Should You Tell Him?

girl_cellphone_240.jpgI know what you’re thinking: “I have a crush… should I tell him???” If you’re like me, you might spend hours, days, MONTHS agonizing over the pros, the cons, the consequences, and the risks. You’ve played out the scene in your head hundreds of times, but when it comes down to actually doing it, the right time never seems to come. Take my mini-quiz below and find out if you should take the plunge!  Or, spend a few minutes answering the questions on our new survey; it's all about boys and dating and stuff!

1. I have a crush on…
(a) a guy friend. We tell each other everything!
(b) a boy in my class who I talk to sometimes.
(c) a guy I’ve never actually met before.

2. He is soooo cute! But, what I also like about him is that…
(a) he tries hard in school and he’s nice to me and other people.
(b) he’s kind of shy, so he’s a little mysterious and cool.
(c) he’s super smart and everyone loves him.

3. I feel like maybe he likes me, too, because…
(a) he really listens me and we always have fun together.
(b) he kind of looks at me funny sometimes and smiles.
(c) we had to hold hands at an assembly, and I think he squeezed my hand!

4. My crush’s friends…
(a) are kind of like my friends, too. We can hang out and it’s totally cool.
(b) are kind of loud, but I don’t really know them.
(c) are not my friends. I don’t even know who they are!

5. My BFFs don’t know I like him. If they found out, they’d probably be like…
(a) “I knew it! You guys are always hanging out together!”
(b) “Cool! Since you only kinda know him, want me to go talk to him for you?”
(c) “Wow… he doesn’t even know your name. How will you get him to notice you?”



If you answered mostly A’s: You and this boy have a great thing going as friends, which is awesome! But, keep in mind that even if you both like each other, it doesn’t mean you HAVE to be bf/gf. Like, if one of you isn’t ready to be more than friends, things COULD get awkward for a while. But, if that’s a risk you’re willing to take, I’d say go for it!

If you answered mostly B’s: Ladies, this might be the beginning of a beautiful friendship. lol! Think about sending out the good-friend vibe first, rather than the crush vibe. Give him some time to get to know you (and you him)—otherwise, he might feel overwhelmed and totally surprised knowing you like him. In this situation, go with your gut!

If you answered mostly C’s: These crushes are sometimes the best because you get to daydream all day long about what he’s probably like and how sweet he would be if he found out you like him. In your head, he’s the perfect boy. But, in reality, he might not be right for you! Definitely get to know him as a friend first to see if you guys are cool as friends. If you’re not, it might be time to notice OTHER boys!

Bottom Line: Many girls have crushes that they keep secret, and that’s totally OK. Some girls and guys even have crushes on each other and never really admit it. That’s also OK. Don’t feel pressure to try to make your feelings into a bf/gf relationship before you’re ready.

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you tell us ...
Have you ever told a crush you like him? Tell us what happened!

XOXO,

 



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Maeve30 writes:

I have never told a crush i like him but i know a great friend who wants to. But shes nervous he would feel the same way. Lots of girls have the fear but that shouldn't stop you from telling him. You could tell me and if he says 'i think of you as just a friend', say okay me too, and shake it off like it didn't matter much. If he says yes then you can agree and make him feel important. By telling all that hidden emotion is cramped inside of you and it really is unhealthy. You'll just dwell on something and once you get it over with them you will feel so much better. Move on with your live. One guy isn't worth all that time of your and effort. Be proud of yourself for trying and don't give up. Someone will be out their to return your feelings and make you feel great. If you enjoy this advice please click the heart. My goal is to get 20 people to like my story and then use it and be happy with themselves. Please, if you like it more like this will come your way so please CLICK THE HEART!! smilies/smiley.gif smilies/smiley.gif smilies/smiley.gif

Good Luck!!!!!!

-Maeve30 smilies/wink.gif smilies/wink.gif smilies/cheesy.gif smilies/grin.gif smilies/smiley.gif smilies/smiley.gif
 

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katanilove writes:

i told xxxx that my friend, maevegirly, liked him. she was really mad. she said 'you were my best friend! how could you tell him?!' and then i said 'i'm your best friend? you're not mine!' 'oh, i am really mad!' eventually we made peace, but not after a while. and now we aren't bff's. just regular friends.
 

