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Do Your Own Thing

Girls, I’m here to talk about those confusing creatures who can burp in your face one minute and be super nice to you the next—yup, this is about BOYS.

Some of us want attention from boys ... others don’t. Either way, getting attention from boys doesn’t have to be to see if they like you or not. Some boys are actually pretty cool just as friends.

But, exactly HOW do you get either kind of attention from boys? Well, let me share three things I’ve learned so far from having a brother, boy neighbors, and like 1,000 crushes.

Get positive attention: Positive attention from boys is actually a BONUS for doing the things that make YOU happy. Like, being the first in your school to score five goals in one game, or getting the highest grade on a math test—boys notice that. Achieving one of YOUR goals is the kind of thing that makes boys think, “Wow, she’s pretty cool.”


Avoid negative attention: Negative attention usually comes from doing things that are, quite simply, NOT you. Being known for wearing the shortest skirts or the highest heels doesn’t necessarily get you the kind of attention you want from boys. And if it does, those probably aren’t the boys who are interested in you as a person—and being liked for who you are inside, I think, is WAY more important.


Play it cool: Confession: I get all giggly and flustered around boys like Dillon sometimes, but being all flirty and intense can freak guys out a little. Casually talking to your crush about class or his soccer team will show him how cool and friendly you are. Then, if you’re too scared to let him know how you REALLY feel, you can have fun being friends and see where it takes you down the road.


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But, boy issues aren't only about getting him to notice you. What are YOUR problems? Let's see if we can work them out together.

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Nov 30, 2008
XV238 writes: Comment
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 i have a ZILLION crushes

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Nov 28, 2008
JINX9041 writes: Comment
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Well actually the dude is crazy!
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Nov 28, 2008
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I think you should just leave things the way they are. Doing anything else will confuse things! Hope this helps.
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Nov 28, 2008
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Hey, you should be unique! Being like everyone else makes you blend in with the crowd, but being unique makes you stand out from the crowd. Hope this helps!

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Nov 28, 2008
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Alright. The first thing you need to do is chill! JK i think you should just wait for them to ask you out. it makes things A LOT easier!
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Nov 28, 2008
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Hey you are not a nerd! Those "so-called populars" think they're popular IN THEIR OWN WORLD. You are probably the only one that's normal!

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Nov 18, 2008
supergirl2521 writes: Comment
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 Everyone thinks I'm a nerd but I'm not, even the guys won't talk to me, they just talk to the so called poulars, i'm not smart and i'm not dumb, but i want a boyfriend!!

 

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Nov 4, 2008
pretty girl 08 writes: Comment
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 i have a boy that i like  and it is ok just ok

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Nov 1, 2008
22943 writes: Comment
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i have this boy who i think likes me,this boy who is being nice and sweet to me cause he likes me,a boy who makes fun of me and likes me,and i have a boy who has the cutest smile and is friends with the 3 other guys and likes me!what should i do,which 1 should i ask out or what?write me back please  love 22943

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Oct 29, 2008
princess Ika writes: Comment
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hey girl,

i also have a crush with my boy so just  relax and cool:)

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Oct 22, 2008
jmtindall writes: Comment
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 i have a cruch on my boy that is a bff not a boy friend and need help prontonow  

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Oct 20, 2008
deepfaller04 writes: Comment
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tell me about it!
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Oct 20, 2008
deepfaller04 writes: Comment
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yes, and it turned out he liked me. But he was a JERK!!!!! I also let cool guys slip by. It's hard
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Oct 20, 2008
deepfaller04 writes: Comment
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KEEP COOL! He does it because he knows it bothers you. When he says poke,poke (which #1 is SO immature, and #2 MAYBE he likes you.) don't say anything. Or just aviode him(if you can).

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Oct 20, 2008
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I always giggle. They think I'm laghing at them. How do I say" I'm not laghing at you,I'm just nervous anround cute guys" with out saying exactly that? lol

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Oct 19, 2008
HCOcaligrl2527 writes: Comment
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 boys r weird. like whn they like u & they act so tough but actually they r 2  shy 2 ask u out. Mostly they do this cuz they dont kno u like thm bak. So I gess its good 2 ask him out.

