Girls, I’m here to talk about those confusing creatures who can burp in your face one minute and be super nice to you the next—yup, this is about BOYS.
Some of us want attention from boys ... others don’t. Either way, getting attention from boys doesn’t have to be to see if they like you or not. Some boys are actually pretty cool just as friends.
But, exactly HOW do you get either kind of attention from boys? Well, let me share three things I’ve learned so far from having a brother, boy neighbors, and like 1,000 crushes.
Get positive attention: Positive attention from boys is actually a BONUS for doing the things that make YOU happy. Like, being the first in your school to score five goals in one game, or getting the highest grade on a math test—boys notice that. Achieving one of YOUR goals is the kind of thing that makes boys think, “Wow, she’s pretty cool.”
Avoid negative attention: Negative attention usually comes from doing things that are, quite simply, NOT you. Being known for wearing the shortest skirts or the highest heels doesn’t necessarily get you the kind of attention you want from boys. And if it does, those probably aren’t the boys who are interested in you as a person—and being liked for who you are inside, I think, is WAY more important.
Play it cool: Confession: I get all giggly and flustered around boys like Dillon sometimes, but being all flirty and intense can freak guys out a little. Casually talking to your crush about class or his soccer team will show him how cool and friendly you are. Then, if you’re too scared to let him know how you REALLY feel, you can have fun being friends and see where it takes you down the road.
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But, boy issues aren't only about getting him to notice you. What are YOUR problems? Let's see if we can work them out together.
Hey, you should be unique! Being like everyone else makes you blend in with the crowd, but being unique makes you stand out from the crowd. Hope this helps!
Everyone thinks I'm a nerd but I'm not, even the guys won't talk to me, they just talk to the so called poulars, i'm not smart and i'm not dumb, but i want a boyfriend!!
i have this boy who i think likes me,this boy who is being nice and sweet to me cause he likes me,a boy who makes fun of me and likes me,and i have a boy who has the cutest smile and is friends with the 3 other guys and likes me!what should i do,which 1 should i ask out or what?write me back please love 22943
KEEP COOL! He does it because he knows it bothers you. When he says poke,poke (which #1 is SO immature, and #2 MAYBE he likes you.) don't say anything. Or just aviode him(if you can).
I always giggle. They think I'm laghing at them. How do I say" I'm not laghing at you,I'm just nervous anround cute guys" with out saying exactly that? lol
boys r weird. like whn they like u & they act so tough but actually they r 2 shy 2 ask u out. Mostly they do this cuz they dont kno u like thm bak. So I gess its good 2 ask him out.
there's this one boy who i really like, and who really likes me, but we're still just friends :( if anyone knows how i should ask him out, please help me!!!
well i HAD a crush on this boy! And at first He was soo nice and quiet (just like me). and i ALWAYS tried to get his attention! It kinda worked but then i said to myself " This is not the true me, i need to be myself and do my own thing" So If i was being myself i had to stop liking him! It was hard...but i made it through and today im doing REALLY good! LOL! My friend gave me the best advice...because she had the SAME situation! So wher is he today? IDK! But atleast im over him! Thats my story! Much luv~jbros345
Well I like this one boy but my friend already told him! He said he didnt like me at all and will never go out with me.... turns out the friend that told him was his girlfriend, she took it totally fine though... but now its their second time they broke up and he kinda started acting nice and funnier than he was to me. He also acts nice to his ex. Maybe as if he thought he wanted to get back together. When I asked him if he would ever get back with her he said never ever ever!! Do you think he likes me and his ex at the same time or what? I'm confused!!
WELL! i want to be an... (omg this is hard to type) astro-geo-zoo-batmatist engineer! but if that doesnt work out i want to major in either eco or geo engineering!
Hey to all u soon to be 7ys its easy if u got friends! dont got friends? well then make new ones! it really is easy but if no1 comes up to u its probably just because they r nervous and scaredjust like the rest of the 7th grade! when i started middle school i actually went to a high school too! it was sooooooo scary because i had seniors in my french class and on top of that all of my old friends went to a different school!!! but then i met new people and it was fun, except very hard because my school had like the 3rd best ACT scores in the country...so ya it gets easier!
Some of us want attention from boys ... others don’t. Either way, getting attention from boys doesn’t have to be to see if they like you or not. Some boys are actually pretty cool just as friends.
But, exactly HOW do you get either kind of attention from boys? Well, let me share three things I’ve learned so far from having a brother, boy neighbors, and like 1,000 crushes.
Get positive attention: Positive attention from boys is actually a BONUS for doing the things that make YOU happy. Like, being the first in your school to score five goals in one game, or getting the highest grade on a math test—boys notice that. Achieving one of YOUR goals is the kind of thing that makes boys think, “Wow, she’s pretty cool.”
