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Secret Crushes

Dear Journal,

We were having a Tower sleepover the other night when Maeve brought up the one subject that always makes me feel tingly all the way down to my toes: Nick Montoya—aka, my super-secret sorta crush. I know I must have turned 50 different shades of red. I mean, it can be fun to talk about Nick with the BSG, but it can also be SOOOO embarrassing! And you won’t believe what Maeve was saying. She actually thinks I should…get ready for this…ASK HIM OUT!

Of course my first reaction was no no no no NO! No way am I ready for that. And then, when I thought about it some more, my reaction was still NO. Hanging out with Nick is so much fun, and I definitely don’t want things to get weird. We always have an awesome time just kicking a soccer ball around or even working on a school project together! I’m afraid that if I bring up the whole ‘I like you’ issue, things will get messed up.

And you know what? I’m totally OK with feeling like that. I think it’s cool that Maeve would be brave enough to just walk up to her crush and ask him out, but that’s sooo not me. I just want to take it slow and see what happens naturally. For now, the only crush I want to hear about is the one between Mr. Darcy and Elizabeth from Pride and Prejudice!


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Do you think it's OK for me to keep a secret crush secret?

Your friend,

 

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about 4 hours ago
BV3887 writes: Comment
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 no she should not.

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about 4 hours ago
BV3887 writes: Comment
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 yes charlet it is okay you need to ask him to go out

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about 4 hours ago
BV3887 writes: Comment
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 no i dont you will get in trouble. 

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about 4 hours ago
RD2216 writes: Comment
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 I think you should at least tell the BSG because you should tell them and not keep it bottled up! You won't turn red anymore and you will feel comfortable talking about him. I really think its a ok idea not to tell him but you should at least tell you friends!

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Dec 3, 2008
Dancer319 writes: Comment
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 You should! You never know if he likes u bac! he could like u but be to afraid to tell u! So go ahead tell him if u want, it could turn out to something awesome!

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Dec 3, 2008
bsggirl007 writes: Comment
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 i had a secret crush and guess what...3months later we are going out strong! go for it Charlotte!

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Dec 3, 2008
JM2215 writes: Comment
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 yeah Charlotte its awsome. If your not ready for him then don't ask him out its your choose but I think you should!!!!!!!!!!!

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Dec 3, 2008
rainbowangel124 writes: Comment
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 I TOTALLY UNDERSTAND! I HAVE ONE TOO! :) I ACTUALLY DID ASK A GUY OUT AND HE SAID NO, THEN LIKE 2 WEEKS LATER HE ASKED SOMEONE ELSE OUT..........I WAS SAD! NOW, I DON'T LIKE ANYBODY! :(

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Dec 3, 2008
rauscous writes: Comment
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tottally i have one too! but most of my friends know

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Dec 3, 2008
SJ0241 writes: Comment
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 I think you and nick are WONDERFUL together. You are SUCH a cute couple, but take it slow, if you don't want to, don't do it. My bff has this bf, and she is going on dates WAY too young, so be careful!

-your biggest fan

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Dec 3, 2008
SJ0241 writes: Comment
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 Charlotte, it is ok to keep your secret crush a secret. I Have this REALLY cute guy i like, and i eventually told.

see ya,

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Dec 3, 2008
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 No, I think you should tell people, i learned to, and it turned out GREAT! Tell the bsg first to get comfortable with the idea. You will feel better, i promise- msnlover123

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Dec 1, 2008
mem writes: Comment
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Charlotte(sigh) I think it's TOATLY ok to keep a secret crush.Hey if it makes you feel any better,I have a crush on a boy too.We're BFF'S too infact, I realy LLLLOOOVVVEEE him your friend, mem
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Dec 1, 2008
mylangel8196 writes: Comment
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 I think it is okay to keep your crush a secret. But if you know somebody you can talk about it to it is better, but make sure that somebody won't blab it to the world. If you are not up to telling your crush you like him I think it is okay.

