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Do Your Own Thing

Girls, I’m here to talk about those confusing creatures who can burp in your face one minute and be super nice to you the next—yup, this is about BOYS.

Some of us want attention from boys ... others don’t. Either way, getting attention from boys doesn’t have to be to see if they like you or not. Some boys are actually pretty cool just as friends.

But, exactly HOW do you get either kind of attention from boys? Well, let me share three things I’ve learned so far from having a brother, boy neighbors, and like 1,000 crushes.

Get positive attention: Positive attention from boys is actually a BONUS for doing the things that make YOU happy. Like, being the first in your school to score five goals in one game, or getting the highest grade on a math test—boys notice that. Achieving one of YOUR goals is the kind of thing that makes boys think, “Wow, she’s pretty cool.”


Avoid negative attention: Negative attention usually comes from doing things that are, quite simply, NOT you. Being known for wearing the shortest skirts or the highest heels doesn’t necessarily get you the kind of attention you want from boys. And if it does, those probably aren’t the boys who are interested in you as a person—and being liked for who you are inside, I think, is WAY more important.


Play it cool: Confession: I get all giggly and flustered around boys like Dillon sometimes, but being all flirty and intense can freak guys out a little. Casually talking to your crush about class or his soccer team will show him how cool and friendly you are. Then, if you’re too scared to let him know how you REALLY feel, you can have fun being friends and see where it takes you down the road.

Or, take a few minutes to answer our latest survey -- it's all about boys and dating and stuff!

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But, boy issues aren't only about getting him to notice you. What are YOUR problems? Let's see if we can work them out together.

XOXO,

 



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sidnee#8 writes:

Hay Girls,
Sorry I have not written here for awhile! I have been so busy! So if you need any advice I am TOTALLY here for you K! But could someone help me out?!?! Well My older sister likes my friends brother. So she is always trying to get me to tell him she likes him or trying to get him to come and see her or drop hints that she likes him but I have to do it! I told her I am not getting into this with her and she just got all mad! So how can I tell her that I don't want to get into this with her with out her getting all mad at me? SOMEONE PLEASE HELP!!!
-Sidnee#8
P.S. The guy she likes actualy likes her (my friend told me that) but how do I tell her that she should just go and talk to him?
 

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thinkpink16 writes:

Hey Taydotz333,
That is so great that you stood up to them! You go girl!! I am so so happy for you that you took my advice! There is nothing taht you can do about your braty sister so just ignore her because its your time to shine! i hope everything will go great with your cheering and BTW 2nd place that is so great!! I am so happy for you!
TTYL
ThinkPink16
 

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luvcats567 writes:

SOMEBODY hELP HER!!!!: My cousin is a a month younger than me {we're 12} and she thinks a 18 y.o. likes her!!! She talks bout him ALL THE TIME(she thinks shes in luv)!!! How do I tell her he doesnt like her and she CANNOT go out with a 18 year old dude!!!!
 

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lovedoctor writes:

wow, thanx! i think i just might tell me guy that i like him now!
 

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rentluver1996 writes:

hey rentlover1996! omg this is really creepy!! we have basically the same username!! did you know rent is going off Broadway in june? that will be so sad! well anyways, about your problem. you can't change your sisters boyfriend, so for now i suppose you will just have to live with teh obnoxious boyfirned. but about you and the twin brother, i say go for it but remember that friends are more important than boyfriends, so before you decide to risk it all, decide if it is worth it. hope this helps! and OMG this is soooo weird about our usenames!! i didn't think anyone else would have on so similar!

luv,
rentluver1996
 

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taydotz333 writes:

HEY THINKPINK THANKS SOOOOO MUCH THEY WERE SO HAPPY WHEN I GOT 2ND PLACE BUT I FINALLY STOOD UP 2 THEM AND THEY LISEND BUT SIS NO I DONT THINK SOO SHE IS A BRAT NEVER LISTENS
TTYL,
TAYDOTZ333
PS. WRITE BACKM PLEASE
 

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horseluvr84 writes:

I have another problem. me and my friend have a business together. she comes yo play once a month and we have so many orders to fill. Then i got advice to get a new partner. Now i have one but I feel like my other friend won't play with me anymore. WHAT DO I DO??????
 

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horseluvr84 writes:

Hey guys,

I am in the 5th grade but things are going CRAZY. One minute somebody wants to be my friend, then the next minute they don't. then they do, they don't, they do, they don't, WHAT DO I DO??? I'm sure many of you have been in 5th grade already but maybe you can help.

horseluvr84
 

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horseluvr84 writes:

dear Taydotz333,

Same here. People say i need to much attention too. just keep yourself occupied and make your own fun. You won't need to be around many people if you just keep occupied. It works for me.

Hope this helps
Horseluvr84
 

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horseluvr84 writes:

Dear rentluver 1996,

just keep cool. Do you know a lot about the lil brother? there could be things about him that can help, like, maybe he likes something that you 2 like, then it might keep his cool. Just keep in mind that the twin sister might want to be with you. Why not just all go out together and have some fun? or just take a walk.

Hope this helps
Horseluvr84
 

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BSG Fan writes:

I want to get to know him better but I cannot find the words or the right place to talk to him.
What should I do?????
 

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rentlover1996 writes:

Hey can someone please help me? My sister who is 15 has this rly obnoxious b/f except i like the b/f's lil bro who is my age. but the catch is the b/f's lil bro has a twin sister who i am friendz w/ and i'm afraid that if the obnoxious b/f's lil bro and i get together it will ruin my friendship with the twin sister. what should i do?
 

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homesweethome writes:

Dear swong939,
Don't do anything!!!!!Last year ther was this really annoing girl who liked who I liked.She constantly was flirting with him.After a week he got tired of her doing that.He told her to go away and to STOP .Then a month later he told me he really liked me!!!!!!!Then he kissed me!!!!!(OMG)But ,he moved away.So, as I was saying ,don't change for anyone .(Even if they are really cute.)good luck yall,
*readingrules*
 

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homesweethome writes:

Hey Jeanzqueen17,lots of luck!!!!!I wish the boy I like knew I like him but, most boys never, ever have a clue.But my way with boys and advice to you all is,be yourself. If you have to TRY to get him to notice you then he isn't the one for you .
You know how some of your crushes don't know you like them, well if someone likes you then you probably don't know they like you. And thy are going to like you for who you are,so don't try to change for anyone.Wish me luck with my crush and good luck with yours ,chicas.L8R.
 

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Jeanzqueen17 writes:

Hey Chicas! Muchas Gracias for all the advice! I know you all will always come through for me! smilies/smiley.gif My birthday party's this weekend & I think he's gonna try to kiss me there! (AHHH!smilies/cheesy.gif) Wish me luck everybody! I'll keep ya posted!!!
xoxo *Jeanzqueen17*
 

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awesomej9 writes:

Dear swong39
That happened to me!! The most popular girl liked my crush! EVERYBODY new. My advice is to be nice to the boy, ignore the girl. My crush ended up liking me!!
 

