his friend, a jok tho. Ithink he liks me, but i mean were way too yung.My bffs r mixed. smilies/cool.gif smilies/cool.gif smilies/cool.gif smilies/smiley.gif smilies/smiley.gif smilies/smiley.gif smilies/kiss.gif
 

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SportzsGrl3 writes:

hey angie7777. I dont tell them but if there friends tells them its out of the box. Just be yourself if they found out. It happened to me.

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mystica writes:

hay Avery I have 2 crushes and they don't know it not even their friend so don't worry just be you self smilies/grin.gif
 

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born2dance writes:

I get where you're comin' from! I think this has happened to every single girl. . . I mean, I talk to boys about boy things, and thats why they talk back. Some girls think he likes me, 'cause oooooh! We had a riveting conversation about how he thought he could actually beat me at Guitar Hero. Yeppers, we are getting MARRIED! People just have to realize boys are no different than us, except for the fact that we're prettier than them, and can beat them at video games they thought they were champs at.

LOL, I love your girl-power 'tude! Rock on.

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angie7777 writes:

sometimes i wonder if u dolike one of the boys u hang out with but just dont say it. do u? tell me!
 

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angie7777 writes:

hey Avery! i wish i could just be friends without people thinking we were dating! but no, my fried who was a boy gives me a complement on my singing and suddenly word spreads that he asked me out! i was like, "how did you guys get that out of, you can sing pretty good?!?" if you agree, write me back please!

I agree 100%. People just hear whatever they want to hear. Whatever, I try not to let it bother and just keep doing my thing!

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beatlefan writes:

I think being friends with a guy is so much easier than having a relationship with one. You can still hang out and have fun, but you don't have worry about saying something stupid
 

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ROSIEANNA writes:

YES I TOTALLY HAVE WAY TO MANY GUY FRIENDS! smilies/grin.gif NO ONE SAYS I LIKE THEM! ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS SAY I DONT LIKE HIM HES MY FRIEND. smilies/wink.gifTHATS WHAT I DO AND THEY MOVE ON! smilies/grin.gif
 

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fashion_moon writes:

Hey Avery, I have 5 boyfriends(friends who are boys) but all 5 boys that I hang out with like me. one boy that who's a friend asked me out to the movie. but now I don't hang out with him. because we got in a big fight. the other boys are too scared to asked my out( I found out when they where talking). but I thing, they will ask me later.
well bye. from fashion_moon smilies/wink.gif
 

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SweetPenguin_4 writes:

hey Ave. i am the same girl that said my dog could say mama while he growls. just a different user name. I have two best friends that are boys and sometimes people in my class tease me about like liking him but i don't like like him. he is a nice boy and sometimes at recess i just have nothing to do so i hang out with him or my other friend that is a boy. But the other one sometimes isn't there. I just hate it when they tease me!!!!!!!!!!!!!11 smilies/angry.gif smilies/angry.gif L8R Avery,
-SweetPenguin_4

Yeah, for real, why do people have to tease other people? I think it's because they just don't have anything better to do. Don't worry about it, SweetPenguin_4 - just be friends with whoever you want!

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_BSGLover_ writes:

Avery,
Don't worry about what other people say! Some times when I have a guy friend my friends think I like-like him too!! smilies/shocked.gif smilies/tongue.gif smilies/kiss.gif smilies/cool.gif
 

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SportzsGrl3 writes:

amatomboy your are like me. But my bff tought that I wanted to hangout with them all the time and not be her friend. Be careful, and watchful to see if she gets jelous


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amatomboy writes:

Of Corse! I luv hangin out w/ boys! Im sitin all round them at scool. I even play ftbll w/ them. I luv 2 sk8bord!All the kids in my family are like teen boys and I luv to be w/ them & i have lots of fun. smilies/cool.gif smilies/tongue.gif smilies/kiss.gif smilies/grin.gif smilies/wink.gif smilies/cheesy.gif smilies/smiley.gif p.s. my bffs think i crush on them 2! smilies/tongue.gif
 

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guamgrl99 writes:

Avery,
Be yourself. Ignore what people say! You know it is NOT true anyway. YOU know the truth. It's just gossip. You are going to have to go through this in this grade!! smilies/wink.gif
 

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Mariko writes:

Avery,
I don't know why girls get so in love with boys!!!! Do you? In fourth grade everybody had a boyfriend!! Isn't that weird?I think it is!!!!!!

