Okay, so why is it that I talk up a storm with Charlotte, Isabel, Avery, and Maeve, but when it comes to talking to boys… I feel like I have nothing to say! We had this dance a few weeks ago and an eighth-grader asked me if I wanted to dance with him! Yay! He seemed pretty cool at the dance, and I kind of want to get to know him better as a friend. But, whenever we see each other in the halls, it’s like “Hi.” And that’s it!
I need some help, ladies. I need some tips on talking to crushes—and I’m sure I’m not alone!
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Sometimes, just talking to boys gives me the heebie-jeebies! How do you get over being totally scared to talk to a crush?
Well I think it depends on your personality. Your a smart and capable of many things kinda kid so you should picture yourself as if you a giving a speak to some people cause your CEO of Kgirl express.Hope this helps
Well, I just practice in front of the mirror, and when the real moment comes act all cool and sosphisticated and pretend your not into him and make him do stuff for you. Trust me it will become easier
The simple way-talk to him! Once you get to know him, you guys might start to become friends. It might seem awkward at first, but if you keep at it, (that doesn't mean follow him around ALL THE TIME!) you could become one of the girls on his "girl crush list". Hope this helps!
i really like this boy who was in my class last years, i am really nervous around him, i feel like he does the same thing, what in the world should i do!!!!!!!!!!!
don't freez, there's no reason. just like madeline1999 said, he's a human being and nothing more than that, b urself and if he doesn't like u for that, (which i'm sure he does or he wouldn't b ur friend) then forget about him and move on. hope that helps!!
i've never really had that problem, maybe just bcause i'm not the "scared" type. but i say if you r that type then u should just keep the conversation simple and not try 2 impress him with things that u can't really do, that always ends bad!!!
It is not that big a deal. He is just a human being just like us. Don't get all giddy and excited OR shy and clamed up. Just talk to him like he's one of BSG and everything will be fine!GOOD LUCK!!!!
All i do is just talk to him as if we were friends. i really don't make it seem to obvious that i like him. but n e who . i just be myself. i mean i have been in this situation b4. and ladies it is not easy. so just be yourself. don't worry about all the little things. bcuz i am pretty sure he likes you for you
I once had this friend in middle school (he was in middle) and this school was from k to 6th. So he went to my school. One of my bffs liked him, but he didn't no. But she told me not to tell him. But i also liked him. But no one, not even my bff knew! But one day, i told him that I new someone who liked him. But i didn't tell him who. But it was my bff. I told him later that I liked him. But then i saved myself from emmbarestment and said JK! But i wasn't. Any way,my point is try to be his friend first, then see how he feels about you. If he feels the same way, then ask him out if he doesn't have a girlfriend already.
Just be yourself and see if your crush likes you for who you are. If he does, try to be nice to him. If not, don't be heart-broken. Try to be friends with him. There are a lot of other guys out there.
I have that problem, but opposite. When I'm talking to boys I say things that sound really stupid, or freak out and just kind of walk away. But if i just relax and remind myself that they're people too, it's easier not to sound so stupid.
Secretly spy on him and take notes of what he likes. Plan out what you will say to him. Try it on your friends and if they think it's bad they can help you change it. Practise saying it then the next day. Take 3 deep breaths then talk to him remembering what you wrote because by then you would of learnt it by heart.
i like this guy at my church but i just don't know how to talk to him. he doesn't go to the same school, and he's in 8th grade this year (i'm in 7th). what should i do? but the good thing is, i know he likes me. absotively posolutely.
i have sooooo much trouble with that! even with boys i don't have a crush on i get nervous. HELP ME PLZ! what should i do? learn to be friends with them? HOW???!!!!
well i am pretty much friends with all the guys in my class. but i did like this guy and he new it to. so my friend told me that he liked me to and then i kind of i dont now lost interesstin him. i like hanging out with guys but it does not mean i like him(sometimes).
I feel your pain. I am very chaty I am even a Gemini! but when I am around boys I am a kluts and I always hit them. but what I do is practice talking in the mirror.
Kat14 ik! same with me! i thought no one had that problem. then when i talked to him finally there was nothing to talk about. then he would get mad i didn't talk to him, then i would ask him to talk to me first just to try that. but, he said no. we aren't together now though.
When you're talking to your crush sometimes it helps if you just imagine he is a piece of asperagus! I'm serious it actually works. If you try it and youre sucessful click on the heart! Hope that helps.
Okay, so why is it that I talk up a storm with Charlotte, Isabel, Avery, and Maeve, but when it comes to talking to boys… I feel like I have nothing to say! We had this dance a few weeks ago and an eighth-grader asked me if I wanted to dance with him! Yay! He seemed pretty cool at the dance, and I kind of want to get to know him better as a friend. But, whenever we see each other in the halls, it’s like “Hi.” And that’s it!
I need some help, ladies. I need some tips on talking to crushes—and I’m sure I’m not alone!
Sometimes, just talking to boys gives me the heebie-jeebies! How do you get over being totally scared to talk to a crush?
