i have quite a few siblings and believe me i understand what ur going through.... i have family members that range from autistic to bipolar...and eberywhere in between.... the best way to deal with ur problem is to politely tell ur sister that u love her and enjoy being around her but that u and the bsg need some time to urselves....

 I have a brother and sister but they have their rooms each and don't bother me at all. Our family just does their own things and we never even sit at the table to eat together.

But, talking about your problems now, I think maybe you can find a place to get together, somewhere where your sibs cant get to you. Maybe at another friend's house? Public places work fine too. And maybe for someone like Kelley, you can always try to get her to do something else, or promise to play with her a while than leave you alone.

They have their advantages and disadvantages. I'm the youngest in my whole family, which also means age distance (etc, their teens and I'm still a kid) Sometimes I wish I could grow up faster

Every time my BFF or my F comes over my sister always bugs me it gets so anoying but i have to deal with it so i just yell or get my mom or slam the door so she can't come in my BFF's or F's probably get anoyed but they are awsome cause they help me get rid of my sister witch i need somtimes.

I have no idea...... i am 1 of 6

  This seems to happen with all my friends when they come to my house, my little sister has to be friends with them. It's really annoying.  What I try to do now is just ignore them. Or start talking about something my sister doesn't know or care about.

katani, 

 Well make a club in  your room and put a sighn that said "NO SIBS" if they want to be in the club tell them  that you need sometime to your self and need to be alone! if thay dont leave you alone then tell

I tell my mom to get them away, but they still follow, it's pretty annoying

Talk to her about it tell her it is annoying,BUT handle it gentely.But if she says no DON'T get even tell her she can listen but not bud in.

 I have a friend who is super sensitive. I can't mention the word stressed or else she starts crying and won't talk to me for a week. I told her I was fed up after the 8 th time she did it she said she knows and would stop. She said that  about a week ago and today she started crying . What should i do

fhokeygrl: thanx for the advice.school starts next week so ill try that

petersburg8,

Go up to her and ask why she did it. Keep asking questions. If she still dosen't tell the truth, mabey you consider your friendship. If she is willing to cheat to get a prize, AND OF YOU, she may not be the kind of friend for you.

fhockeygrl

 dear katani,

            tell your sibling the truth that she/he is interrupting your quality time with your bff,but when your sibling tells your mom about it and your mom gets angry with you just ignore them and I know they'll understand it someday.

i know this person and we have been friends for ever. but at r school we had an auction and we both wanted.the griel could only spend 60.00 on it but i could spend 70.so i did it and the girl wanted it so bad but i did 70 anyway because i wanted it but not to be mean. but when i was with my friend she arased my thing and rote 50 for me.my mom saw and she said that if she did it againshe would tell the girls mom. i heard and at scholl when i asked she said that it was an acsident becus she was talking to someone else. i new she was lying but know school is starting again and we r in the same class. how am i going to tell her with out hurtin her feelings help ?!?!?!?!?!

hey vanessa1. what i think u should do is like onclude them in something that is good for their age. thell probaly forget about u. hers the chance for your run!

th esibs usually ask what were doin. i just tell them to leave, and they do. we have a BUNCH of things they can do in the basement. adn anyways, my bff has a sister the same age as my sister, and they both are bff's 2!

     Try to include your sib in at least one game. Once she/he seems satisfied- don't worry they eventually will- distract them gently with something else they can do on their own!

animal girl thats tuff! well i would say ask ur bro but hes probly a jerk like most bros but not 2 steryotype or anything but..idk wat u should do maybe ask him out cuz its ur guysses life so LET$ M@|< e it  rock! lol JK well do wat u think u should like do cuz u r confident bout urself it shouldALLLLLL work out! duhhh like evy1 downs that!

 I have two cousins and they really get on my nerves what should i do?

 ur friend should stick up  for u

I have a slightly different problem. I'm frinds with a girl O., and her little sister, C., is always hanging with us. But me and C. actually have a lot in common, and I want to hang with her more often and sometimes separatly. But I can't just call up O. and si, "Hi, O. Can I talk to C.?" and invite C. over without O. What can I do?

 I pull my mom aside and ask her if she can talk to my sister for me.I'll let my sister hangout with her for a while,but when I want alone time my mom is there for me.

 OMG My friend has a little sister who always tells her mom I was mean to her, and so I have to apologize. She is also treated like a baby and spoiled, so when she gets made at me, my friend takes her side. Plz help!!!!

 im the oldest of 8 kids and someone always wants to be with us! the only way we can know for sure that no one is listening in on our conversations is if we stand in the middle of the field in my backyard or go on a walk by ourselves (someone usually wants to come too though)

 i was over at my friends house the other day and her cousin was there. she was hanging all over me and i was getting really anoyyed. i came home and told my sister. later i thought about how i like to hang with her friends. am i that anoyying? so i ran into her room and apologized. she just laughed so hard and said i wasnt anoyying at all. i went back in my room with a huge sigh of relief. i will try not to ever hang on her friends cuz it can get super anoyying so think before you act.

My brother's friend and I like each other, we car-pool and we always tease each other, the problem is he's my brother's friend, he's also my friend's brother. Aaak! Help! 

 hey this is your girl sup girls my brother used to always do that like 1 time i was on the phone with my friend and he had the other phone  and he put it up to the radio and it was really loud and i couldnt hear what my friend was saying but im not talking bad about him cause he passed away in january of08

hi

what i do is i yell at them to leave me alone. and drag em out.   (with their hair)jk

The same thing happens to me when my friends come over.  My older brother kicks us out of the family room or living room, ALL THE TIME! Then, with my younger sister, she ALWAYS wants to play with us! Every sleepover I've had with my BFFs, she has had to be involved. Playing with us, talking with us, doing makeovers with us; sometimes enough is enough, you know?  But my parents always force me to have her hang out with us.  Sometimes I'm okay with it (if she isn't embarrassing me!) but most of the time, I'm not.  I want to talk to her and my parents but she has really sensitive feelings and I don't want her to start crying.  I love her and all, but like I said, sometimes ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!  Any advice on how to get out of this jam?

 same thing with me whenever My friends come over to my house my big sister follows me and my friends and listens to our conversations! you should tell your sister she should get friends of her own that she could hangout with.

Ricky: That happens alot with older sis's. The only way I stop it is talking to them. Because they're older, they like understand. Hope that helps!

-JoyR22

Squishy: Consolt your Mom and tell her you would like an hour of "alone time" with your big family an hour is all you can get. But a good idea is to tell your sibs to make up a play and then when they're done, you can go watch it! But when they're busy making up the play, u and ur BFF can talk or play a game of ur own!

-JoyR22

 hi did you go to littel flower 11 if you did not go

 go now she is really nice!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!