You know, sometimes I wish I were in the movies. Well, actually, I wish that ALL the time! But, I find myself especially jealous of those girls in Hollywoodland who get PUSHED together with a cute boy by outside forces. Like, Gabriella and Troy when they sang Karaoke. It ALWAYS works out that the boy ends up liking the girl and the girl ends up liking the guy, and everyone’s happy.
But, what if you and your crush AREN’T pushed together… ever? Like, you’re not in the same class, you don’t have the same friends, and you feel like you’re just meant to stare at him from afar… oh, so romantic!
Romantic, but frustrating. So, how DO you get to know your crush when it seems like the forces of nature are keeping you APART? Read on for my secrets.
Use your resources. If your crush is in your friend’s class (lucky!), talk to her about casually dropping your name in here and there. Like, “Hey, that was a great story you read today in class. My friend Charlotte is a really good writer, too.” Or, if he plays on your brother’s soccer team, go to the games and say “hi” or “good game”—not too hard, right?
Focus on his strengths. If you are talking to your crush casually from time to time and need another excuse to talk to him, think about his strengths and what he’s into. Like, if he’s really into music, you could ask him to recommend which Rolling Stones CD is the best to get for your dad or something. Also, everyone likes to talk about stuff that they’re good at. Bring up a sport he likes or ask him a question about something he knows a LOT about. Chances are, he won’t give you a one-word answer!
Be BOLD. No, really, you gotta be bold sometimes when there are no forces of nature pushing you and your crush together. You have to make it happen for yourself! Yeah, you can have your BFF talk to his friend, but that route can take AGES for anything to happen. Sometimes, you just gotta go up to him, smile, and say “hi!” It shows confidence and friendliness—which are GREAT qualities to have. And, it’s not like you have to single him out, either. Say hey-what’s-up to all his friends, or challenge his group of guys to a soccer match against your group of girls. Sometimes things seem a lot easier when you have your girls behind you!
Crushing from afar might seem impossible, but there ARE ways to get to know your crush when you’re not already in the same group of friends, or neighbors, or picked to sing Karaoke together. Got an idea? Share the wealth!
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Forces of nature aside, what are some of YOUR ways to get to know your crush?
hey everyone the guy i like is in my class and he rides the same bus as me,and i have the biggest crush on him and my best friend like LOVES him but she keeps telling me that she knows he likes me he also just comes up to me out of the middle of nowhere and just starts talking to me for like ever and he sometimes stares at me and it's really weird do you guys think he likes me write back soon,seashore
Some of the ways i get to know my crush is well i go up to him every day and say hey what's up,and then i say what do you like doing best or what are you best at and me and my crush are really fast runners and we'll sometimes have a racing contest =D
there is this guy in my math class and he is only in that class with me and that's it,but i don't know if i should tell him or not?SHOULD I ?HELP!!!!!!!!!!
There is a guy in my math class that I like and he is in my math class,I don't think he likes me,but he sometimes talks to me but I don't know if he likes me.What should I do????????
There is this guy who likes me I don't know what to say because he keeps on bothering me saying" Can I get your # and Can I get your email adress" and I say no but I also want to say yes so he could stop saying that.
well..... if ur having a get together, invite him. or if at lunch, if he sits at a diff. table, then go sit next to him and talk to him. sometimes u have to him how you feel about him but i understand that u dont kno if he likes u or not. so to tell if he likes u, if he stares at u, helikes u. if he stutters a lot around u, he likes u. and definitely, if he smiles at u a lot then he likes u. i've been through all these experiences and tips and it worked for me. how about u?
Don't talk to them as much at first. Talk to your friends and all who know him well. Get to know what he is like, without risking actually having to start a conversation with him. Once you know enough, go up and say hi. THATS when you start your conversation. The reason you find out about him first is so that when you hear something that is akward or you don't know much about, you will already know so have the time beforehand to find out more about it.
