The BSG and I are the best of friends. But even BFFs have fights
sometimes. Ick. Like when Avery AND Katani were both running for
president of the 7th grade class at Abigail Adams Junior High. Yeah,
with the both of them planning their campaigns, lunch got a little…
well, intense. And AWK-ward!
At one point, Avery and Katani wouldn’t even sit with each other! It
was awful. But, the BSG stuck together—like we always do—and came out
stronger than ever. (You can read alllll about Avery and Katani’s
presidential duel in book #5 Promises, Promises.)
My best friend B** (I live in Mexico. Soooo much fun! ) and I fight all the time. But we always work it out. I am not in Mexico for a year so I'm not sure she's going to turn out as my best friend. *dogluver*
HELP!!! ok guys here the thing... latley my bff hasn't been telling me some stuff idky???she tells me its cause she doesn't want to make me feel bad, i think thats sweet but i also wants her to know that she can tell me anything and she can trust me, and one time she accidently said something to me that was in inside joke with another friend and i kept asking her what it was and she kept changing the subject, wat should i do??? signed #1jobrosfan
me and my best friend have known eachoter for six years now but sometimes we get in fights and she says "I hate you and I never want tosee you or talk to you again"it hurts me and then the next day shes like"Hey we are best friends"i hate it and sometimes she lies and then i get in trouble.what should i do???? HELP!!!!!!!!!
I have 2 friends and they always get into argument over small stuff they even got into a fight one time but later they became friends again but still argude alot
Hey, I'm not naming ANY names here, but some of the people on this site have been arguing a lot. Has any1 else noticed this, and please don't hate me for bringing it up!
When my freidns fight, they usually choose sides. It really stinks. Then they want ME to choose sides! I just say Hey, no way. Your problem, not mine. You have to work it out by yourselves. I don't choose sides. They usually figure things out, without me. I'm just glad when they are!
When my friends fight here's what I do: 1) Take time for each to calm down 2) Discuss the problem 3) Ask one to leave and discuss their side of the story 4) Do the same with the other friend 5) Bring them both back in, and tell them what they should do, if you were one of them. 6) Hug *If they don't respect your help, they really aren't TRUE FRIENDS*
Dear Sparklygirl, I might know why and I might not. It might be because she isnt your real friend who is honest with you the whole time. Just a thought. Your friend, Michellerocksout
Dear kennedy_52, I mean, just deal with it.That is the best thing to do. That is good that you are not fighting back, but just say something. say like, you are right. Just say something. Your friend, Michellerocksout
My first best friend,M**, and I got into the biggest fight last year over MY ipod. She asked if one of her friends could use it and I said yes. She thought I said no. I don't see her any more . But I did say sorry for the misunderstanding. I know I did nuthing wrong but she wouldn't talk to me. One of her old friends is my friend now. She is so cool. Whith M** out of my life it is a whole lot better.
Sometimes my friends can be annoying or just plain mean(sometimes), we may not talk for a couple of days but then we will laugh how stupid our fight was!
My friend problem is my friend always lies to me. I just don't understand why she does it.Plus on top she hangs with me and thenn goes and leaves me for her other friends. I don't know why!
me and my bff fight some times but it i susally about her picking on me !!! ( not trying to be rude ) she usally says things about my clothes or face or hair but im prettier then her but im not mean enough to say something mean back like what do i do ??
me and my best freinds get into fights about someone hanging out with the other one but then does not pay attintion to the the other one but it always works out
Dear Happyluckythingylover, Well, I am sorry. You can ask tell her that you are going to call her at a certain time and not to talk to anyone else. But that is not good advice. That happened to me too. Well, there was me and this girl and we were inseprable in second grade. In third grade, we were still best friends, but we didnt talk as much. When I started fourth grade, on the first day I knew something happened over summer and all we did was say hi and that was it. That and we were in different classes. The worst thing is is that she is one of the popular girls now so there is no way at all we will become friends again. It was so akward one time when my best friend introduced us. It actually felt like I had never seen her before. I really was mad at my friend but I didnt tell her that. I just want us to be bfs forever. Your friend, michellerocksout P.S. Do you want to be friends. I promise I will always be here if you need advice. I also didnt know that you had a twin!!! That is so neat!!!
