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A Talkative Girl Gets Tongue-Tied

Okay, so why is it that I talk up a storm with Charlotte, Isabel, Avery, and Maeve, but when it comes to talking to boys… I feel like I have nothing to say! We had this dance a few weeks ago and an eighth-grader asked me if I wanted to dance with him! Yay! He seemed pretty cool at the dance, and I kind of want to get to know him better as a friend. But, whenever we see each other in the halls, it’s like “Hi.” And that’s it!

I need some help, ladies. I need some tips on talking to crushes—and I’m sure I’m not alone!


you tell us ...

Sometimes, just talking to boys gives me the heebie-jeebies! How do you get over being totally scared to talk to a crush?

TTYL,



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purplegal writes:

im am not scared to talk to my crush cuz he's my frend!
but i've had other crushes b4 and i always got shy around 'em. there is this one guy who EVERYBODY likes, and i say i dont like him (maybe i do a little) but whenever im near him i get shy!
click the heart if u agree with me! smilies/wink.gif
 

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JIMJOE writes:

i can really talk 2 them but i can easily b funny and tell jokes around them so that works 2
 

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tinamusa writes:

i get tongue tied wen someone asks me wen boys talk to me or wen somebody asks me bout my secret to succes
haa smilies/smiley.gif
 

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Aquamarine 27 writes:

I usually have trouble talking to boys only when i look into their eyes, and i used to dart my eyes around which made me look like a total dork, so i made this trick that works pretty well. i just stare at a really cool something that he's wearing, and only move my eyes up to meet his every five seconds or so, really fast. that way he'll think that im interested in his style, and he'll enjoy talking to my cos it seems like i'm so calm and don't get all jittery when talking to him. try it!
 

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funnybabe651936 writes:

I know how you feel, sometimes even "I" get a little tounge tied, the best thing I do is talk to myself in the mirror, plan out what I'm going to say. One time I got all tounge tied, and embarassed myself infront of him, later he came up to me and asked to be my partner for Science Camp! Breathe, and relax is the key.
 

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cooliocutie21 writes:

i talk to my crush it's easy....
 

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Bokwrm writes:

i just pretend like i've known them all my life(this works for me because it was my first year at my new school) and that we've been best friends forever. or just talk to their friends/enemies(witchever knows him the best) and find out somethings about him.
 

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poohbear96 writes:

a way to not get tongue tied in front of a crush is to get used to talking to him like if you actually have a conversation with him then you can get to know him so you wont get totally tongue tied in front of him then you never know if he might start to like you back so start slow and then go up to having a conversation with him and youll be a total pro at talking to any crush you have so stay cool and collecting quit trippin and just talk to him smilies/wink.gif
 

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jonasbrothersarenumber1 writes:

i have a crush on this guy but then he never notices me
 

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jonasbrothersarenumber1 writes:

maybe TRY talking to him it won't be that bad (at least i think it's not) smilies/wink.gif
 

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dancerqtpie24 writes:

hmm i hav the same prob so no advice there
 

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cooliocutie21 writes:

talk to him bring up the subject when he is with his best friends.then he will talk to you.
 

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cookygirl202 writes:

kgirl- U rock the house- u R ALWAYS confident! see how Maeve- boy lover? and ave- A boy? get it? boys r just like the bsg- except... different.


u- "Aren't those shoes so CUTE? Did you know I'm gonna run a fashion empire someday?"
him (who IS IT?)- "Umm..."

NOPETTY NOPE NOPE!

U- "Hey, did you see the Red Socks game last night?"
him (again, WHO?!)- Oh yeah! Did you see ________? HE rocked!"
U- "Yeah he did!"---

U HAVE TO CHOOSE WHAT TO SAY CAREFULLY! b/c like u see what happens! one has a convo. started in no time, while one lives the GUY tongue tied! WHO IS IT WHO IS IT WHO IS IT WHO IS IT?!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ct
 

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smileyface27 writes:

just be yourself kantani and don't be scared he's just a crush me too that happened and turns out he's just like other boys.trust me
 

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XxRxX writes:

smile at him when he looks at you i mean i never tried it before i am sure it might help even a bit just smile dont be shy go and talk to him after a week or two you might wanna ask him to go to your favorite place even if it is the mall walk around and tell him how you fell i guess that is youso be yourself.