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Dec 1, 2008
hue23 writes: Comment
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  you need to tell your crush maybe he has the same feelings about you like i have a boyfriend and we have been dating and the only reason we go out is because my ex-friend hooked me up with him he's cute and you are very pretty  and anyone will be lucky to go with you aspeacialy your little crush 

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Nov 30, 2008
kays kool writes: Comment
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Well if you have a BFF then definatly tell her if not then keep it to yourself cause if you tell the wrong person it could get out everywhere. 

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Nov 30, 2008
Blink182x4eva24 writes: Comment
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 HA HA wow!

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Nov 30, 2008
XV238 writes: Comment
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 go up to him and act normal like the way u use to (sparklegal)

~angelcake~

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Nov 30, 2008
XV238 writes: Comment
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 my secret crush is in my computer class he is so cute everytime he looks at me i blush .<3

~ANGELCAKE~

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Nov 30, 2008
SparkleGal writes: Comment
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HELP HELP HELP HELP HELP HELP HELP!!!! Crush trouble!!!!

So I really, really, really like this guy, and I have for about 4 years. Last year we sat together in 2 classes, and THIS year I JUST figured out he liked me! I'm not so sure if he likes me now (we have 0 classes together) so how do I win him back?

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Nov 30, 2008
YE0602 writes: Comment
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 i am really cool with that. but can i tell you some thing. when i told my crush he said im going to be sick and i an going to tell every one. now i still cant get him out of my mind. so that stroy did not just happen to but to me to.and i'll help you .and do you wnat to be my bff.

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Nov 30, 2008
melodysings writes: Comment
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The guy I like wants to be a Christian: My religion!

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Nov 30, 2008
Tomoyo writes: Comment
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plus you two are soooo ADORABLE TOGETHER!!!!!

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Nov 30, 2008
Tomoyo writes: Comment
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hmmm.....sometimes waiting is the answer, but at times if you know that he does care for you then it is Ok to tell him that you like him and if he wants to stay firnds then thats what he wants and maybe you can tell him that you will be waiting if you know something happens......anyway i had the same problem and well me and my old crush i don't have a crush on him anymore for some reason and well i know that i will be waiting for him and sometimes i tis really good to wait. Actually i am waiting for guy right now ihave a new crush and he actually may like me also. also if you want to know if he likes you then maybe you should check his body language when he is around you, but i would say WAIT.

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Nov 29, 2008
KarateGirl writes: Comment
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 Charlotte. Ask him out. He like you, you like him. Ask him out. Just do it.

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Nov 29, 2008
Amber4eva writes: Comment
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 Hi Charlotte!!!You and Nick are such a great couple!Its sooo obvious that Nick likes you!

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Nov 28, 2008
kharlotte writes: Comment
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 IT IS BECUASE AM LIKE YOU AND I HAVVVVVVVVVVVVE 1 OR 2

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Nov 28, 2008
Kari911 writes: Comment
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 HELP!!! ok so i like the most popular boy in school and im not  how do i ask him out

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Nov 28, 2008
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ok well i like this boy and my friend said he kept looking at me and i wonder if he likes me

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Nov 28, 2008
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hey you should date him

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Nov 27, 2008
werds4nerds writes: Comment
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I'm having the same problem! So HELP I NEED ADVICE! I was at a sleepover w/ 2 of my friends, and i told them that i really really liked this kid, however, my 3rd friend, isn't rlly the person to talk to bout this so i wanted to keep it a secret, but my friend accidentally told her, and now i dont' feel like i like this guy, she disapproves, and i know it, so what should i do? ask him out? tell him i like him? talk to my friend? HELP!

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Nov 27, 2008
Maeve1323 writes: Comment
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 I love the movie pride and predjudice!

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Nov 27, 2008
muhubo writes: Comment
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 i think that if you feel emberised to tell people that you have a crush that you should keep a secret crush

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Nov 27, 2008
Coco Flower writes: Comment
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 I think It's O.K but you might like going out with him if you are brave enough to tell him your fealings!

Luck

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Nov 27, 2008
madibay writes: Comment
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 well i dont really care its your date crush or boyfriend i dont care do every thing you can to get him to date you good luck

 love madibay

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Nov 26, 2008
WoweeKazowee writes: Comment
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 Well for everyone else it's okay,but YOU HAVE TO TELL NICK! HE LIKES YOU BACK!

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Nov 25, 2008
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