Dear poohbear96, Well, if your friend does not like who you hang out with, she doesnt like you!!! She is not being a true friend.That is mean. Your friend, michellerocksout
Someone please help! So it's Summer, and I always try to have my best friend over. I call and she either doesn't pick up, or is busy. Then I try again the next day. Same scenario. So on and so on every day. I know this isn't good, but I have a place for her. She's my only best friend. But she has zillions of other BFFs, and it makes me feel like I'm not special to her. I know she can have other BFFs, but I can't get myself to think that. She was in my class in 2nd grade, and we were INSEPARABLE. In 3rd grade, she was in my twin's class instead of mine. But she wasn't always busy, and we kept in close touch. Now the year before summer, 4th grade, I feel like we're being ripped apart. And I'm not ready for that. All I want is for things to b like how they were in 2nd grade. I know it sounds AWFUL, but I'm being completely honest. What should I do? I want to regain her friendship, but how can I when she's always busy and has friends who she likes more than me? HELP!
Happyluckythingylover
P.S I'm sorry I sound desperate! I just want this friendship to survive.
wow this has happend to me except i was the one fighting with my friend and we were haveing "sports day" its when we all we play is sports all day long! well we were playing volleyball and i was in front were she wanted to be i said lets take turns she said NO! well i didnt want to get mean so i stod quiet. well we started playng and she slaped me on the head! and she blamed it on someone else which got me mad!then this is when things get nasty! all i did was confirm her why did u slap me on the head she really didnt want to admit it! but i knew it was her so she yelled at me and said No i didnt stop makeing lies! well im the kind that when ppl yell at me i get crazy! i yelled at her back and told her to stop yelling at me because all i did was confirm you! well we didnt tlk to each other all day untill my other friends told my friend to apologize and she admit it was her. but we are friends now
my 2 best friends wich are practically my sisters are fighting and its all because of one girl and when my friend sees me hanging out with the other one she tells me i wouldnt talk to her if i were you and i want to be both of thier friends what should i do i am terribly troubled
cutecat8- these girls can't really be your friends if they make fun of you because A GOOD FRIEND NEVER JUDGES!!! you and your friend who both like him should stick together and stay true to yourselves. you can't exactly change the way you feel about this guy so don't try to. stay true to your heart and don't let these "friends" make fun of you just because they think the guy that you like is weird.
hey michellerocksout i told one of my friends that i liked him and it turns out that she does too so we promised not to tell anyone and i will only talk to him if it is not about my friend thx so much!!!!!! redsoxfreak24
Dear cutecat8, Who cares if they make fun off you!!!!!!!! Just brush it off!!! Tell your friend that you do like him and tell her you know that she likes him so it is cool. Hope this really truly helps!!! Your friend, michellerocksout P.S. I really want to be friends with you!!!
Dear cutecat8, Ok, Iwill admit it. This is the first problem I have ever come across that I cant answer. i can try my best though. You can try telling them that you are sad because you have all this fighting and just tell them to get back together. It might work. Tell her both friends arent that bad. it might work. Your friend, michellerocksout P.S. Can we be friends so that you can keep me updated. I really want to help you so badly!!!
Dear redsoxfreak24, NO dont tell her!!! That would ruion your friendship. They were not meant for each other anyways.(That is good for you!!!)Dont get them back together next time. Well, at least dont do a good job at it. I am not trying to be mean but it could so totally work out that way!!! Your friend, michellerocksout
Dear cooliocutie21, Well, that is hard. well, at least you dont have to be secretly friends with her in the summer!!! Your friend, michellerocksout P.S.Do you want to be friends?
Dear kickbootygirl, I have the same problem. Well, there is this girl S**** and she gets on my nerves to, but I get on her nerves too so it evens out and I might know what you mean by hard. I mean S**** got really mad at me when I didnt give her my extra ice-cream. The truth is I gave it to my best friend but I didnt want to tell her that!!! Hope this helps. Oh, I forgot, how to deal with her. Just try to deal with it. Your friend, michellerocksout P.S. Do you want to be friends?
Dear soccergal179, What a freak!!! Sorry, but I get so mad when that happens!!!(Note:I am typing very fast. I do this when I get mad!!!) Who cares what she says!!! You just be yourself and dont let "her" get to you!!! Your friend, michellerocksout P.S.Do you want to be friends!!! Sorry, but I am so mad!!!