NOTE:
1-if you cant find anything to talk about write aon a small paper what you love talking about and talk with him about it and when you get nervous and dont know what to talk about just get off the paper and search for something.

2-the paper should be long and have at least 10 to20 ideas that will help.

3-put numbers to the ideas.
 

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TennisFreak257 writes:

My crush happens to be my best guy friend, so we eat lunch together anyways! I get really nervous around him, and kind of klutzy (he's used to it, though!), so I try really, really,really hard to be as lady-like as possible. That way, if I'm doing my best, I'll probably come off as normal. (I hope...) Plus, I keep my other friendsaround me while we talk to guys. Having your friends there talking to guys around you boosts your confidence, and will boost theirs, too. It's a win-win situation!

~TennisFreak257
 

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bettykate writes:

Well, I think you should sit nest to him at lunch because if you sit with him at class you might freak him out. Say hi and start a conversation. At the end of the week ask him if he wants to see a movie with you
 

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michellerocksout writes:

Dear ticklesA,
Well, maybe not because then we might blrt something out that we shouldnt have said.(no fense Avery!!!)
 

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ticklesA writes:

ticklesA: Pretend your'e talking to Ave. Then, it's easy!!
 

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sugarbeanie writes:

mystyle, im always nervous around guys i like. its so akward! but then i just try 2 say something funny & it works & he laughs! so, just b urself! thats my advice

Sugarbeanie
 

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emna writes:

just talk to them ask someone told me you like me is that true because i like you or give them a card smilies/grin.gif smilies/smiley.gif
 

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ave4u writes:

cookygirl,
good one, i ttly agree!

katini, you are so coO0Ool that you will think of something yourself! P.S. that is a complement!
/___/
( M M )
(( ' ))
(")-(")
ave4u
 

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cookygirl202 writes:

I AM A CHATTER BOX AND A TOMBOY... I KNOW HOW 2 DEAL W/ THE DUDES!

try sarcasm
think of him as ur BFF
stand up 4 ur self and b confident
DO NOT i repeat DO NOT talk about shoes...
 

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iacpmf writes:

dear 23alex23
i thing you should relax and when you are talkin to him thing that he is your best friend!
that works with me!
luv
iacpm

smilies/grin.gif
 

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mystyle writes:

IM SORRY BUT I CANT HELP YOU,I HAVE THE SAME PROBLEM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!IM WONDERING MYSELF HOW TO OVERCOME THIS SITUATION.BUT IF OR WHEN YOU FIND OUT,CAN YOU WRITE AN ADD ON THIS AND HOW YOU OVERCAME THAT OR THIS SITUATION.THANKI YOU

















 

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michellerocksout writes:

Dear 23alex23,
Just try to take deep breaths. It woks for me!!!
Your friend,
michellerocksout
 

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23alex23 writes:

♥ When I like a guy, I always get all tongue-tied and not know what to say!!! What should I do???? ♥
 

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bsgmea13 writes:

sweetcharm- this may be scary, but y don't u make the first move? Don't ask him out (YET) but smile at him in class and (this is if u feel comfortable) go up to him and just talk. About anything- the math test last week, sports, how mean some teacher is. Hope I helped!
-bsgmea13
 

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sweetcharm writes:

Dear Tail899,
Thanks a lot for your tip, but the problem is that he doesnt know me by my name - he knows me just by my face and he has never talked to me!
I want to have friendship with him first. Please suggest.
-sweetcharm
 

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Tail899 writes:

OMG this happened to me to. But just pretend this guy is just another friend. Boys love a confident girl. (In here best shoes of course). Just be yourself and if your afraid you wont know what to say one day just brainstorm a list of ideas and remember one you really like talk about that. And ask for his feelings on things,you don't wanna be named chatter box.

 

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ilovefashion writes:

I have older brothers so I know what to talk about but sometime I act all frozen it's kind of embarasssing!
 

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sweetcharm writes:

dear michellerocksout
thanks a lot for your tip! I like it a lot.
 

