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Kgirl: Dollin' Up for a Dance

So, do you have a school dance to go to and no clue how to doll up (aka, make yourself even more pretty than you already are)? You’ve come to the right place! Kgirl is here, and I’m ready to help you out with some fashion advice for semi-formals.

Dress: If you are going to a semi-formal school dance (like boys are wearing button-down shirts or ties), you’ll need a cute dress. If you go to a big department store, you’ll find a lot of them, but they’ll be expensive. Instead of heading right toward the $200 dress on the mannequin, check out the sale racks. You can find awesome dresses for $20-$50.

Vintage is always hip, so don’t forget about secondhand stores (also called thrift or consignment shops)! These places get clothes that people don’t want anymore for cheap. But, just because someone doesn’t want it any more doesn’t mean it won’t look fabulous on YOU!

Kgirl tip: Stay away from shoulder pads, ruffles, dresses with chokers, and a lot of lace or velvet—better yet, just stay away from all dresses worn by girls in the 1980s! Choose a dress that flatters YOUR body and makes you feel like dancin’!

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Accessories: Don’t go too matchy-matchy! Choose a necklace and bracelet, bracelet and dangly earrings, or necklace and earrings, but don’t do all three. You don’t want your jewelry to take away from your fabulous dress! Find for fun and unique jewelry in all different colors at places at the mall like Claire’s (one of my fave shops!).

Carry a small bag that compliments your dress—you don’t want to be lugging around one of those huge hobo bags! Try a small clutch instead (which is a purse without straps—you’d have to hold it) that is just big enough to carry the essentials like lip gloss, extra elastics, safety pins (you never know), bobby pins, some money, and a little mirror with some powder.

Kgirl tip: Feeling adventurous? Skip the standard silver and gold and try out jewelry in other colors, like deep green, amber, or red—just make sure it doesn’t clash with your outfit!

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Shoes: Semi-formal events mean you might be able to wear heels with your dress. Try ½ to 1-inch heels, kitten heels, or even flats at department and those discount warehouse stores. If it’s a dancing event, you MUST wear comfortable in your shoes! Always make sure your shoes are the right size—shoes that are too big or too small make for painful blisters!

Make your shoes more comfy by wearing them around the house for a few days before the dance. You’ll get used to the way they feel and feel more confident in walking and dancing in them. Also, you might want to go outside and rub the bottom of your shoes against the rough pavement. This will scuff them up a little and make it less likely for you to slip and fall on the floor! Oh, and a Kgirl pet peeve—taking your shoes off at the dance might be more comfortable, but it totally makes your outfit look unfinished… plus, bare feet on the dance floor? Gross!

Kgirl tip: If your shoes pinch your toes or heel, try wearing thick socks with them around the house. This stretches them out a bit and your dancing feet will be ready to move!

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Makeup: If you wear makeup, use a little bit of mascara and tinted lip gloss, and you’re good to go! A small amount of glittery eye shadow is also cool and will make your eyes look even prettier than they already are. Matching nail polish and toe polish can be the perfect accent to your look, but consider natural nails if polish makes your outfit look too busy.

In my fashion-conscious opinion, I’d say skip heavy makeup like foundation, blush, lipstick, eyeliner, and even self-tanner. You want to be comfortable in the way you look—not running to the bathroom every five minutes to touch up or make sure you don’t have lipstick on your teeth!

Kgirl tip: Bring a compact of pressed powder that matches your skin tone in your purse. That way, once you work up a sweat at the dance, you really can go “powder your nose” and keep shine at bay.

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Hair: Work with what you’ve got! Think about which style looks and feels the best with your hair—then think about how you can make that a bit fancier! Overdoing it with gallons of hairspray and gel just looks way too forced for me. Soft waves, controlled curls, or straightened hair looks VERY elegant with a pretty barrette or glittery pins.

Or, you can go a bit dramatic (hello, Maeve) and have your mom or your sister do an “up-do” in your hair. That’s when all your hair is up off your neck, but it’s not just thrown into a pony tail (hello, Avery). It can include tiny braids or twists or curls pinned all over to create a very polished look.

Kgirl tip: Simplest up-do? Try the “pony-do”! Pull your hair in a high pony tail making and fasten with an elastic. Then, take a small piece of the pony tail from the bottom and wrap it around so that it covers the elastic. Finally, fasten it with a bobby pin, and voila! A fabulous “pony-do!”



you tell us ...