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Oct 19, 2008
love2cook writes: Comment
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there's this one boy who i really like, and who really likes me, but we're still just friends :( if anyone knows how i should ask him out, please help me!!!

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Oct 19, 2008
love2cook writes: Comment
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boys are such idiots in Jr. High and high school, always showing off...

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Oct 16, 2008
jbros345 writes: Comment
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 well i HAD a crush on this boy! And at first He was soo nice and quiet (just like me). and i ALWAYS tried to get his attention! It kinda worked but then i said to myself " This is not the true me, i need to be myself and do my own thing" So If i was being myself i had to stop liking him! It was hard...but i made it through and today im doing REALLY good! LOL! My friend gave me the best advice...because she had the SAME situation! So wher is he today? IDK!  But atleast im over him!  Thats my story! Much luv~jbros345

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Oct 15, 2008
chana11 writes: Comment
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hey  just go and tell the boy  thing then get to know the guy ok

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Oct 15, 2008
chana11 writes: Comment
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 hey i have this thing that i want to tell me dad but i think hes going to get mad at me see i like this boy but hes a little bit taller then me

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Oct 8, 2008
d diamond writes: Comment
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 i like him but he dont want to say nothing to  me around his friend 

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Oct 8, 2008
chazz writes: Comment
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 dear emma96 just ask him out!!!!!!!!

   CHAZZ

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Oct 3, 2008
princessZeze writes: Comment
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 some boy asked me out to the holloween dance, but before he used to always "kick me" but he is kind of cute what do i do?

BOYS ARE SO CONFUSING

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Sep 23, 2008
Breezy82 writes: Comment
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 You rock 

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Sep 20, 2008
juliussa writes: Comment
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 i like to do my own thing.

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Sep 11, 2008
purplebeaver writes: Comment
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 No i think he does not like you i am not trying to be mean i am only trying to help

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Aug 25, 2008
brat4jj writes: Comment
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Well I like this one boy but my friend already told him! He said he didnt like me at all and will never go out with me.... turns out the friend that told him was his girlfriend, she took it totally fine though... but now its their second time they broke up and he kinda started acting nice and funnier than he was to me. He also acts nice to his ex. Maybe as if he thought he wanted to get back together. When I asked him if he would ever get back with her he said never ever ever!! Do you think he likes me and his ex at the same time or what? I'm confused!!

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Aug 24, 2008
quesha writes: Comment
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 i like it really like it

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Aug 24, 2008
Jadore writes: Comment
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 its not letting me type!!

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Aug 24, 2008
Jadore writes: Comment
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 If you think guys have issues that we can't explain click the heart

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Aug 24, 2008
Jadore writes: Comment
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 well i want to major in either eco or geo engineering!

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Aug 24, 2008
Li'l Mamma writes: Comment
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 GIRLS, if you have trouble on home work or class work and you are to imbarased to ask for help its ok.

Just wait till after school to ask your teacher .

If your still afraid, ask your mom, dad, sis, or bro witch ever is better at what 'eva.

but if its class work ask you teacher privetly like at his desk.If your still scared say it in a whisper to him or her .

anyone of his desk's mine has two i use the one thats closer to the door or jus the one he is at i feel better.Take it from some one that knows.

You will feel less scared .

 ,

Li'l Mamma

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Aug 24, 2008
Jadore writes: Comment
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 WELL! i want to be an... (omg this is hard to type) astro-geo-zoo-batmatist engineer! but if that doesnt work out i want to major in either eco or geo engineering!

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Aug 24, 2008
Jadore writes: Comment
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 oh and hey i dont know where else to chat about this so what do u gals want to be when u grow up?

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Aug 24, 2008
Jadore writes: Comment
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 Hey to all u soon to be 7ys its easy if u got friends! dont got friends? well then make new ones! it really is easy but if no1 comes up to u its probably just because they r nervous and scaredjust like the rest of the 7th grade! when i started middle school i actually went to a high school too! it was sooooooo scary because i had seniors in my french class and on top of that all of my old friends went to a different school!!! but then i met new people and it was fun, except very hard because my school had like the 3rd best ACT scores in the country...so ya it gets easier!