Should You Tell Him?

I know what you’re thinking: “I have a crush… should I tell him???” If you’re like me, you might spend hours, days, MONTHS agonizing over the pros, the cons, the consequences, and the risks. You’ve played out the scene in your head hundreds of times, but when it comes down to actually doing it, the right time never seems to come. Take my mini-quiz below and find out if you should take the plunge! Or, spend a few minutes answering the questions on our new survey; it's all about boys and dating and stuff!

1. I have a crush on…
(a) a guy friend. We tell each other everything!
(b) a boy in my class who I talk to sometimes.
(c) a guy I’ve never actually met before.

2. He is soooo cute! But, what I also like about him is that…
(a) he tries hard in school and he’s nice to me and other people.
(b) he’s kind of shy, so he’s a little mysterious and cool.
(c) he’s super smart and everyone loves him.

3. I feel like maybe he likes me, too, because…
(a) he really listens me and we always have fun together.
(b) he kind of looks at me funny sometimes and smiles.
(c) we had to hold hands at an assembly, and I think he squeezed my hand!

4. My crush’s friends…
(a) are kind of like my friends, too. We can hang out and it’s totally cool.
(b) are kind of loud, but I don’t really know them.
(c) are not my friends. I don’t even know who they are!

5. My BFFs don’t know I like him. If they found out, they’d probably be like…
(a) “I knew it! You guys are always hanging out together!”
(b) “Cool! Since you only kinda know him, want me to go talk to him for you?”
(c) “Wow… he doesn’t even know your name. How will you get him to notice you?”

If you answered mostly A’s: You and this boy have a great thing going as friends, which is awesome! But, keep in mind that even if you both like each other, it doesn’t mean you HAVE to be bf/gf. Like, if one of you isn’t ready to be more than friends, things COULD get awkward for a while. But, if that’s a risk you’re willing to take, I’d say go for it!

If you answered mostly B’s: Ladies, this might be the beginning of a beautiful friendship. lol! Think about sending out the good-friend vibe first, rather than the crush vibe. Give him some time to get to know you (and you him)—otherwise, he might feel overwhelmed and totally surprised knowing you like him. In this situation, go with your gut!

If you answered mostly C’s: These crushes are sometimes the best because you get to daydream all day long about what he’s probably like and how sweet he would be if he found out you like him. In your head, he’s the perfect boy. But, in reality, he might not be right for you! Definitely get to know him as a friend first to see if you guys are cool as friends. If you’re not, it might be time to notice OTHER boys!

Bottom Line: Many girls have crushes that they keep secret, and that’s totally OK. Some girls and guys even have crushes on each other and never really admit it. That’s also OK. Don’t feel pressure to try to make your feelings into a bf/gf relationship before you’re ready.

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Comments (791)

luvcats567 writes:

	EEEKKK!!! The guy I like asked me out!!! I said yes!!!!!!! My friends r sooo happy 4 me!!!!

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mcnunu writes:

	good tips i so could use then becuse i am clueless when it comes to boys! from MCNUNU

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lovedoctor writes:

	well, i do like him, but i'm still kinda freaked to tell him my real feelings.

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tallulah1994 writes:

	no way!!!! i always get way 2 shy to tell him Totally fine. Part of the fun of crushes sometimes is keeping it to yourself. No need to broadcast it if you're not ready! XOXO,

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sunshinedancer writes:

	actress616: Wow, that seems kind of confusing for you! I think you should confront him about it when hes by himself, or even when hes with his friends. Most likely, hes just showing off for them. Tell me if this helps! -sunshinedancer

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luvcats567 writes:

	cowgal94- OMG!!!=)

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Lunatuna writes:

	Well once I kinda liked this guy-- I didn't like him seriously, I just kinda liked him. That was over two years ago, so I don't think about it.

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tinkerbell101902 writes:

	i would NEVA EVA tell him and him that i like either of them... yes i have two crushes... i can't help liking either... they both have a part of me!!!

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ilovegp writes:

	Yes, one of my friends dared me to tell him I like him. I was embarresed!

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alliesoccer8 writes:

	hey Maeve!!!!!in 1st grade, i told my best guy friend that i had a crush on him. he told me that he jus liked me as a friend. to this day, we're still best friends!! i say if u have a crush, go for it. the worst thing is that he could say he doesnt feel that way, but you'd still be friends!!!!! p.s. GO PINK!!

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BSG Fan writes:

	i want to tell this guy but I don't have the guts to say it. Last time I tried to tell him I made a total fool of myself.

