Secret Crushes

Dear Journal,

We were having a Tower sleepover the other night when Maeve brought up the one subject that always makes me feel tingly all the way down to my toes: Nick Montoya—aka, my super-secret sorta crush. I know I must have turned 50 different shades of red. I mean, it can be fun to talk about Nick with the BSG, but it can also be SOOOO embarrassing! And you won’t believe what Maeve was saying. She actually thinks I should…get ready for this…ASK HIM OUT!

Of course my first reaction was no no no no NO! No way am I ready for that. And then, when I thought about it some more, my reaction was still NO. Hanging out with Nick is so much fun, and I definitely don’t want things to get weird. We always have an awesome time just kicking a soccer ball around or even working on a school project together! I’m afraid that if I bring up the whole ‘I like you’ issue, things will get messed up.

And you know what? I’m totally OK with feeling like that. I think it’s cool that Maeve would be brave enough to just walk up to her crush and ask him out, but that’s sooo not me. I just want to take it slow and see what happens naturally. For now, the only crush I want to hear about is the one between Mr. Darcy and Elizabeth from Pride and Prejudice!

Meanwhile, Club BSG members can also share their opinions about dating, crushes, kisses and stuff on our NEW survey ! Check it out -- tell us what you think!

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Comments (1678)

iacpmf writes:

	who can help me find the perfect boy for me! i am sorry if i spell something brong but i don't speak alot of english so if somebody speak spanish can help me please!! love iacpmf

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wi6y1 writes:

	i like k***

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joelson writes:

	Charlott,it is perfectly O.K.2 be nervous.but take it slow and dont speed in2 a relationship get 2 know him first and i can promise u everything will go PERFECTLY!

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mauigirl23 writes:

	Ya I think it's ok, I mean if you really don't want anyone to know sure, but it's super fun to talk about crushes with your friends! Of course there is some people you should keep it a secret from though. Don't tell the school or anything. I would only tell my friends if I were you! Bye!

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NAHJEAH writes:

	WELL YOU KNNOW I DON'T LIKE GUYS CHEATING SO GIRL JUST DO YOUR THANG

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drbeba123 writes:

	ok im in loved with boy m*** l but i am scared to say it do him what i should do?

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chrstina1268 writes:

	Well tell him that you dont like him and see what your heart wants to do to him so just follow your heart and do something to him thats inbarising to him that wouled be the best inbarise him hope that works. -chrstina1268

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hplvr123 writes:

i likeD this 1 guy, & he kept telling me that he liked me, & then a week later hed sa it was all just a lie! he did it like 5x, & the 6th x, i got REALLY TICKED OFF! so, i broke ^ w/ him! now he completely ignores me, & i dont really care, but a lot of peeps in 7th grade (im in 6th, hes in 7th) still tease me, cuz tha think that i like him! he told like every1 in 7th grade, so that is how tha no, but i want the teasing 2 stop! i dont even like him! ttyl
-hplvr123

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chrstina1268 writes:

	All the peaple that have crushes and you dont know if you should tell them or not its ok just follow your heart like I did.

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sugarsweet123 writes:

	u kno whos really cute and sweet...? skandar keynes hes famous lol but u prolly havent heard of him. but thts better so less competition for me!

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chrstina1268 writes:

	Who ever thinks that she shouled follow her heart click on the heart Love Chrstina1268

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chrstina1268 writes:

	Well I think she shouled tell him or not I wouled say follow your heart

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chrstina1268 writes:

	O and hope Im In luck to help anyone

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chrstina1268 writes:

	Hi Im new here I was just on my computer and I got here so Is any one having a crush

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BouncyBirdie3 writes:

	Hi! Those of you who think Charlotte should ask Nick click on this heart

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luvgirl101 writes:

	char, you should TOTALLY tell him...it'll save you a lot of akward moments, and you wont keep him guessing

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Rockingout writes:

	I had a huge crush on this gys and now we are going out!

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ilovelyfe01 writes:

	MA BAD LYFE NOT LYE

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ilovelyfe01 writes:

	lolz luvin it wish lye waz dat easy mann WoW LIKE LIKE LIKE!!

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jayla writes:

	hi i'm jayla i'm new here 8

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punky/gurly123 writes:

	yeah she right u should tell him

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lady2397 writes:

	u can keep it a secret but one day someone will find out and your life will be ruined or bad 4 a while

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Kenzer798 writes:

	I thinks it is totaly cool to keep that secret!

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BSG Fan writes:

	I have a major crush on this boy in my class.I told him I like him and he says he likes me too! Boys like to be told girls like them. that nervous stuff is only in movies!

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Nhikhung writes:

	Hey! I have I guy in my class I have a really puny crush on him cuz he is like my 5 best bud but only counting boys he would be my 2nd one

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luvaddict37 writes:

	I haven't told anyone this but I like a boy in my class. We always laugh together but he always seems nervous. Help!