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sidnee#8 writes:

#1jobrosfan,
Hey I've been good! Summer is awesome for me so far! Lots of swim team, time with friends and family, and working in the garden. Today it's 98 degrees outside!
-Sidnee#8
P.S. How are you? smilies/wink.gif
 

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sidnee#8 writes:

Bsgmea13,
Hey girl! I think you should have a heart to heart talk with your BFF I know what you mean she is a good friend, but sometimes it's like why are you trying to be someone else your great the way you are! You should go to your friend and say Hey I LOVE you as a friend, but some of the things you say hurt me. I hope things work out for you and your friend!
-Sidnee#8 smilies/wink.gif
 

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bsgmea13 writes:

Sidnee#8 (but if u have any advice if u aren't her, don't hesitate to tell me),
I don't care if u don't read this until u get back from camp, but I need help! And this has nothing to do with boys or dating, but I knew u were here so please help me!

My friend sometimes calls me a dork and a nerd and kind of acts like she's way out of my league (me behind below her). Now, don't get the idea she's a bad friend cuz she isn't. Sometimes when u bring out the bad spots in people they seem awful, but I swear she's not. And this is just some of the time. But I get really annoyed by the way she acts, and I don't know what to do.

PLEASE HELP!!!

-mea smilies/cheesy.gif
 

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#1jobrosfan writes:

hey sidnee#8,
havne't talked 2 u in a while
how have u been???
 

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MIAMI CHICK writes:

i had a crush. he lyked me so i lyked him. smilies/wink.gif
 

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estephanie0808 writes:

my story is long the guy i like is so cute and he has a little mohacki tryed to tell himm but he told me insted my cousins asked him out for me and he said yes smilies/grin.gif smilies/grin.gif smilies/grin.gif smilies/grin.gif smilies/grin.gif smilies/grin.gif smilies/grin.gif
 

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sidnee#8 writes:

thinkpink16,
That is awesome your moving on! I feel bad about what happend, but I'm glad you taking it well! Your friend prob. wants you to have an awesome summer so don't get all down go out and have fun! So you can tell her all the stuff you did this summer! Ya my crush I think we will be better off as friends for now. I mean if he asks me if we want to be more then friends I MIGHT says yes, but until then I'm really cool with just friends! He is an awesome friend that I would never want to loose. Plus he lives so far away so it would be hard. Anyway at my swim team there is thsi REALLY CUTE GUY!! Everyone is always flirting with him and you can tell he gets kind of mad with them because he doesn't want to be Gf Bf with them. It's funny because the girl he asked to be his Gf (she is not on the swim team some different girl) doesn't want to be more then just friends! It's crazy! Oh well just thought I would tell you that! Have an aweosme summer!
-Sidnee#8 smilies/wink.gif
 

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glittergirl53 writes:

of course!!!! i walked up 2 him and said,"hey, i like u" and he went,"i like u 2" and now he's my boyfriend!
 

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genesis22 writes:

for one thing is good but what if he dosen't like you then your gona get hurt but just take a chance!
 

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purpleone writes:

I will never tell him myself. my friends would tell him for me. they will also call me a chiken.
 

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thinkpink16 writes:

Hey Actress616!
I definitely think we could be awesome freinds! well I just finished 6th grade and after the summer I will be in 7th grade. I am 12 1/2 right now.

Your Friend,
ThinkPink16 ♥
 

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thinkpink16 writes:

Hey Sidnee#8!!!
I have been doing awesome! I finally had the guts to tell my crush but my bff did it at a party. It was my 6th grade end of the year party and I absolutely knew the time was right, so my bff told and when she did he said ok and walked away. I was majorly embarrassed when my bff told me what he did!!! I was like hiding outside while it happened! At the party I went outside to get some air because it was really stuffy and exactly as I walked in I saw him give this girl a hug, that like broke my heart because as I walked in they were dancing with eachother. I am just going to move on. But at least I finally did it and just told. My best friend went off to camp for the whole entire summer this morning, I am gonna miss her!! OMG happy belated birthday!!!! Wow your 14 now!! I am turning 13 in september! That is majorly awesome that you not only saw your BFF but saw her brother too!! That must have been the greatest thing!
Hope to hear from you soon,
Your Friend,
ThinkPink16♥
 

