Welcome to the Sleepover Club! Enter your probs and q’s about boys, BFFs, and other girl stuff. Or, give advice to a Club BSGer in need! This is true sleepover talk (just no pajamas and sleeping bags required!)
like when he asked me out I was having a sleepover with my friend and he gos i like u to my friend and then says to me will u be my girlfriend and I was like wat the heck cuz we both thought he would ask my friend out
I think that it's really weird when you see people who are like 8 wearing a bra just because they want to be cool, not because they need it. It looks weird and I think they should just feel lucky that they don't need a bra yet. Does anyone agree?
well..in my school theres this cute boy and he is the popularboy in the whole school.But, i dont like him.All the other girls like him and they wont hangout with me.I cant just pretend to like him. plz give me advice. P.S. is it possible if he likes me in the class room. HELP
HI BSG, In my school we are all divided into teams. Me and my BFF are on the same team but are other friend isn't.I'm afraid that since we havn't seen her in so long that she won't be into us anymore! Help!
my best friend is so cool weve been bf's 4 3yrs but every time theres popular kids around they always pick on me and c** never backs me up she just hangs with them and if i try 2 tell her something she just pretends she can't here me what should i do
well to anser somebody queston about how can u tell if your fat. sell fo godness sakes IT DOESNT MATTER!!!! Nobody is going to care whether or not you r but if u really want to know look at the average weight for your height and find out from that.
Happyluckythingylover, Hi Sidnee#8 here to help you out! First no one probably asks you out because you are not very old and boys your age are not really into girls yet! So don't worry just keep being yourself! I am sure you are wonderful!!!!! Also if the other girls are getting asked out who cares! Just be you and everything will fall into place! Trust me when you are older you will get that going out is not just because everyone else is! It is because you like this boy! So don't go out with someone just because everyone else is! You need to ask yourself it you want this for the right reasons! Or it might not be fair to him! Tell me if you need something else! K! -Sidnee#8
Hey girls! Have I ever been asked out? No way! Have other people in my class? Yes way! I feel like a misfit! IDK, am I not pretty enough? Is it what I wear? Please please help me! It sounds really stupid, but I kinda want to be asked out... what should I do to make that a possibility?
kickergirle, okay, the answer to your first question: yes, the "cool" people are mean, but that doesn't mean they are popular. like in the bsg books nobody likes anna and joline, but they're still popular. the answer to your second question: i started wearing a bra when i was 13 years old. hope that answers your questions!
to answer LONGSANDS question about who has ever gotten asked out I once got asked out by this boy during the summer after 4th grade at a swim meet... well all these boys came up with him and they forced him to throw this candy at me well i mean give it to me i said no immetealtly and then didnt talk to him for like 5 months(i was like a huge tomboy then) now u could call me girly but not like over the to like this one girl.
Hey I have a question, at your guyes school r the most popular girls really mean? or r they really nic which meks them popular also what do they look like and act like?
everytime i think of wat boy i like, i think about wat it would be like if say we did go out, then i get all like ewww just at the thought. all my friends are ready for boys, but i'd rather just be friends
LONGSANDS, sleep on it and really think if u like this guy or not. if u decide not, its easy, but if u decide u do, its a bit harder. if u dont want 2 do it in person write him a note and say "I made a mistake saying no yesterday, and i really like you. Will you give me a second chance? If you ask me out again, my answer will be yes. I just was surprised yesterday and well my reaction was instantly no. Id really like this chance." Hope this helps!
hannahmontana419, tell them...this happens 2 me alot! theyll force it out of u by begging any ways...trust me, i no from experience. if they re really ur friends they wont laugh, well maybe they will but their not being mean 2 u, theyre ur friends, of course they have 2 tease u sometime! hope this helps!!
softballchick20, great! isnt superchick awesome. bowling ball really helps u get through the ruffs of being single and back into the world of flirting! but my fav song is "One Girl Revolution" i normally dont have a fav song, so this is a coinky-dink...but wbu???
Hey Girls, Anyone that wants to talk to me join in! K! How are you all?!?! Anything you need help/advice with? Tell me if so I will try to help you out! -Sidnee#8 P.S. All you girls on here give REALLY, REALLY GOOD advice keep it up!
hey this is k_flirty i hav a boy in my class and everbody says he likes me but i think he likes a different girl because she is the most popular and well i am kind of jelious of her cause all the boys love her. wat do u think i should do???
dear HANNAHMONTANA419 I think you shouldn't tell your friends who's your other crush until u find the right moment and first tell just one bff(the one u trust more) and then to the others.