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BSG Fan writes:

	CLICK THE HEART IF YOU HAVE A CRUSH

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yapster123 writes:

	I like it when you can gush about a guy. I also love the fact that you can still be friends but not give it away. I think that you should keep it a secret until you feel totally comfy. Then he'll probably be able to accept it easier.

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slimshady writes:

	Dear Icansing2, Y r so right about what u said to wawa122195.We would make such good freinds. From, Slimshady

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DDChase writes:

	well u should tell him that u like himm and ask him out thats never happend to me but i have somone who has a crush on me and i know it ... he sent me a valentine that said he likes me on valintines day!! but i dont like him

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Katani429 writes:

	Charlotte if thats the way u feel about him then GO ASK HIM OUT.

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babybug6879 writes:

	Hey everyone. Its Babybug6879 and my boyfriend was cheating on me with an interent girlfriend. I saw them at the spring carnival and i was so sad and he knew that i was gonna be there! So now i am sad and mad at the same time.

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icansing2 writes:

	Dear Char, It is probably strange to tell NIck you like Him. I am in the same spot reight now, with another guy. Do whatever you want. Maybe you could write a note. I fyou don't want to tell him, don't. I think he might like you back if you tell him.--Totally your choice. Good Luck!

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tapqueen87 writes:

	you should ask him out. and it's ok to have a secret crush. i do.

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misscute writes:

	GO ON ASK HIM OUT. YOU WONT KNOW UNTIL YOU DO

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emmybug8 writes:

	I think you should tell nick that you like him and mabye he will like you back!

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latifa_angel writes:

	u need to tell him

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Kgirl2 writes:

	The real question is, do you want to tell him? IF you do then go for it but if you dont then wait until you think you are ready! It is okay to wait!

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abz writes:

	U know what Charlotte, I think that maybe u should just go with the flow.If u feel that it is the right time, go ahead tell him or a friend!But if not then just don't. U don't need to have pressure on u. --abz

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destiny90 writes:

	cHARLOTTE IF YOU LIKE HIM GO FOR IT

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destiny90 writes:

	GIRLS OF BGS CLUB IF YOU LIKE A GUY AND YOU KNOW YOUR BEST,BEST,BEST FRIEND ALL READY DATED HIM WOULD YOU DATE HIM

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Babyllama writes:

	I think that you should folow your heart and do whats right I have a boy in my class that I like. If I were you, ild wait until you think things arent going to be as weired. your fan, Babyllama

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meenga writes:

	Charlotte, you and Meave may have different opinions on that subject. i probably wouldn't just walk up to a boy and say i like him. just take it step by step. hope y'all have a great summer! Meenga

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Kgirl2 writes:

	You don't have to until you want to! When you are ready go for it but maybe not yet. Take it slow it always works out better that way!

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bb012 writes:

	YOU SHOULD TELL nICK YOU LIKE HIM WHAT IF HE LIKES YOU?

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Lil mama jara writes:

	wat it do

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prettynpink973 writes:

	I would tell. I usually tell guys I like them, and they usually end up liking me!! But you just need to follow your heart.

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lynnae writes:

	write him a note and say it is from your secret admired

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kinz25 writes:

	Hey abz! Do I know you?

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Queen Bee love writes:

	ok well does anyone know if i sould ask out my crush.. he likes me i know this but i dont know..... help!!

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skygirl7721 writes:

	i feel for ya char! its really hard to tell a guy friend that u love or like him and he says that he likes u as a friend. it runins ur friendship!ttyl!

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Basketballgrl56 writes:

	BABYBUG IM SOOO HAPPY 4 U!!

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schoolgirl9 writes:

	no do not tell pees mite lol

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pretty girl #1 writes:

	i say keep it to your self everybodys going to look at you crazy he probaly dont like then thats going to hurt your feelings please write me and see what you say i there right now im the same thing as you like i said write me back we can talke about it and your feelings and stuff we can talke to see if we have alot in commet. but i hope you listen to me.

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keianna writes:

	no dont tell only if you want you to but i say no

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ilovepandas writes:

	What does your heart say? Listen to it.

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kasbratz writes:

	i think you should tell your friends if you want to but i don't tell my friends

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Luveloo writes:

	NO!!!!!! It feels so good to let out your feelings you should try

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ms.loveangle writes:

	no you should not

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JesusLover101 writes:

Hey!! I used to be like that but I told one of my friends a.k.a J*** and she told him. a.k.a D***. He said okay. The next day my friend asked him out for me. He said yes and I was soooo happy. He is soo hot to me and my friend H*** thinks I stupid. LOL!!!!!! Now Idk what i would do without him. He flirts with me!!! So just face your fears and let him know Do you think there is any sign of him likein you?? If so take the chance.

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3sidok writes:

	i charlotte i love a gy how is shorter than me nad he is going out with my BFF and i dont now how 2 react 2 thais howl thing, HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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meenga writes:

	Charlotte, it is okay to keep your crush a secret. But i think you should tell Nick Montoya you like him. he is a sweet guy. your friend, Meenga

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pandagiirl10 writes:

	to tell the people here the truth i lik some guy named A***

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ms.loveangle writes:

	no you should not

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princessdijaha writes:

	no because they will neva know

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ms.loveangle writes:

	no because maybe he likes you to.