Have YOU ever been to a fancy event? Tell us about it!

TTYL,



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nemo7 writes:

yes i have been to a fancy event. like my brother's graduation for example! i had so much to get ready for to go! i had to pick out my best clothes and get ready. it practically took me one day to get ready for it all!
 

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M AND A123 writes:

bffl4eva, wear the dress but not the shawl
 

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monkeysandhorses writes:

I've been 2 2 wedding and i was the flower gurl smilies/smiley.gif
 

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littlemis writes:

The two "fancy" events I've been to is my cousin wedding where I had to do the skirt, blouse, keep down my hair instead of a pony-tail (I'm with Avery! Pony-tails are easier and faster!) and also little bit of make-up. Also the ICC (Italian Canadian Club) we go there and have a four course dinner with dancing and prizes and you have to dress up...the whole works!
 

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FASHELYA writes:

Yes I am in Beta Club and we had a makwet it was fun but scary it was still fun thow it was the biggest fancy event I had ever went to smilies/grin.gif smilies/smiley.gif smilies/wink.gif smilies/kiss.gif
 

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7uplover writes:

bffl4ever,
i think that you should wear that black and white dress that you were talking about it sounds really cute wear did you get it smilies/wink.gif
 

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7uplover writes:

just be your self when you go to a middle school dance unless you know your supposed to dress up. you could be.....
-fancy
-casual
or
-sporty!

Me my self, is sporty
 

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bffl4eva writes:

I have a Dance coming up,and it's the formal my dress is a black and white halter one that goes to my knees and I plan on wearing a pink shawl. Will that be A good outfit?
 

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loveboyz41 writes:

ive ben 2 skool dances and i go with the rock girl look.belly shirt mini skirt and 5 in heels.not much makeup.i like to show the real me.hair is in a ponytail
 

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starambition123 writes:

i've been to 2 school dances and they were okay. my friends and i had a lot of fun dancing and being crazy but i didn't get to dance with a guy.
 

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AmyRose writes:

smilies/sad.gif t dance was horrible my guy forgot! and there was nothing exciting. oh well, maybe it'll b better next time we have a school dance.
 

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AmyRose writes:

aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah im so nervous oh well ill post something l8r about t dance smilies/cheesy.gif i hope it goes well!
AmyRose
PS TennisFreak257 my bff t fashion freak LOVES ur advice and might use it 4 herself.
 

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AmyRose writes:

dance 2morro im nervous smilies/shocked.gif
 

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AmyRose writes:

TennisFreak257: THANK YOU SO MUCH!
AmyRose
 

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TennisFreak257 writes:

AmyRose: First of all, act NORMAL. It's probably the worst advice anyone can ever tell you, 'cause acting normal around cute guys is hard! But, never say anything about yourself that isn't true. Guys, just like girls, can SO detect if you're lying. Nothing is more unattractive than being dishonest.

Try a nice dress that isn't too long (just below the knee or halfway down the shin; even just just just above the knee would be gorgeous.) and is in a simple pattern. At luaus, there's tons of floral prints already, and you don't want to blend in! A bright solid color with some patterned shoes would be so cute! Also, flowy skirts are wonderful with dressier sandals! If your hair can handle being down for long periods of time without brushing or grooming (mine can't), leave it down and put a nice clip in the front. If not, put it up in a fun ponytail that is curled.
Most of all, act happy around him. Don't try to play hard to get, or anything like that. Act like you're enjoying the luau (which you are!), and relax. You're a beautiful girl who is at a fun party with a cute guy. What more could you want??
P.S.--You've already got half the battle down--you've found a cute guy to dance with!!

~TennisFreak257
 

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AmyRose writes:

aw come on u gyz if u help each othr uv got 2 help me! PLEASE ANYBODY I HAV A CUTE GUY AND I NEED REPEAT NEED TO LOOK NICE FOR HIM!!!!!!! PLEASE HELP! I'M DESPERATE! lol i yell a lot. sry about that!!!!!
 

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AmyRose writes:

and i need hair help 2 PLZ HELP ME!
AmyRose
 

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PrincessRose123 writes:

I've been to a Bat mitzvah and a wedding and for the Bat mitzvah i had a black and white polka dot dress and black flats. and for the wedding i had on a cream/ off white dress and the same kind of shoes.
 