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thinkpink16 writes:

Hey Taydotz333,
I will give you some advice and tell me if it helps! Ok well since your family keeps saying cheerleading is boring then you have to convince them it isnt. I say go up to them and say cheerleading is a sport i love and i would really appreciate if you could come and watch me cheer.and it is not right that your sister is saying she hates you for doing something you love to do.She cant stop you from doing cheerleading but say if you wont watch me cheer lead then fine it is your loss. Hope that helps!Also cant wait until 7th grade it will be fun!
TTYL
ThinkPink16 xoxo
 

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taydotz333 writes:

MY B/F THINKS THAT I NEED 2 MUCH ATTENTION WAT DO I DO!!!!!!!!!
 

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taydotz333 writes:

I HAVE A CHEER COMP 2MARROW IN L.A AND MY SIS IS A PAIN SHE IS LYKE WY U JOIN CHEER IT BORIN I HATE YOU AND MY B/F THINKS IT IS GREAT WAT DO I DO MY WHOLE FAM THINKS IT IS BORIN I DONT LIKE BEIN IN THIS POSITION
 

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taydotz333 writes:

hey thinkpink16 i was is 6th grade last year it was fun but wait til u get 2 7th grade awesome way cuter boys this year last year ugly lol but GOOD 4 U
 

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rentluver1996 writes:

omg thinkpink16,

you could not be anymore right! triple the boys, friends, and annoying populars (oh joy) keep me posted!

rentluver1996

p.s. anyone need advice?
 

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thinkpink16 writes:

Hey rentluver1996,
Totally luvin 6th grade! So much better than 5th grade i am saying that because there is a lot more cuter boys in my class this year!! LOL!
ThinkPink16
 

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rentluver1996 writes:

hey thinkpink16 how iz 6th grade 4 u? it is good 4 me! lol
 

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sidnee#8 writes:

Thinkpink16,
Ya totally we are set for just staying here then K! Bye for now!.........-Sidnee#8
 

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sidnee#8 writes:

Swonge939,
I know what you are talking about you just need to talk to your friend because after all friends come before boy friends!!! And if she say she does not care that you like him then I would just stay away from him because it is not worth lossing a good BFF just because of a guy! So talk with you friend and hopefully you guys can figgerout a way to make bolth of you happy! K! Tell me if that helps K! -Sidnee#8
 

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thinkpink16 writes:

Dear Swonge939,
This happens to me a lot! The way i try to look at is to not focus on her flirting because trust me i know how it feels to get jealous and sick to your stomach because of it but try to ignore her!Sorry i am not that much help but just try to ignore it but chances are that this girl could find another crush and he would be all yours! Sorry thats really the best advice i could give you! Just try not be jelous!
ThinkPink16 xoxo
 

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thinkpink16 writes:

Dear Sidnee#8,
Totally agree to stay here! Ya it is kinda special that we keep it here because this is where we first gave advice to eachother!
Toodles!
Thinkpink16 xoxo
 

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swong939 writes:

There's this girl I don't really like,and she has a crush.... on my crush!!! She makes me kind of sick because she flirts with him constantly!!! -plz help.
 

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sidnee#8 writes:

Thinkpink16,
I think I like it here and like you said it does not really matter but this is were we started so lets just keep it here K! -Sidnee#8
 

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sidnee#8 writes:

Jeanzqueen17,
Well first you said it was his first kiss too so he is prob. just as nervous as you are! And if things feel right then it is right but if things feel really weird even just for a sec. then don't do it! You don't have to rush just because he wants a kiss! If things feel right then go for it but if things don't feel right then don't do it! K! Tell me if that helps K!
-Sidnee#8
P.S. good luck!
 

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thinkpink16 writes:

Dear Jeanzqueen17,
Thats so special that he told you that! I would be wicked nervous too because i have never kissed anyone either! So what I would say to you is when you get alone and usually it really feels right. just to let you know i get all of this from movies! hehe! Well it feels right you guys are alone and slowly inch forward and it all should fall into place! Trust me i would be so so nervous about the moment but its really something you just do naturally. so i hope that helps a little! Not the best advice giver on kissing!
ThinkPink16 xoxo
P.S. Tell me how it goes!
 

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thinkpink16 writes:

Dear Sidnee#8,
Hi! Yeah it doesnt really matter actually where we talk but if u want to talk here thats fine!
Thinkpink16 xoxo
 

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rentluver1996 writes:

OMG you put this page back!! yay!
 

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sidnee#8 writes:

Thinkpink16,
I know it seems like Dec. 6 was a long time ago! LOL! Well are we going to hang out here now? -Sidnee#8
 

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sweettart500 writes:

well i have a friend and every one thiks we would make a great couple
 

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Jeanzqueen17 writes:

I can't believe this page is running again! Everybody needs to come back here! I have a new problem though, my boyfriend(same one, 3 months now!smilies/cheesy.gif) told me he wants me to be his first kiss, so I admited to him I want him to be mine. He seems really comfortable with the subject, and, I am to but I'm nervous. I DON'T EVEN KNOW HOW TO KISS! I know that might sound really dorky, but I've never kissed a guy before. I've had guys TRY to kiss me, but I wanted to save it for someone special, I know I've found that person, but I'm nervous, and scared. Anyone have some advice?
*Jeanzqueen17*

Wow! OK, so I've never actually kissed anyone myself, but I had this convo with my mom once. You are TOTALLY right. Waiting for the right person to have your first kiss will make it sooo much better. If you both trust and feel comfortable with each other, then you can actually talk about kissing before you even do it.

Keep in mind that the first kiss might be a little awkward. No matter how much I want to believe it, I know my first kiss won't be like what I see in the movies! Those actors and actresses are pros.

But, it'll still be super special because it's the first kiss for both of you. But, remember that if you kiss him once and feel weird about it later, you don't have to kiss him again if you don't want to. If you don't feel weird about it and maybe want to do it again, it'll probably get easier and less nerve-wracking each time.

Let us know how it goes!

XOXO,

 

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thinkpink16 writes:

Omg! This page is on the website again! Wow my problem back then is like history now! haha! Cant believe my last comment was december 6 it seems like so long ago! Tootles!
ThinkPink16 xoxo
 

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dancepants11 writes:

purple seashells,
sidnee#8 is totally right (and not just about the advice; luv luv luv the name!) If u really like the guy then say yes! If its too hard then just wait a while, but dont give up!!!!
 