Yeah, totally weird. I'm so not ready for a boyfriend yet!

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peanutpup94 writes:

Of course, boys can be friends. I myself use them as boyfriends, and not friend-friends. I know lots of people who have male friends.
 

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Sparkle234123 writes:

The guy who used to like me (and asked me out before) is my friend now. I think he feels wierd everytime we talk to eachother now. I'm afraid that he will like me again (or that he still does) I just want a just friend relationship!
 

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alidiva9 writes:

Sme with me Avery!!! I have a boy that's a friend from 1st grade. Everyone always sees me hanging out with him and then thet think i have a secret crush on him!!! I hate those peeps!!!! What do i do now? smilies/angry.gif

Just forget those people. Don't let what they say bother you. If you and your guy friend are happy, that's all that matters, right?

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Shoopalulu writes:

I like a guy. I kinda want to tell him, but 3/4 of me thinks I shouldn't. I told my BFF, but now I'm kinda worried that she might spread it around. I'm sorta in a jam. Please help! What should I do?
 

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SportzsGrl3 writes:

My friends have finally started talking alot to me again. Thnks Avery!!! Hey BSGgirl19 talk to your friend. See the same thing happened 2 me. Kinda. My fiends moved 2 a different school and the changed and didnt talk to me that much. But I asked them wht was wrong and they told me was wrong.Hey ilr333 I fell the same way
 

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BSGgirly19 writes:

I like this guyy. We've been like brother and sister since the toddler ages and now he's a "gangster" and Doesn't really talk to me anymore.
I invited him to a movie but he was grounded...
So he says.
I'm not aloud to date either but yeah.
What do I do?


smilies/sad.gif smilies/sad.gif

Hey BSGgirly19. Maybe he really was grounded! If you guys have been buds since you were little, give him the benefit of the doubt. Try asking him to hang out again. If he still isn't into it, then let him know how much his friendship means to you. But in the end, who knows what boys are thinking?

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BSGgirly19 writes:

I know I feel the same way.

It's so stupid.

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Lunatuna writes:

If you have a friend that's a boy, but not a boyfriend, that is totally okay! Just ignore people who think you're boyfriend and girlfriend. Just don't make a big a big fuss when people say you're boyfriend and girlfriend, when you're not.
 

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CamiGabi writes:

It's ok to have friends who are boys.We don't have to think that if a girl is with a boy he's his boyfriend.Don't you think?

Yep, totally agree.

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Laxgirl2 writes:

im frendz w/ a ton of cute boys.i dont want ppl 2 think i like them.i might half flirt w/ out knowing it.i mean there cute
 

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Toolie10 writes:

There a boy and we are just friends smilies/cheesy.gif
 

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ilr333 writes:

I hang out with this boy practiclly every day!! I don't like him but were just really good friends, and everyone knows that!! smilies/cheesy.gif
 

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sweetcleats267 writes:

when you think about it its no big deal i mean it just like having a girl that you always hang out with.I am a sporty girl and i have a lot of guy friends and i know what its like when people think you like the person

 

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summergal07 writes:

I think she is right. But sometimes when you have a friend who is a boy you end up falling for him.Happened to me and it ain't fun.I have been dealing with it for a year now.It ain't fun. smilies/grin.gif

Sounds like Nick and Charlotte!