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PrincessRose123 writes:

to "BSG fan" this is how you make a heart:
 

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PrincessRose123 writes:

Oh my gosh this is soooooooo cool!! I"m going to a really fancy dance/sweet 16 an i needed some good tips!!! This really helped!!!
 

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AmyRose writes:

ok i need advice im going 2 a luau and i hav a cute guy to dans w/ so advice: wat 2 wear (no makeup plz) and how 2 act PLZ HELP!
 

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bluecrystals547 writes:

Katani,
I bought this dress that I thought was gorgeous for a school dance. When my friend came over the other day, she was just searching around through my closet and she spotted my dress and burst out laughing and said You've been holding on to your charity clothes for way too long you should tell your mom to drop them off. I don't know what to do now. Should I give the dress away or not? smilies/sad.gif
 

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spellbee12 writes:

my school haz a dance 2moro[pleaz answr this 2 day] but we cant come out of dress code.so wud it b ok 2 wear jeans & dress shoes like u wud wear 2 a choir concert?
 

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greenowl writes:

Don't go over board because if you do everyone will notice that you are trying to be noticed.
 

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awesomej9 writes:

singing4eva96, you should wear something comfy. if your gonna dance wear leggings if you are wearing a skirt. DON"T GO FANCY!! STAY COMFY CASUAL!!
 

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singing4eva96 writes:

luv this advice!!! smilies/grin.gif but could you do fashion tips for a casual school dance? I have one of those coming up!
 

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gymnast97 writes:

i went to a bat mitzvah a month ago.i wore a knee length black and white polka dot dress, a pair of diamond hoop earings, a pearl bracelet, and cream wedge heels.i got a lot of compliments about the dress.then at the night party, i wore a shorter black dress, with all the same accesories.oh, and for my hair, i curled it and put a sparkly barette above each ear.add a heart of you like my outfit(s)!!!! smilies/smiley.gif
 

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awesomej9 writes:

last night i was at D.A.R.E. graduation dance, tell me if this was smilies/smiley.gif or smilies/angry.gif, black D.A.R.E shirt and under it was a long sleeved green shirt, denim skirt, and gold flats. bella.italia, i have the exact same type of hair, i normally wear headbands or side pony.
awesomej9
P.S. if you think my outfit choice, or my advice,was good click the heart
 

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leolion123 writes:

I'm in fifth grade, and I used these tips, and they worked!
 

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livrox101 writes:

I have never been to a school dance, but that's cuz i am only in 5th grade
 

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BSG Fan writes:

My 2 fanciest events... that'd be my cuz's Bar Mitzvah and my uncle's wedding. BM I was 9. Wedding i was 6... i think.
BSG Fan
 

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Drama Queen 100 writes:

i went to a school dance with my boyfriend once. smilies/kiss.gif
 

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scholargirl22 writes:

Hey! ok this is from MANY personal experiences! If you have a date that's a diff height from you, make it more comfy for the bothof you! If he's WWWWAAAYYY taller than you wear (comfy) heels. If he's WWWAAAYYY shorter than you wear flats! Trust me, I wore flats to a dance where my date was WWWAAAYYY taller than me, and when we were slow dancing, his hands were like at my armpits!

 

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bella.italia writes:

i have rlly thick hair which hurts my head when i pull back my hair into high ponies! and low ponies, for that matter. what should i do with my hair??
--bella italia
p.s. its thick, brown, and straight!
 

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razzberripuff_876 writes:

My cousin got married last summer, and my family and I were invited. The ceremony was at the fanciest church I had ever seen, old and beautiful and gigantic! The reception was at this mansion and that was also really, really cool. I was a junior bridesmaid, and my cousin had picked out this outfit: A light pink knee length Bandeau dress, black heels, and a slim silver chain necklace and the same style of bracelet. It was so, so fun!
 