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thinkpink16 writes:

Dear purplr seashells,
If I was u i would probably definitly do the exact same thing so what i would do is if your crush asks you out again this time say i really like you but at this time i dont feel compfortable going out with you at this second. Option 2 if you are totally ready to go out with him just you go ask him out!! If ur friend says ok then do it there is nothin stopping ya!! I hope things work out because i am like all about this suff!
ThinkPink16 smilies/cheesy.gif xoxo
 

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thinkpink16 writes:

Dear sidnee#8,
I was just sayin that because like sometimes she could be like really annoying like laughing at every little thing he says! But know i definitely wont be mean to her and like i sit at her table in class so!!! smilies/cheesy.gif i hope things work out for u and your crush and me! TTYL

ThinkPink16 smilies/cheesy.gif
 

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sidnee#8 writes:

dancepants11,
rentluver1996 is right I mean we are your friends and you trust us or you would of not said that. But You tell us because we don't go to the same school and we could not tell the guy you like that you like him. If you know what I mean! Well Just go with what your heart tells you and if it does not feel right ever'nt if it is just for a sec. then don't tell your friend! K! And if it feels right then it is! K! Tell me how things work out! K! -Sidnee#8 smilies/cool.gif
 

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sidnee#8 writes:

Purple seashells,
1st Awesome name girlfriend! And 2nd If your BFF said yes then go for it! If she did not want you to go for it she should of said NO! And I know you said no but you just need to go back up to the guy and say I was thinking about your offer to go out and was wondering if it was still avable? Try that K! Tell me how it turns out! K! -Sidnee#8 smilies/cool.gif
 

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sidnee#8 writes:

Thinkpink16,
thanks you are the best! smilies/wink.gif I am so happy for you and LOL for the skunkbag! Good name LOL! Just try not to be mean to her ok! smilies/wink.gif Hope everything works out! For you and me! LOL! -Sidnee#8 smilies/cool.gif
 

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purple seashells writes:

my problem is that he just recently "went out" with my BFF, then asked me outt, 3 weeks later. she said it was okay, but still....i kinda said no, even though i like him.
HHHEEELLLPPP smilies/shocked.gif

Hmmm... Well, it was a good move to ask your friend about whether she was cool with you guys going out. But, think about whether this guy is being genuine! In other words, if he liked your friend three weeks ago and dumped her, does he TRULY like you enough not to do the same? We girls have to protect each other from heartbreak, don't we?!

XOXO,

 

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thinkpink16 writes:

Dear renluver1996 and Angel124,
Yeah 6th graders Lol!!! I will keep u guys intouch on whats happining in my social life!!
ThinkPink16 smilies/grin.gif
 

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thinkpink16 writes:

dear sidnee#8,
That totally stinks that your crush is already gone!!! but at least he will look amazing after he got his tan!i think a really great time to tell him is if you guys are alone like drinking hot coco just go like i relly like you and i think we be great together as gf and bf. I bet he will like totally be happy to see u again at new years!! Its goin great with me too because my crush i think likes me because he is talking to me more and like walking with me and also he is not distracted by the skunkbag who used to like him!!LOL!
TTYL
ThinkPink16 xoxo

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HA! Skunkbag! I love it!

XOXO,

 

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rentluver1996 writes:

yo dancepants11,

hi its me, it doesn't matter if you tell ur friends or not, i mean I AM ur friend, but only tell people you trust, you know how fast rumors spread. and i mean obviously you don't have to tell ur friends if you actually even like him, but make sure they are like trustworthy friends who wouldn't gossip about you...

hi n i donno if this wuz a real problem or not but i felt like responding

 

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rentluver1996 writes:

hi thinkpink16!

thnx 4 the advice, hopefully it will work! (if that situation ever comes!,lol) if you ever need advice i am here too! 6th grade rocks!!


 

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sidnee#8 writes:

Thinkpink,
That is so cool that the girl does not like the guy you like! Well I was going to ask the guy I like if he likes me but him and his family left for Christmas all ready! They went to Hawaii!(they do every year) Not fair! LOL! Not Only does he get like a whole month off of school he gets a tan too! LOl! Well I know he like likes me now because I think he was going to tell me he like likes me but then he had to go because his parents where calling him! smilies/angry.gif That is ok he is coming over to my house for new years so that is when I am going to ask him! What do you think good idea/timing to ask him? We will sled a lot together and stuff like that we have sence like we knew eachother!(that is like 10 years!) smilies/grin.gif so what do you think good time to ask him? Tell me K! Well Hope you are doing well Got to go! -Sidnee#8 smilies/cool.gif

Boooo! Hawaii? Whatever. lol! Let us know what happens on New Year's!

XOXO,

 

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sidnee#8 writes:

redsoxfreak24,
That is good that the guy you like, like likes you! And as for your friends friend I would just stay out of it! But if you can't tell me why and I can help! K! -Sidnee#8 smilies/cool.gif
 

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sidnee#8 writes:

dancepants11,
Wowie you are in up to your head! Well just stay cool K! smilies/cool.gifWell I am guessing that the guy that did not dance with you because... Well I don't know but you need to ask him if he is mad at you for some reason! k! Just ask him that is all you have to do and that will straten out a lot of things! K! smilies/wink.gif As for the guy you are not sure you like well just tell your friends if you want to! K! Sometimes us girls just think some guys are cute! smilies/wink.gif but that does not mean that we like like them! K! So tell your girls friends if you want to you don't have to but you can if it feels right! K! And last....... ask your friend if she is ok with you going out with this boy. And if so cool and if not you need to ask yourself a Question would you want her going out with a guy that she knew you still liked?? I know you will do the right thing!
Tell me if that helps! K! -Sidnee#8 smilies/cool.gif
 

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sidnee#8 writes:

Rentluver1996,
It you don't feel like you want to date then don't! You should not do something you don't want to do! Just make this guy a really good friend and then when you are ready to date then ask him or something! K! But in the mean time just have fun and make a friend! K! You should not be feeling like you are the only one that has not been on a date! There are a lot of people that have not been on a date and are older then you! So just have fun while you are still young! K! Hope that helps! Tell me K! -Sidnee#8 smilies/cool.gif
P.S. Thanks for saying I give good advice! smilies/grin.gif smilies/cheesy.gif smilies/wink.gif smilies/smiley.gif smilies/grin.gif smilies/cheesy.gif smilies/wink.gif smilies/smiley.gif smilies/wink.gif smilies/cheesy.gif smilies/grin.gif
 

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angel124 writes:

dear thinkpink16,
im in 6th grade too!!! cool! lol
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TTYL! write back!
-angel124 xoxoxo
 

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thinkpink16 writes:

Dear rentluver1996,
What a coinsidence!I am in 6th grade too! I exactly know how you feel! So what i would say is if you really like him and he really likes you and asks u out and if you dont feel compfortable than you should tell him i really like you but i would kind of rather take things slower and maybe later we can go on a date. I suggest you do this somewhere private so if you feel like you dont want your friends to know or anyone else. I feel a little uncompfortable too in these situations and i think you can tell him i will go out with you when the time is right. I hope this helps u! Talk to me later if u need any more advice!!!!

ThinkPink16 smilies/grin.gif
 

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redsoxfreak24 writes:

ok thx evryone that helped me i pryed out of some guy that the kid who i kinda like likes me!

Warning: sometimes stuff you hear from random people aren't always 100 percent true! I hope it is, but keep that in mind!

XOXO,

 

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redsoxfreak24 writes:

so now my huge crush is going ou t with my friends friend who is in a different grade and she doesn't even know y she is going out with him! smilies/sad.gif
 

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AcrobatsAlyssa writes:

I have a huge crush on a guy at school. He is so cute, but he has a friend that has the exact same name. Me and his friend are friends. I sit next to a girl and I like to whisper to her alot about how much I like him. My friend that's a boy, read my lips and told him. I was so embarassed!
 