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OF4ever writes:

i think u should'nt wrry bout wat the other people thinks. newayz i have lots of friends that r boyz and even tho i do here somethings that rnt tru i ignore them. sometimes that makes them stop. hope this advice helps!!! smilies/grin.gif
 

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heartlessangel writes:

I have tons of friend that are guys but at my school when i hang out with them they are just friends and that is true, some of them like to go around and tell so many jokes and some are just awesome to hang out with, i really don't care if people talk because i am the one who knows that it is not true if they do talk about me.
 

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SportzsGrl3 writes:

I have friends that are boys. But lately since we got back to school they have been ignoring me. I dont want it to be because they hate 2 of the boys that are my friends. Help!?!?

Even if they aren't huge fans of your other friends, that's no reason for them to stop hanging out with YOU. Ask those guys what's up with the weird way they're acting.

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BABY BLUE writes:

I have a boyfriend and a boy that is a friend but people think that I am in love with the boy that is my friend not my boyfriend what should I do? smilies/cry.gif
 

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WorldWideRisingStar writes:

Who cares what everyone thinks? Just be yourself and act normal, just like you would around your girl pals. And if people ask you if you like him, set them strait! It's okay to tell people that you have a friend who is a boy.

I'm with you all the way, WorldWideRisingStar. Sometimes I can be TOO blunt, but then sometimes you just gotta tell it like is!

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redsoxfreak24 writes:

it is so annoying! i can't even be friends with a boy beacuse i don't want to go out with him say someone asks u out and u just want to be friends, some people will think u are just more than friends and might start a rumor about it!(trust me that has happened to me)
 

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cimak77true writes:

My BFF tells me I should date the friend ive had since I was 1.I don't even like him. smilies/angry.gif smilies/kiss.gif
 

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hi4ch24ch2 writes:

well,
I have friends that our guys,
nobody teases me!Just ignore it.If they keep
on asking you, just say " yeah, I like him"
so they willbe quiet( even though you don't really like him) its cool to be friends with
guys!
please write back!
 

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missy812 writes:

I have been best friends with a boy since the day he was born. All my friends think we should date just because we are friends! It drives me nuts that I can't be friends with him. smilies/tongue.gif

Say what? You can TOTALLY be friends with him. Don't let what other people say make you lose an awesome friendship!

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squishy writes:

same problem here! i am best friends w/ the guy that likes my sister and she understands and she doesn't mind but her friends all talk about me behind my back saying i am stealing her but i already like someone else!
 

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sidnee#8 writes:

I know what is with the Boy friend thing? I am just friends with boys for now that is I might like a boy one day! smilies/wink.gif Well got to go .........
Sidnee#8 smilies/cool.gif
 

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twinlakesgal writes:

yeah that happen to me!!see i hang around with this boy and hesin my class for 3 years sright incolding this year and me and my friend just hang around the yard at lunch and sit next to each another.yeah you know i might like him but YUCK!!!!see know he likes this girl and me and my friend give him tips and all the sudden the girl thinks i like him! smilies/shocked.gifWEIRDO!!! smilies/grin.gifso what should i do?i just want to hang out with him as a friend and yeah!wat should i do???????!!!!!! smilies/sad.gif

p.s.he sits next to me at class! smilies/sad.gif

Wuzzup twinlakesgal? If you want to hang out with this guy as a friend, like those old shoe commercials say: Just do it! You can't control what other people think, so don't even worry about it. Keep being friends with this guy and don't what other people say bother you.

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royce writes:

Yo Avery!!!Whats up?Well I have alot of guy friends that I really like to hang out with and they're so much fun!!!!But everyone thinks i like LIKE ALL of them!First of all I do not like LIKE any of them. And second of all I think it is stupid to have a boyfriend at this age. Definently!!!!!!!!!!
Can you help me!!
Thanks!!
P.S.Please try to answer me, but I will understand if you can't.

