Secret Crushes

Dear Journal,

We were having a Tower sleepover the other night when Maeve brought up the one subject that always makes me feel tingly all the way down to my toes: Nick Montoya—aka, my super-secret sorta crush. I know I must have turned 50 different shades of red. I mean, it can be fun to talk about Nick with the BSG, but it can also be SOOOO embarrassing! And you won’t believe what Maeve was saying. She actually thinks I should…get ready for this…ASK HIM OUT!

Of course my first reaction was no no no no NO! No way am I ready for that. And then, when I thought about it some more, my reaction was still NO. Hanging out with Nick is so much fun, and I definitely don’t want things to get weird. We always have an awesome time just kicking a soccer ball around or even working on a school project together! I’m afraid that if I bring up the whole ‘I like you’ issue, things will get messed up.

And you know what? I’m totally OK with feeling like that. I think it’s cool that Maeve would be brave enough to just walk up to her crush and ask him out, but that’s sooo not me. I just want to take it slow and see what happens naturally. For now, the only crush I want to hear about is the one between Mr. Darcy and Elizabeth from Pride and Prejudice!

Meanwhile, Club BSG members can also share their opinions about dating, crushes, kisses and stuff on our NEW survey ! Check it out -- tell us what you think!

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Do you think it's OK for me to keep a secret crush secret?

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Comments (1678)

ddannieela writes:

	yes i think everyone has a secret crush dont you think...

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alexahope96 writes:

	Tell them girl. I told my friends who I like.

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wollaberry writes:

	yo sude flurt with hem to make hem like u and to but let them chas you

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bsgmea13 writes:

	Yes, Charlotte, it's okay! Ur twelve, and u don't have 2 fall in love just yet. Tell him when ur ready. Don't get pressured by ANYONE 2 tell him that u like him. U make that choice, no 1 else. -bsgmea13

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agirl41 writes:

Yes Id do. I have a crush on this guy and I like him alot but I don't think he likes me. I am 2 years younger than him but only 1 grade younger. My best bud used to like him to, She doesn't anymore, but what happens if she likes him too? He will be going to middle school next year. But my best bud I mentioned earlier lives across from him. She says all I talk about is him. Is this true? Whatt should I do?

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Babyboofoo writes:

	Well it depends... If he tells u he likes u then u should tell him what u feel about him. But for nor keep ur secret with u.

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masic25 writes:

	you need tell him.One time i liked this boy so i told him that i like him and i found out that hye liked me too.

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rubyruby writes:

	NO CUZ WHEN I DID MY FEELINGS GOT HURT

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coralrose writes:

	Yes, Because telling someone you have a crush on them that you are really starange.

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theola10 writes:

	i like a boy name W*** he is so cute and fast funny he is cute and everyone says he is ogle but he is different to me i love him

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joejonas350 writes:

	I LOVE ALL OF THEM THE JONAS BROTHERS ARE SO HOT AND I THINK KEVIN IS THE CUTE AND ROMANTIC ONE, NICK IS THE CUTE AND SENSITIVE ONE AND JOE IS THE CUTE AND DOWN RIGHT GORGEOUS ONE IT WOULD BE COOL TO MEET THEM

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lilcutie78 writes:

	help i have a problem, the problem is there is a dance coming at my school and me and my best friend like this guy i asked him to the dance and he said sure but i don't know my friend asked him and he said maybe. If he says yes to her i will be sad and if i go with him my friend will be sad what should i do help me!!!!!!!!!!

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leaftoria writes:

	Bballchick6,I think agurlestien is a username.Keep on scrolling down till you see the name.

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sugarbeanie writes:

	Ok, i used 2 like this guy & i thot he liked me but,wen 1 of my fiends askd him if he likd me, he sed no. shuld i still like him, or blow him off? HELP!!! sugarbeanie

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Dogluver1438 writes:

	NO! He will never know if you dont tell him! I told a guy that i liked him and the next week he dumped his girlfriend and asked me out! We have been going out for a year now! We get along great!

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kenzie98 writes:

	Charlotte, I know what u r goin thru! that is the EXACT thing i'm going thru! it kind of hurts to pretend that i don't like him he is so CUTE and i like him a whole lot!!!!

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daizyspring writes:

	thats ok but show some signs that u like him and don't be to pushy

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sbcool2000 writes:

	ok i have a crush and i do not know what to do his brother said that he likes me help me

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sbcool2000 writes:

	hello yes i think that you should tell him what you think

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damiddle writes:

	u should leave it for a while and see but in the end sumthing gotta happen!