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abz writes:

	Charlotte, Of course it is o.k. to have a secret crush. U see it's not that your friends are not trust worthy it just u are more of a private person,and it's o.k to be your self. Many people have at least one secret that they don't tell their friend. --abz your friend

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babybug6879 writes:

	Hey i had a crush on a guy and i told him and he said he liked me back and we are going out now. That may happen to u if u tell him hope this works

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newstuffrog writes:

	i think u should ask him out because i u hlod it back he might get a girlfriend or move and u might not have a chance with him or he will naver go out with u because he would have a girl friend love your friend, newstuffrog

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jassybaby10029 writes:

Charlotte, I dont think oyu should keep your crush a secret! You go out there tell the boy you like him. The only reason (i think i could be wrong) girls dont tell a boy they like him is because they are scared he wont like them back!! You have one life!! Live it to the fullest!! smilies/grin.gif

If you like him go get him!! He probably likes you to!! I f you feel embarassed yoyu should practice in front of your mirror how to tell him you like him!!! Well anyway GOOD LUCK!! Ciao Bella( Bye pretty in italian isnt that groovy!!!)

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Love_art writes:

	did u get my tip ? i hope it was helpful ! muahzzzzzzzz.

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XxXrosieXxX writes:

	I think that you shud tell him that you hav acrush on him. But first you hav 2 find out is ther any sines of him liking you! So gud luck! XxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXx

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teddybear916 writes:

	o AnD bTw It'S a ReAl StAt ThAt 89% Of GuYs WaNt YoU tO mAkE tHe FiRsT mOvE. ♥, tEdDyBeAr916

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teddybear916 writes:

	cHaR, wHaTeV u WaNt (I.e. KeEpInG iT a SeCrEt) iS wHaT u ShOuLd Do. If U fEeL cOmFoRtAbLe TeLlInG nIcK tHeN tElL hIm. If NoT, tHeN dOnT! ♥, TeDdYbEaR916

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hotstuff2468 writes:

	no.I think you should tell him or you will never know if he likes you. I told the guy i loved and he said he liked me.

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BSG Fan writes:

	You are super cool

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jovany writes:

	what a great story you have ther

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Kalynda101 writes:

	yer i suppose

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inovermyhead writes:

	even though the bsg kno about the super secret crush, i think charlotte should tell them abou it

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nikki luv_bug writes:

	well i like this guy so i asked him if he liked me, and he said yeah so i told him i like him and it all worked out. nikki luv_bug

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magenta486 writes:

	No because if you don't he may even like u, and u don't know. Keeping these things can be really bad so just tell who is 2 say that he likes u r not. Bye.

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prettygirl1085 writes:

	hi its me again and i am just going to say this just in case you still need help that you should just let out your feelings.

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louloubop66 writes:

	I think you should start spending A LOT of time with him and then maybe things will start to click. If not well, theres always the option to stay friends? (Personally i think you should go for hanin out with him!) Best Wishes From, Louloubop66

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REINA writes:

	I think that u should wait intill u feel more cool 2 tell him that u like him.

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cutie4000 writes:

	you did say "a secret crush", right? so keep it that way

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icansing2 writes:

	dEAR cHAR, You know NIc likes you. And he is sweet and cool! Ask him out. Are you too shy? thats okay...maybe write it on a note! ASK HIM OUT!

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icansing2 writes:

	MAEVEKATANI! ATOMABOY TOLD ME YOU WERE LOOKING FOR ME! IM HER EHI!!! HOW R U?

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BeaconStreetGirls4ever writes:

	I think its perfectly fine having a secret crush. hey I had some before

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Ilovesticky writes:

	oh I keep a secret

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BSG Fan writes:

	this looks so cute. I put it on my myspace page, and people luv 2 play it THEY COMMENT ME AND SAY COOL GAME WELL GTG MY BRO. WANTS 2 GET ON AND ADD ME 2 UR FRIENDS LIST IF U READ THIS CUTE LIL COMMENT. P.S-IF THERE IS A SINGLE BOY OUT THERE READING THIS, WELL LETS JUST SAY 12 YEARS OLD THEN U MUST B CUTE

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catlover111 writes:

	Crushes just confuse me. I liked this guy for a long time, but recently I decided I didn't like him anymore. But sometimes I think I still do. He used to like me (go figure ) but I know he doesn't now. I don't know what to do.

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BSG1592 writes:

	No way tell girlfriend!!! Even if its embarrising he probably likes you 2!!!

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dancergirl11 writes:

	Hi charlotte, I think that if you arent ready to tell anyone about your crush, you dont have to. We all handle these things differently, so in your case you would rather be slow about it, and Meave would rather just automatically go for it. So deal with it your way first. ~dancergirl11

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Harley50 writes:

	HEY CHAR i think that if u want it 2 stay in the closet then fine there is no rush u hav all ur teen years to do it but if u want something more then i say GO!gogogogogogo 4 it my homiey but 4real do wat ur heart thinks and feels not wat ur frends or online people say 2 do !pz i'm out HOLLA @t me if u want more advice

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crazyksk15 writes:

	girls can ask GUYS OUT, you know?