Hey royce! Way to take a stand, dude! Stick by what you think is right about boys (and everything else, by the way!), and don't let what other people think make you do stuff you don't want to do. That's Avery Madden style!

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angel124 writes:

dear GiantPandaK,
omg! i am totally with you! all my friends date, and its sooo ridiculus!!! im like--'guys thats so lame, we are way too young!!!' and there like-- 'not uh! how do u think we're young! your so dumb!' its so annoying!! i just ignore them!!! and by the way- i am absolutly in love with pandas!!!!!!!!!!! they are my fave animals!!!
-angel124
 

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amethystgrl123 writes:

i so totally agree with u about the boys as friends thing. i have this guy friend who is awesome! my friend (who is not a guy FYI) has SO many guy friends and everyone teases her about it.
tlk 2 ya soon

 

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LittleQueen_13 writes:

hey avery,
i have this girl in my class, well about her...i used to like this guy and this girl in my class also like this guy too, it's like she is being so sperfect and pretending to have a boyfriend, like she is showing off, but the good news is that i like another guy who's name is the same as the first guy and he is really cute, I'll just forget about this guy thing.....bye!

Yep, boys can be way confusing. That's why I put all my energy into sports and stuff, and let all that boy drama work itself out.

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SportzsGrl3 writes:

My best friend is/were boys. I think that its fine that we can hang out with boys. They are sometimes better to hang out with then girls. But my BFFAE is a girl. All the guys that are kwel in my class are my friends. smilies/tongue.gif
 

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GiantPandaK writes:

we are so totally young to date and that's what i tell people when they make fun of me
 

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4kiksrox writes:

DUH!!!
i hav like 5 friends that are boys some of my bffs think that i like them! HHHHHEEEELLLOOO!!!!! NO! i dont like them at all!!!
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hercperc writes:

just act normal and u'll find some guy friends(hope this works Hyper Sonic)i have guyfriends but in my dance class not in school i just act normal around them talk about wat there talking about and if i don't no wat there talking about i ask. and i have a few guy friends at school but my friends (sometime) think i like the guy that ia m hanging out with but i ignore wat they say!
Hope this helps! to every1!

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Hyper Sonic writes:

yo i really want a guy friend to hang out wit and do sports wit b.c all my girl friends r to girly and dont like doing stuff like that, but the problem is that i cant seem to make any guy friends! smilies/sad.gif i dont go to a public skool but i play on a hockey team wit a bunch of guys so its not like i'm not around guys cause i am. i'm not girly ither so i just dotn kno why guys dont like me and want to b my friend i mean i try n talk to them but they just ignore me smilies/sad.gif so do u think u could help me? b.c i really want some guy friend!!!!!!!! HELP!
 

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horsegrl1 writes:

me and my best friend hang out with my brother and his friend soooooo just like dont like dress all beutiful or act flirty!
 

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tinkerbell95 writes:

I feel way more comfortable with boys cause I have an older brother.
 

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rentluver1996 writes:

i have a friend whos a boy and he LIKED me last year but i didn't want stuff to get complicated so i said lets just be friends. but then he started having a crush on my best friend and only talking to me to get information about her favorites flowers and stuff. it got really annoying. how do i just get my old friend back to talk the way we used to?
rentluver1996 smilies/cheesy.gif

Hey rentluver1996. He's being totally not fair to you, just talking to you about your friend. I'd prob just tell him to shape up and start talking to my other friends more!

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Watermelon26368 writes:

I love having boys as friends! Usally they are really funny and nice also. I hate it when you have a friend whose a boy, then he becomes your boyfriend, then you break up and never talk again. That's why I like keeping things under friend statis. smilies/wink.gif
 

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greenbeen writes:

I love having boys as friends! Usually they are really funny and nice also. I hate it when you have a friend whose a boy, then he becomes your boyfriend, then you break up and never talk agian. That's why I like keeping things under friend statis. smilies/wink.gif
 

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Mgirl101 writes:

i think you can use another friend and it dosent mater if he is a boy.
 