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dancepants11 writes:

ok, so this guy broke up with me and when he did we decided to be really good friends but i still sort of like him. He goes to a different school but we e-mail and stuff. One day he invited me to his birthday party. He said it was gonna be a dance party. He dance with every girl but me. I was really sad and thought he was my friend. I don't know whether he is mad at me or he doesn't want to be my friend anymore. What should I do????


- Desperate for Help
 

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dancepants11 writes:

Dear Maeve,
i like this guy who sits in front of me in class, but he's going out with my best friend. My best friend told me that he doesn't like her any more so he dumped her. This is my opportunity to go for it but its only been a week and my friend still likes him. Should i go for it or tell my friend or just give up or wait or what??? HELP!!!


- Girl in Need
 

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dancepants11 writes:

Dear Maeve,
all my friends have crushes but i like boys as friends. Then this one guy came and i am not sure if i like him or not. and if i do, should i tell my friends?


- Friendly Girl

Not all girls have crushes, and that's completely OK. Even if all your friends have crushes, that doesn't mean you have to have one, too. If you feel like you DO have a crush on this guy, it's up to you whether you want to tell your friends. You can keep it to yourself if you feel like it's a secret, but if you want to talk about it (sometimes nonstop!) with your friends, spill it at a sleepover :-)

XOXO,

 

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rentluver1996 writes:

ok so. i have a big problem. i rly like this guy and i think he could possibly like me back. he is really nice and funny and we have a ton in common. but i donno what to do if he likes me back, because i am only in 6th grade and i don't want to actually go out with him. like what if he asks me what do i say??? i dont wanna sound stupid but ugh!! help please!!maybe sidnee#8 can help she gives good advice!

I can take a stab at this! It's totally cool that you like him... but don't want to go out with him. That should only happen when YOU feel ready. That doesn't mean you guys can't talk or hang out! It's not like you're going out... or you're strangers! But, if he does ask you, be honest with him. Say, "Well, I don't really feel ready to go out right now, so let's just hang out and be friends." That's totally, 100 percent OK to say. Don't let anyone pressure you into doing more than what you're ready for!

XOXO,


 

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thinkpink16 writes:

Dear sidnee#8,
OMG!! Guess what! I just found out from my bff that the girl who used to like my crush doesnt at all like him any more! Yip eee!!! Oh and like every time he looks at me he smiles!Happy day! So how r u and ur crush ?? Did u go out with him? so heres some advice for all of u girls dont get upset when u think someone likes someone because it might not be true!
 

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sidnee#8 writes:

Hay Everyone!,
This will help all of you girls! K! So anyway here is what has been going on with all of you...........................................

1.) You like you crush more then a friend!
2.) Your friend is telling everyone you like your crush! And now you are mad!
3.) You can't tell the guy you have had a crush on that you like him!
4.) Your friend is dating the guy you like!

Ok well here is what you do if you are #1 you have to tell this guy that you like him more then a friend! And if he does great and if not then just say that is ok I was just wondering we are still friends right?!?!

If you are #2 You need to tell your friend how you feel and if she is a good friend she will understand! K!

And for #3 you just need to tell him you like him! He is just as nevorous as you are so go and take a chance! You will feel better if you do it and it will be over with! K!

And last but not least #4 This is between you and your friend! If she is dating the guy you like you need to tell her how you feel! But that does not mean she will stop dating him! So you just need to find another guy or something that keeps them from getting to your head! K! And I know some where out there, there is a guy that will like you for who you are and what you look like! K!
Well tell me if that helps ok Girl friends!
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redsoxfreak24 writes:

ok so i found out that the kid that i really like broke up with my friend then wanted to get back together but she didn't want to she said she wouldn't be jealous or anything that i liked him and for the kid that i kinda like, he wasn't here today so ill write back tommorow
 

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4kicks321 writes:

Hey Maeve!

I am always hearing problems people have with the popular people! Don't let them get you down. I think wearing tight clothes and make up doesn't make you popular, what does is being nice and being yourself!
Later maeve!
~4kicks321

Great advice, 4kicks321!

XOXO,

 

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thinkpink16 writes:

Dear babymegan90,
That totally stinks!!! maybe you should talk to the boy about it and see if he gets bothered by it and if not then i guess it isnt that big of a deal!
ThinkPink16 xoxo
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babymegan90 writes:

Dear Thnkpink16,
she dosent listen to me! She keeps making fun of him still!
 

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thinkpink16 writes:

Dear redsoxfreak24,
If he liked a girl last week doesnt mean that he doesnt like you . and about the whole not dating until high school thing even if he cant date doesnt mean you cant still be friends with him so try being friends! Hope that helps!!!
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thinkpink16 writes:

Dear Babymegan90,
I think if this was me you shoulod really tell your friend to stop making fun of him and tell her even though you dont like him like him then there is no right she sould be making fun of him even though he is still your friend. thats just very mean and if she doesnt like him than thats her problem and you should have feelings for him if you do and dont listen to ur friend. i hope things work out for ya tell me if they do!
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thinkpink16 writes:

Dear Angel124,
I am in 6th grade! ya i do feel like that sometimes its very ocward but i will take ur advice on that!!! TTYL
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P.S. What grade r u in???
 

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angel124 writes:

dear redsoxfreak24,
for the guy u like---u dont wanna get in a fight with your friend, so tell HER how you feel, cz then she'll know, and if shes a good friend- she'll stand by you. but if our really good friends, make sure u dont make a big deal about it, cz u might get in a fight cz of it!!!
just be careful, and let your friend know how you feel.

good luck! tell me how everything goes!
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angel124 writes:

dear redsoxfreak24,
ok, for the boy u kinda like--- just get a friend to ask him, or get a friend to ask his friends if he likes you. it works most of the time!! lol
and most people arent allowed to date til high skool, so dont worry about it. if you like eachother, it doesnt mean u HAVE to date!!!
like im not allowed to date til high school, so if i like someone---then....oh well! lol

i hope everything works out!!
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redsoxfreak24 writes:

the kid that i really like is in one of my classes but he is goign out with one of my friends a couple days ago my friend who is goign out with him got in a fight with one of my other friends becuase she was jealous of my friend going out with him im not sure if he likes me even as a friend but im afraid that if i interfere then my friend will get mad at me and break up with him. even so i was the one who told her to go out with him cuz i thought that they would make a cute couple. i am happy 4 her but i don't know what to do?
please help me maeve!!!!!!

Hmmm... well, I can tell you that interfering when it comes to relationships is almost ALWAYS a bad idea. Watch any movie and you'll see what I'm saying. When boys and BFFs get complicated, try to stay out of it as much as possible to avoid the DRRRRRRRAMA until it blows over!

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redsoxfreak24 writes:

ok so there is this kid that i kinda like and he is in none of my classes but his locker is 2 away from mine we are always cleaning out our lockers at the same time and he is always flirting with me, but i don't know if he likes me cuz a week ago he liked this other girl but now she doesn't like him he is not allowed to date until high school what s hould i do?