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bballchick6 writes:

	Cookygirl202. that was really weird to say. and btw what does agurlestien

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Scout411 writes:

	No. Tell him how you feel and maybe he will feel the same way.

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saltypeanut122 writes:

	Dear gothic.chick, what do u have 4 of??

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ashleyjake writes:

	i have 10

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gothic.chick writes:

	Yeah i have 4 of them

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hottiegirl905 writes:

	just don't tell him.Keep it cool

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saltypeanut122 writes:

	All of my friends always talk about dating and have boyfriends and stuff, but I'm not allowed to date. I really want to go out with this boy though. What do I do??

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lilkarla writes:

	boys are so cute thank you america

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love551 writes:

	dear charlotte i think that you should tell nick that you like him before somebody else does.

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cheerio526 writes:

	Guess what! I told my bff that i liked this guy. she said that she didn't like him. i also talked 2 him and he said he liked me but i relized the same thing as charlotte...i just want 2 be friends.

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pichi2811 writes:

	Totally!!! Go date him Charlotte!!!

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licibear writes:

	keep it a secret until its the end of the school year....it's much better that way

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angel7 writes:

	i like d** d****

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ONNIE455 writes:

	i really like this boy but he like my best friend what do i do?

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burnt9fwmk writes:

	i think its totally fine whats a secret its ur and not any ones busness (i dont know how to spell that)

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corriannsilver writes:

	Charlotte, Like catlover265 saysyou should go for it onlywhen you feel ready!

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cookygirl202 writes:

	YO DUDES! agurlestien-- I KNOW BUT IT HAPPENS! Icansing2-- THANX! ISn't it weird! L8ER CT

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abbigalini11 writes:

	dude ok first guys r soooooo weird so just puttin that out there first. and second if u want 2 take it slow take it slow dont be in a hurry 2 have a bf if u dont even want 1!!!!!!!!!!!!

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catlover265 writes:

	Charlotte, Of course it's OK to keep a secret crush a secret! Only tell him when YOU feel ready. You should be in no rush to go out with Nick! If you are ready, then say something, if not, that's fine! That's what a SECRET crush is all about!

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icansing2 writes:

	dear Cookygirl202, OMG! I had the exact same problem! Except he is not in my class, he doesn't ewven go to my school. Anyways, the best thing to do in tell someone you trust. Like a friend. I told my friend and it is fun to talk about. But then i told every single person in my class and they dont really care! hope that helps I can sing 2♥

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agurglestein writes:

	cookygirl202, that is really weird

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agurglestein writes:

	yeah!!! i once told my guy i liked him and got made fun of.

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ymabenn writes:

	yah but it makes me feel good to tell my best friend.

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Sk8er_Girl writes:

	No I mean why wait tomorrow could be so far away your chance is here so go for it for all you know he could like you too.

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moomoo2121 writes:

	Well I think it's fine to have a crush! I once told my crush that I liked him and he didn't care! He thought it was cool because it was a compliment but he didn't like me in that way and at first I was bummed out but then I told myself you can't make someone like you and we are still friends! I still like him and he still knows and I still wish we were together but it's ok to want that right?

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cookygirl202 writes:

	ok i figured out who i like! finally! all of my friends like somebody but they won't say anything. nobody knows I LIKE SOMEONE! i am DYING TO TELL SOMEONE! plus i think he likes me!

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cookygirl202 writes:

	i like some one in my class but i don't know who! the thought runs thru my mind but it leaves b4 i know who! could be J* could be N* could be A***! IT IS SO CONFUSING!

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Averygirl16 writes:

	don't b shy! i now its different but actually lots of girls when they think there invisible 2 the boy they like they go right up 2 them ans ask them out!

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cloverleafpower96 writes:

	hey charlotte, I used to like this uy but now i absoulutly don't like him because he's a wierdo-pshyco-freak and hes really mea and i ddn't even know it!!! isn't that sad?

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Niya Pooh writes:

	I Think U Should Ask Him Out

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Niya Pooh writes:

	U Should Ask Him Out I Would Or Tell A Friend 2 Hook U Up

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stillpicperfect writes:

	yea why is it called a secret if u don't keep it a secret ...............lol

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SugarRush writes:

	OMG dont keep it secret or ur friends might end up telling him like i like this boy @ school and my Friend k** ended up telling him i ADORE him. The good part is now I have his PHONE #!! HE accally talks to me!!!