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redsoxfreak24 writes:

ya well this kid asked me out and i said no and now we r just friends his twin keeps making fun of me and saying oh why don't u tell ur boyfriend jared that what should i do? and now he told everyone on my cluster i am going out with him and i already hvae a boyfriend!
 

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marinewaters writes:

yes, of course!!! i hate it when girls see u hanging out with a boy. they say ..."ohhhhh she likes him...or... shes going out with him" expesically when its not TRUE smilies/shocked.gif
 

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horseluvr84 writes:

Don't go so close around him. i mean, last year my teacher told me to stop flirting w/ this boy, and I was only talking.
 

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muga123 writes:

You know I know a boy that I play with sometimes at recess but if people start teasing me and that boy I really will not care I mean it IS a free country right? smilies/grin.gif smilies/smiley.gif

Yeah, def. You should play with whoever you want at recess!

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spellbee12 writes:

i have guy friends,but i cant talk 2 them in front of my girl friends bcuz theyll say we LIKE each other!!!!!!!!!! smilies/angry.gif i dont mind talkng 2 the boys,but i also dont want it 2 turn in2 somethng where the boy hears that we like each other when we dont.how can i tell my gfs 2 stop w/out them thnkng i hate them,& also,what if i tell 1 of my guy friends that i dont LIKE him but it turns out he feels that way about me??????????????????????????????????????
 

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FashionGirl313 writes:

well i sit next to this boy in my class we always keep fooling around but he talks quite like i can't really hear him even i sit next between him and another boy its like im a boy too! but i hang out with them as friends my other friends said i had a crush on those two but i don't. And yeah i even ride a skateboard is that cool!

Skateboarding? TOTALLY cool!

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doubletrouble writes:

this is my friend saying this. -i think boys can be weird. especially my cousin. he is soooo weird! he talks weirdly. -doubletroubles friend- smilies/grin.gif
 

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booboosarah writes:

Yes you can, because I happen to have more guy friends then girl friends. People sometimes think that when i'm hanging out with a guy alone, it's because i like him but i don't. Yes, there is one of my guy friends that I have a crush on but i'm not going to go and ask him out because it could really wreck our friendship. I'd rather stay friends with him and not have him as boyfriend other than having him as a boyfriend for a bit and then breking up and not having him as my friend.
 

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dancer987654321 writes:

Of course you can!!! smilies/grin.gif smilies/wink.gif
 

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spellbee12 writes:

i hav lots of guy friends from show choir & girl friends.but if a guy that i no pretty well starts 2 talk 2 me,my girl friends start sayng that we LIKE each other & start combing our names like they do w/ celebs.i want 2 keep both groups of friends,but i also don't want evrybody in the 7th grade 2 think i like LIKE my guy friends (except 4 my crush smilies/cheesy.gif).how can itell my girls 2 back off w/out hurtng their feelngs?& what if i tell 1 of the guys that i dont LIKE them,but it turns out they feel that way about me???????????????
 

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martavontrapp writes:

Boys can be annoying but they can be fun to.
 

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spellbee12 writes:

u LUV soccer right?well i need some help.my crush likes soccer 2(on the day in drug free week where we wore our fav jersy,he wore his entire uniform).aniway,eventhough my lil bro watches sportcenter nonstop,he only watches the nfl & nba parts.i want 2 start a convo w/ my crush about soccer so i can make friends w/him(& eventually make a move),but i dont no anithing about soccer & if i ask my bro 2 let me watch the soccer highlights,hell get suspicious & tell our mom.all i no is that his fav team is the la galaxy(bcuz of becham.),so i NEED info on that team PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hey spellbee12! Soccer rocks, but you shouldn't pretend to be interested in something just because some guy likes it! If you really want to get into soccer for yourself, the best way is to get out there and play. Get some of your buds to play with you at recess or after school. I bet you'll totally love it!