Sounds like you've got a prime location! I'd say to keep doing what you're doing and be friends! If he's not allowed to date until high school, then the pressure is off the table, isn't it? Plus, he sounds like he can't make up his mind about girls, and with guys like that, friends almost always stick around longer than crushes.

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angel124 writes:

dear thinkpink16,
omg! yes! my friends always go--yeah, go ask him out! and im like--umm.... and i feel so weird!!! and dont worry about it. you dont need to rush having a boyfriend. i almost guarentee that the boy you like now will not be your husband, or even be your boyfriend til high-school! --depending on what grade your in! what grade are you in?
 

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sidnee#8 writes:

Starrie18,
Ok You need to tell him that you would like to take things a little slower. And I know you feel like a dork but I am sure that he does too! K! So just tell him that you feel a little rushed and would like to take it a little slower and that you still like him you just feel a little rushed. Ok if he is a good guy he well understand! K! Tell me if that helps ok! -Sidnee#8 smilies/cool.gif
 

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babymegan90 writes:

There is this guy i used to like and know me and my bff call him it boy. i still think he is so cute and have feeligns fro him but my bff always laughs at me whe ni tell her i liek hi mand then i tell her i was joking and she shes liek good. What should i do??
Signed,
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thinkpink16 writes:

Dear Rentluver1996,
This is totally like an episode of neds declassified that i watched! Everyone likes the wrong person!!! I think you should tell the boy that likes you that you like someone else and tell him i am sure you can find someone else out there that likes you. which there is that popular person who likes him and maybe you should talk to her and tell her that the boy who likes you really likes her and the boy that you like likes her. and maybe that popular girl can talk to the boy like you might do with the boy who likes you. Wow this is long! But I totally think if you take my advice even if it is a little long that everything can workout between you and your crush! smilies/grin.gif I hope that will help you a bit!!
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thinkpink16 writes:

Dear Sidnee#8,
thanks for the advice it makes me feel a little better because u know what i mean . But like i am really thankful that he didnt pick the other girl who is totally like obsessed with him too. But I will tell my bff about it and i know she doesnt like him so i can trust she wont make any moves and i will say dont u dare take him next semester!! It totally stinks but i cant do anything about it and actually the weird kid doesnt even talk to me when we are partnered so thats a good sign. But i am still mad that my bff is having a good time with him!!Thank you so much again you are always here for me and thats just so great for me!
ThinkPink16 xoxo

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babymegan90 writes:

Heyy Rentluver1996,
Well be honest with the guy who lieks you and tell him you just wnat to be friends with him. If the othere guy dosent liek you dont sweat it. They are lots of other guys to!!!! If that girl lieks him it dont matter. It is his choice to go out with her or just stay friends.
Hope this helps.
 

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Starrie18 writes:

hay MAEVE- so he kissed me and well- im his gf now. but im sooooo nervous!!!!!!! i feel soo dorky around him! i feel weird when he asked me out.

Uh oh! I see some warning signs here! Many girls (including me!) feel pressure when it comes to kissing and boys, but remember that you can say NO if you don't feel ready to kiss him again or be his girlfriend. If this boy pressures you, think about whether that's the kind of quality you want to have in a friend/bf. The most important thing you can do is stay true to how YOU feel and what YOU think you're ready for... and SPEAK UP about it!

XOXO,

 

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rentluver1996 writes:

ok so i totally don't like this guy who is totally in love with me and i like this other guy but he doens't really like me( i mean we talk and joke but he doesn't really like me) and he likes this other girl(an obnoxious popular girl) who doesn't really like him and sh likes the guy who likes me!!! HELP!! it is a total love circle and it is not working out!! wat do i do!

YIKES! Sounds like one of those soap operas that my mom DVRs! The only thing you can do is be honest with everyone involved. You might not be able to FIX the situation, but you can prevent it from getting worse!

XOXO,

 

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sidnee#8 writes:

Thinkpink 16,
I am so,so sorry!!!!!!!!! Well you should talk to your bff and tell her how you feel. But like you said these partnerships are for the whole semester! So you can't do a thing about it! Well I can tell you to just tell your bff how you feel! And be nice to the Weird kid K! He just needs some help I mean if you where the weird kid how would you feel if that is the way other people treated you? smilies/angry.gif not very good! So just tell your BFF how you feel and be nice to the weird kid! K! I am not saying that you have to like the weird kid but I am saying to be nice K! Tell me if that helps! K! -Sidnee#8 smilies/cool.gif

Great minds think alike! Great advice!

XOXO,

 

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thinkpink16 writes:

Dear Maeve,
This week we had to pick partners and it would have to be a boy partner. so since my crush is in my class i wanted to pick him. but before i could pick him he goes and picks my BFF!!! So now i am stuck with the weirdest boy in my class that all the boys like hate! So should i talk to my bff? These partnerships are for the whole semester too!! I am so mad!!!
ThinkPink16 smilies/grin.gif xoxo

Oh no! Well, at least it isn't her fault. Your friend might not be able to do anything about it, except tell funny stories about you and talk about what a good friend you are! And, don't let the "weird boy" worry you. I'm sure you know that very attractive qualities in anyone are giving everyone a chance and respecting people's feelings.

XOXO,

 

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thinkpink16 writes:

Dear sidnee#8 you rock too!!!
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thinkpink16 writes:

Dear everyone i have some advice that could relate to anyone! Well i have been seeing a lot of comments about how to talk to your crush and that he wont ask you out. My advice is that if your thinking that than he might be just as nervous to talk to you and ask you out. So try to step into his shoes and put yourself in his spot. So i hope that helps if anyone feels like that!!
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That's great advice! Sometimes, just like us girls, boys' actions don't always match how they feel when it comes to GIRLS.

XOXO,

 

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sidnee#8 writes:

Ok Maeve,
You are the best and so are the rest of you girls! Thanks again for your help and I will go for it when the timing is right! K! Thanks again you girls ROCK!!!!!!!!!!!! -Sidnee#8 smilies/cool.gif
 

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thinkpink16 writes:

Dear Catlover111,
I love love love going on this website so if you need advice i will usually be on!!
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thinkpink16 writes:

Dear Maeve thanks so much for the advice about me and my crush being on the same team! I got my team groups and he is in it with a ton of my friends too!!! I am like so glad! Oh and also when it said that we couldnt put comments on the beaconstreet girls i almost got worried! So id i need anymore help or if anyone needs me i will be on!!
Luv Ya!
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cloudpuff33 writes:

hi mauve, please help!! my older brother is going out with this mean girl, but she's the older sister of the guy i like! (he likes me too) when ever i go 2 his car 2 say hi if he comes when his mom is dropping his sister off, she'll put her hand 2 her chest, sigh, and say, young love, or my baby brother is growing up. that embarrasses him sooo much he won't even say hi 2 me. he goes 2 my school, but he only hangs out with his guy friends 2 try 2 keep up his image of being cool. he won't even talk 2 me!!! smilies/sad.gif i've tried and tried 2 get him away from his sister and "cool guy" friends, (he has a few nice friends) but his friends will just be like, "dude, you're ditchin us to go with her? that is not cool, man" so of course he'll go back cuz then they'll kick him out of their squad. please please please help me!