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alenaz writes:

Erm....my crush is 5 years older than me he is my senior in scouts....and we always talk to each other through instant messanging and most of the time during our extra-curriculum...erm...i confessed to him...and erm...he laughed at itwhen i told him its true he stopped and changed the subject...but we still talk like usual...though i feel quite sad that its impossible to be together,i really like him because he is so nice and caring and i just wanna open him up,he seems to always bottle most of his secrets...is it possible to be together??I really like him,i think he is really different from the other guys i've liked and dated.
 

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JIMJOE writes:

well one time my friend told him and he just said ok but now whenever he cs me he stares and/or blushes so i dont know

with this other guy she told him right b4 i sat down and i didnt know so he stared at me and told me he knew everything and i was like wat then she told me outside and i freaked out
 

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actress616 writes:

Maevegirly,
i feel so bad for you. If you can't trust your best friend, who can you trust?
actress616
 

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sidnee#8 writes:

thinkpink16,
OMG your back!!!!!! How have you been? I'm good My Birthday was yesterday! I'm now 14! Swim team is going great! My BFF that I only see once a year come for a week and surprised me for my Birthday! I got to see her Brother for a day! We are really good as just friends! He is an awesome friend cute/nice/funny/fun to be around we I think I'm doing awesome!
-Sidnee#8 smilies/wink.gif
 

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actress616 writes:

thinkpink16,
I think we could be great friends. Don't you? Tell me a little about you (no personal info). Age, and grade. i am 11 years old and in 6th grade.
actress616
 

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maevegirly writes:

my best friend told xxxx that I liked him.
I was really mad!
 

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ICantSeeMyForhead writes:

OMG this quiz tottally worked, Thank Maeve! smilies/wink.gif
 

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love2cook writes:

i never told him that i liked him, but we just sorta became bf/gf. and now we're best friends, AND bf/gf! he is soooo sweet and nice, and he always listens to me, and supports me in whatever i want to do. we both always have a great and fun time with each other...
 

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artk writes:

Yes and no... somone other than me told him (shudder). Let's just say lots of laughter, staring, and tears. (that was me)
 

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thinkpink16 writes:

Hey Actress616!

Your welcome! When ever you need some just write to me!!
Your Friend,
ThinkPink16♥
 

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actress616 writes:

thinkpink16,

Thx for the great advice. I'll be sure to use it!

actress616
 

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Sportygrl19 writes:

well in kindergarden my friend told him
 

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Sportygrl19 writes:

yes because i ashed him out HE SAID YES! smilies/grin.gif smilies/grin.gif smilies/grin.gif smilies/grin.gif
 

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1743 writes:

yes i asked him out and at first he said yes than maybe then his friend told him not to and he said no smilies/sad.gif smilies/sad.gif
 

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BekahSkittles1213 writes:

Help me

I don't know if my crush likes me or not.Could someone help me figure that out?
 

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Poison writes:

yes i have and now i dont know if i really want to go out with him he keeps asking but it went perfect when i asked him he was waiting on me to ask him first i'm so happy
 

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Astronomeer writes:

Dear cutie1234,
You don't have to forget your crush imediatly. It's OK to be sad for a day or 2, but don't let it ruin your life. It may take awhile to get over this bump in the road, but you will get over it. Consider telling a close friend (not his crush) about your feelings, or writing them in a notebook.Never be afriad to tell a friend about your hurts.

Sypathy and Love,
Astronomeer

 

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Astronomeer writes:

Dear Maeve,
I wrote a letter to my crush and left it on his desk after school. The next mornig, I found the note on my desk with the words I ALREADY HAVE A GIRLFRIEND scribbled in red marker. I was TOTALY embarrased!!