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BSG Fan writes:

	okay girl you like him if he likes you too thats great but remember it may not be neutral

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prettygirl1085 writes:

	hi girl, i totally think you should go for it because maybe he will never figure it out if you dont tell him now.

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lilmama12 writes:

	i don't know if he like me are not what can i do to tel if he like me are not he go with other people and then tell me now i got a date you don't then he star smile at me then start to play with me what should i do

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Tail899 writes:

	Totally! You don't have to tell anyone if you don't want to. Your biz is your biz.

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channelo5 writes:

	i know how you feel charrlet i have a mager crush on a guy too.

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Dreamgirl writes:

hI Charlotte
It's Dreamgirl. I think that you have a right to keep a secret crush secret.I'm saying this because I've been in that situation before where I told my friends who I loved.and then they blew me off and told the guy I love that I love him. that guy and I had been frinds since third grade and now that he knows that I love him, we stoped talking.he ignores me everytime I try to speak to him and that really stinks.

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Drama13 writes:

	Char get a grip!!!! Why does everybody have crushes??? can't people just be friends??

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Drama13 writes:

	I wish people could just be friends with guys without people saying that you like like him!! What is our world coming 2????

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berry_gen writes:

	of course...it is easier to crush that you keep inside because its more comfortable, and mostly no hard thing and expectations.

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berrikat writes:

	Of course it's ok! if you don't want to tell anybody, feel free to keep it secret! just be sure that it doesn't make you want to explode! if you feel that way, and you have to tell someone, make sure it's someone you can tell your secrets to, not a blabber mouth!

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cutepuppypriya writes:

Hey char! ok so your survey isnt working and i tried like 5 times but is keeps saying i am not authorized ot see it... and about the crush... GO 4 IT smilies/cheesy.gif

!!!! he is like to cutest guy in ur school and 1 of the QOM(queens of mean) will snatch him b4 u get a chance to speak smilies/angry.gif

! he is shy 2 so it is up 2 u 2 take the 1st step.. and keeping it a secret actually isnt much of a good idea cuz if I hide things that make Me feel bad so i just tell my friends that it is not open 4 debte but i am just stating a case... click the heart if this helped n.e.one! smilies/grin.gif

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Drama13 writes:

	Hi!! what's up with crushes!! can't people just be friends??? Click the heart if u agree

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4kicks101 writes:

	this is kinda an embaressing moment so ill enter it there if it doesn't make it here. once at open house my mm started talking to my crushes parent's and told his mom that i had a crush on his son !! she told my crush and now he knows!! he told all his friends and they ALL tease me! WHAT SHOULD I DO CHAR?

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britta1313 writes:

	you should ask nick out like totaly i would like realy i have a boy friend just like him in every way!!!!!!

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DreamDarkFreak writes:

	of COURSE you can, I tell my friends about my crushes, and didn't even laugh when my friend went out with an idiot, so don't worry, I'll keep your secret Charlotte

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emmkwart writes:

	what i think is you should go out it will be cooooo!

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lv2laf writes:

	I totally had a crush on a guy- but he was famous! I've never liked anyone who wasn't so, I don't know how Charlotte's feeling. Click on the heart if you think Zac Efron is cute!!!!!!!

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Lunatuna writes:

	Quick! Ask him out before Anna does! Time is running out! JUST KISS HIM ALREADY! ~ Lunatuna ~

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BSGlover123 writes:

	you guys are the PERFECT match and i mean it! Nick Charlotte = love forever! that's my boy math haha once again N C=LOVE FOREVER!! if you agree plz click the heart!

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raineegirl94 writes:

	I bet you and Nick would be sooo C-U-T-E!! I sorta have the same problem. Except Here, Girls can't ask guys out. What should I do? P.S. SAY YES!!! (IF HE ASKS YOU OUT)

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Rainhead writes:

	What should I do if the guy I like doesnt ever talk to me? He is sometimes rude, but when he does talk to me, he is so funny, and his smile is sooooo cute! What should I do??????

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MaeveKatani writes:

Charlotte,

U should TOTALLY TOTALLY TOTALLY ask Nick out! I mean it's totally obvious that he likes you too! I mean seriously, you guys make the perfect couple! smilies/kiss.gif

I mean think of it! Mrs. Charlotte Montoya. Charlotte Nick = Charlotte Montoya and Nick Montoya. Mrs. Charlotte Montoya. Don't you think it has a certain ring to it?
-MaeveKatani-

P.S. So go ask him out before it's too late! And if he asks you out, u should totally say yes! So go for it! Remember, Mrs. Charlotte Montoya. It definitly has a ring to it. smilies/grin.gif

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powflowjas writes:

	I think u should tell ur friends that u like him.They can support u and stuff i also think u shouild ask him out i mean cmon baby

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bsgmea13 writes:

	Nickarlotte 4ever in my book! But, Char, it is totally okay 4 u to keep ur crush on Nick a secret. If u were like Maeve and could just ask a guy out, then it'd b a WHOLE different story. But...if Nick asks u out, SAY YES!!! -bsgmea13

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lil_mama385 writes:

	if u think charlotte and nick make a good couple and you want charlotte to get her scared but over there and ask him out press the heart good couple

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chicky10 writes:

	i totally think it's ok because thats what i do

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jazmyn100 writes:

	should i tell my brother that i like his bf

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molly1 writes:

	dearcharlotte, HELP!I have a crush but,he doesn't seem to notice ME!And everyone says i'm the prettiest EXEPT HELP!!!