TTYL,
you may not think that hi and hey aren't the word s of love but..
don't worry we all get tounge tied i try to be super confident try giving yourself the pep talk the chances are he will really like you alot!
i mean you are katani
I always have my BFF when i talk to someone that i like and if if i need help of forget something then she is always there to help me.
Well I think it depends on your personality. Your a smart and capable of many things kinda kid so you should picture yourself as if you a giving a speak to some people cause your CEO of Kgirl express.Hope this helps
Well, I just practice in front of the mirror, and when the real moment comes act all cool and sosphisticated and pretend your not into him and make him do stuff for you. Trust me it will become easier
The simple way-talk to him! Once you get to know him, you guys might start to become friends. It might seem awkward at first, but if you keep at it, (that doesn't mean follow him around ALL THE TIME!) you could become one of the girls on his "girl crush list". Hope this helps!
just try to stay calm, everyone is afraid to talk to a boy if you really like him, just try to act cool.
Just take deep breaths before u confront him and stay calm! That might work!!
go girl!
i really like this boy who was in my class last years, i am really nervous around him, i feel like he does the same thing, what in the world should i do!!!!!!!!!!!
don't freez, there's no reason. just like madeline1999 said, he's a human being and nothing more than that, b urself and if he doesn't like u for that, (which i'm sure he does or he wouldn't b ur friend) then forget about him and move on. hope that helps!!
i've never really had that problem, maybe just bcause i'm not the "scared" type. but i say if you r that type then u should just keep the conversation simple and not try 2 impress him with things that u can't really do, that always ends bad!!!
It is not that big a deal. He is just a human being just like us. Don't get all giddy and excited OR shy and clamed up. Just talk to him like he's one of BSG and everything will be fine!GOOD LUCK!!!!
try to figer out how you feel about him.
all i do is be myself and actnatarlly and wait till he says somthin two you

All i do is just talk to him as if we were friends. i really don't make it seem to obvious that i like him. but n e who . i just be myself. i mean i have been in this situation b4. and ladies it is not easy. so just be yourself. don't worry about all the little things. bcuz i am pretty sure he likes you for you
i know this boy in my class that i like but we are only friends and when i am talking to him i always freez cause i dont know what to say help me
I once had this friend in middle school (he was in middle) and this school was from k to 6th. So he went to my school. One of my bffs liked him, but he didn't no. But she told me not to tell him. But i also liked him. But no one, not even my bff knew! But one day, i told him that I new someone who liked him. But i didn't tell him who. But it was my bff. I told him later that I liked him. But then i saved myself from emmbarestment and said JK! But i wasn't. Any way,my point is try to be his friend first, then see how he feels about you. If he feels the same way, then ask him out if he doesn't have a girlfriend already.
Just be yourself and see if your crush likes you for who you are. If he does, try to be nice to him. If not, don't be heart-broken. Try to be friends with him. There are a lot of other guys out there.
I have that problem, but opposite. When I'm talking to boys I say things that sound really stupid, or freak out and just kind of walk away. But if i just relax and remind myself that they're people too, it's easier not to sound so stupid.
the way i got over it was by talking to him like he is one of my gal pals. except: dont talk to him about boys[lol]
Secretly spy on him and take notes of what he likes. Plan out what you will say to him. Try it on your friends and if they think it's bad they can help you change it. Practise saying it then the next day. Take 3 deep breaths then talk to him remembering what you wrote because by then you would of learnt it by heart.
i like this guy at my church but i just don't know how to talk to him. he doesn't go to the same school, and he's in 8th grade this year (i'm in 7th). what should i do? but the good thing is, i know he likes me. absotively posolutely.
i have sooooo much trouble with that! even with boys i don't have a crush on i get nervous. HELP ME PLZ! what should i do? learn to be friends with them? HOW???!!!!
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well i am pretty much friends with all the guys in my class. but i did like this guy and he new it to. so my friend told me that he liked me to and then i kind of i dont now lost interesstin him. i like hanging out with guys but it does not mean i like him(sometimes).
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i just avoid boys at all costs- ino i'm gonna hav to talk to them sometime- but how do i start!?
you have to really be comfterbale around them so you should probably make small talk and become friends
I feel your pain. I am very chaty I am even a Gemini! but when I am around boys I am a kluts and I always hit them. but what I do is practice talking in the mirror.
Well to be honest, I'm not scared of talking to my crush. To everyone who is, be yourself, and hope for the best! xoxo Dizzy Dancer
Kat14 ik! same with me! i thought no one had that problem. then when i talked to him finally there was nothing to talk about. then he would get mad i didn't talk to him, then i would ask him to talk to me first just to try that. but, he said no. we aren't together now though.
ive known my guy friend for 3 yrs. (or more) and somtimes its hard for me to talk to himcuase hes always distracted by somthing else
well im not scared to talk 2 boys u should not be scared. just go up and talk
U should have more confidence
i just talk to him and hope he likes me and if he does i ask him,and if he says no i know he likes me! so just to him.
When you're talking to your crush sometimes it helps if you just imagine he is a piece of asperagus! I'm serious it actually works. If you try it and youre sucessful click on the heart! Hope that helps.
well my crush is my friend so i can talk to him with out being nervous so girls out there trie to be friends with ur crush and maybe he'll like u
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