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actress616 writes:

Noway! My crush was so nice to me at party. We danced and had a blast together! Nobody we knew was there. But he can be so obnoxious at school.I don't know what to do. Maeve, do yoy have any advice?

Yeah... boys act differently in different situations around different people, you know? Girls do it, too, but it's pretty normal for a boy to act all sweet and nice when it's just the two of you and then tough and obnoxious with his buds. Decide which side you think is the REAL side of this guy, and see if he's crush-worthy.

XOXO,

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greenbeen writes:

Yes! Well, it wasn't actually me...my bestfriend went up to him and told him. I got embarassed at first because he already had a girlfriend. But then he told her that he like me too. I still think that it's a little weird that he liked me, but still kept on going out with someone else. Maybe that's just me though?

Nope... that's not just you. If you feel like you want to be bf/gf with somebody, it should be with the ONLY person you like. If you like other people, hearts could get broken on BOTH sides!

XOXO,

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sunshinedancer writes:

	v-day was nvr rly sometin big 2 me, but idk dis year... still tryin 2 sort some stuff out..

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sunshinedancer writes:

	yes actually i have-me and my friend are crazy like that! Its so much fun. We try to live life 2 da fullest. We go 2 an amusement park w/ water rides every summer, nd wen we see a rly cute guy, we go up 2 him and tell him!!

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journalistgirl07 writes:

	softballgirl14 i don't think thats going to be easy when boys are in teenager years they want to impress their other friends but i guess i'll try it!

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allstar writes:

i did once tell a guy i liked him and it didnt turn out so well, he told the whole school that i liked him! everyone laughed at me! smilies/sad.gif

then later in the year he asked me out, and i was so mad! i said no and he was like "why not?" i said " do u think u r proving something when u diss a person then suddenly be nice to them?". he had a wierd look on his face and i just turned around and walked away.

Whaaa? You were so right to say that. I can't believe he made fun of your feelings and then turned around and asked you out later in the year! It's all about respect, girls.

XOXO,

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Puppydawg199 writes:

	I didn't exactly tell my crush I like him. I asked him to go to a dance with me and he said he was already going with another girl. My friend said she thought she knew who he was going with. She asked him who he was going to the dance with and he said he wasn't going with anyone. So I don't like him anymore.

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Puppydawg199 writes:

	There's this guy I really like. Some people say he likes me too, including his friends, but his friends don't know I like him. We're just friends right now and I'm scared to take the relationship further. But, if you wanna find out if he likes you too and you are ready to take the relationship to the next level, go for it. Nobody's stopping you

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sweetbiscuit611 writes:

I once asked a guy in my class, who was kind of my friend, about my crush during our conversation on MSN, then, the next day, I noticed that people were talking about me and my crush. I never told anyone about him, except for the guy in my class. So then, I walked up to him, and asked him why he told everyone, and he said, "You really like him?" so loud. He turned aroud to face the hallway, and said to everyone "She really likes him!" All eyes were on me and my face was as red as strawberry and I ran off to bathroom. From that day on, I never talked to that guy in my class again.

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basketballlvr101 writes:

I like this boy, and he knows me, but I don't know if I should ask him out or not. Should I first try to become good friends with him? What should I do??????

Totally go for the friend thing first! That way, you get to know each other's personalities and how you guys connect to one other, which is way more important than looks! You can think a boy is totally cute, but then not vibe with him as a friend -- that'll tell you he may not be crush-worthy after all. Good luck!

XOXO,

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SparkleGal writes:

	coolcatmm: I have a friend who has a crush, & her code name 4 him is lemon, 2!!!!!!!! She likes cats& guys

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luvcats567 writes:

	Juliaqulia-Yes they will!!!For right nowjust hang out with guys .If he tells you he likes you then just tell him.If he really likes you he'll wait and still hang out with you!!!!

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luvcats567 writes:

	I got a note from a guy that said he liked me. I knew my friend liked him so i asked her what to do.She said to tell him that I liked him and that she didn't like him anymore. So I did and it worked out good.

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luvcats567 writes:

	I got this note from a really cute guy that said he thought I was cute and he really liked me. I liked him to and so did my best friend!! I told her and she told me to tell him.She didn't like him anymore she said. So I told him I liked him and it worked out good. Now I don't like him anymore cuz he mean now.

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staronstage writes:

ive had bad experiences from telling guys that i liked them, but GOOD NEWS, there other ways to show them. suggest a group date to the movies, or the pool, or the beach. and flirt alot.