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danceee17 writes:

	I would do thesame as u, Charlotte

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evoo writes:

	you should totally ask him out listen to your heart

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love08 writes:

	ur nice add me a comment

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Janie18414 writes:

	yes you should

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Charee writes:

	If you have a crush on someone and he is older than and you can't talk to him cause of that click on the heart

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Charee writes:

	If you have a crush on someone and don't know what to do click on the hearty thingy!!!!!

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ccaabbjj writes:

	I have a question, If you like somebody but it semms like the person does not even know you exist what would you do. Please respond PS if you read this pease heart it thanks!!

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weird_one12 writes:

	Well....I don't know but I think you should just take your feelings out of you bcuz wen u feel bad, you never know what's gonna happen next!

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emyem writes:

	You should just ask him out on a date because if you have bad friends thay would ask him with out your permishin

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bug090507 writes:

	i think you should but im not igarged of your life so whatever you want to do is fine with me but if you dont soon someone else will

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WNW writes:

	NO TELL HIM . IF HE FOUND OUT FROM U IT WOULD B BEST.OK

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bug090507 writes:

	no if you never tell him your friends might and he just might pick somone else if you dont tell him and theres 50 out of 60 he might say yes

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cheerio526 writes:

	HELP! ok i will admit i like this guy in my class. b Sometimes I feel like he likes me 2 but sometimes I think he thinks I am not cool enough. I haven't told anybody except my diary and stuffed animal. I want 2 tell my BEST friend but i think she likes him 2! And I am sorta embarrassed. WHAT SHOULD I DO? should i tell her or not? please help!

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raejean writes:

	sometimes

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Sassy111 writes:

	Nick u rock

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Sassy111 writes:

	i think nick is soooooooooo cute two!But Kevin and Joe are some cute!The JoBros rox my sox!!!!

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Sassy111 writes:

	I think i would tell my crush i like him because it will not get off my chest if i didn't tell and i would go crazy! lol

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icansing2 writes:

	How many people here would go out wiht nick? Im sure alot So Char, since we can't , you should I mean we all want you too! Ask him out! Clickk the heart if you agree.

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BSGlover123 writes:

	let's just say my life is NOT a secret everyone know's who i like and what i do each day! and my crush even know's i like him!!! :") i think he like's me. :s i really don't know he keeps on starring at me in SS,Science and English. how can i tell if he stares at me and how can i "comunicate" back? like take a glance at him or? please help if you can! love, ~BSGL123~ xoxo

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booksmart1 writes:

	I think you should not tell him too. tell ur friends but only really close ones

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nemon19 writes:

	i think it is ok if your really shy but if your not its still ok maby your scared and you may think that your best friend will make fun of you but if there your eally friend they will help you there this love bired time

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worriedoll writes:

	Yah i think it is ok to keep a crush a secret because i think some peopel would make fun of you, but tell very best friends.

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cranberrybuckle writes:

	this is really sad but i like a guy but cant trust my best friends (except 1 0f them)shes a true friend

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timberlyn writes:

	i think u should tell him and c what he says

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Butterflybeauty writes:

	Totally,I kkep a secret crush about a guy in my class.He is cute but I cant tell him that.That would be tacky.Only my two sisters/best buds know.

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Thlayli23 writes:

	You should just follow your heart. If your heart tells you that you should tell your friends, tell your friends.

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aynorcutie08 writes:

	yes i think it is ok to have a crush i mean i have 1

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pocketfullofsunshine101 writes:

	i would keep it a secret too. i like having stuff like that to myself!

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tyandra1234 writes:

	hey yall if i like someone i would only tell the people i trust like my best buds!

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cookygirl202 writes:

	yo dudes... i like a guy in my class and absolutley no 1 knows but if we're all in the same class in 3 yrs (i doubt it tho) then everyone will be fist fighting w/ some one 4 someone. HAHAHA

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yahhgirl372 writes:

	i would keep a crush secret! i like someone in my class, and no one knows!

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Skittlesgirl_87 writes:

	Yes of course its ok. i've done it before too. but it kinda stinx 2 crush on someone if they don't like u back. so if they don't like me back i am just friends with him. but just think that it could mess u guys up if you ask him out or something. so just think about it for a while.

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latifa_angel writes:

	you can only tust your bestfriends

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kimmaey writes:

	yeah,i mean you can't go up to him and say you love him.That means

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uthvwyse writes:

	Dear Charlotte, I personally think you should just go with the flow. You're right, things will probably work out naturally. Anyway, it seems that Nick will be the one to ask YOU out. Hint: I think it will happen pretty soon, so be prepared.

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yankeefever writes:

	totally ok!!

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avniarisha writes:

	i say u should keep it a secret

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shandra16 writes:

	If you want to. If i were you I would only tell my closest friends.