Ugh! I think boys tend to get more embarrassed about crushes and stuff than girls do. It's like boys feel like they're supposed to be too tough to get nervous and all blush-y around a girl. Whatever. THEY DO, just like us! So, I think this guy is giving in to pressure from his friends and his sister to keep his feelings to himself. Just like you said, he might be pushing you away to keep up his image, and he might not be at the point yet where he feels like he can just be himself. So, try not to take it personally, and make it clear to him that you realize he's not into having girls as friends right now (even though he secretly is!), but you'll always be there for him no matter what and you hope he'll do the same for you. Good luck!

XOXO,

 

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hollywood43 writes:

I have a friend that is guy, but I can never tell if he likes me or just friends

I feel like ALL girls get into this situation at one point or another. Crushes are funny because sometimes you crush on someone and like spending time with that person, but you're not ready to take the next step. That's totally normal! If he likes you and you like him, you can definitely continue having a good time without worrying about expectations or what "should" come next, you know?

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babymegan90 writes:

Dear Ima Starr,
Who care what other think? You liek him and he lieks you so thats all that realyl matters. Do what your heart tells you to. Its always right!
Advice Chica
 

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catlover111 writes:

Dear thinkpink16,
Thanks!!I've been reading the messages on this and you give really good advice too!!
 

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thinkpink16 writes:

Dear crazy4poniesalways,
that totally always happens at my school!! The popular girls and boys will all be flirty to each other and they will always go places together thinking they are all great! Its beyond annoying but i just try to ignore it!
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thinkpink16 writes:

Dear Angel124,
Since you said you are not allowed to date either i was just curious do your friends ever really like say stuff like go ask him out and you feel weird about it because sometimes that happens to me. I was just wondering because like a while ago you told me about that so. Maybe if my crush does ask me out i will ask my parents and see what they say.
Toodles!
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thinkpink16 writes:

Dear Ima Starr,
I totally agree with sidnee#8 . definitely who cares what other people think! I like this boy and sometimes my friends would say i look good with one of the popular guys and i would just think in my head it doesnt matter what they say if i like him then i shouldnt let them tell me who to like and who not to! I hope that things work out for ya and that your friends will beck off!!!
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sidnee#8 writes:

Ima Starr,
ok Well who cares what other people think? I mean if you like him and he likes you then go for it and your friends should be suporting you and not bring you down! smilies/wink.gif If you like him then go for it! K! Who cares what other people think it is your life not theres! K! So have fun! K! Tell me if that helps K! -Sidnee#8 smilies/cool.gif
 

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Ima Starr writes:

My crush is kina,well,lets just say not the most popular boy in 5th grade. Last year he was considered the class clown! Now me, on the other hand, well, I'm pretty popular. I have All A's on my report card, and 13 boys like me!!!( including my crush )So nobody expects ME to like HIM! What should I do?

I think you should do what makes YOU happy. Remember that popularity does NOT come with a set of rules. Nice boys who will treat you with respect can be found at ALL the lunch tables in the cafeteria, and that's what really counts when you're crushing on someone. Don't let others influence the way you feel about someone based on popularity -- you might be missing out on a really great friend.

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thinkpink16 writes:

Dear Catlover111,
Thats really good advice about the you dont need to change yourself to make boys like you because sometimes that can and cant be true. What i am sayin is maybe if you get a total makeover than more people will like the way you look. Great advice again!!
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That's right! Try not to feel like you have to change yourself to get boys to like you. But, if you feel like a mini-makeover will help YOUR confidence... go for it!

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countrygirl1356 writes:

skywriter13, u can tell if he likes u by if he is nice to you all of the time and if he tries to show off around u and if he is mean to u a little when his friends are around
 

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countrygirl1356 writes:

akicks321 i personally think thar u r wrong i think that junior high is the perfect time to go out!
 

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crazy4poniesalways writes:

Oh my gosh. I get SO annoyed at the populars when they start flirting with the popular guys. They'll be twisting their hair and making googly eyes at them. But then, guess what?The guys WILL totally get freaked out! smilies/cheesy.gif smilies/cool.gif

The "Populars"? Yikes! They have a name! You know what? Twisting hair and googly eyes might work in the movies, but not so much in real life! Confidence, intelligence, and sense of humor are what it's all about :-)

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thinkpink16 writes:

dear hawaiigirl98,
You are totally right! Great advice smilies/grin.gif Maybe i should get to know my crush as a friend!
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thinkpink16 writes:

Dear 4kicks321,
You are totally right that girls can be just friends too with boys but sometimes i get some crushes!!
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thinkpink16 writes:

Heyy Angel124!
Thanks so so much for the advice!! Its great to know that someone else went throgh this too!!! Anyway i cant wait to find out on monday!!
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thinkpink16 writes:

Dear Leah512,
Thats so funny girlfriend! I sure there will be someone that likes you and you like them!!
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thinkpink16 writes:

Dear Angel124,
You are so right! I should totally tell him! But I am going to wait and see which class i am going to be in and i am very anxious so!! Thanks again!
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sidnee#8 writes:

4kicks321,
Wow you are awesome! I like your point! I like boys but I just like them as good friends! Right now I am just trying to know them better!
-Sidnee#8 smilies/cool.gif

That's great advice! A lot of the pressure about boys and stuff goes away when you focus on making FRIENDS with boys, not boyfriends, you know?

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sidnee#8 writes:

Thanks every one that gave me advice! And I will go for it! Thanks again! And if you guys ever need me I will be here for ya! K! -Sidnee#8 smilies/cool.gif
 

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4kicks321 writes:

What's up, Maeve?

I think that boys are better off as friends. I play all kinds of sports with the boys at recess. I think that people get way too caught up in this zany crush stuff! My advice is boys are just friends and if you like one, then you should wait to make major moves.Junior high is too early to go out!
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angel124 writes:

dear Rachie13579,
u know what---sometimes, boys like when u sound like an idiot!!! its funny! and next time u do sound like an idiot, make a joke of it and make it funny!!!
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angel124 writes:

dear sidnee#8,
dont wait...you need to get out there, and ask him out! show him watch'a made of girlfriend!!! smilies/smiley.gif
good luck!

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angel124 writes:

dear hawaiigirl98,
omg! you are so right!! thats great advice! and the same exact thing happened to me!!! last year, i really liked this boy, but then this year, we became really good friends, and now i dont even know how i liked him, cz it would be so weird if i still did!! : )
 

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angel124 writes:

dear thinkpink16,
omg!ok---one time something like that happened to me!ok, so...if your not on the same team, and the other girl and him are, then you just need to tell him you like him. if he likes you too, he'll stay away from her, cz he's kinda 'taken' if you know what i mean. just let him know. tell me how everything works out!!

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leah512 writes:

thinkpink512,
ya it is kind of sad smilies/cry.gifbut... you know!im in 6th grade and i have had other boys like me in 1st and 4th grade!again,i didnt like them!
 

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catlover111 writes:

I have advice for everyone. Don't write anonymous love letters because they are pointless and i've been there.boys will usually bring them to school and show everyone or else be so embarassed that they can barely talk to some of the girls(usually his crush because he hopes it's her). So take my advice, don't send letters.
 