It's ok not to tell your friends you like him, but if they're true friends, then it won't really matter. As for good songs, check out Joss Stone or John Mayer!
lilgirlyme: you should do whatever you think. it's perfectly fine to keep it a secret but maybe you could tell ONE of your friends who you trust to keep it a secret (or even tell your crush if you want)
hey lilgirlyme it is fine not to tell anyone! if u trust someone u can tell them, but it is up to u so u decide! and love song by sara bareillis, low by flo rida, feels like tonight by chris daughtry, our song and teardrops on my guitar by taylor swift are good
hey peeps out there!! does anyone have an answer to this question: is it ok to not tell this guy or any of my friends that i like him?? i think he likes me back but i am not sure and i think my friends may make fun of me for liking him cuz he is a year younger than me. help!!! o and does anyone know good songs??
fashionluvr03, i checked out all of Superchicks songs, and i especially like"Bowling Ball". it is so cool. it makes me feel better about being single when i listen to it. What r some of ur other favorite songs?
hey, all u peeps with guy problems...ive had a bf already dis year and it was sorta like having a commitment, i didnt no him dat well, and i still liked other guys. when he broke up with me i was pretty relived. ppls, b-ing single is sooooo much better! u r soooooo free 2 flirt with any1! guys as friends are great, because they can get the other genders' point of view...nd they normally like asking ppl out 4 u...weather u like it or not, sometimes a good and bad thing...back 2 the b-ing single is better thing. k so have u ever heard of the song, "Bowling Ball" by Superchick? probably not, the choras is "you need that boy like a bowling ball, dropped on your head, which means not at all, you have to much to give, to live, the waste your time on him" this song is such a insperation! u dont need a bf! just b happy with ur friends! go on itunes and listen 2 it, mayb buy it. nd whenever u have guy problems...listen 2 it...Superchicks other songs such as "One Girl Revolution" are also inspiring songs, u should take a look! luv u all!
Charlotte22, ur really good @ giving advice, just reading wat uve said, i think u shud start a newspaper with some friends, or b on the school newspaper @ ur skool, b-ing the "dear abby" person...
hey abz...Thank u SO much for the advice. You r really good at stuff like that, and anyone else who agrees with me that abz is a great online buddy please click on the heart below.
hey sporti gurl22, thanks for liking my advice, i like giving it out ,i love helping people when it's something i'm good at! I guess i like charlotte the most, and i am prob. most like katani to. --abz p.s. come vist me at the dancing with the stars pg.
Hey guys I just finished reading another BSG book and it was AWESOME! Marty was so funny in it! Please gimme a heart if you think Marty is the most adorable dog a girl can read about. ~softballchick20
skiergirl, I've been homescholed all my life, and it rocks! Do you like it so far? And there are other sorces of seeing your friends, and making new ones! And BTW, aren't peopole supposed to talk about sleepovers on this page?
softballchick20, i have some advice for u,be nice with here and hang out once in a while but don't tell her secrets and stuff, i would not trust her. --abz hope this helps write back, and if u want more advice just ask!
hey...i have a little problem. theres this girl in my grade whos a little bit difficult to be with. Sometimes she can be so nice and you can definitely trust her, but other times she gets angry at a person and gets people to ignore that person too. Its really not nice and it really hurts peoples feelings. i know because shes done it to me before. Do you think i should keep her as a friend or not? Someone please give me advice!
Hey guys i really think that they should make a BSG movie on a like tropical island. That would be sooo cool. If you want them to make a movie and you agree with me, click on the heart below!
ok,i will be friends with raco-chic, sporti gurl22,sindee8,penguinsrule584,softballchick20, leaofparis,and anyone who wants to be my friend! --abz p.s.happy easter!
i have been in the exact same situation as you. Me and my BFF were split up in grade 5. I think if you hang out with her everyday at lunch, you guys will stay close. also invite her over a lot, that will show her you care. --raro chic p.s. hope my advice helps p.p.s. i'll try give u more advice if u need it!!
thanks for the advice. i kinda understand what's going on now, and i'll just wait and see what happens. i just thought being friends with his sis may be a problem because they hate each other (at school). I think this will help heaps!!
I LOVE the BSG books SO much and I would love it if there was a BSG movie!!!!!!!So please Charlotte, Katani, Maeve, Avery, and Isabel PLEASE, PLEASE consider it. thanx... and anyone else who agrees with me please click on the heart below!!!!!
hey y'all. i luv BSG! anyway, my friend is completely ignoring me... so maybe she isn't my friend???? But i have like 20 other BFFs. Don't be shy, just go out there and say, 'hi!' remember, the more, the merrier!!!
raro chic: hey thanks for being my online buddy, and i have some advice for you,I kinda have like the same exact problem,but from what you told me i think that he might either be trying to make u jealous or make u notice him, or is just a nice guy, or the last thing is just friends with the girl.Never assume the worst look for the bright side on things.Also their is nothing wrong with being friends with your crushes sis. --abz p.s i hope this helps p.p.s if you want more advice i'm still here for you!