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saddlegaltex writes:

	Well I used to kinda like this guy R***.then i found out his qualities and now i hate him.I KEPT IT A SECRET THATS THE WAY YOU SHOULD ROLL

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karren21 writes:

	no charlotte if u keep the secret u may have to face some difficulties in future u have to face them sooner or later!

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glimmergurl writes:

	If u want 2. if i we're u i would only tell my closest friends. plus most of my friends kno i like this 14 year old. he is in 4th grade. but he's so cute! LOL!!!!

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Parischic writes:

	Sure it's OK for you to ask him out. But, my advice is to never be pressured to ask a guy out. As long as you're compfortable, there are no worries! Best of Luck to all!!!

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JonasForLife writes:

	I totally think that's the way to go. When I decide that I like a guy, I don't tell ANYONE, even my friends, because I don't know how everything will work out. And not wanting things to get weird makes sense. But if you do want to ask him out, go for it! Of course, I think any girl would want to be asked instead of asking. So just go the way you're going, and everything will be fine.

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bria6785 writes:

	Uh...yes and no. It depends on you and how you feel. If you're ready for a serious relationship, TELL HIM! (From reading the books, I'm pretty sure he likes you too!) But if you're not ready, then keep it a secret till you are!

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BAWGirl writes:

	Charolette, I think its FINE to keep a crush a secret! As long as you feel its rights. Do your friends gossip too much? Then I'd keep it a secret. Your Friend BAW.

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lovehorse556 writes:

	Like soooo...NO!!! Start flirting! Who knows, he might give you a kiss!

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skywriter158 writes:

	Do the other BSG know about you liking Nick? Just wondering. I think you can trust them.

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TravelLover writes:

	Char- You should most definetly tell him, I mean, whats the point of having a crush if he doesn't know? Plus, you're not getting anywhere! Now get out there and start flirting!!!

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peppermints writes:

	tweetygurl12: that is kind of awkward!

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peppermints writes:

	i don't think that you should tell!

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pettyboo14 writes:

	well, no you can talk to me about it, it will just be between me and you?

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avyance writes:

	i went wit my bff and i does feel weird but after a while u get 2 no each other more and more and then u feel beetr

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hunnibunch96 writes:

	Charlotte.........YEAH! i think i have had 1, u totally rock. nick is cute i think......(frmo the cover of Lake Rescue) xoxox

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kgirl1 writes:

	i think that you should tell him you like him because he probably likes you 2. so dont b afraid 2 flirt.

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knshufeldt writes:

	well that is a wierd story but i liked it at the same time

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chelz101 writes:

yehhh so why do u call it a secret crush for a secret crush is when someone dont wont to tell everyone there crush dont even tell anyone welll anyway tht is a secret crush well i have had a secret crush brfore he was the hottest boy in my primary years then i went to high skool then everything changed no-one liked him becaus he wasnt the hottest guy anymore there was more hotter guys then just him smilies/kiss.gif

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animalover15 writes:

	why do u call it a secret crush for!?

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obladioblada writes:

	tell em b4 they find out... otherwise things could get very bad...

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4kicks101 writes:

	I THINK ITS FINE TO HAVE A SECRET CRUSH! CLICK THE HEART IF U HAVE A SECRET CRUSH!

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pisofi writes:

	BTW I LOVE PRIDE AND PREJUDICE! (both movie and book

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pisofi writes:

	yeah, but you aren't going to get anywhere in life without being courageous...

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pinky19978 writes:

	I think it's ok to keep secrets

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soccergirl108 writes:

	Okay, so i have a crush(kind of embarassing!!) on this guy in my class and he is like so nice. But, he is my firend, and, like Charlotte, i dont want to mess things up by aasking him out!!!! Help I need advice!!! ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺• ••••••••• HELP!!!

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jonas fisters aka sisters writes:

	WHATEVER YOU THINK CHARLOTTE!

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icansing2 writes:

	Zoey101fan6, OMG!! Tell her. ARe you kidding. seriously, i was like that. and i told my friends and now i can finaally talk to her about it and make jokes it is way better!TELL HER!

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mgoloway writes:

	NNNNNNOOOOOOO!!

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avery4ever writes:

	Dear Charlotte, I need help. My best friend told me that she likes the guy I like. When she asked me who I like I said nowone because i think the guy likes her back. what should I do??

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tweetygurl12 writes:

	dear diary i really like this boy but i dont know if he likes me but the real problem is his mom is marring my uncle

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princessdiva11 writes:

	Im soo shy tht when i go by my teachers so im blush this girl told my teacher i was soo embaressed like ohh my god i blushed that my face turned red so im now tryen to stop shyness!