Good point! If you don't feel like telling him you like him, like "Um, I like you," you can show him in ways like suggesting doing stuff together with a group or talking on the phone or emailing -- and by being a great friend.

XOXO,

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allstar writes:

hello to all of those girls out there who evur felt that valentines day was over rated and a drag. i am and still one of those people who think that too, when u see someone u like and could be more than just a friend completly ignore u after when u tryed then crashed and burned to talk to him! so you've been Bfs for years and he has done nothing in return for u?! ive been in that situation numerous times and still can't do anything about it! pathetic, isn't it?

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softballgirl14 writes:

	VioletaJ123 - Ok, I do have to admit that you and your friend came on REALLY strong. Try to back off for a while, give him some space. It will REALLY help. =)

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softballgirl14 writes:

	dolphingirl13 - If you think he likes you and you're ready to tell him that you like him, then go for it! What's the worst that can happen?

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softballgirl14 writes:

	misswrite10196 - Pretty weird!

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softballgirl14 writes:

	journalistgirl07 - You should probably just talk to him about it. You don't have to mention that you like him, but just ask him what's been bothering him. Then go from there.

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softballgirl14 writes:

	kanati rules in style101 - Before you tell him, make sure you're ready. Telling a guy that you like him can REALLY effect your friendship, so think about it and figure out if it is worth the risk.

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softballgirl14 writes:

	stinky - It seems to me as if there is a shy or aqwardness going around? That's pretty common, just try to remember that there is no reason to be shy or not talk.

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koolcatmm writes:

well my friend Nibuf (her code name) has 2 crushes. Her first one is N.L. Both Nibuf and my other friend lemon (another code name) like him. N.L always looks over @ their lunch table. They both can't determine who he likes.
The 2nd crush is R.J and he's one of the cool people. She likes him cause even though he doesn't do as good as he can in school, he's a great guy. For the most part he doesn't care what most people think of him. He plays bball and stuff too.
Anyway, both of her crushes are only friends. She would be good with either guy. But she can't tell them b/c she doesn't wanna ruin the friendships.

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countrysinger writes:

	i've told someone that i liked them and i asked him if he liked me and he said yes like 7 weeks later! 7 weeks, but now we really like each other so i guess it worked out.

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stinky writes:

	i really like this guy and we are together and we really never talk what should i do Get talking, girl! If you're with someone, talking is key. If you feel like you just can't have a good conversation with him no matter how hard you try, I'd say to rethink the whole bf/gf situation. XOXO,

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misswrite10196 writes:

	when my friends found out i liked him, they told him! He kind of iggnored me and said stuff like ewwww all day. then last period. we have to sit next to each other and he held out his hand and said "i forgive you"! how weird is that!

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journalistgirl07 writes:

I have this guy friend since he moved to my town in 3rd grade. I started to like him when we started 4th grade. Now I'm in middle school and I still like him! Then I found out he liked me but then I found out he was going to ask me out. I was really surprised he wanted to because I still thought he still liked this girl. But then he changed his mind and now I feel so sad! Maybe this isn't a good time. Should I ask him??

Hmmm... I think you're right. Maybe it's not such a good time. It could be that he's not ready to be bf/gf, but it doesn't mean he doesn't like you! Keep the friendship going, and who knows what will happen down the road!

XOXO,

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alliCAT11 writes:

Once I went up to my crush and said "I like you." Then he just kinda starred at me so I quikly added "As a friend and I was wondering if you wanted to go to that new movie on Saturday?" He said sure and now we are dating! A guy just has to get to know you first!

That's true! It's hard to tell if you like a complete stranger, so it's always good to get to know your crush before spilling anything.

XOXO,

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kanati rules in style101 writes:

	omg there is this really cute guy i like and he is so funny and last year i was convinced that he liked me but this year im not so sure. Me and him are like soul mates were both really funny. He is always my partner in everything or we sit next to each other and also hes really likes talikng to me i do not wanna express my feeling what should i do!!!!

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softballgirl14 writes:

	teddybear916 - I had a weird reaction once too. It was when I had liked my guy best friend and I told him. The wierdest thing was, he ignored it and pretended nothing happened. We were still friends until I moved schools.

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softballgirl14 writes:

	partygirl77 - I sugguest, if you don't really know or talk to him yet, to get to know him first and not come on too strong. Great advice! XOXO,

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softballgirl14 writes:

	cassida - That is one of those questions that varies in different situations...