Love,
Astronomeer
 

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thinkpink16 writes:

Hey Actress616!
WOW I would be so tempted to tell my friends who i met at a bat mitzvah! Anywayz i think that you should say something simple to him like say "I had a great time at the bar mitzvah did you have fun too?" say something like that and that will get a conversation flowing for you! That happens a lot of the time like I really really had a crush on this boy and at school he would hardly talk to me as much as he did outside of school. I think if you talk to him then something could happen! Hope that helps!

ThinkPink16 xoxo

P.S. I suggest you tell your friends because they could give you some advice also! smilies/wink.gif
 

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actress616 writes:

I have a crush on a boy. My friends and family have no idea. Shh! Please don't tell them. But, well, I don't even know if i really like him. Girls, I need your help!

I went to his sister's bat mitzvah. He asked me to dance for lots of songs, including one slow dance. He gave me about 10 necklaces that light up (from the DJ), and he was such a gentlemen. Nobody we knew was there (in 5th grade). So noone knows. But at school he acts like a total jerk to everyone. We never did anything together since then (we didn't do anything before either) so, gals plz help me decide.
 

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lilmama1 writes:

I told my crush I liked him over the phone I was talking to his cousin (she is my BFFL) and he was just talking about me alot then my BFF gave him the phone and I was like do you like me because I really like you
 

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Daddyz girl writes:

i have a crush on a cute boy
 

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monkeygurl123 writes:

pturtle dont worry i would be inberessed to
 

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iloveyou13 writes:

dear avery4ever,
maybe you should ask him who he likes, but if he doesn't tell you whothen no luck! who do you think he mostly hangs out with? maybe that's the girl that he likes. CHAO!!!

iloveyou13

p.s.did it work?

 

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pturtle writes:

yea i have told one of my crushes i liked him and heres what happened.ok i was walking and thinking of how i was going to tell him.and then i approched him and i got nerves then everything just came out.and then i was hoping he would ay that he liked me back but instead he laghed soooo hard he fell on the gound i was sooooo embarrest! smilies/sad.gif
 

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thinkpink16 writes:

HEY EVERYONE!!!!
I havent been on this website in like forever!! Some of you probably forget me but I am thinkpink16 and I love helping girls with everyday problems. So if you need me feel free to write!

XOXO,
♥♥♥ThinkPink16♥♥♥
 

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iloveyou13 writes:

at the 1st day of school, he kinda talked to me and at the nearly end of the school year, our whole school have a block party, and the principal said to get a partner and he chosed me! i coudn't believ it! smilies/wink.gif smilies/wink.gif
 

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smsgirl12 writes:

I have a crush on this guy and he knows it! My bff told him one day when I was sick and I was so mad! He tottlly flirts w/ me all the time! One day Ryan( the crush) and a guy in his carpool were talking and the guy asked me if I like ryan, and I said no! I was so happy that i didn't tell the truth!

peace out ya'll
 

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BabyAly1290 writes:

Well, when I told my crush I liked him, he went crazy. After like a week he asked my BFF out, which made me feel worse. smilies/angry.gif
But he has a friend and we like eachother, but we're not going out... yet.
 

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cutie1234 writes:

hi , there is this guy i really really like but he likes my friend i am trying to forget him but i cant please tell me how i can forget him
 

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BrynnWins writes:

kioboo22 u should try to connect with him comunication is key and let the harmony flow if you get to know him and connect there be somthing new try too start by ASKING his intrests give him a wave smile try to indicate you're like intrested.
 

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littlemis writes:

My friend was at my house and she told a guy on msn from our class who I like so we had to bribe him a pop to keep his mouth shut. But he told the boy I like...and then on msn I was talking to the boy I like and then he tricked me into telling him the truth so now he knows for sure. He's got a demin to him...but he's sometimes shy and WAY cute!
 