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mermaidgirl13 writes:

	i have 2 deal with it 2! i like my best guy friend but i want 2 tell him that i like him since the school years almost over and he will be in georgia over the summer HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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BekahSkittles1213 writes:

	No He might like you as much as you like him.

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Sweet110ipod writes:

	talk to your closest friends, and tell them not to tell other people. Best friends usually don't tell, unless they're big tattletales. It'll be all right Charlotte, just take a deep breath, and everything will calm down.

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ddn_222 writes:

	sure Charlotte i think you can keep a secret crush but i think it should be a secret for a little more time

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Zoey101fan6 writes:

	i never told my friend i liked this guy for 3 years

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Zoey101222902 writes:

	iv liked this boy like forever, but i havent seen him for almost a year and im luky if i see him once a year, thing is i like this other guy I just dont know what to do?(crushes can bo soo complicated )

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Zoey101222902 writes:

	Charlotte I think your ausome, and also u and nick ar sooo ment for each other go for it girlfriend!

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sjyrockss writes:

	Click on the heart if you have a HUGE crush and you wnat to tell HIM so much!

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sjyrockss writes:

	I think it's ok to have a secret crush because I have one and I only told my BFF!

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BSG Fan writes:

	Yo you should tell you'r best bud. you never know because she might find out the hard way... It Is Not Pretty!!! trust me u might lose her as a friend also if she finds out the hard way.

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mz.divaous writes:

	I don't think you should not keep a secret crush from your best friend at all I don't even keep a secret crush from my best friend at all.

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payal writes:

	ya u must keep it a secret. be quiet

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AnimalGirl10 writes:

	I don't have any crushes this year. I used to have one on this guy in my class but now we're just friends, or at least I think we're friends. He's in denile. I play soccer with him and that kinda stuff. In my opinion it's easier to hang out with guys. Girls have too much DRAMA.

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cutiepie#1 writes:

	yes because some friends have a loud mouth

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Angel_1997 writes:

	theres this boy at my school he used to b my enemy but now were friends and we both like eachother and we have eachothers cell numbers

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tibetgal writes:

	you know what. you should tell the truth when is you last day of school. because i am doing same thing as yours. because i like 1 boy. he is in my class. so he don't know that i like him. but i think he like me too. maybe. so i ganna tell the truth at the last day of school. thats my plan. so what is your plan Charlotte.

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Popstar99 writes:

	girl dont be shy go up to him and say bla bla bla bla bla bla bla

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WorldWideRisingStar writes:

	This is your crush, not Maeve's. Do what pleases you and what you feel comfortable with.

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annarocks123 writes:

	ya you should really keep it a secret

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yurnotprettierthanme writes:

	I have a crush on a boy named B** and I don't know if he likes me or not. He is always hanging around me and talking to me but I just don't know. My best friends used to like him so I haven't told them but I've told my older sister and my other friend (who never had a crush on him) and I really need help on if he likes me and what to do about it. THANX!

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Zoey101222902 writes:

	Well i have a crush,and I think it is totaly ok to have a crush on Nick, u sould go for it Chalotte

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bayhay writes:

	I have a mager crsh on a boy boy he is so cute duble the cute

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mendiola19 writes:

	It depends on your choice if you feel like telling your friends is easier then you tell them,no one can boss you around.

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xsamy2001x writes:

	i have a crush name a and im testing on him only at my cousin's house my dad does not like me getting a crush not even my crush and i don't know how to do it .and i don't know who will help me do it .it's even stupid and boring to do it alone .can you tell me what to do for a?

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jdrop writes:

	nice3 svery girls

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heart18sandy_star writes:

	i like someone but i dont think he likes me too

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mylittlegirl writes:

	ya its okay to keep a crush a secret and its up to you if you want to tell someone then tell them scream it make everyone star you know what i mean...!!!!!!

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amunet writes:

	i love trey songz so much!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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bsgcoco12 writes:

YES! I think it is so.....okay to keep a crush secret! But okay so i moved schools (but in the same county) and I still like him but I never see him and we never talk and the last time a saw him was in 4th grade! and I'm in 7th now so.......but whats weird is i have always liked him from kindergardan and I dream a lot about him! SO she I like email one of his friends asking for his phone number or what? HELP!! smilies/sad.gif

( I feel so stupid smilies/tongue.gif

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nickole writes:

	i like this boy named s** and he knows about it and he likes me back

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SportzsGrl3 writes:

	ok i have a crush on one of my guy friends named K**, and one day when we were hangin I meet his cut friend named A* and now i think hes cute. help!