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Shoopalulu writes:

	CHARLOTTE! nick totally likes u, so i dont think it would be wierd to ask him out if u like him. and if u both like eachother than it wouldnt feel awkward. also, if it doesnt work out, then u can go back 2 just being friends!! xoxo shoopalulu

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no la an writes:

	Char,if ur 2 scarded,think this:charlotte montoya charlotte mantoya......GO 4 IT!!!!!!

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veavei writes:

	hey charlotte , i think you must tell it first to your bestfriends and then ask an advise from them and when you think it will work do it and always follow your heart in everything you do and i promise this will work out .... WRITE BACK!!! ...go girl!!!

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jazmyn100 writes:

	i have a crush on my brothers friend and we kissed each one another i dont know if we areboyfriend and girlfriend

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jazmyn100 writes:

	if u have a crush on ur friends boyfriend dont tell her she might get mad and not be ur bf

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jazmyn100 writes:

	all the girls that have crushes just be ur self maybe he will ask u out okay

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jazmyn100 writes:

	i asked the boy out he said he does like me thanks alot agirl101

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jazmyn100 writes:

	this boyaskedme out he said do u want to go out if u dot lets just stop talking about it do i soy yes or no because i dont no he is really cute

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bluebearrose writes:

	i think you should tell your bffs because thatswhat my bffs do

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agirl101 writes:

	CHARLOTTE RAMSEY you should go for it!! if you don´t you´ll never know if he likes you or not so here is my advice ask him out that´s the only way you´ll know

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Dollie13 writes:

	Ask nick out im sure he will feel the same way talk back d-dog out

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lolcasey writes:

	omg I want to tell my crush that but I'm scaredtoo

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tayla tay.sweeite writes:

	HEY GIRL WHY DONT U JUST GO AND OPEN UP AND TELL HOW U FEEL BETTER HIM FINDING OUT ABOUT IT FROM U THEN ANY ONE ELEAS GIRL OK LUV TAYLA TAY .SWEETIE

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bsggirl007 writes:

	This may sound weird...but at my school only the BOYS ask the girls out. Awkward...I know. That's just the way I think its always gonna be. And the stupid thing is, we only go out on 'dates' with about 10 other ppl!! Lol...middle school romance is very awkward...you love it sometimes...other times you hate it !!!

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bsggirl007 writes:

	IF YOU THINK THAT CHARLOTTE SHOULD KISS NICK CLICK THE HEART!!

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no la an writes:

	dear Charlotte, Well... some.like my secret crush.he used to like me and i dint so i messed everything up.were really good friends now so im pretty happy.

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MiSzBaRb writes:

	i have this crush on this boy but he like my bestfriend and he alway talk to me about her and i get mad at him what do i i do it is so hard

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bananabunny writes:

	i have a crush, but i told my bffs and they didnt tell anybody, until the mist anoying person in my class herd and told everybodt. then the person i had a crush on found out and he doesnt like me. i found out that he herd and didnt like me so i was so embaressed and now i wont talk to him. almost everybody forgot but not my crush. i am very mad he doesnt like me!

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cutekitten12 writes:

	Charlotte, u should totally ask nick out. i mean hes nice and u know by reading the bsg books i think he really likes u back!!!!!!!!! go for it and just b urself!!!!!

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pinkpj writes:

	i like this boy but he barely talks to me a bunch of girls like him

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bananabunny writes:

	well, if you know him i think you should tell him, but if you don't know him it will be a little weird talking to him

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Rainhead writes:

	I really like this guy named **** but he never talks to me!! What should I do?

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issabell writes:

	Char i think you should take Maeve's advice! Maybe Nick likes youy too!

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4kicks101 writes:

	I HAVE A SECRET CRUSH ON A GUY TOO!! DOES YOUR CRUSH HAVE SHORTISH BROWN/BLONDE HAIR?

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superkatelyn678 writes:

	there is a boy in my class he is so cute i have a crush on him...

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qweetly writes:

	well ok i do have a crush but he knows he likes me back and i have another crush who aslo likes me arent you shoked

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lilcat55 writes:

	YEAH! i have a secret crush, and he doesn't have a clue that i like him! just listen to your heart, and do what is comfertable for you!!!