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crush writes:

I like a boy and I told my friend to ask and he said I don't want to hurt her fellings, but I don't.I could not belive it but I truly belive he likes me.I know when I am not looking I am still watching him.He is staring. smilies/wink.gif smilies/wink.gif smilies/grin.gif smilies/cheesy.gif smilies/smiley.gif
 

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Amie104 writes:

One time I told a guy I liked him and he totally flipped out! He was all " Oh Snap! What am I gonna tell ***** (his twin!) And then he said sorry but I don't want to ruin my relationship with my twin.smilies/angry.gifAnd then he said I was cute!!! YAY!! smilies/cheesy.gif
 

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BSG Fan writes:

MY BFS THINK THAT EVERY BOY LIKE ME.THE BOYS LOOK AT ME AND TALK TO ME ALOT.I GET SO MAD AT THEM SOMETIMES. smilies/smiley.gif
 

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soccerGod writes:

hey people it is me soccergod sorry i havent been on in a very very long time!!!!!!!! so yeah i can see people r having bf already that kewl my advice is u should go up to who ever u like and just tell them u like him u never know he might like u back if he doesnt that ok cuz there proablly someone else who likes u that how i got my bf!!
soccerGod
 

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kewlkween writes:

haha... im mostly A's... he asked me out and now we are gf and bf.... and I heard him say that on the last day of school he wants to kiss me smilies/shocked.gif!!!!!
«3
 

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mikala45 writes:

it was so cool when he told me liked me so i told him i liked him too! mikala45
 

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mikala45 writes:

yes,it was cool and he saidhe like me too.we are bf and gf now smilies/cheesy.gif smilies/grin.gif smilies/cool.gif smilies/kiss.gif
 

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diduno11 writes:

There's thise guy, (the same guy as before), and I dont think he likes me but people keep telling me he does and he PRATICALLY was waiting for me at my locker until he realized what a weird he looked like just standing there watching me walk down the hallway! It was funny, but yeah HELp!!!!
 

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sidnee#8 writes:

JesusLover101,
First LOVE your name!! I think you should totally ask him out!!!! Go girl go!!!
-Sidnee#8 smilies/wink.gif
 

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Crystalbreeze99 writes:

Well this boy liked me and told me. then i was to embarrased to answer his questions so 2 of my Bffs were messengers and told me his questions an i would have to anwer!I think he should have told me he liked me when we become friends. smilies/shocked.gif smilies/shocked.gif
 

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Suzy101355615 writes:

I love someone at my school and he is so cool and I will not get to see him over the summer. smilies/sad.gif
 

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JesusLover101 writes:

Yes I have! He was like okay and he sorta smiled. He says he doesn't like me but I KNOW HE DOES!! He acts like it all the time. When we were swimming at this lady's house he wanted me to race him and see who got to the other side first. I said no and then he said come on it will be fun and i'll let you win. Then he did and my friend said awwwwwwwwww he likes you. I said yea Ik. Then he said when the Bible drillers go to six flags he will only talk to me and he likes this other girl and not me. But he is cute sorta. Please click the ♥ if you think I should ask him out.
 

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kiaboo22 writes:

i tried 2 talk to him but he kept walkin away nobody kno i lyk him and mi friend also lyk him and people kno that she lyk him...sholud i tell him or just walk away...WHAT SHOULD I DO??????plz telll me iam so confused smilies/sad.gif smilies/cry.gif
 

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Martyroxs005 writes:

I took maeve's quiz and got mostly c's. the guy i like, well we only cross paths in Band and hallways, so how would i talk 2 him? thats why i have c's. Ive liked him 4 a long time though- like almost a yr- i have trouble letting him go- i need some way 2 get 2 know him! HELP!
 

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Martyroxs005 writes:

Im always nervous around the guy i like. he knows who i am(long story)- we went 2 the same elemtary school- never in any classes 2gether- in middle school- met my BFF #2,- actually knew who he was- (long story 2 why she knew him)- liked him- he met me- end of it. I havent spoken 2 him in like...... 8 months. Yeah and it was one of those, hi's and cya's. Then I 'liked' him. Should i do something???
~Martyroxs005
 

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maeve fan 4ever writes:

omg i told 1 person who i like and now every 1 knows!!!!even the person i like!!!!
 