I'm back again and I have some crush trouble. I kind of like this guy but my friends keep making fun of me because I like him. One of my friends kind of likes him 2 but we keep telling each other that we don't. Should I tell them the truth, keep lying or just never say anything (which is hard when they're making fun of me)? Please help me!
I'm back again and my problum just got even worse! My 2 friends got into a fight and now I have to get my mean/funny friend with my other friend and then get my friends who got in a fight back together.
If you have ever had a fight with your friend you know what it's like; DEVASTATING! You could never imagine losing your friend, is this the end? Hopefully not. If you have been BFFs for a long time, you can talk it out and before you know it you will be BFFs again! But sometimes it just dosen't work out and you have to accept that! It's hard to think that it will never be the same again, so don't think about that! Find someone else. You can take it slow though, let me tell you; it takes a long time to build a BFFship! But before you know it, everything will be allright! You can still be friends with your old best friend, and I know it is hard to think about, but you will have new BFF!
ok i ahve a problem one of my bffs ill call her fenway has a boyfriend ill call him red sox amd they have been going out for about 2 months they broke up a couple of times and i always have either fenway or red sox get back 2gether with each other and so 2day there wuz this fair and i was talking to fenway about it and red sox came over and wuz like what fair(cuz it wuz for the elemtary school and we r in middle school) red sox wuz like o ya i wanna come at the fair... me, fenway and couple of other friends r there one of my friends get a call from red sox saying that he wuz coming to the fair 15 minutes later he and his other friend r there then later on he wants to kiss her and we have tried to tell him that red sox thinks they r going too fast but hedoesnt listen. then he gets one of my other friends to lie to red sox that he didnt say that but he really did i no it's really confusing and there is more to the story but now i think that i like red sox bcuz i am spending so much time with him with and fenway should i tell fenway or someone else i ahve a feeling that if i do red sox will find out somehow some1 plz help me! redsoxfreak24
meave my probs are so severe that i cant explain it. my friends fight about being bffs. like they would fight about being my bff. they would fight about me being a**'s bff. now it is me and a** as bffs. a** feels bad for k** so she invited her in the group again. now we are secret
michellerocksout, u r t next dear abby! thats wat it looks like anyway. my frend A*** shes just like u she duz an advice colum in our school paper called dear bunni. AmyRose
ok i hav 3 groups of frends: t nerds (lol im a nerd!), t prima-donnas (a nerdy prima-donna? LOL!), and just friends. so im w/ t nerds (no offense 2 my frends, i just call them that b/c there r 2 HUGE nerds!) and 1 of t prima-donnas comes up and sez her othr frends r being mean and also 1 of my just frendz group members has serious probs w/ 1 of t p-ds! it stinx 2 b me; 2 many frend issues! AmyRose
Dear Spunkypunk, I know I am not Maeve but I have some advice. What your best friend is doing is wrong. I mean, she shouldnt be telling you what to do. You might have to decide between your best friend and your friend. Sorry to put you in this tough position.
Dear Maeve, Major problem. My best friend and my other friend are fighting. My best friend wants me to be her friend and not the other friend's. I'm not fighting with either of them. What should i do?
Dear bluecrystals547, Well, if your friend only likes you for your popularity, just dont try really to be her friend. Treat her differently from your other real friends. your friend, michellerocksout
THX Michellerocksout!You're a big help when it comes to friends!Anyway to everybody out there if you like that friend never give up!You can talk about your probs with her or anyone else!When friends are mean you know you should tell someone or else you're stuck with her.Talking about friend problems with someone(a adult is a choice) will help patch things up with yourself and your friend because you can fix anything if you believe.
OMG!!Same thing happened to me.Here my BFFLs and I were,happily being bes friends.Then,WHAM!One of them tell me that she has had a crush on my other best friend's boyfriend since the beginning of the school year.My other best friend finds out and then.....HELLO,DRAMA!
My friend/not so friend is A** and I think the only reason she hangs out with me is because she thinks I will make her popular. What should I do? My best friend A** agrees with me.