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softballgirl14 writes:

	rose_drwho - Congrats!

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softballgirl14 writes:

	roeyposey95 - Don't worry if you have guy friends or not! It's okay if you do, or if you don't, just give it time. It may take a while, but you'll eventually make guy friends, or even boyfriends.

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softballgirl14 writes:

	llamagirl6 - NO, make sure you do it. At least if you do it, you'll say exactly what you want to be said. Anyways, you'll also be able to change your mind last minute if needed.

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softballgirl14 writes:

	movieactress - At my school, that would be WAY to obvious...everyone would figure that out in just a few seconds. Do you have better luck?

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softballgirl14 writes:

	luvbsg - From what you tell us, he likes you a lot. If you think that you (and him) are ready to be in a relationship, then go for it! If you're ever gonna tell him, why not now? What's the worst that can happen?

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shoot4thestars writes:

	OMG maeve, this quiz was soooo helpful! i have a basically BEST friend that's a guy and i like him A LOT..but i'm not sure if he likes me...thanks!

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lafrida28 writes:

	i've never had a crush on anyone but my advice is just be yourself and dont flit with him so much.you now he'll come around Sounds like great advice to me! XOXO,

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dolphingirl13 writes:

	I am ttly in luv w/ this one guy. i keep having dreams about him. and i think he likes me 2, he made up this little game thing just 4 me. i don't know if i have the guts. but the valentines dance is coming up so i'm thinking of asking him. what's your advice??? :-l

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Broadwaystar* writes:

	I have never told a guy that I liked him. I am always too embarssed. Like, what if he laughs or says "EWWW" then I would be heart broken. I normally always have my friends tell him for me.

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sleep writes:

I told this guy who i had liked on and off for three years that i liked him. i was going to do it face to face but i ended up doing it on the phone. i was just like " i like you. will you be my bf?" and then i totally freaked out and said i had to go then hung up. i called back like a second later and said i was sorry for leaving and i'd see him monday. the next day he called me to tell me his new email and said to check my emails. so i did and he had sent me and email saying that he liked me 2 and he was so glad that i told him. so we ended up being together and i luv him. it isn't really a suprise we're together now, we were totally flirting back and forth when we had to do a project together!!!!!

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skywriter13 writes:

	omg, i told my crush i liked him and he's like ya, i like u 2...but were talking as friends rite? then i guess i took 2 long 2 answer cuz he's like u know i'm going out with u r bff rite? i'm like omg!!! YIKES! That must have been a huge surprise! XOXO,

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Chichiag writes:

	Well... I wrote about a guy telling a girl he liked her... She liked him too but she was afraid of getting hurt s she ran off. But finally she told him how she felt, and It really all turned out fine... I've never gotten the courage to tell a guy how I feel though....

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penguingal2471012 writes:

	Once I told my friend that I liked this person in my class, and she told him! On the day before the last day of school, he handed, me and my friend who told him, paper clips (my friend had asked him if he liked me all day!) And the paperclips spelled out, 'Y E S'. I ran over to my BFF and told her. She's like OMG!!! It was funny. Now I have his e-mail. It's awesome!

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VioletaJ123 writes:

I HAD A BIG BIG PROBLEM

that will never be fixed :'<

I liked this guy rite like since kinder, but i neva really new him like comepletly, but i thot he was cute.. in kinder. So each grade i started to like him more then my big mouth friend in third grade told everyone; luckily she liked him too and she told everyone that she liked him too. Then next year we started to take him stuff, anxious to touch it, pertend to go to the bathroom to snoop... we were bad.Too bad to say a word to him again, right?He hates us, like a lot, whenever we get close now he... RUNS AWAY!what should I do? We're both super shy.. with each ther mostly, i dont think any of us can break the ice. AND, guess what? His friend says hes aksing me out, he asks me like everyday. how am i supposed to beileive that?HELP! PLEASE RESPOND!!:'

Whoa! Taking his stuff... he might have gotten a little freaked out by that. Think about how you would feel if a boy did that to you! Just keep sending "totally casual" vibes his way, and hopefully, he'll come around. As for his friend, it's tough to tell. But, don't let him pressure you by asking you every day. No means NO!

XOXO,

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pandagirl writes:

	good advice, movieactress!!!!

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ChaCha123 writes:

I don't have a current crush but I use to. He was walking down the hall, and I whispered to my BFF , "I like him." He was a really funny and cute and obnoxious, so thats why I liked him. Then she blurts out, "Hey, she says she has a crush on you!" So embarrassing! But it's okay, though, because he sat in the desk in front of me and I found him turning around and just staring at me for a while a lot, with a goofy smile on his face. Real goofy. And weird.