I seriously like this guy who's in my class. he is sooo nice and sweet and really smart and athletic too. He kinda flirts with me sometimes and i think he might like me. once like in my class we have "national hug day" on friday, and i was hugging my friend. Then the guy i liked was like, "what about me?!?" to me. But then at the same time i think he thinks im weird or dumb or something. What do i do? HELP!!!
Well, if he doesnt like you, just try to be good friends with him instead. Dont stop being friends with him, especially if he is really nice, or something.
Take some time to spend with him then from how he acts basing on if you think he might like you then tell him, but if you think he doesn't after you spend time with him don't tell him and move on.
Just go up and talk to him if need support always bring a friend who is close to you. Sometimes they like you too they just seem a little shocked that you like them to and try avoid you, so they don't have to face the truth. If I were you just talk to him, slow things down, and work it out between you two.
I have a crush, who i really like. But it really is a weird story, considering i used to hate the guy and we were the complete opposites. Until we were paired up for a class the whole year! and thats when we got to know each other better. I count him as my best friend but I like him a lot!!! and he just found out by my friend!!! me and him haven't spoken for a while now, so i am scared if he doesn't understand. Considering how many times people said he liked me as well. I don't know what to do.
hey any advice anyone? I like a guy named T** and yeah i think he might like me too!! i mean like he hugged me and told me he loves mi smile so yeah i think he might..but uhhhi havent talked 2 him l8tly and mi bff is going to tell him i like him since they r like tight! but im so afraid! he might now like me!! help!!!
i have crush who knows i like him and he and i were good friends untill he kept asking me who i like and then, misunderstood my bff because he thought she said that she told me to pretend to like him and now he won't talk to me
Hi girls!
You know, sometimes I wish I were in the movies. Well, actually, I wish that ALL the time! But, I find myself especially jealous of those girls in Hollywoodland who get PUSHED together with a cute boy by outside forces. Like, Gabriella and Troy when they sang Karaoke. It ALWAYS works out that the boy ends up liking the girl and the girl ends up liking the guy, and everyone’s happy.
But, what if you and your crush AREN’T pushed together… ever? Like, you’re not in the same class, you don’t have the same friends, and you feel like you’re just meant to stare at him from afar… oh, so romantic!
Romantic, but frustrating. So, how DO you get to know your crush when it seems like the forces of nature are keeping you APART? Read on for my secrets.
Use your resources. If your crush is in your friend’s class (lucky!), talk to her about casually dropping your name in here and there. Like, “Hey, that was a great story you read today in class. My friend Charlotte is a really good writer, too.” Or, if he plays on your brother’s soccer team, go to the games and say “hi” or “good game”—not too hard, right?
Focus on his strengths. If you are talking to your crush casually from time to time and need another excuse to talk to him, think about his strengths and what he’s into. Like, if he’s really into music, you could ask him to recommend which Rolling Stones CD is the best to get for your dad or something. Also, everyone likes to talk about stuff that they’re good at. Bring up a sport he likes or ask him a question about something he knows a LOT about. Chances are, he won’t give you a one-word answer!
Be BOLD. No, really, you gotta be bold sometimes when there are no forces of nature pushing you and your crush together. You have to make it happen for yourself! Yeah, you can have your BFF talk to his friend, but that route can take AGES for anything to happen. Sometimes, you just gotta go up to him, smile, and say “hi!” It shows confidence and friendliness—which are GREAT qualities to have. And, it’s not like you have to single him out, either. Say hey-what’s-up to all his friends, or challenge his group of guys to a soccer match against your group of girls. Sometimes things seem a lot easier when you have your girls behind you!
Crushing from afar might seem impossible, but there ARE ways to get to know your crush when you’re not already in the same group of friends, or neighbors, or picked to sing Karaoke together. Got an idea? Share the wealth!
XOXO,
hey everyone the guy i like is in my class and he rides the same bus as me,and i have the biggest crush on him and my best friend like LOVES him but she keeps telling me that she knows he likes me he also just comes up to me out of the middle of nowhere and just starts talking to me for like ever and he sometimes stares at me and it's really weird do you guys think he likes me write back soon,seashore
Some of the ways i get to know my crush is well i go up to him every day and say hey what's up,and then i say what do you like doing best or what are you best at and me and my crush are really fast runners and we'll sometimes have a racing contest =D
there is this guy in my math class and he is only in that class with me and that's it,but i don't know if i should tell him or not?SHOULD I ?HELP!!!!!!!!!!