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michellerocksout writes:

Dear sweetcharm,
First of all, you NEED to calm down. I need to know why you are not friends with that girl anymore. Also, life goes on. If you want to intervein, that is normal. BUT DONT. You can just be secretly in love with him. Nothing can break that. You also do not need him. He has made a disappointing choice by choosing your friend over you. Hope this helps.
Your friend,
michellerocksout
 

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GeminiChik writes:

sorry sweetygurl. my original comment was really meant for lulubee2. sorry.
 

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sweetcharm writes:

I like a boy who know me by face but has never talked to me! Instead, he likes my X-best friend and I think she also likes him. I want to talk to him before he gets mad for that girl...
HELP ME PLEASE! I NEED SOMEONE'S HELP !
 

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GeminiChik writes:

sweetygurl, ur friend has a rite to b mad. after all, u totally blasted her secret to yr crush, and now half the school. bffs trust bffs not to spill the beans on crushes. thats a BIG TIME friendship rule. but bffs have to realize nobodys perfect.so i say give zoe some time to cool off. when shes less upset with you. go to her and tell her it was a honest mistake, dont say i didn't mean to,or it was a accident! she's propabally fed up with that, so just tell her the real deal. u could point out "hey. my crush will propabally never talk to me again!!!" try and give her the message she isnt the only one suffering, and then apoligize. if ur friends a grudge holder, give her time to think. if she isn't she'll propabally forgive you then. but if shes wary about secrets from then on, dont nag her. after all, u did spill the beans b4.
 

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Lunatuna writes:

oceanangel,
Private school kids are NOT stuck-up with a capital N! I not only go to a private school, I'm in a Montessori school! I am the target for some weird questions & teasing from other people who go to a school that's not Montessori. They just don't understand that I'm a normal person like everyone else, EVEN though my school is VERY, VERY different from most schools.
~ Lunatuna~
 

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kitkat987 writes:

If someone needs my advice just ask me..
 

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kitkat987 writes:

I don't know why but I never get nervous when I talk to guys...
 

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Lunatuna writes:

BSG Fan,
I go to a private school! My school is also Montessori-based.
~ Lunatuna~
 

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sweetygurl writes:

Kgirl, you may need advice on getting a boyfriend that likes you as a friend but i need advice on getting a boy who hates me as an rival! he pulls my hair, doodles on my papers and teases me but he is also really sweet and nice if he wants to be and I really like him! Girls! Mojo problemo here! HELP ME!
 

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Lulubee2 writes:

thanks bookworm127!
 

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bookworm127 writes:

Lulubee2 sometime when ppl get mad they do things they will regret if your friend is a true friend things will work itself out and if they dont then thats her loss the best thing u can do now is to be yourself and try not to think about it!!
 

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Lulubee2 writes:

I made a huge mistake! I asked the guy I liked if he liked me and he said "kind of". So I got all happy, but then he told me he also liked my bff Zoe. So I got all mad and went ahead and told him who my bff liked now my whole grade knows and Zoe won't talk to me! What do I do? HELP!


-Lulubee2
 

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tedewe15 writes:

ok theres this girl at my school. i cant stand her. she always wants to be nice to someone yet shes being mean too. she'll do nice stuff for you but she'll call you all kinds of mean names behind your back. i wish she would move back to where she came from. sassyworld. she always thinks she's someone's lil angel . i hope someone stands up to her eventually. she even has her own club. L.O.S.E.R. . HER LETTER IS O. OVERLY-DRAMATIC IS WHAT IT STANDS FOR. thats what it should stand for too.
 

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socerluver96 writes:

BECOME HIS FRIEND!! I hadthis insanly huge crush on this guy! i became his best gal friend and he asked me out!
 

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Kaija1997 writes:

Just act naturual! Talk to boyz you don't like so you get more used to it!!!
 

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hanilyEsmy543 writes:

hay you not the only one how gets jeebies.
 

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pacsungirl writes:

well i like two boys! yah they both don't like me. but one of them is my guy friend and i think he hates me now! and the other guy i am scared to talk to him! p.s. i am really a fun girl and pretty too!I NEED HELP!
 