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maeve fan 4ever writes:

Well i really like this guy but he just asked my bff out and im totaly happy for her cuz she liked him too!!But now i have no idea if itz time to move on to another guy!This is sooo serios cuz this guy is totaly cute but he likes my bff so Meave please help me out here im like totaly freakin out!!!! smilies/tongue.gif smilies/tongue.gif
xoxo,
meavefan4ever
 

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tyteonna writes:

wat's up ya'll
 

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maevealicious#1fan writes:

when i was out of the classroom my BFF told him!!! smilies/angry.gif but thats because he asked her if i liked him. he has a crush on me too smilies/grin.gif so i'm not mad at my best friend
 

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AmyRose writes:

um... my crush story is i was gonna tell this guy but i told my frendz 1st and 1 of them told a blabrmouth hu told my crush and people asked him out 4 me SO EMBARRASSING! -//////////-
 

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joejonas is mine writes:

hi girls. i think your in a shock for this, my crush has a GIRLFRIEND.
I WAS SO SAD WHEN I FOUND OUT THE ONLY 1 WHO KNOW I LIKE HIM IS MY BFF.

PLEASE HELP ME I NEED ALOT ADVICE.
THANKS.
JOEJONAS IS MINE
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flowerprincess13 writes:

i had a crush on my friends boyfriend.i had waited until i had the nerve to tell him, and when i did, he said " i dont like you and i NEVER will!!" so that is my crush story. wats yours?
 

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sidnee#8 writes:

tngirl20,
everyone has a crush even if they don't know it!
-Sidnee#8 smilies/wink.gif smilies/wink.gif
 

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tngirl20 writes:

if you don't have a crush your not a real girl
 

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tngirl20 writes:

can i join in? smilies/cry.gif
 

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tngirl20 writes:

i got a smilies/tongue.gif
 

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MickeyMouse78 writes:

i GOT B.
& it totally fits me ! smilies/smiley.gif (L)
 

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BSG Fan writes:

I will tell a boi if I have a crush on them... I am a real girl not fake...
 

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kenzie98 writes:

NO WAY! I WOULD BE WAY TOO EMBARESED! I ACTRULLY KNOW HE DOSEN'T LIKE ME @ ALL! smilies/smiley.gif smilies/wink.gif smilies/cheesy.gif smilies/grin.gif smilies/sad.gif smilies/shocked.gif smilies/cool.gif smilies/tongue.gif smilies/kiss.gif smilies/tongue.gif smilies/kiss.gif smilies/cool.gif smilies/shocked.gif smilies/sad.gif smilies/grin.gif smilies/cheesy.gif smilies/wink.gif smilies/smiley.gif
 

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sidnee#8 writes:

bsgmea13,
I'm so glad I could help! Just be your self! Tell me how it turns out!
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sugarbeanie writes:

1 time i was at camp & i told my friends who i likd & they told him. & i wantd them 2 tell him.(i dont like this guy anymore, btw) they askd him more than 1nce, & 1 time he told my bff he tell her latr,& anothr time he just got all red in the face & ran off. come 2 find out he didnt like me! can u believe it!!!! i was totally bummd!

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bsgmea13 writes:

sidnee#8,
Thank u!!!!!!!!!! U r such a good friend! You totally helped!
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bballchick6 writes:

i told a crush i liked him. i told his best friend, stupid i know. i called him at the beach and told him i love him, and he said great. and after i stopped liking him, he liked me.WHAT A DIASTER!!!
 

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Ellareyan writes:

NO NO NEVER NEVER
I don't have a crush
True smilies/wink.gif
 

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sidnee#8 writes:

bsgmea13,
I'm TOTALLY not laughing at you! My sister is the same way and sometimes me too! But I look at it this way if you tell him either way you will be glad you did tell him. Because if he says he does like you it will be cool because more things will happen and if he says no at least you can go on and forget about him!
Does this help? Hope so!
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bsgmea13 writes:

sidnee#8,
Ur going to b laughing when u read this, but now I can't get up the nerve 2 ask him! I AM SUCH A CHICKEN!!!! Ugh! Do u have any tips 4 this?
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sidnee#8 writes:

avery4ever,
Well just say something like "Do you like me? I was just wondering because I think I might like you, well that is if you like me." If he says no then make sure your still friend!
-Sidnee#8
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avery4ever writes:

wait, what should I say???????
 