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catlover111 writes:

Dear sidnee#8,
ask him who he likes and if he blushes or doesn't say anything ask him out and if he says some one else just try to forget about it and just go back to being friends.maybe later he'll like you.
Hope I helped,
Catlover111

p.s THanks so much for your advice. I might ask him out or at least find out who ge likes.
 

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catlover111 writes:

This isn't about me, but in my school there is this girl who used to be really sporty but this year she changed..she now wears a ton of make-up, really girly and even revealing clothes and has had about 10 boyfriends so far this year.I heard that she changed just because no one liked her the way she was before. but a lot of people liked her better before. that goes to show you don't need to change yourself to get boys to like you.
 

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beccaboo writes:

sometimes i can't talk to the guy i like because i don't know what to say, and also, i get scared when i talk to him

Sometimes, I think we girls get scared because we're always thinking of what we're going to say next... in the middle of the conversation! You can always practice the things you want to say beforehand, but when you're actually IN the conversation, relax and focus on what he's saying. You'll be able to respond better if you aren't constantly thinking about what comes next!

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catlover111 writes:

Dear Rachie13579,
i sometime sound like an idiot around boys too LOL. If you really like him you should talk to him. tell him how you feel. If he likes you ask him out but if he doesn't forget about liking him and try to go back to being friends.
Hope i helped and if so let me know smilies/kiss.gif
 

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sidnee#8 writes:

Thinkpink16,
Thanks you are amazing too girlfriend! Thanks for all the advice you give me and the other girls! You are the best and if you need help just tell us!!!!!!!!!!!! -Sidnee#8 smilies/cool.gif
 

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sidnee#8 writes:

Hay Rachie13579,
Well I am doing the same thing right now and it drives me crazy! I know being friends with a boy for that long is just crazy and ya you will like him because you been friends for a long time so here is what you do................... Just talk to him like you do if he was not some one you like and just your friend K! And when it is just you and him ask him if he likes you! And then tell him that you like him and don't want things to be weird between your friendship! Does that help? I hope so! And remember that he is going though the same thing you are so just be your self and that is what he will like because he has been your friend for that long he will want to you to be your-self K! Well tell me how it works out
 

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catlover111 writes:

Hey sidnee#8 thanks so much!!! I just wanted to know, how old was everyone when they got their first crush?? please answer
 

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hawaiigirl98 writes:

Well I've found that before you begin a major crush on someone get to know them as a friend! I have a guy friend and i got to know him and he's really nice and funny! But I can't like hom anymore cause well, it's just to wierd to have a crush on your friend!

 

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thinkpink16 writes:

Dear Maeve,
How are you doing?? Any new crushes because you have not answered us since november 15!
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Hey! Ugh... I know. I've been super busy lately. But, you know me! I'm always here for ya!

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thinkpink16 writes:

Dear Rachie13579,
Sometimes when I am around certin boys i act like an idot too! But I think if he was your friend for 4 years talk to him like he is ur friend. and maybe if you like him more than a friend now you could ask him out! i am not pushin you to do that but if you think that he likes you also than i would give it a shot!! hope that helps you and let me know how it works out!!
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thinkpink16 writes:

Dear Sidnee#8,
You are so amazing because you will always answer my posts and you always give new wonderful advice that helps me!! i feel a lot better now!! I am like so glad i have this website to come to because sometimes i cant talk to my friends because there not home and i know that i can have this website. Thanks Sidnee#8!! And to any other bsg members who have helped me in the past!!It means a lot!
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Rachie13579 writes:

Dear,Cheergurl1110

that is okk.I am a sporty girl and boys DO like me! smilies/grin.gif
You dont have to change your self to be liked by boys just be oyur self smilies/kiss.gif smilies/grin.gif smilies/smiley.gif smilies/wink.gif
 

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Rachie13579 writes:

O.M.G
there is a boy that I relly like but we have been best frindes since like 4 ever now when I talk to him I sound like an idot!!!!!!!!!!Whet do I do??????????Help Me!!!!!!!! smilies/shocked.gif

lol! Why IS it that all of a sudden, it's super hard to talk to boys? It's like, all of a sudden they make you all nervous and self-conscious and stuff. But, really, I bet you don't sound like an idiot. You could be a little over-critical of yourself now that you have a crush on him. Just relax and know that you don't have to put on any shows for this boy -- he already knows how cool you are!

XOXO,

 

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sidnee#8 writes:

OK Catlover111,
Well this is what I would do.................. I would ask him if he likes you when it is just you and him. And if he says no then just go with it and find a new guy! But if he says yes tell him how you feel when he is around the other girls and that you don't like it! If he is a nice guy then he will understand! And also if he says he does not like you the find a fun thing to do to get him off your mind like after school stuff or just hanging out with your BFFS K! And I know it seems like guys only like the ones with the make-up and skin tight clothes but there is a guy that likes you for who you are! K! I don't where any make up at all! And boys are allways asking me out! And ya I will say no because I don't like them I am going for this boy that I have been friends with for 10 years do you have any advice for me if so tell me please. Anyway my point is that you don't have to be just like every one else just to get a guy and most of the time guys like girls that are them selfs and are different from the rest so keep doing what you are doing K! Tell me if that helps K! -Sidnee#8 smilies/cool.gif
 

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catlover111 writes:

Dear everyone
I need help!!!!there is this one boy i've been crushing on for almost 3 years and he's so sweet and funny when we're alone together, he acts like he likes me. The problem is when he's with his other friends that are girls he completely ignores me. It's kind of confusing when a guy acts like he likes you one minute and the next he acts like you don't exist!!I think about him all the time.
Please answer me everyone
thanks
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catlover111 writes:

Dear Maeve please answer me
it seems like i'm the only girl that no boys crush on. I'm kind of small for my age but i'm not bad-looking. I don't get it. All the boys seem to go for the tall,curvy girls that wear lots of make-up. It seems dumb to me. I want some guys to like me,i think i'm ready for a botfriend. I want to be able to get a guy without wearing skin-tight clothes and lots of make-up.
Please Help and answer me everyone
Catlover111

What you're feeling is totally normal. Sometimes, it does seem like boys only like a certain type of girl. But, in reality, boys like girls of all different shapes, sizes, and styles. That's what makes crushes special -- you like him just the way he is and he likes YOU just the way you are. So, I think it is worth it to wait and look forward to a boy who will like you for YOU.

In the meantime, it's so much more important to know in your heart that you ARE beautiful and that you don't have to wear skin-tight clothes or lots of make-up to attract boys. Focus on what makes you happy and what makes you feel beautiful. And someday, the right boy WILL notice and he'll be worth it. Just like in the movies!