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nakaylaislove writes:

	i love nick jonas so i don't know if i would tell him

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mmw1217 writes:

	Do not tell anyone!I tolled one friend and the next day ten other people knew!

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green4life writes:

	i have a huge crush on the boy named a**. but if you guys say celeb crush... i would say lucas grabeel or zachary efron

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sakurafan22 writes:

	of course u dont want any body to know i hope u and your crush come to together and some people might agree HERE IS SOME ADVICE ok if he like sits next to you in class chat with him and get to him hope my advice worked bye Charlotte!

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animalover01234 writes:

	its ok to keep a secret crush but if you ever want to be his girlfriend you have to tell him

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bookmaniacwritr writes:

	Ok for you to keep a secret crush but soon you have to open up to your crush

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joelover432 writes:

	i love love love joe jonas so admit you like him

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kaliann101 writes:

	i know i love my boyfriend D but its hard beacuse his best friend hits on me all the time!i love D.

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loselips writes:

	ni because i tell my friend ever thing to my friend you should let it out

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futurersjoejonas writes:

	u should tell him i might tell joe that i like him the best

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divadevilstar writes:

	Well, I think that you should maybe make sure he likes you before you say "I like you." Spend some more alone-time with him, then see his reaction. If her blushes looks away, or acts a little shy, while you are alone together then tell him. Break out of your shell and show Nick Montoya how you really feel.

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SoccerLoverSarahSports writes:

	I think you should do what you want to do. If you think about it more and you think you want to go out with him, Ask one of the BSGs to ask him if he likes you first.If he says he likes you,tell him that you like him back. After that he'll be sure to ask you out. Oh, and don't worry, if he says he doesn't like you you guys can still be friends, right? Right.

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travisandjordan writes:

	u should'nt keep ur secrets too ur self tell a friend who will listen and hav her do some research to see if he likes u as well!!!!

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Erin4 writes:

	Dear Charlotte, If you don't feel comfortable asking him out then don't. If you feel unsure and awkward about the date then it will show through your actions and you just might end up loosing him altogether. Just think about how really feel and sooner or later you will come up with the answer. Don't let anyone pressure you into a decision! I hope that everything works out! XOXOXO

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fassty writes:

	hey nice crush

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Coolgirl867 writes:

	Thinkpink, I know u really like this guy but I need to know who told him that u like him. IT will be OK!

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MaeveKatani writes:

	I wish my crush liked me. sigh

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happybre123 writes:

	Yea!!!!!!!

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TAYBAB writes:

	YES ITHINK I CAN KEEP A SECRET

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kittykat1009 writes:

	if you don't want stuff to get weird, don't bring it up. its your choice!

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fashionchic94 writes:

	don't keep it a secret!!! then he'll go to some other girl and you will lose your chance!!!

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ringettebabe writes:

	i have a secret crush too!

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coco1234567 writes:

	ya i've been through a lot of crush's and im trying to seek a boy so i think its ok

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nadiyah writes:

	hey you are my baby

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Tay/Pink writes:

	Ask him do you whant to go eat? Then ask do you whant to come to my house.It will worck out.

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smf123 writes:

	SMF123 YOU SHOULD GO OUT BECAUSE HE CUTE!!!

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madiwritergirl writes:

	Char, i am really like you, i have a secret crush too, wait until you friendship with him gets stronger, and then see how he feels about you. kinda dumb, but its what i'd doo.

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madiwritergirl writes:

	Wait and see if he likes you, if he doesn't, just wait and enjoy the friendship your in now. but if he does, let him get into the situation

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XxMich16xX writes:

First I would try to get signs so if you do ask him out he'll say yes and everyone won't be bothering you!!If you see that he doesn't like you then don't ask him out cuz it'll break your heart even more!!!!I've had LOTS of crushes and I told my best friend but she told him and we went out but then I realized I didn't like him!!!!Don't tell anyone not even your BFFS cuz they'll betray u just like mine did!!!!!!!and u no what the worst part is that he kept making lies that he broke up with me and that he never like me n stuff!!!!!and the really bad part is that my ex- best frien goes out with him now!!!!!I act like I don't care but it kinda bothers me a lot!!!!! smilies/cry.gif

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XxMich16xX writes:

ThinkPink05,
don't worry if he doesn't like you. There are lots of fish in the sea.lol.I went out with C***** and then I realized I didn't like him so I told him that I didn't and he started making up lies like he didn't really like me and stuff like that cuz I broke up with him!!!And if he doesn't like you its his loss not yours!!!!I hate boyz who cheat on girls if u agree add a heart!!!!!Also try to get away from him and not think about him too much!!Trust me this might help you!!!