Chocolatte: I hope so too! Really, really hope so. I've got one fantabulous BFF she's the one I go to for laughs and a ton of fun! I swear, someone could put us in a box for a day and we wouldn't get (too) bored! We entertain each other so well! But T is the one with the sholder to cry on you know? Like the "true blue me and you" kind of girl. I love her to death and everything but...IDK. I guess it's like she's slipping away you know? And I miss her. We tried talking about it but we just ended up crying so THAT didn't work out to well. And ideas? I'll try anything at this point.
Dear mk156 maybe u should talk to your friends? or maybe its other people that she is hanging out with try to find out who!!or it could be that her anger is getting the best of her write back!!
Hey mk156, i had this problem last year and do u no what i did?? i told her she was being a monster by saying " HEY _____(freinds name)why are you being all mean of a sudden i mean we were BFF and no you are acking like you dont even no me wats up??
i sit with my bffs at lunch but this year 2 new people have started sitting with us one has becom me friend but i dont realy like the other 1 what should i do
Charlotte22, you should try to make friend with this guy first, before you ask him out or anything. Try to get to know him better (unless you already know him), and then maybe ask him to go to a game or something with a group of friends.
Can someone give me advice for my boy prob?? I like this guy in my class, and I think he might like me. Sometimes I've looked up over near him, and he has been looking at me!! But... once he spent a whole lunchtime talking to another girl about some TV show called Naruto. And he teased (friendly) another girl IN FRONT OF ME?? Does that mean he likes me and he is trying to get my attention, or he likes the other girl??? SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME!!
By the way, I am good friends with my crush's sister, is that a problem??
ok here goes......I kiiiinda like this guy but I kiiiinda dont I have no idea what to think I mean he already has a gf and she is my friend then again I dont really care what should I do?!
Charlotte22, I would love to be your computer friend! LOL! About the boy thing you should just be really friendly and talk to him in short sentences like hi how are you. That kind of thing so he warms up to you! Plus he won't have to talk long if you ask him short questions! Does that help much? Tell me if you need more help! K! I would help you more, but I have to get off the computer! I am 13! What is your age? -Sidnee#8
icansing2 If u dont feel right about telling him then dont but if u do then u should try telling him and if he doesnt like u back the it is his loss that is always what u should remember
Prei4cake i hav guy friends and its never weird and if people think u like a guy just cause u hang with them well they can just get over it so go find some guys u think would be cool to hang with and when u really get to know them u will find out that they can be more fun then ur friends that are girls and also if u do like a guy just be cool and confident about it that is why my boyfriend said he liked me and that goes for everyone i mean if u like a guy dont look at him like he is a god or something just be cool P.S. remember to smile !!!!!!!!
dear Kaija1997, I agree with you 100%!!!!!! This page and the whole website is totally awsome!!!!! Hey, do you want to be online friends??? Just you and me typing in the sleepover page!!!!!!!!!!!!! Type me back, PLEASE!!!!!! From, Charlotte22 PS to All, Anyone can be my friend, type me for your reply and I'll just type ya back. ( Make sure you type it in the sleepover page. I don't want to be looking in every pg. to find a message to be my friend.)
dear princessgirl5, Maybe you should consider some tutering. Then mabe you won't flunk as often. You know how you always see those Sylvan comercals? Well then, go to Sylvan. I HOPE MY ADVICE HELPS!!!!!! From Charlotte22
dear prie4cake, You don't have to be afraid of having a guy friend it dosn't mean you have a crush on them! I t just means that you're a girl and you're not afraid of hangin with guys. I have like a zillion guy friends! It's OK to hang out with guys! Just look at Avery!I hope my advice helps! From, Charlotte22 PS, just because I have alot of guy friends dosn't mean I dont' have alot of girl friends, believe me I have alot of both girl and guy friends.