Avoid negative attention: Negative attention usually comes from doing things that are, quite simply, NOT you. Being known for wearing the shortest skirts or the highest heels doesn’t necessarily get you the kind of attention you want from boys. And if it does, those probably aren’t the boys who are interested in you as a person—and being liked for who you are inside, I think, is WAY more important.
Play it cool: Confession: I get all giggly and flustered around boys like Dillon sometimes, but being all flirty and intense can freak guys out a little. Casually talking to your crush about class or his soccer team will show him how cool and friendly you are. Then, if you’re too scared to let him know how you REALLY feel, you can have fun being friends and see where it takes you down the road.
XOXO,
i have a ZILLION crushes
Hey, you should be unique! Being like everyone else makes you blend in with the crowd, but being unique makes you stand out from the crowd. Hope this helps!
Hey you are not a nerd! Those "so-called populars" think they're popular IN THEIR OWN WORLD. You are probably the only one that's normal!
Everyone thinks I'm a nerd but I'm not, even the guys won't talk to me, they just talk to the so called poulars, i'm not smart and i'm not dumb, but i want a boyfriend!!
i have a boy that i like and it is ok just ok
i have this boy who i think likes me,this boy who is being nice and sweet to me cause he likes me,a boy who makes fun of me and likes me,and i have a boy who has the cutest smile and is friends with the 3 other guys and likes me!what should i do,which 1 should i ask out or what?
write me back please love 22943
hey girl,
i also have a crush with my boy so just relax and cool:)
i have a cruch on my boy that is a bff not a boy friend and need help pronto
now
KEEP COOL! He does it because he knows it bothers you. When he says poke,poke (which #1 is SO immature, and #2 MAYBE he likes you.) don't say anything. Or just aviode him(if you can).
I always giggle. They think I'm laghing at them. How do I say" I'm not laghing at you,I'm just nervous anround cute guys" with out saying exactly that? lol
boys r weird. like whn they like u & they act so tough but actually they r 2 shy 2 ask u out. Mostly they do this cuz they dont kno u like thm bak. So I gess its good 2 ask him out.
there's this one boy who i really like, and who really likes me, but we're still just friends :( if anyone knows how i should ask him out, please help me!!!
boys are such idiots in Jr. High and high school, always showing off...
well i HAD a crush on this boy! And at first He was soo nice and quiet (just like me). and i ALWAYS tried to get his attention! It kinda worked but then i said to myself " This is not the true me, i need to be myself and do my own thing" So If i was being myself i had to stop liking him! It was hard...but i made it through and today im doing REALLY good! LOL! My friend gave me the best advice...because she had the SAME situation! So wher is he today? IDK! But atleast im over him! Thats my story! Much luv~jbros345
hey just go and tell the boy thing then get to know the guy ok
hey i have this thing that i want to tell me dad but i think hes going to get mad at me see i like this boy but hes a little bit taller then me
i like him but he dont want to say nothing to me around his friend
dear emma96 just ask him out!!!!!!!!
some boy asked me out to the holloween dance, but before he used to always "kick me" but he is kind of cute what do i do?
BOYS ARE SO CONFUSING
You rock
i like to do my own thing.
No i think he does not like you i am not trying to be mean i am only trying to help
Well I like this one boy but my friend already told him! He said he didnt like me at all and will never go out with me.... turns out the friend that told him was his girlfriend, she took it totally fine though... but now its their second time they broke up and he kinda started acting nice and funnier than he was to me. He also acts nice to his ex. Maybe as if he thought he wanted to get back together. When I asked him if he would ever get back with her he said never ever ever!! Do you think he likes me and his ex at the same time or what? I'm confused!!
i like it really like it
its not letting me type!!
If you think guys have issues that we can't explain click the heart
well i want to major in either eco or geo engineering!
GIRLS, if you have trouble on home work or class work and you are to imbarased to ask for help its ok.
Just wait till after school to ask your teacher .
If your still afraid, ask your mom, dad, sis, or bro witch ever is better at what 'eva.
but if its class work ask you teacher privetly like at his desk.If your still scared say it in a whisper to him or her .
anyone of his desk's mine has two i use the one thats closer to the door or jus the one he is at i feel better.Take it from some one that knows.
You will feel less scared .
,
Li'l Mamma
WELL! i want to be an... (omg this is hard to type) astro-geo-zoo-batmatist engineer! but if that doesnt work out i want to major in either eco or geo engineering!
oh and hey i dont know where else to chat about this so what do u gals want to be when u grow up?
Hey to all u soon to be 7ys its easy if u got friends! dont got friends? well then make new ones! it really is easy but if no1 comes up to u its probably just because they r nervous and scaredjust like the rest of the 7th grade! when i started middle school i actually went to a high school too! it was sooooooo scary because i had seniors in my french class and on top of that all of my old friends went to a different school!!! but then i met new people and it was fun, except very hard because my school had like the 3rd best ACT scores in the country...so ya it gets easier!