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countrysinger writes:

i need the biggest advice that have ever needed. the guys that i have liked are really nice but nobody else thinks so. if i liked a guy that everybody thinks is cute and i started dating him everybody would think he is the ugliest guy on earth. is something wrong with me?????? smilies/sad.gif
Sad and Lonely,
countrysinger

p.s. if any of you people that are out there that have advice or has been through this, please tell me. i need as musc help as possible!!!!!!!!!!
 

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BSG Fan writes:

i go to a private school and no1 is stuck-up accept 4 ** & **
private schoolers got 2 stick 2gether!!! right JIMJOE, abz, books369, LoLoLuv, & hermione23!!!
XOXO
click hearts if ya go 2 a private school 2!!!
 

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bookworm127 writes:

just be yourself and if doent like that then his loss!!!
 

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JIMJOE writes:

i go 2 private school! we are not all stuck up but i will admit there is mor stuck up kids than when i went 2 public school
 

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books369 writes:

I got accepted to a private school and this girl in the private school showed me around.I saw all her friends and they were so not stuck up.I'm not stuck up either.Anyway,if I talk to a boy I kind of get nervous because I'm afraid that he is going to tease me.Once,this boy asked me out.He was joking so I said no.Then he asked me again and I said no.Then he asked me a third time and I said yes.He said that he will pick me up at seven.When I talked to him I was nervous.The boy is kind of funny and I learned that I can talk to him like I'm talking to my friends or family members and it ended up that he became my friend and that's how I act around other boys now.Most of the boys are my friend now.
 

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abz writes:

i am a private school girl and no i'm not a stuck up!
 

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LoLoLuv writes:

Private school kids stuck up??? we are just reagular kids!!! But i hate wearing uniformes!!! it makes it really hard to show your fashion sence!!! but I guess i am cool with it.
 

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hermione23 writes:

I totally agree, bridgetandlily. We are NOT stuck up!
 

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hermione23 writes:

so true, rainy5. I go to private school and I'm NOT stuck up.
Katani, you're so fashionable! How do u do it?!
 

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mimiandjo writes:

Last week My friend told me this guy is TOTALLY flirting with me, soo I def. like him! So now that I know hes flirting with me I get nervous everytime I try to talk back! What I do really is be myself, if he got the gutts to flirt with me just because I was being myself, then I just have to continuslly be my self! Allobua!
 

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soccerGod writes:

well when it comes to boys as friends i talk like crazy and be weird, but when it comes to my crush i just act like myself, and i do get nervous and i feel embrass if i say something stuip
 

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JIMJOE writes:

i think u should find a common ground with a boy like if u both like basketball talk about basketball once u get 2 know a boy after talking bout things like dat hell get 2 know u and hopefully like u back
 

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wlsoccergirl writes:

i really just act like there my friend cause most of the time they are!!!!!
 

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082398princess writes:

I am totally like that! Like the other day I was talking with some guys from my drama class and I wanted to talk to one of them but he was joking around with guys. I was so scared that the other kids would make fun that I decided to wait until another day. That was the first week, we'll be coming on the fourth next! I need some help! I'll try to talk, but I need conversation starters!
Bye-Buy,
082398princess

 

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thegirlwithpink writes:

I am the same way, i can totally run my mouth with my friends, but....., when it comes to boys, i know nothin, but i get over my fear obviously cuz at the end of the day we i would tell him that i really like him.
 

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thegirlwithpink writes:

You have to be strong and do whateva it is that you have to do because boys like straight forward girls, thats how they know that you really like them,and if he likes you you would know it easily.
 

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Animal/Sport Lover writes:

All the guys in my class are my friends so I talk to them every day!!
 

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Anabelle96 writes:

If you have a brother or sister, pretend like your talking to them, guys like girls who are funny and relaxed. And just RELAX.

 

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dancer19 writes:

I just pretend he is my best friend but I dont over do it.
 

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smiley147258 writes:

well i dont get scared when i talk to my crush but for girls who blush when they talk here are some great tips dont me super nervous but if its a random conversation act casall like if your talking with your normal friends in a normal conversation so he doesnt think that your like totally hitting on him you should let him hit ion you. but make sure that you dont act totally natural just give him in a way a hint that you like him
 

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Rouser writes:

DANCE ARE TOO LONG SO I DON,T NOW HOW IT,S GO. SOME TIME I JUST GET TIE.
 