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i luv nick jonas writes:

	charlotte ur greet u should ask him out & soon ASK HIM NOW!!!! please

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Tangerine writes:

	hey charlotte! i think u should tell the rest of the bsg. i mean, they R ur best friends rite? but, do u trust them. i think u do. so, i think u should tell them. tellin nick....dats another story. if u want 2 u can... dats ur choice. if u tell him, mayb he'll feel the same way. who nos!!! but ik ull make the rite choice.

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mzjjbffs13 writes:

	omg char, nick is really nice and like u need to trust that he wont take it like u think he will.

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cooleo101 writes:

	no i think u should tell him !!! maybe hell feel the same!!!

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jade24 writes:

	i have a crush on a guy named B**. he is soooo cute

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cutierthanyou writes:

	i am saying this once and once only... if he doesn't ask you out..you ask him! Rock his world!

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cutierthanyou writes:

	Unless it is your friends crush...KEEP IT A SECRET. But if you want to blab YOUR SECRET CRUSHES NAME...then do it!

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Babygurl3637beaconstreet writes:

	yes charlotte its pefectly fine i have a secret crush too

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home123clark writes:

	no!charlotte!!come

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number1chick writes:

	Hey Charlotte... of course its okay to keep a secert crush as long as your okay with it. If you feel like you really need to tell someone, be sure its someone you can trust.. someone who hasn't told your former secerts in the past.

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katieskool96 writes:

	yes i think it is ok 2 have a secret crush cause u dont have 2 tell ur friends every thing

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gpgirl28 writes:

	Of Course as long as you tell your real friends!

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banana123 writes:

	hi charlotte i really like your pearinality your fun and really out going your pearsonalety is just like mine. o and i think you are aloud to keep a secret crush

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andrea22joyce writes:

	yes but just close friends.

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HONIJOY writes:

	i think u should tell nick n keepen secret from yours bff may be a bad idea cuz some people take it the wrong when u ? 2 tell them

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maaryb writes:

	yes, hihihihi

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cubancutie97 writes:

	dear charlotte, i think u should tel the rest of the bsg about ur secret crush. they r ur best friends so they can totally help u figure out wat 2 do. and as 4 telling nick, i think u should totally w8 til ur ready. who knos mayb he feels way and is going through the same thing. good luck!

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ChubChub writes:

	hey guys so i was wondering how old are you? like, 5th grade? 6th? im in 7th so... yeah...pls reply...

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Sk8urgurl writes:

Charlotte I don't think you should tell anyone because that happened to me once.. It all stated when I saw this GUY who was so hot and cute!!! I had that same trouble before I wanted to tell it to my friends and best friends, my best friends said they won't tell anyone so I trusted them and then I told My Friends And he next day we got in a big fight between my friends and me because they had a crush at THE GUY WHO I LIKED, then they spread Rumors around the WHOLE school that I had a crush at THE CUTE GUY!! and I was so embarrassed that everyone was talking about it!!! smilies/sad.gif

and so you shouldn't tell anyone smilies/grin.gif

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bof4 writes:

	I ussually tell people who I like but it is only my closest friends. But this year I am trying to keep it a secret and I want to see if thing happen differently without telling peopple. But I hope you and Nick get together , you guys are the perfect couple.

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2good4u writes:

	my secret crush starts with a w. i l been inlove with him since i saw him wat should i do tell him or no!!!!!!!!

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lola22 writes:

	Hi Charlotte I just want to say you slow danced with Nick hes cute. I think you should date him!!!!!!!!!!! Love Lola22

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Jay_Jay263140 writes:

	IF YOU LIKE SOMEONE AND YOU HAVE A BEST FRIEND TELL YOUR FRIEND THATS WHAT I DID!

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trufflesluva writes:

	I have had a lot of secret crushes! I kept a lot of them secret. But, when I told my friends about them some of the pressure went away! I knew I could trust them and I could talk freely about him with my friends and that helped a lot. I think that if you trust your friends enough and you are comfortable with them you should tell them your secret crush

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cutie4000 writes:

	well i told everyone (except my crush) who i like and he found out because of this blabber! so you can tell people tou trust!

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peanutjazz writes:

	hey i feel the same way just tell him and get it over with

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veavei writes:

	I advise you to follow your heart not only mind bcoz' you may take the wrong way if you just followed your mind and be careful!~!

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cookygirl202 writes:

	today is NATIONAL DENIM DAY! WHERE THOSE JEANS, GIRLIES!!!! ciao!

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4kicks101 writes:

	I need help! There is this guy I like but I am really mean to him sometimes, its not because Im a mean person but because when Im near I freeze up and my first reaction is sometimes is just to be mean. What should I do?

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krazymeBSG writes:

	i think u should tell Nick if uwant imean my friend almost told my 2 crushes that i "like" him but i didnit care @that moment but when i thought about it i realized that i dont want her tellin' themso we kept it "our"little secret.think about it.

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cutie4000 writes:

	I LIKE A BOY TOO!!!

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soccergirlmill writes:

	Charlotte everyone likes someone! I like someone. Just keep on going and you'll get nick sooner or later! P.S I am on the 3rd book half way through!!!!