And...that's about the closest I've been to telling somebody I like them.

Yeah, what is UP with that goofy smile? Do we girls get it, too?

XOXO,

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mollygal82 writes:

	no definetly not

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lukkyygirl writes:

	i haven't told him but i don't know if i should tell him at our school dance

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movieactress writes:

GIRLS I HAVE IMPORTANT ADVICE! LISTEN UP!
r u really fed up? he just passes u by EVERY DAY? then 1 day u say it 2 him: "i like u." he stares at u.well here's how 2 cover it up: u say,"u know, as a friend...mabey we could hang out sometime." problem SOLVED!

Hey, there's an idea! You'll want to kind of ease into the subject, though, so that the boy doesn't look like a deer in headlights -- wide-eyed and SCARED! lol!

XOXO,

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buzzingbee writes:

	Yup. I've told a crush, well, wait, my FRIEND told a guy I liked him. Rrrr

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CrustyChristy writes:

	Once a guy friend of mine told me he liked me, and I liked him too. Sadly we only liked each other for about 5 months

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indianprincess01 writes:

	Oh my gosh, yes. Actually, one of my on-and-off friends decided to tell him when I wasn't around, but she told me she was going to. I kept saying, "No, don't!" but she didn't listen, and she told him when he was in another room! Then he and a bucnh of his friends walked into the gym (that's where I was) and started whispering. It's now two years later, but I still like him!

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sammi32195 writes:

	Well.... I keep almost trying to say it to them, but then I chicken out. It makes me sooooo nervous! Once I almost had the nerve to ask out this guy, but he was absent so I couldn't. Then at lunch I found out this other girl asked him out the day before and he said yes. It's a good thing he was absent, otheriwse he would have told me her had another g/f! That would have been embarrassing

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luvbsg writes:

i want to but i don't know weather i should. he is really cute and smart and nice and funny and he sits right next to me!!!!!!!!! i think he likes me beacuse he always talks to me and even when i'm not funny he laughs and says i am!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WHAT SHOULD I DO??????????????

Welllll, remember that you don't really have to DO anything. Like, if you feel like your relationship is cool the way it is now, it can stay that way! If he's not bothering you, just enjoy laughing and joking around with him!

XOXO,

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patriots writes:

Well, I didn't realyl tell him. My yearbook did.U c, my friend wrote my first name and his last name on the back of my yearbook and the two of his friends saw and started asking A LOT of questions. They saw the hearts arou8nd his picture that I drew, and then his fraternal twin brother started to scream my name and then "I knew you liked..." when really, he had thought my friend liked his brother and it was sooooo embarrassing but I guess, looking back, (it was the last day of school last year)I enjoyed it because he KNEW! And still knows, because my friend that's a boy keeps reminding him.

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starberry317 writes:

omg! dont even get me started on my crush! his name is classified but hes really nice and funny. i havent told him liked him but i think my friends told him.
this guy keeps me laughing in class sometimes and sometimes our teacher has to tell us to be quiet. i wonder if this guy likes me. i hope he does though. i want him to b my bf and me to be his gf. for now i really like him. well gottta go. bye.
Starberry317

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llamagirl6 writes:

ok i really want 2 tell this guy i like him but im WAY 2 scared!!! should i ask 1 of my friends 2 do it???? HELP!
llamaagirl6

Yeah! You can ask one of your friends to do it, but keep in mind that the message could get mixed up, or your friend might say something you wish she hadn't, or something like that. The only way for the convo to go down the way YOU want it to go down is to do it yourself.

XOXO,

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roseyposey95 writes:

I don't have any guy friends!! So I don't know how I ever will get a boyfriend!!! Maeve please help me!!!

~roeyposey95

No biggie! You can make guy friends just like you make girl friends. Think about what you have in common (math class, soccer, drama club), and start chatting about it whenever it feels like a good time. He doesn't have to be the most popular boy in school either. Any boy can be a great guy friend -- just give him a shot!

XOXO,

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rose_drwho writes:

	I actually told this guy I liked him last night, and he was all seriously? i said yes, and he said sure. I was like huh? so i called him and asked him what he meant by that and he said well, you were asking if i would go out with you werent you? I said well, sorta, yeah, then he said yes i will. I was soooooooooooooooooooooooooooo happy!