There is a guy in my math class that I like and he is in my math class,I don't think he likes me,but he sometimes talks to me but I don't know if he likes me.What should I do????????
There is this guy who likes me I don't know what to say because he keeps on bothering me saying" Can I get your # and Can I get your email adress" and I say no but I also want to say yes so he could stop saying that.
talk to his friends and see what kind of girl he likes then find that girl
My friend has a crush on a guy named Isreal and he likes another girl tell me what she should do?
well..... if ur having a get together, invite him. or if at lunch, if he sits at a diff. table, then go sit next to him and talk to him. sometimes u have to him how you feel about him but i understand that u dont kno if he likes u or not. so to tell if he likes u, if he stares at u, helikes u. if he stutters a lot around u, he likes u. and definitely, if he smiles at u a lot then he likes u. i've been through all these experiences and tips and it worked for me. how about u?
well make him somthink or buy him a present
that will cheer him up or
play with his mates and get him jelous
sit next to him at lunch ,but have your friends with you as well so you have an exuse
I wanna ask the same thing mileygirl2 asked...how do u know if a guy likes u?
Don't talk to them as much at first. Talk to your friends and all who know him well. Get to know what he is like, without risking actually having to start a conversation with him. Once you know enough, go up and say hi. THATS when you start your conversation. The reason you find out about him first is so that when you hear something that is akward or you don't know much about, you will already know so have the time beforehand to find out more about it.
how do you know if a guy likes u
I seriously like this guy who's in my class. he is sooo nice and sweet and really smart and athletic too. He kinda flirts with me sometimes and i think he might like me. once like in my class we have "national hug day" on friday, and i was hugging my friend. Then the guy i liked was like, "what about me?!?" to me. But then at the same time i think he thinks im weird or dumb or something. What do i do? HELP!!!
cutiepie1993,
Well, if he doesnt like you, just try to be good friends with him instead. Dont stop being friends with him, especially if he is really nice, or something.
me and my friend are like best friends with this guy but he says he doesn't like me. what should i do??????????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
WHAT IF THE GUY YOU LIKE YOU HAVE KNOWN HIM FOR LIKE EVA?????
what did he say after u told him?
Just talk 2 him! Eventually u might even become friends! That's what i did, then a few days ago i told him i like liked him...
Cinderella101, oppostites attract.
Just go up and talk to him if need support always bring a friend who is close to you. Sometimes they like you too they just seem a little shocked that you like them to and try avoid you, so they don't have to face the truth. If I were you just talk to him, slow things down, and work it out between you two.
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KMOT
talk to him alot
I have a crush, who i really like. But it really is a weird story, considering i used to hate the guy and we were the complete opposites. Until we were paired up for a class the whole year! and thats when we got to know each other better. I count him as my best friend but I like him a lot!!! and he just found out by my friend!!! me and him haven't spoken for a while now, so i am scared if he doesn't understand. Considering how many times people said he liked me as well. I don't know what to do.
hey any advice anyone? I like a guy named T** and yeah i think he might like me too!! i mean like he hugged me and told me he loves mi smile so yeah i think he might..but uhhhi havent talked 2 him l8tly and mi bff is going to tell him i like him since they r like tight! but im so afraid! he might now like me!! help!!!
get closer and closer and bam kiss kiss
i have crush who knows i like him and he and i were good friends untill he kept asking me who i like and then, misunderstood my bff because he thought she said that she told me to pretend to like him and now he won't talk to me
I have a crush from the other classroom I forgot his name
I heve htis boy at school I have a crush on him .hi is 14 ,hi is so sweet but hi is laike a littel kid end he is soooooooo sweet r ....
end mis love.
I have this boy at my school I have a crush on him.He gets off at my stop.What should I do ?Tell him or Dont tell him