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girlsrule71421 writes:

	I think you should let BSG know that you like him but you tell have to tell anyone if you don't want to girlsrule71421 you're biggest fan

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JoeJonasLuvU writes:

	Well, in my opinion... No not really! Well, in some cases yes! I told my secret crush that i liked him and things ended up pretty good between us! We hooked up but i still broke up with him anyway. But now we are better friends than before! Responder si vous plait!

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musicandlyrics writes:

	Hi Charlotte i think you should keep your crush on nick secret, well atleast from him. He sounds like a nice guy and you don't want to rewin your friendship. You can tell maeve that you arn't ready to date yet, gr.7 is still young and besides nick is just your friend. well most importatly do what you fell best doing.

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babygirl2925 writes:

	I think u should do wat ever make u feel best and most comfortable with. Maeve thinks u should ask him out. Shes isnt forcing u to.I think most people feel the way u do about things like this.

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Cupcake24 writes:

	i think you should tell your friends but definaltly NOT Nick! and nick is cute, so you do have good taste!!!

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londonlover writes:

	u know i hav had secret crushes 2. keep it secret

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BSG Fan writes:

	Yes. I think you should because some body could be jelous of you if they knew that you liked that person and they went out with you.

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tiyara11 writes:

	No you should tell him and he'll problaly not want to turn you down

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xicarrona writes:

	Yes I do because I have a secret crush to

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Kiki5796 writes:

	i know this isn't advice to you but, i have a problem, i like a boy. should i tell him? i'm only in gr.6 tell me!

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kittycoo98 writes:

	Nick is adorable! Go for it!

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robin22334455 writes:

	U GO GIRL NICK SEEMS CUTE!!!!!

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Lanisha writes:

	yes .i think that if u tell someone they will tell.

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robin22334455 writes:

	yeah! i have 2 crushs !

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x5xjusticex5x writes:

	U go girl nick seems cute!!!!!!!

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x5xjusticex5x writes:

	yes i do think you should keep a secret crush.

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heyyys writes:

	no,because what if he likes you back but before you tell him pick up signs to see if he likes you from,heyyys14422

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luzawia writes:

	u go girl nick seems so cute

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Breezy 154 writes:

	i have this cruss on 2 peeps is that ok?? there names are d** and *c

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cutecupcakes writes:

	I think it is i like love this one boy i don't whan't 2 say is name but i realy wish he would ask me out but all my friends say he likes me ALOT but he doesn't i don't think but i think of him every day and night 24 7 he so so cute!!!

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bail206 writes:

	u SHOULDN'T BECAUSE PEOPLE FREAK WHEN THEY HEAR THINGS LIKE THAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Stardust202 writes:

	NO i dont think you should still be friends with the girl who started the rumor she could do something like that again if you decide to trust her again.she doesnt sound like a good freind to me.BSG Fan will you be my freind.i am new cuz i just started this today

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singgirl200 writes:

	o my goodness charlotte(sorry if i get your name wrong) u should totally sould tell nick but 1 thing 4sure is ask your dad if u can date bonsui, singgirl200

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animalover writes:

	I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL !! MY FRIEND HAS THE SAME ISSUE! BUT I WOULD JUST WAIT TELL HE TELLS YOU OR WAIT TILL THE FRIENDSHIP IS STRONGER!

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DreamStreetMakesMeGiggle writes:

	to BSG Fan- if that girl says sorry and you really truly beleive her, give her a second chance. If she really is a friend worth keeping, she'll come through! Lotsa love!

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DreamStreetMakesMeGiggle writes:

	its cool to have a secret crush. i've had soooooooo many! but sometimes, when you never tell, that special someone doesn't know how you feel and gets away from you. Even if he feels the same way, he'll think you're not into him and move on. It's awful, trust me.

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BSG Fan writes:

	It is totally Ok to have a secret crush but remember it is a secret if I were you I would not tell anyone-not even your Bffs. You never known if they are your real friends.I told mine Bffs my crush and they started a rumor about me. I have a question for you ,should I still be friends with the girls that started a rumor about me?

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british rocking cow writes:

	yeah i think so

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Realgurl11 writes:

	Yeah. in fact I have been keeping my crush a secret every time I get a new one because you never know who could turn on you!

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Animalgrrl writes:

	Duh! Of course it's okay!

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cjdiva writes:

	Dear Charlotte, I think that it's okay to have a secret crush, but if you really like him you should take a few test to see if he likes you to. The test are: See if your friends could help and if your friends are friends with his friends then they can ask for info. Another is just talk to him and see how he is around you. Also if you just take a chance and see what he says. Your friend, Cjdiva

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Abracadabra90 writes:

	Yes i think it's ok. I do it to. Just be careful not to tell anyone you don't trust that well who you have a crush on. then they'll blurt it out. I did that once to my SO CALLED friend. O and if you do decide to tell him one day tell him in person, don't send one of your friends to do it. Then it's SOOOOOOOOO much easier for you AND him.