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doubletrouble writes:

i have a guy friend that says he likes me as a gf but i keep telling him that i already have a bf but he says he'll wait. how am i sopposed to tell him to go tell him to like somebody else without hurting his feelings????

You really can't change somebody else's feelings. I would just focus on your other friends until he starts acting less weird.

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doubletrouble writes:

i have tons of friends that are boys. i have only one actual bf tho. here is a tip for you ppl who have friends that r guys. tell them you like them/ it'll take alot of weight off of your shoulders. trust me i've been there. and if ppl tease you tell them to lay off because they will like somebody sooner or later.
 

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uglydog writes:

There is this guy in my class he is super cute. The problem is my best friend likes him too. What should I do? I need some advice. smilies/grin.gif

Whatever you do, don't let it ruin your friendship! Buds are way more important than boys. Unless those boys ARE your buds, in which case they're important too!

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sarahgirl writes:

i doo have friends that are guys and at one point every one thought we were going out i said no not rigght know smilies/kiss.gif
 

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socoolsoccergal101 writes:

Guys are nice but their is this one guy who was nice when he went out with this "cool" girl and was mean when they broke up!
He laughs at my jokes which is nice! But he talks about me behind my back! What should I do? HELP PLEASE! smilies/sad.gif

He talks about you behind your back? SO not something a real friend would do! This guy sounds really hard to figure out. Way too much drama!

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socoolsoccergal101 writes:

Guys are so nice as friends. But mean girls(like anna and joline) think your more than that! smilies/angry.gif
 

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lunarox1620 writes:

I have a lot of guy friends. I really like them but sometimes, boys are not better than girls. So, you know how boys say girls over react about things? Well, I say boys under react to things.
I was on the swings during recess last spring with some of my guy friends and we were having a jumping contest. I jumped really far but I landed really weird on my left ankle. I thought I sprained it. All the boys were like shake it off! That was an awesome jump! Well, i was kinda angry cuz it hurt so much. My friends took me to the office. Turns out, it wasn't sprained, it was BROKEN! None of the boys even realized when I came back the next day that it was because of jumping off the swings until I told them! They all thought I had been overreacting. So all in all, guys are good friends, but if you need help and advice, turn to girls.
 

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fleur11 writes:

me and my friends have guy friends too, they are the coolest people ever, and now that I'm in highschool everyone realizes that your just friends but it's still ok to have friends, guy friends, and even boyfriends in one group, it will be a lot more fun if you all execpt each other in a friendship!
 

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BSG96 writes:

I have some guy friends that are really cool. My girl friends understand that we are just friends. Boys are just normal everyday people. I hate it when a girl says eeeewwwww! he is soooo gross!, and they don't even know who the guy really is! I hate that ! it makes me so angry sometimes! Boys are really cool and nice once you get to know them!

Sooooo true! I have tons of guy friends and I get really annoyed when people put them down without even knowing them.

Later,

 

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parisdreamz96 writes:

i only have 2 guy friends.
 

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~luv da Rockies~ writes:

when boys r mean 2 u, they like u! but u should still b bff's w/ them, it doesn't mean ur bf & gf!
 

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meimei11 writes:

when i tell somebody that I like somebody, they begins to laugh and saids I am too young to have a boyfriend. I know that but I just like him thats all. My bff keeps it as a secret though. smilies/smiley.gif
meimei11 smilies/smiley.gif
 

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thinkpink16 writes:

Avery u should totally date Dillon! He likes u i know it!!
ThinkPink16 smilies/smiley.gif
 

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stinky writes:

sometimes when i hang out with boy as friends my friends say you like him then they start making fun of me and i said i don't care i still hang out with boys
 

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angel124 writes:

i totally know! me and this boy r really good friends and now my other friends think i like him! and i definetly don't! it would be weird if i did! what should i do?

You should prob just brush it off when your friends say stuff like that. I mean, you know you don't like him, so who cares what other people say?