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Caseberry78 writes:

	Dear Diary, I love this boy in a band and he is from the jonas brothers. JOE JONAS IS CUTE C-U-T-E CUTE He is so CUTE

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brown nikki writes:

	tollaly i have a crush on a boy

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Charee writes:

	I THINK THAT YOU SHOULD ASK HIM OUT AS SOON AS POSSIBLE CHARLOTTE!~!~!~!CLICK THE HEART IF YOU AGREE WITH ME!!

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CandyBook writes:

	You shouldn't ask him out. Just be friends for now, and you'll enjoy yourself more.

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tibetgal writes:

	well i think you mite keep the secret but at the end of the school you should tell

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hip.hops.princess writes:

	Char, I think that you should wait 'till you're ready before asking him out. I'm a bit like Maeve, but I know how it feels to be bugged.

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thinkpink123 writes:

	i really like the guy i sit next to on atr j**

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Coolgirl867 writes:

	Thinkpink05, If he doesn't like you back it's fine first if all who told him. (Your friends or u)

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laxrox12 writes:

	charlotte needs to go otu with nick add a heart if u agree

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ThinkPink05 writes:

	i need help... like now i told this guy i like him and he didn't like me back!! What do i do?!

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maddie97 writes:

	It is O.K. to have a secerate crush and if really trust your friends you can tell them too.

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glimmergurl writes:

	gurl it's ok 2 b ner. u neva know if he likes u. i like this boy hes cute!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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zem1996 writes:

	yes so people don' t tease u

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Coolgirl867 writes:

	Charlotte, If you are nervous you like nick it will be ok ! Just tell one of your friends to do it for you thats wat i did!

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flexrocks writes:

	i would think that you should tell the bsg but only them because they are your bff's right? I think on the front cover of Lake Rescue Nick MOntoya looks cute for a drawing.

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frasew flower sayn writes:

	thank you!

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frasew flower sayn writes:

	i think that they shoud go ok ok ok

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iacpmf writes:

	who can help me find the perfect boy for me! i am sorry if i spell something brong but i don't speak alot of english so if somebody speak spanish can help me please!! love iacpmf

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wi6y1 writes:

	i like k***

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joelson writes:

	Charlott,it is perfectly O.K.2 be nervous.but take it slow and dont speed in2 a relationship get 2 know him first and i can promise u everything will go PERFECTLY!

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mauigirl23 writes:

	Ya I think it's ok, I mean if you really don't want anyone to know sure, but it's super fun to talk about crushes with your friends! Of course there is some people you should keep it a secret from though. Don't tell the school or anything. I would only tell my friends if I were you! Bye!

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NAHJEAH writes:

	WELL YOU KNNOW I DON'T LIKE GUYS CHEATING SO GIRL JUST DO YOUR THANG

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drbeba123 writes:

	ok im in loved with boy m*** l but i am scared to say it do him what i should do?

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chrstina1268 writes:

	Well tell him that you dont like him and see what your heart wants to do to him so just follow your heart and do something to him thats inbarising to him that wouled be the best inbarise him hope that works. -chrstina1268

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hplvr123 writes:

i likeD this 1 guy, & he kept telling me that he liked me, & then a week later hed sa it was all just a lie! he did it like 5x, & the 6th x, i got REALLY TICKED OFF! so, i broke ^ w/ him! now he completely ignores me, & i dont really care, but a lot of peeps in 7th grade (im in 6th, hes in 7th) still tease me, cuz tha think that i like him! he told like every1 in 7th grade, so that is how tha no, but i want the teasing 2 stop! i dont even like him! ttyl
-hplvr123

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chrstina1268 writes:

	All the peaple that have crushes and you dont know if you should tell them or not its ok just follow your heart like I did.

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sugarsweet123 writes:

	u kno whos really cute and sweet...? skandar keynes hes famous lol but u prolly havent heard of him. but thts better so less competition for me!

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chrstina1268 writes:

	Who ever thinks that she shouled follow her heart click on the heart Love Chrstina1268

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chrstina1268 writes:

	Well I think she shouled tell him or not I wouled say follow your heart

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chrstina1268 writes:

	O and hope Im In luck to help anyone

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chrstina1268 writes:

	Hi Im new here I was just on my computer and I got here so Is any one having a crush

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BouncyBirdie3 writes:

	Hi! Those of you who think Charlotte should ask Nick click on this heart

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luvgirl101 writes:

	char, you should TOTALLY tell him...it'll save you a lot of akward moments, and you wont keep him guessing

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Rockingout writes:

	I had a huge crush on this gys and now we are going out!