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sidnee#8 writes:

avery4ever,
Well if you ask him I'm here for you! Keep me posted!
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avery4ever writes:

sidnee,
thank you for your help. i'll tell you if i actally ask him
 

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BSGlover123 writes:

soccerGod: thanks for the advice i'll use it! thanks soo much
love you always
~*BSGl123*~
xoxo
 

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homealone writes:

nice job on doing it from e*** smilies/grin.gif
 

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soccerGod writes:

Hey BSGlover123,

well if ur crush does the samething as u at the same exact thing u never know he might like u, and he wants to be around u , or he doesnt know that he doing the samething as u.... if u want to talk to ur crush just start a conversation by hi how are you?? or did u see that last night?? just make something up.. for instance all the boys at my school play soccer and me and my friends join in.. if u crush plays in any sport or activite at recess ask if u could join..
hope that works

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BSGlover123 writes:

ok this is very confusing for me! i'll tell you why or else you won't understand why
ok well if i do somethingmy crush does the Exact same thing! what does this mean? and how can i talk to my crush more?
please help!
love,
~*BSGL123*~
xoxo
 

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sidnee#8 writes:

avery4ever,
Well I can tell you if I got a text from someone and they asked me who I liked I would say No one too. That is inless it was one of my BFFs. So he might not like anyone or he might like you, but does not want to tell your friend because he does not know if you like him. The only way to fine out is to really ask him yourself.
-Sidnee#8
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avery4ever writes:

sidnee#8,
thank you for the help. But there's 1 problem. my friend txted him who do you like and he said nowone . I dont know if he just didnt want to tell her or if he actually doesnt like anyone.
 

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sidnee#8 writes:

bsgmea13,
Your welcome Keep me posted on what happens!
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boylver writes:

well he told me he liked me and then i found out he was a tottal liar and cheap too he gave me stinky perfume and a dirty bear for valentine day but hes awfully sweet bbut i broke up with him and now alll the boys like me for some reason and i rly like this other boy
 

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spellbee12 writes:

my bff [who iz also the xgf of the guy who mite like me] iztryng 2 get us 2gether!!!!!! she textd me his #[which i deleted],told him 2 ask me 2 the end of the yr.dance,-& now that yrbookz r gng out,i had him sign it[were kinda friends] then she got it from him & wrote his # in pen!!!!!!!then 2day @ lunch,she went up 2 him in the snack bar line,askd if she cud get anythng w? a piece of ppr[she nos she cant]then gave the ppr 2 him.IT HAD MY CELL # ONIT!!!!!!!!!!!then she told me she gave him the rejection hotline,but anothr 1 of my bffs who was there when she did it,said she really gave him my #!!!!!!!!!ive tried 2 tell her 2 stop,but she doesnt listen.what shud i do 2 get through2 her?????????
ps.she also says that when they txt each othr[theyve nown each othr longr than me]he sayz he thikz im cute & wantz 2 ask me out but isnt sure bcuz how i wud react 2 it.HELP!!!!!!!!!!
 

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bsgmea13 writes:

sidnee#8- thanks so much! I'll probably do that!
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sidnee#8 writes:

Claire,
About this boy you like it is cool that you know he likes you, but if you are not ready to go out with him then you don't have to. Are you too like bf gf? Or you just know he likes you? If you want to ask him out then go for it! But if you don't want to then don't! I hope that helps! Tell me how everything turns out! K!
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clarie writes:

sidnee#8
I like this boy and I know he likes me too but I don'tif i should ask him out or not. please help
help, clarie
 

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clarie writes:

Once one of my friends told my crush I liked him because I told her to. But once he new I was like " no i don't I...I...I like someone else. It was really wierd. But then a few weeks later he told me who he likes and he did like me and my best friend.I was always friends with him and I still am but I hope that mabey some day we could be more than friends. smilies/kiss.gif
 

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sidnee#8 writes:

abery4ever,
If you like him (sounds like you do) Then totally tell him go girl go!
-Sidnee#8
If you need anything else just post to me K! smilies/wink.gif
 

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