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sk8erchic12 writes:

	i think its fine to keep a secret crush i have one but i told my best friend becase it feels good to let it out to someone you trust

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amaci writes:

	you should always do what you want to do, what you feel is right!!!!!!

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Bloo99 writes:

	Just try to think as your crush as a friend and get to know them better. Maybe being a friend is better than a boyfriend. Plus, boyfriends dint last forever and if you break up, it can be hard to be friends again.

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thinkpink16 writes:

	Hey Everyone! Its me thinkpink16, I was just wondering if you guys think it would be a good idea to let my BFF tell my crush that I like him on the last day of school??? If you have any advice on like what I should do that would be great! ♥ThinkPink16♥

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BSG Fan writes:

	well yeah you know girls are not sopose to ask a boy out and tell them that you like them the boy is sopose to do that.

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mznia904 writes:

	just try too get close too him. and have funny conversations and dress cute every day. even on weekends.never know you might see him. and when you guys are in your own space just tell him how you feel.then maybe he will feel the same way.maybe he wants too be your boyfriend. so give it a try. take my advice. remember be pretty. be proud. and stand tall.

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theuffansplusBSG writes:

	There is this guy that sits next to me in class and he is so cute!I think he likes me too!

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bballchick6 writes:

	i think you should keep the crush!!!! but try to talk to him more and get close to him or it would get all strange!!!!!!!!!!!!

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bballchick6 writes:

	i think you should keep him as a crush!! but try to talk to him and get close to him

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BSGlover6 writes:

	YES if you tell him you might turn all 50 shades of red aka DON'T TELL HIM i love books,BSGlover6

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shopping890 writes:

	yes its totally tight!!! man!! we all have things that are totally tigth uk? goth queen :]

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emily1302 writes:

	i think you should wait and see if nick likes you first and then tell him you like him if he likes you too.

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leonah writes:

	its better to tell nick u luv him because he'll get something nice to tell u

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swimmergrl_08 writes:

	for a while, sure, its find 2 keep a secret crush. but if u want him 2 ever notice u then u should tell him. what hav u got 2 lose? ppl would forget the next day, and ud hav a better chance with nick.

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sarede writes:

	I love to know peaples secret crushes because I don't tell anybody iven if they offered me $999,999,999.00!!!!!!!!

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mrs.attitude writes:

	its okay to have a secret crush...be cause i have lots of secret crushes that no 1 knows about not even my bff.....but if u really like him tell him u do...

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cshellie_b writes:

	charlotte, you know, you are bff's with maeve. i think it's ok to keep a secret crush but still, you really belong with nick, and i'm sure that maeve would understand![

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prettynpink1508 writes:

	KEEP IT SECRET at first.only tell the people you trust!believe me,im goin through the same thing and i told people and now they are tellin my crush that im obsessed with him when i just like him.just b careful who you tell. Love,someone who cares, Savannah

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pandalover613 writes:

	It is deffinetely ok for you to keep a secreet crush secret. I mean, that's why it's called a secret crush. Everyone has secret crushes. Even I do. But one day, you should tell Nick you like him.

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jbsings writes:

	Hey girl I think you should confront your friends. Even though its embarrasing your BFF's right? Trust me on this one they will love to hear about it. Comment on this if u think im a good advice giver!!

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AmyRose writes:

	Char, I have a secret crush, and I only trusted my closest friends with the secret of who he is. And one of them told a huge blabbermouth, who told my crush! KEEP IT A SECRET!!!!! AmyRose

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pinkyb99 writes:

	i have one on a boy named x***

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martylove writes:

	i think you should love diffrent pets but thats also you should love yours too[img

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cass26 writes:

	i like this one guy but hes a family friend. it would be really weird to tell him i like him cause he is always aroud!!! how do i get the message acrossed! should i even tell him?!?!?! help!!!

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anna101 writes:

	yes you can go a had.

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webkinzhazeverything writes:

	Probably. I have a crush, too. I had one of my friends tell him. He was playing basketball, and said... Yea for her. Could life get anymore complicated???? So, from my experience, I say you wait a little bit longer. By the way, the boy I like i've known since pre-k!!!!! Now, I'm in second grade. Don't worry. I know your experience and soon you'll get there!!!!!

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MaeveKatani writes:

	wawa122195, Me and icansing2 actually have never met! We're only friends online. I had a problem about crushes so i put my dilema on this site so people could give me advice and icansing2 gave me advice and we've been writing to each other ever since.i'm glad u think it's cool that we're online friends. -MaeveKatani-

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BSG Fan writes:

	Don`t tell anyone okay,Joe Jonas

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petersburg8 writes:

	i think its ok 2 keep a secret crush but u should tell ur friends 2 if u want i mean they should knowcause if u start datin the guy u like.

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BSGRSOCOOL121 writes:

	come on char, tell nick u like him, i no he likes u. it will make the books more interesting. it's all about the romance and drama char. BSGRSOCOOL121 p.s. drama, char.,DRAMA!

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desban writes:

	i like this dude. but he asked this gurl out and she said yes. wat should i do? BSG gurls help!!!!!!!!!!!!