Later,
 

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hawaiigirl98 writes:

Well I DEFINITLY think you can be just friends with a boy! Book #10 proves that!! U and the BSG were SO brave!
GO CUBBIES GO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
hawaiigirl98
 

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ivynow741 writes:

i used to like all these boys last year and this year. one of my friend truthed me to tell her who i used to like...ALL of them. so i go tell her and then after a while when she tells me to do this dare in front of the "popular kids" crowd. When I tell her no, she threatens me that she'll go tell everyone who i used to like. when i got upset. she was all like, "chill!its just a joke!" but it wasnt cuz after a while, she told everyone. i was really embarrased that time!!

WHAT SHOULD I DO!!?? I NEED ADVICE! AM I TATTLETALING IF I TELL A TEACHER THIS? smilies/sad.gif smilies/sad.gif smilies/sad.gif :

Hi ivynow741,

The first thing you should do is read Book 10 Just Kidding. I had something happen that was so mean. Sometimes friends make mistakes cause they want to be in the cool crowd sometimes they just don't end up being your friend in the end.
See what happened to me in Just Kidding. Hope it helps!

Adios,

Isabel
 

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kaitlinisfamouss writes:

i totally agree with you avery. my best friend is a guy and people think we like each other liike THAT.
 

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Narutolover48 writes:

well i'm in love with a boy but he doesn't me so wat can i do about it all i do is ignore him cause he ignores me now datz gurl power =D
 

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BabyK writes:

i'm pretty boy crazy but im like insanly boy crazy. There are a lot of cute boys in my school and sometimes i lose it and just start babbling. smilies/sad.gif
 

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gaels20 writes:

i am practicaly a boy i like hanging out with them b/c well...i just do and when i do my friends think i like that boy but i only like him as a friend!b/c he is fun to play sports with!!
 

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Cacoolio writes:

So i like this guy a LOT! and i just moved to this state, it is going well here i mean, but in middle school my new friends tease me a LOT! and so when i told them who i like they EMBARESS me in front of him! it makes me feel sooooo bad! What should i do so they stop teasing and embaressing me? smilies/sad.gif
please help me!!!!!

Hey dude! Friends who embarrass you on purpose? So not cool. You should try making friends with some of the other kids at your new school. In the meantime, you might want to keep your crushes to yourself for awhile--until your friends prove they can be trusted.

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destinyhope555 writes:

do u kno how 2 convince ur friends that u dont like these 2 guys in ur class. im a total tomboy so of course id hang wit the guys here n there instead of just listenin 2 gossip all day
 

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skywriter13 writes:

i hang out with this boy,who was my friend but then my friend started dating him and now everyone says i'm stealing him smilies/sad.gif

That's so not cool. Dude, you should def talk to your friend about what's really going on, and stop those rumors before they start!

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nikandsamfan writes:

But every body knows he likes me.
 

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nikandsamfan writes:

Well, All my friends think i like this boy I hang out with. But I dont he is just a friends and it kinda makes me mad that they think that.
 

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helperforever writes:

i hang with the boys a lot i mean my totle BFF's are girls but i love sports and my friends don't. i hate it when i hang out with boys and the cool kids aka the wisperers turn it around and say i like the boy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I sooo know what you mean. That is totally annoying! I mean, girls and boys can def just be friends. Whatev. I keep hanging out with my boy friends no matter what other people say. I mean, they're MY friends, right?

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mr.martayrocks11 writes:

My guy-friend lives really close to me so we see eachother A LOT. Everyone always teases us about how he likes me and I like him. I don't know about him but I know that I just like him as a really close friend. Even though we get teased, I would never let something like that get in the way of our friendship- WAY too valuable.
 

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catlover111 writes:

Do you like any boys? I think you might.

You mean LIKE like? Dude, who has time to worry about LIKE liking a boy when there are so many boys who I like as friends?

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