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Rouser writes:

I NEVER HAD A DANCE SO I DON,T NOW
 

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readallthebooks! writes:

hey bridgetandlily, oceanangle, and teddybear916
i dont go 2 a private skool, but my b.f.f penpal
does. i met her in person and everyone else and none of them were stuck up! they were so kind. so bridgegetandlily you are soooo right!
katani what is your opinion what do you do when someone makes fun of kelley? shes so cute! i wish she was my sister. all i have is a little brother who drives me up the wall 24/7!!!!!!
hes is annoying on legs, but he can be sweet...
sometimes...well, times...come to think of it,... he put worms on my pillow. ok he cant be sweet. but i know kelley is! i am stupid for letting my brother come in my room after 1:00 a.m! i regret that. help!
 

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rainy5 writes:

i need help i like this guy we hang out and we talk and goof around together my friend says he likes me back but his best friend says he dosent like anyone i feel embarassed to talk 2 him HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

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rainy5 writes:

hey im a private school girl and im not stuck up people r mean to say that just because we go to private school does not mean we are
 

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prei4cake writes:

I would just start up a normal conversation (like what did u think of that new book we have to read in LALB), BUT ONLY if you are by him. You don't want to seem like you like him right away otherwise he might feel uncomfortable talking to you and then not want to talk to you at all! Eventually he might start up a conversation when he sees you in the halls. Then you take it however u want.
P.S. I haven't actually tried this but from watching Movies (Maeve u can learn stuff from the movies) and just watching others i'm pretty sure it will work.

 

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booklovergirl123 writes:

Well I just try to be my self and if theuy don't like me for me then that's their lose. You never know until you talk to him and being yourself!
 

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BSG Fan writes:

OMG!I like love this guy on my street, but he is two years older than me!!! But he is great and my mom knows his mom and he is like so cute. He walks his dog all the time at the same time that I get off the bus! Should I start a conversation with him? My mom says he is a really great guy....
 

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bridgetandlily writes:

Dear oceanangel,and teddybear916, i go 2 a private school and i hate it when my soccer friends say private school kids are stuck up. We aren't.
 

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led2104 writes:

This kid is new in my class and every girl likes him execept me but today you could totally tell he liked me!!!!!!!!!!!
help me!
 

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readallthebooks! writes:

hey single g 08,
that is a bad sight! that happened to my cousin. her friend had a boyfriend that had a cousin that had a twin that she liked. she like the twin. they looked soooo alike that she went for her friends boyfriends cousin, and he had a girl friend that was my cousins b.f.f! so she tryed to get him to like him and omg, it worked inless then an hour! i know what a horrible sight it is, but trust me worst happened to me.
 

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single_g_08 writes:

ok! i liked 1 of my friends boyfriends brother! omg it was bad kuz i started talking 2 him (friends boyfriends brother)and i really did not mean 2 but i got my friends boyfriend 2 like me instead of his brother ya was not a pretty site when he broke up wit my friend and asked me out!
 

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teddybear916 writes:

hey oceanangel,
i'm a proud, not stuck up, private school chick! lol!!
 

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buggyboo97 writes:

Well I'm a tomboy but I kno Excactly how you feel I just bring up a conversation starter like "That math homework was hard huh?" And that brings up a conversation and leads to even more!

 

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Mette writes:

oceanangel,
i go to a private school and we're not stuck-up either. i think it's just a rumor!
 

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readallthebooks! writes:

Hey whats up kgirl? i have this problem... my friend likes this guy that hangs out with this other girl all the time and she needs major help. what should i tell her!? oh yea, boys are easy to talk to all you have to do is have backup plans! if the boy doesnt like you, then go for one of your other backup plans. this never happened to me but it did to my cousin so she told me this. so just be yourself and imagine he is avery, or maeve, or charllete. easy peasy lemon squeasy.
ttfn[tatafornow],
readallthebooks!
p.s you are my idle.
 

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oceanangel writes:

well... heres how i got three guys to LIKE LIKE me (not at the same time of course...lol?):

1) if you dont know your crush very well, then first whenever you see him, just a simple quick smile will do for awhile.