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ilovelyfe01 writes:

	MA BAD LYFE NOT LYE

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ilovelyfe01 writes:

	lolz luvin it wish lye waz dat easy mann WoW LIKE LIKE LIKE!!

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jayla writes:

	hi i'm jayla i'm new here 8

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punky/gurly123 writes:

	yeah she right u should tell him

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lady2397 writes:

	u can keep it a secret but one day someone will find out and your life will be ruined or bad 4 a while

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Kenzer798 writes:

	I thinks it is totaly cool to keep that secret!

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BSG Fan writes:

	I have a major crush on this boy in my class.I told him I like him and he says he likes me too! Boys like to be told girls like them. that nervous stuff is only in movies!

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Nhikhung writes:

	Hey! I have I guy in my class I have a really puny crush on him cuz he is like my 5 best bud but only counting boys he would be my 2nd one

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luvaddict37 writes:

	I haven't told anyone this but I like a boy in my class. We always laugh together but he always seems nervous. Help!

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BSG Fan writes:

	CLICK THE HEART IF YOU HAVE A CRUSH

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yapster123 writes:

	I like it when you can gush about a guy. I also love the fact that you can still be friends but not give it away. I think that you should keep it a secret until you feel totally comfy. Then he'll probably be able to accept it easier.

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slimshady writes:

	Dear Icansing2, Y r so right about what u said to wawa122195.We would make such good freinds. From, Slimshady

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DDChase writes:

	well u should tell him that u like himm and ask him out thats never happend to me but i have somone who has a crush on me and i know it ... he sent me a valentine that said he likes me on valintines day!! but i dont like him

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Katani429 writes:

	Charlotte if thats the way u feel about him then GO ASK HIM OUT.

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babybug6879 writes:

	Hey everyone. Its Babybug6879 and my boyfriend was cheating on me with an interent girlfriend. I saw them at the spring carnival and i was so sad and he knew that i was gonna be there! So now i am sad and mad at the same time.

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icansing2 writes:

	Dear Char, It is probably strange to tell NIck you like Him. I am in the same spot reight now, with another guy. Do whatever you want. Maybe you could write a note. I fyou don't want to tell him, don't. I think he might like you back if you tell him.--Totally your choice. Good Luck!

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tapqueen87 writes:

	you should ask him out. and it's ok to have a secret crush. i do.

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misscute writes:

	GO ON ASK HIM OUT. YOU WONT KNOW UNTIL YOU DO

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emmybug8 writes:

	I think you should tell nick that you like him and mabye he will like you back!

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latifa_angel writes:

	u need to tell him

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Kgirl2 writes:

	The real question is, do you want to tell him? IF you do then go for it but if you dont then wait until you think you are ready! It is okay to wait!

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abz writes:

	U know what Charlotte, I think that maybe u should just go with the flow.If u feel that it is the right time, go ahead tell him or a friend!But if not then just don't. U don't need to have pressure on u. --abz

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destiny90 writes:

	cHARLOTTE IF YOU LIKE HIM GO FOR IT

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destiny90 writes:

	GIRLS OF BGS CLUB IF YOU LIKE A GUY AND YOU KNOW YOUR BEST,BEST,BEST FRIEND ALL READY DATED HIM WOULD YOU DATE HIM

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Babyllama writes:

	I think that you should folow your heart and do whats right I have a boy in my class that I like. If I were you, ild wait until you think things arent going to be as weired. your fan, Babyllama

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meenga writes:

	Charlotte, you and Meave may have different opinions on that subject. i probably wouldn't just walk up to a boy and say i like him. just take it step by step. hope y'all have a great summer! Meenga

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Kgirl2 writes:

	You don't have to until you want to! When you are ready go for it but maybe not yet. Take it slow it always works out better that way!

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bb012 writes:

	YOU SHOULD TELL nICK YOU LIKE HIM WHAT IF HE LIKES YOU?

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Lil mama jara writes:

	wat it do

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prettynpink973 writes:

	I would tell. I usually tell guys I like them, and they usually end up liking me!! But you just need to follow your heart.

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lynnae writes:

	write him a note and say it is from your secret admired

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kinz25 writes:

	Hey abz! Do I know you?

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Queen Bee love writes:

	ok well does anyone know if i sould ask out my crush.. he likes me i know this but i dont know..... help!!