Dear shoppingfreak927, Well, here is the deal. Your friend is, how the BSG would say about Maeve, boystruck!!! Let her talk about it. She will eventually get bored after a while. For now, try to do the same. Talk about something lame like say OMG I just love to eat our school lunches and that might totally throw her off. Your friend, michellerocksout
so my friend is obsessed w/ this guys i totally support that she like a guy, but she talks 2 me nonstop about him and i've told her 2 stop but she doesnt care shes all omg hee LOOKED @ Me omg im gonna faint pleaz give me ur honest opinion about wut i shuld do thanx ily u guys
Dear smsgirl12, Well, that doesnt really sound like a real friend. A real friend accepts you for who like. So just ignoore her. Your friend, michellerocksout
My friend keeps saying rude things about me liking this one person. He is really nice once you get to know him but this one girl keeps saying "What do you see in him?" I asked her to stop but she won't. One day in library I was reading All American Girl( good book) and she said she had something really important to say... I was " What do you see in him!" I was about to exploded!
Dear iacpmf, Need some more help? I have it. Well, that is how me and my friends are too. I really want to walk away everytime that happens. Well, I dont. That is what I want you to do. Just walk away. If you arent as brave as I want you to be, ( dont worry, I have never tried it either so dont feel bad if you are not brave enough to do it like me)you just have to tough it out like I do. Your friend, michellerocksout
Dear Kikos, Let her get her ideas in. Let her talk most off the time now. Maybe she is just a pushover. No fence to your friend. Your friend, michellerocksout
I don't have so much probs,but I always feel guilty because she always lets me do the stuff my way and I can't seem to pay her back because well,it just keeps happening!
Dear BSG Fan, If she doesnt like you for who you are why should you be friends. I mean, that is just mean. And then she comes crawling back!!! PLZZZZZ. Your friend, michellerocksout
she always think she i right and better at everything than me and when she is around her other set of friends that i dont like she acts like she dont know me i tried to tell her what she is doing she be like "what ev" so i left her alone for a couple day she comes knocking on my door saying can you come out and i be like "no way if you wanted to play with me you would of like at least try like you know me but i was-no am trying to be your friend
Dear tigerdogz, Those are not true friends. If they just want you for what you have, they are not worth being friends with. Also, about your friends talking about your crush in front of you crush, that happened to me too. Well, it wasnt really my BFF who gave my crush a hint that I liked him. It was my BFF's BFF. I was so imbarrased. I know how you feel. Well, at least I know who she likes so I van do the same thing. JK. Your friend, michellerocksout
Dear Meave, Thanks for creating this kind of comment sections or like poll. This is my first time to discover your poll, but, it helps well to other people!!! May i just ask? Do you have a tv show and what channel? What time? anD if someone is willing to answer thank you have a nice spending time with your friend and especially to your loyal best friend
friends are great. they have the heart to forgive, lips to say the comfort and a shoulder to cry and lean on. so, if you and your bestie fight, better fix it again and be friends again... Please do my advice thanks!! hugs and kisses, Chiqui aka Beacon street girl... and does beacon street girls have a tv show? please vote and answer
Well today my friends were mad at me for little thing such as I won't give them a cool pencils. My friends were like fussing about it and i got a little angry because they were like fussing about a cool pencils. Another story was when my friends were saying about my crush in front of my crush. I felt so embarrassed by them saying about my crush. But he didn't care though.
i wrote a poem in cholits place and it was about this girl(dont want to mention names) who wasnt a real friend and treated me badly and thats why i wrote the poem!