dear BSG Fan, If you don't get your work, ask your mom and dad. If they don't get it, ask your teacher for some help. Chances are she will be more than happy to help!I HOPE MY ADVICE HELPS! From, Charlotte22
dear zanessa112233, If you need some advice, I'm here for ya! I've given alot of advice to alot of people! I can handle any problem you got! Type me back! From Charlotte22
dear carogirlftw, You should hang out with him more. Get to know him better. And if he is a real friend he'll spill everything! Ask yourself these questions: Does he avoid me often? is he acting weird? If he is acting pretty strange ask him what's up. But, you have to hang with him.....alot! After a few weeks with him go on and tell him how you feel! GOOD LUCK!!!!!! From, Charlotte22 PS, don't go after the new guy, he's new! Give him some space and time. And if it dosn't work out with your guy BFF, than go after the new dude! GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!! I HOPE MY ADVICE HELPS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I need help I am kind of smart but when the information gets put on a test I flunk the test. Which of course when it comes to PSSA times and I fail it I have to do PSSA workbooklets! What is wrong with me!!!
dear sidnee#8, I need an online friend! Would you like to be my friend? Anyway could you give me some advice I'm having a problem with a crush I am totally ignored! HELP! From hopefully your new friend, Chalotte22 PS, Other people could also help me with my problem!
dear icansing2, Well it depends on what he's like and if you feel confident enough to tell him how you feel. You need to think about what will happen when you tell him. Anyway I say go for it if your confident enough From, Charlotte22
Dear BSGlover92595, OK, all you have to do is ask if you can hang around with him with a few of your BFFs. And if he dosen't notice you still try being a flirt without looking like one! I tried it once and it worked! GOOD LUCK! From, Charlotte22
Hey everyone! I have this huge crush on this super sweet, super funny, and incredibly cute guy! I don't know if I should tell him how I feel our not. What should I do? SOMEONE, ANYONE, HELP!!!!!!! From, Charlotte22
i like these two guys in class- one's been my friend all year & the others a new student. the one i've always like sits in front of me in class, but i don't know if he'z already dating someone or not. he iz a really nice guy.........help!
Dear enleen_sakura, Well, make sure you stay awake in class. And ask your teacher!!! SHe will explain it to you. And she wont tell anyone. So, hope that helps.
Heyy everyone.. i like this boy liek alot! but.. theres one problem ive never really talked to him and i dont even think he knows im alive.. what should i do?! HELP
prei4cake- I have lots of regular friends who are boys. They are all really nice and at times are more fun to be with than my girl friends! ♥hermione23
skierGIRL dont worry 1 of my friends is considering going 2 a private school and if she goes, we'll just hang out more often on weekends and stuff. u cando the same with ur friends
prei4cake; i don't have a boyfriend but it's not a big deal, i mean i kinda like someone but it''s not like i'm going go go over him just be yourself ---abz ps if anyone needs advice i love to help out anyone in need just at the top leave my name then write that way i know
enleen_sakura- Pay attention in class. if you don't get something ask a teacher (if you don't feel comfortable asking during class ask after class). If you need help with subjects like science or social studies than you can go on the computer and find different websites that state the information you don't get in an easy to understand way. For writing, if you need a good beginning look at different books beginnings to get ideas and inspiration (dont be a copy cat!) For reading practice reading different leveled books.
skierGIRL just tell your friends! if they're really your friends, they'll be awesome about it. A girl in my class said she was getting homeschooled and her bff took it REALLY well. And if you don't want to tell them straight to their face, IM them! Text them, email them! averyisthebest
enleen_sakura: Why can't you ask for help from a friend? A true friend will stick with you no matter what, remember that. Maybe you could consider hiring a tutor. Or, do you have any older siblings?
skierGIRL, here's some advice: play a sport or take a class. This is a great way to make friends. Be open to new friendship opportunities. Make new friends, but keep the old. Also, being homeschooled might not be too bad! You might even enjoy it. I wish you the best of luck!
My BFFs did the nicest thing! I was (and still am) having the worst time ever. So they went out and bought the book Just Kidding. They knew that me and my friend who moved away last year loved the BSG. So on every single page they wrote all sorts of notes. I think my fave was "Em u and i will always be BFFs" It ment a lot to me. Now, one of the girls is not my BFF and the other one is shakey. But I'm winning her back thank God. But this school year has been an ordeal I'll never ever forget.
I would LOVE to be your friend! Do you mean your friends will not help you out with your school!?!?! What do you need help with I am an A student so if you need help with anything just tell me and I bet I can help! Okay! -Sidnee#8 P.S. Anyone can be my friend anytime K!
enleen_sakura, First why not stay with your friend and say hey can you come over to my house I need some help with school work! If they are good friends they will help just like the BSG help Maeve with her math! -Sidnee#8
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First no one probably asks you out because you are not very old and boys your age are not really into girls yet! So don't worry just keep being yourself! I am sure you are wonderful!!!!! 