2) after awhile (you'll just have a feeling when its after "a while" say "hi" with a smile

3) start talking to him in small quick conversations

4) start exdending the conversations

5)he'll take over then

but remember, ALWAYS be yourself, and just pretend your talking to a normal friend. smilies/smiley.gif

oceanangel

PS. I know this is random but... do any of you go to private school? i was wondering cuz.. lotsa people say the students are really stuck-up but we're not! we're just normal non-stuck-up people!!
 

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shel811 writes:

ok girls i have major problem! This guy I like is super cute. i got my BFF to ask if he liked me and he just giggled. he keeps giving me smiles and talking to me. I feel like he's teasing me. What do I do?

Shel811
 

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*feistlover* writes:

Guess What???!!!! Well, my crush likes me. Kind of. He liked my acting!!!! I told him hello. He said the same. WE WERE TALKING!!!!
 

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shel811 writes:

What I do if I can't talk to a crush I send him a note. I think it's a great way to get started and when you write on the note you can't get tongue-tied. Then when you get more cofortable you can talk to him face to face!

Shel811

Oh and to *Feistlover* ask for some privacy from your parents. If they respect you they will give you it and if they ask you why just tell them,but don't do it in front of your dad.
 

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glittergirl53 writes:

im not usually scared to talk to people. but if you are nervous, try to look him in the eye and dont change for him. just act like hes just one of your friends and act normal.
 

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laxrox12 writes:

theres this kid in my class who iwant to be my freind but i never ever talked to him... he seamed ncie but i dotn know so today i tsalked to him go me
 

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Mette writes:

i don't have a crush but still i sometimes get nervous about talking to boys. mostly i talk to them about some interest we have in common, like i and a few of the boys go to an after school - group for kids talented at chemistry. so i'll just talk to them about chemistry or some joke from last chemistry lesson.
 

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*feistlover* writes:

My crush totally hates me!!!!!!!!!!! I mean, REALLY!!!!!! He is polite, if I even work up the courage just to say 'hi'. Last year it was boys and girls can be friends, this year it's getting tounge tied in front of a guy. It is so anoying!!!!!!!! He used to be my sort-of friend. Now I don't know! What can I do?!

Truly,
*Feistlover*
 

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monkeysandhorses writes:

just pretend that ur talking to ur best friend. always act natural and be yourself. OMG!!! my parents have total control over boys i like. except nick jonas!!!
 

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as1006974 writes:

Hey Katani! My friends know tha i like this guy at a different skool and all but i only see him on weekend walks with my dog and i cant talk to him cuz my parents are around. we will be at the same skool next year and i dont want to wait that long to ask him out> HELP!?!?
 

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aslacyrolls writes:

this year i sit bye the cutest guy in school. i dont really like him...and one day i was in my chair.....it was broken! i didnt know that until i fell strait into his lap! My lips hit his lips on accident! so know im the laughing stock of my grade! Katani, what should i do?? every time i walk bye sombody they point and laugh!
Truly,
aslacyrolls
 

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BabyJazz58 writes:

Practice what you would say to him at home. Then, make yourself say to him atschool. It'll go better than you think.
 

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babygirl212#1 writes:

hi Katani what do u think, im in 5th grade and im 11 going to middle school!!!!!!!!!! after this year i dont like anyone at my school execept a 8th grader and i dot have a chance when i say hi to him he says hi back and i act all ecites lol but im saving all my courage for middle schol and im going to a new schol so everything is gonna change dont u think so sense ur in middle school and can u give me some advice about middle school and the boys please ????
 

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TheFashionBeast writes:

act az if he's ur friend, it jst mite help!
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moneygirlcash writes:

I was hannging around witha friend and we started playing withthis boy abd then after my friend left he and I jumped waves and skipped rocks exta....soooo I said to him lets meet at the pool and the sauna at 9:00 and I was extreemly nervous and so he made his friends leave the pool and sauna area just 4 me soooo .... now I have his e-mail and phone number and I called him and I said do U want to be my boyfriend? and he said yes!!!!So.... If U go with the flow with every thing U will be alright! Even if it is a long distance relashinship!
moneygirlcash
 

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