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cassida writes:

	i never told a crush i liked him! all the boys in my school are bad looking!! if i did like some one how wouuld i tell him!

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born2dance writes:

What REALLY stinks, is this:
Ok, the dude I sat beside was REALLY nice, and I liked him. And I told my friend when I slept-over at her house one weekend. Then, on Monday- my other friend asked him out and they were bf and gf for a while. I finally told her how I felt about him, and surprisingly she was okay with it. Eventually, she broke up with him, like, a month after I told her. I still talk to him, we're friends- but for now, I'll admire from afar.

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BSG girl111 writes:

	nnnnnnnnnnnooooooooooooooooo way if if i did that then i would first say EN ME GAWD i cant believe i just did that and then i would faint right then and there

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partygirl77 writes:

	hey maeve! i have this crush too, but he has no clue i am alive!! he is super cute, but i don't think he likes me. should i tell him i like him? I think that if you're not really friends with him, it might catch him totally by surprise that you like him. Try to get to know him better, so that he'll know you as a friend first. XOXO,

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teddybear916 writes:

yeah, and it was AWFUL!!! i told him and he started cracking up. and then he said "oh wait u were serious?" i almost cried. dont let smthn like that get u down tho.

but another time, i told a guy i liked him and he asked me out!! so it really depends on the guy what his reaction is.

Ohmigosh! You are totally right. Some guys just don't handle those situations very well, but there are some who do!

XOXO,

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allstar writes:

	here is the thing, there was this guy last year i really liked. he was my locker neighbor and i knew his lock combination, so on valentines day i slipped a valentine in his locker. i think he knows it was me but i dont want him to find out, or else i'd would be so embarressed! now me and him are just friends.

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horsegrl1 writes:

	not really ever but ive had my bros tell them especcially if theyre his friends.....

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sugercookies writes:

Well, before i moved i really like two guys at my school. But i really like one of the guys more. So..i was a little worry if i should tell (this is before i found out i moved.) I didn't, but i saw him again (after i moved) going to see my grandmother. I want it so bad to go over there and tell him..but i didn't have the guts.

Also before i knew i was moving..one of my friends and my other friend who was 14 told him i like him! i almost cry. i kept saying "No..i don't." Well i ran to the bath room. He gave me a v-day card..but i lost it. smilies/sad.gif

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Juliagulia writes:

my parents won't let me date everrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.
maeve what should I do.

Nah... I'm sure they'll let you date SOMEday. I'd say to just keep showing your parents that you can make responsible decisions, and maybe they'll let you off the hook a little earlier than you think :-) But, no rush -- like my mom says, "Maeve, right now you need to work on being MAEVE... there's plenty of time to date in the future."

XOXO,

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horseluvr84 writes:

	babymegan, who's spongebob?

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horseluvr84 writes:

	Yes. There is this boy, and I told him on the bus, He literally fell backwards! I asked him if he's ok, he said, "Wait a sec. I must not have Heard. WHAT DID U SAY?" he was so shocked. Wow! It's like you swept him off his feet! lol! XOXO,

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american writes:

	I think that giving it a try is kinda good

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babymegan90 writes:

	Sponge Bob, Just get together. If it dosent work out it dosent work out but it is worth a try!

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bsg girl rules92 writes:

	he knows I like him already plus he doesnt treat me with respect. Whatever with that guy, then! Only boys who give you some R-E-S-P-E-C-T deserve your crushing! XOXO,

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pandagirl writes:

	I didn't tell him. No, but HIS friend did. I was friends with him. I told him, and he asked me if I did in front of the WHOLE class. I answered no. Now I don't like him because he is annying and rude. True story!! No way! That is sooo mean! I'd never embarrass someone in front of the whole class. Good for you for mooooving on! XOXO,

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sponge bob writes:

this boy i like him he like me but we dont know if we want to go together or not cause he like to play with other girls and if see him playing with girl i would break up with him and i play with other boys and he see it he would break up with me and i see or he see boys playing with me he would say somethinng to them and if i see a girl trying to play with him i would do something to the girl and he would do smething to the boy

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BSGlover123 writes:

	well i didn't tell him but instead it got around the whole entire school. and he knows i like him

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Charlotte333 writes:

	Yes! Now he's my boyfriend. He is sooooooo cute! Sweet! If you're both into the gf/bf thing, that's cool! XOXO,

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babymegan90 writes:

	Yeppers! He diddent like me though. We are still firends anyway. Awww! You never know unless you try :-) XOXO,

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