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violetbutterflyblue writes:

i have a dance coming april 4th and do not have a dress yet but my mom is going to buy me one oh and by the way thanks for the tip ttyl
 

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berry_cherry writes:

I was inducted into Beta Club a few weeks ago, and I had to find the perfect dress! I ended up finding a ADORABLE mini dress with leggings and flats. It was so cute! smilies/cheesy.gif
 

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thiinkpiinkchicas writes:

thanks for these tips.....i feel like im just lyk u thanks alot alot peace! smilies/smiley.gif smilies/cheesy.gif smilies/grin.gif smilies/cool.gif smilies/kiss.gif smilies/cool.gif smilies/grin.gif smilies/cheesy.gif smilies/wink.gif smilies/smiley.gif
 

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wonderfulrain writes:

Well i have but I dont really have to dress up for the event because the people there already have my outfit. I like acting and i like fashion, because this yer i was in a play called Time Raiders and i got to pick my own outfit and it was really stylish and i was a BOY!!! I think i did really well I dont really sound like i am full of my self so i am not going to brag about my self that would seem like a bit much.
 

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dert writes:

yes i have to a dance i dressed so pretty smilies/kiss.gif
 

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happy girl writes:

Yes I have I went to the governor's Manchine it was so hudge we talked to him we ate cake and the trip was in trenton the capital of New Jersey it was one of the best time of my life!!!!.
 

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BSG Fan writes:

how do u make a heart on a laptop??? (i know this is random!!!)
 

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BSG Fan writes:

amatomboy~ u r wrong about jr. cotillions!!! u get 2 dance, learn useful things, (meet boys and dance w/ them!!!), and u dont even have 2 do the homework (i wouldnt even call it homework!!!) its just 2 practice the things that u learned (not including dancing!!!). if u do do it u could win a prize!!! btw who dosent luv getting dressed up and wearing make-up??? also i dont have a boyfriend and im 12.
XOXO
 

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hermione23 writes:

dear everyone,
I know this is random, but please click the ♥ if u love American Eagle and Aeropostale!

♥hermione23♥
 

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abagalia writes:

When you go to a dance just be yourself.NEVER act like someone else.
 

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crystal_24 writes:

You don't have to wear dresses to school dances if you don't feel like it. I wore a t-shirt and a cute skirt to a school dance and I didn't get in trouble.
 

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BSGgal writes:

This is WAAAAAYY off subject, but if i was a cheerleader i would had make a cheer about you!here it is:
Kantani, Katani, Katani
B-S-G
she's a fashoinista of fun!
She'll get the job done!
Go Katani!
 

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ballagirl11 writes:

jr. cotillions is really helpful l8r in life. it would b so embarassing if ya didnt know how to greet some1 or do a certain dance!!!
XOXO ballagirl11
 

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amatomboy29 writes:

this is waaaaaaaaaay 2 fancy 4 me. i just wear jeans and a shirt and im done. and this cotillions thing... it sounds like a type of shampoo. or something thats just plane BORING! I mean, who in there right mind would actually WANT to wear a dress and get all fancy and get EXTRA HOMEWORK!!!!! OMG! And how do you allll have boyfriends? I AM ONLY 10!!!!
 

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ballagirl11 writes:

more 4 ya guys- you learn table setting, accepting invatations, writing thank-u notes, RSVPing, dances, how 2 ask a boy 2 dance, how 2 shake hands w/ some1, and how 2 introduce some1 2 some1 else. i hope that answers any ?s u might have if ya have any more just ask me, i will b happy 2 answer them. press hearts please!!! LOL smilies/cheesy.gif
 

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ballagirl11 writes:

santafelover, where do ya do jr. cotillions? in santa fe? ha ha ha!!! i do mine in Wisconsin. xoxo ballagirl11
 

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ballagirl11 writes:

and btw 4 the people who dont know what "cotillion" means its pronounced ca-till-yaHn does that help any 1 if ya know now press hearts i'm all about the hearts!!! ROFL LOL (:~(
 

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ballagirl11 writes:

hey all of you guys that dont know what junior cotillions is, it is a class that u take every few weeks and u get 2 dances and 5 classes. the only bad part is the homework (which really isnt so bad, u dont even have 2 do it!)but if ya do, do the homework and get the most signatures u could win a prize!!! u can take the class in 6th and 7th grade. i found out about it b/c all of the kids in my district got a flyer telling what it is. if ya dont like wearing skirts or dresses this isnt 4 you. all of the programs are different depending on where u live. if ya want to know more press hearts!!! btw BSG FAN dont get 2 picky about the way that people type. JK she's my BFF!!! so press hearts if ya want 2 know more!!! xoxo ballagirl11
 

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BSG Fan writes:

by the way santafelover you don't spell it definately you spell it D-E-F-I-N-I-T-E-L-Y. now you learned something new today. LOL
 

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