Dear volleyballlover718, Your best friends need you right now. Try to help them. I always ask one of my best friends for help when I am fighting with my other best friend. They really need you right now and you can help. Your friend, michellerocksout
Dear 10feisty, Well, get her to go somewhere with you to the mall or you can get her a tre cute friendship bracelet. That is really special. Another thing, cant you all be friends? Spend a lot of time with your old BFF. Dont really rubb it in about your new BFF. Do not even try talking about her until you become friends with each other. Your friend, michellerocksout
Dear RockerChic88, Wow, this is hard. I remember my teacher saying something about this. She said that it is better not to tell her. Do not hurt her. Also, your friend will not think that you are trustworthy anymore because you told your friend. So, it is just better not to tell. It is good that you talked about it. Your friend, michellerocksout
Dear Shoopalulu, Well, tell your BFF how you feel about that. Maybe she is only affecting you. They are also your BFF's. They will understand. What do mean by how she is mean? But really, you can trust your BFF's. Your true friend, michellerocksout
hi evryone! ANYONE who wants 2 give me advice, I need it! well, some of u might hav herd about this girl in other comments but, heres the story, she nice sometimes, and sometimes shes vicious, and im torn between wether 2 be her friend or not, but she thinks im her bff, also some of my REAL bffs really like her, and i feel like shes stealing them from me. HELP!!!!!!! xoxo shoopalulu
well i just told my old best friend i had i new best friend and i think she's pretty upset. i only told her because she asked. i don't know what to do to show my old bff i like her so much!! help, maeve!!!
thank you sooo much dolphinluva2397 now i have an idea and i can send her an e-mail. thank you so much! i sware if i were there right now you dont know how many times i would say thank you!
Dear cjdiva, I want to know if when they fight it is really bad. Give me an example. This will help me find a soulution. Your friend, michellrocksout P.S. Well, actually, you just made a friend. ME!!! I promise I will never be your temporary friend.
Dear cass26, Did you talk to your mom about it? That is tre not right. I am tre glad that you are not friends with that tre mean friend anymore. I am tre,tre, happy. Your friend, michellerocksout
all friends have problems sometimes and when you have problems try to work it out with each other sometimes its hard because you guys are mad at each other but when you think about it no fight can break your friendship and when you try to talk it out and that doesnt work just wait a day or two and thing will clear up because when your fighting oover something its probably really small compared to your guyses friendship because NOTHING can stand in the way of a real friendship.
Dear Maeve, My problems with my friends are temporary they never last long. When ever people spread rumors we get caught in them and we seperate , but we don't know why. MY other two friends fight at least 2 times a week, and I told them to seperate for a few days and they will feel better but they don;t take the time and listen.
Listen, i used to have this VERY mean friend, she would always steal or take my familys things. but when i asked her about it things only got worse. i suggest hanging with someone else 4 a while. You can be suprised! Just by talking to someone else can turn on an automatic friendship!!!!
Dear purpleabi, Wow, tough situation. The good thing is I have an answer. Well, you can give your friend the chocolates he sends you. that way your friend can give him the chocolates. you can rename it. That way he knows you dont like him and that your frined likes you. Your friend, michellerocksout
Dear Sunnyhoney, I know how you feel. Maybe u could write her an email or letter and tell her how you feel. Ask her what you can do to be better and why she is mad. Maybe send her an ecard that says, "im sorry." Try not to think about her for now. Try to make new friends. I hope i helped.
PLEASE HELP!!!!!! my best friend moved away and when i went over to her house she got into a fight with me and i didn't even do anything. then she tells my friend to tell me that she doesn't like me anymore and has a new best friend who is more nicer and honest than i have ever been and she is making me feel sooo bad. i need advice!!!!
my friendship probleme is my bff have a crush and her crush is also my guy friend and he keep on sending me chocolate he like me but I don't like him my bff do and I don't want to hurt hes filling saying I don't like him
Dear piggi, First of all, you NEED to CALM DOWN. You also cant get it your way ALL the time. You wont keep any friends if you keep doing that. And also talk to your BFF about it. I mean she is your BFF. She will understand. Hope this helps. Your friend, michellerocksout
Maeve, There's this gurl in my class and one minute she's my friend and another she's backstabbing me! It getts me so mad! I have these 3 other friends that I hang out with and she does the same thing 2 them! So she decided she's not going to be my friend anymore. I thought it was sorta weird how she just came out an said that! Well, That was 3 months ago and everything is smooooooooth sailn'! Well cya! $~Petewentzfan~$
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) and I fight all the time. But we always work it out. I am not in Mexico for a year so I'm not sure she's going to turn out as my best friend. 
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THX Michellerocksout!You're a big help when it comes to friends!Anyway to everybody out there if you like that friend never give up!You can talk about your probs with her or anyone else!When friends are mean you know you should tell someone or else you're stuck with her.Talking about friend problems with someone(a adult is a choice) will help patch things up with yourself and your friend because you can fix anything if you believe. 