XOXO,

 

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sidnee#8 writes:

Thinkpink16,
First thanks for the advice it helped I will go for it! K! I will tell you how it goes K! Well for your prob. I think that you should just wait and see what happends! I mean you don't know that she will be on the same team and you don't know it she likes him or not!! And if they are on the same team that does not mean that she likes him. And if she does like him that does not mean that he does not like you. So just wait and see what happends K! And if everything does not go the way you hope don't worrey about it K! YOU ARE AWESOME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And I know that everything will work! K! So tell me if that helps K! -Sidnee#8 smilies/cool.gif
 

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thinkpink16 writes:

Hey Everyone!!
It turns out sidnee#8 i do need help with a certin situation!! Well at my school in my grade we have these things called teams and they have 2 classes in a team. So i am worried that my crush will get on the other side of the team then me and that the other girl that looks like she likes him will get on the same side!! I am really kind of worried that it will happen. I am going to find out on monday!! so i am nervous. what should i do?? i would be great if you guys could help!!!
ThinkPink16 xoxo smilies/grin.gif

Hey ThinkPink16! Let us know what happened when you find out about the teams!

XOXO,


 

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thinkpink16 writes:

Dear Sidnee#8,
I totally think you should go for it and tell him the way you feel and ask him out. Because if he likes you more than a friend there isnt anyway he's gonna turn down a date with you! Plus if you wait for him and he is the kind of guy who doesnt exactly let his feelings out so quick that could take years for him to ask you out!!!Lol So I think you should go for it girl!!! smilies/cheesy.gif Also if you guys have been friends for 10 years i dont think it would wreck your friendship so let me know how you are doing!!! I am here for ya!!! smilies/cheesy.gif I am practicly on this website every day so if you ever need help just let me know!!!
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skulldiva writes:

In school I have a guy friend but everyone thinks we like each other but the promblem is I do like him.
 

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sidnee#8 writes:

Hay Girls,
I need A LOT of help so everyone please answer! K! Well I know this guy and me and him have been friends for 10 years! Great right!.................WRONG! I Like him and I can TOTALLY tell that he likes me! I think that we are going to Boy friend/Girl friend but I have not told him that I like him more then a friend!!!!! And I know that he likes me more then a friend! I can just TOTALLY tell!!!!!!!!! But I don't know how to tell him that I like him more then a friend! Or should I wait till he tells me that he likes me? I don't know I NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!!!! BAD!!!!!!!!! EVERYONE HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And if I wait for him to tell me that will take forever!!!!!!!!!! If you know what I mean! LOL! THANX!!!!!!!! And if anyone needs help just tell me K! -Sidnee#8 smilies/cool.gif

Hey! I answered your Q down below, but just to recap -- don't feel like you have to wait for HIM to tell you! If you feel ready, you can tell him you like HIM.

XOXO,

 

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Starrie18 writes:

Maeve, he even starts to talk 2 me! we went 2 the dance-he kissed moi! smilies/grin.gif
 

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thinkpink16 writes:

Dear violetaj123,
Wow thats a lot of drama over those past years!! Thats really beyond mean that they would keep bothering you until you cry!! Wow what I would do id let a guidence councler know about this if you have one at your school,or you could let your principle know because that is beyond mean to do something like that.What kind of person would scream and open a door to tell everyone that you like someone, i would go like a millon shades of red if someone did that to me. if you cant go to a guidence counceler for any reason try to confront the girl who did that to you. i hope everything works out for you!!!
If that happened to me i would totally know how you feel!!
ThinkPink16 smilies/cheesy.gif xoxo
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thinkpink16 writes:

Dear Angel124,
Hi if you see my post on november 21 7 posts down. I could really use help!! Thanks for asking if i need your help!!

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PiMpGuRl writes:

Hey MAeve. I have this friend that's a boy. I really like him only as a "friend" but he likes me, and he asked me out. I like his best Friend but I'm afraid he'll get mad at me and our friendship will be over. WHat should I do? smilies/cry.gif

Uh-oh! First of all, if you don't LIKE like your boy-space-friend, do not under any circumstances feel like you have to say "yes" in order to keep from hurting his feelings. TWO people's feelings are involved in a relationship, and it's not fair to you or to him to pretend.

And, you like his friend. This could be tricky. Keep timing in mind. If you want to get to know his friend better, wait a while out of respect for your friend. Even though you shouldn't pretend you like him, you should be very sensitive to his feelings. Good luck!

XOXO,

 

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angel124 writes:

dear bluesisters12, Hollywood24, thinkpink16, babymegan90, and sidnee#8,
ok, since i cant write individual things to you cz that would take a while, i was just gonna say, u give really good advice, and if you ever need advice, i love to give it! cz maeve doesnt always write back, and if you look, most of all the messages aren't to maeve, there to 'us'. its kinda funny! lol
so write back if u need to know anything!

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angel124 writes:

dear Hollywood24,

ok first, i love your name- hollywood24! lol
well, i kno its not your 'real' name, but u kno what i mean! lol
---ok, so just act like boys are like your girl friends
-but dont be like- wanna go to the mall to get nailpolish
(i doubt you would say that) but still, talk about guy stuff, and just act like their normal people, cz they are!
tell me how everything goes!!
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angel124 writes:

dear babymegan90 and bluesisters12,
omg! u gave really good advice to Jeanzqueen17! hope your advice helps her!

-angel124
 

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angel124 writes:

dear thinkpink16, and sidnee#8,
hey girls! your welcome!!! we should definetly write to eachother. and Jeanzqueen17 is really kool too! lol
if anyone needs advice, i absolutley love to give it!
 

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angel124 writes:

dear Jeanzqueen17,
ok---so this is what you have to do-- just ask your boyfriend,'do you think your sister likes me, cz i think shes really nice, and im afraid she wont like me' maybe he'll ask for you. if that doesnt work, then ask her if she has a problem with you or anything (not in a mean way)
~i hope evrything turns out good!!!
`angel124
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thinkpink16 writes:

Dear Everyone!
I have sort of a problem. well my school has these things called teams. and the team is made up of 2 classes. so me and my crush are on the same side of the team. and we have to switch every term and it was the end of the term today. so we are finding out what side we are on because we switch the teams up! so i am nervous that me and my crush wont be on the same side and another girl who likes him will be on the same side as him! if you could help me that would be totally awesome!!!
ThinkPink16 smilies/cheesy.gif xoxo

Oh no! I hope you and your crush are on the same team! If so, yay! If not, don't let it mess with your confidence. Real crushes aren't contests, so don't feel like you need to COMPETE with this girl. You'll end up feeling defeated -- or even desperate! -- if she ends up spending time with him. Just keep valuing your time with him at lunch, in between classes... whenever you guys can chat. And show off that confidence! Trust me, it's super attractive ;-)

XOXO,

 

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squishy writes:

Hollywood 24
To be friends w/ a guy you need to just talk the same way as you do w/ girls, and let them get used to the idea. but dont push yourself at them if they aren't interested in being friends. if you just want to be friends whatever you do DO NOT FLIRT!!!!! that will scare any guys interested in being friends off!!!
 

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thinkpink16 writes:

Dear Hollywood24,
Try talking to them more and bring up a cool conversation about things both of you can relate too. I hope that helps!!
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Cheergurl1110 writes:

Boys see me as the sports chick because of my brother! smilies/sad.gif smilies/cry.gif
 

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Jeanzqueen17 writes:

Hollywood24, Just approach it the way you would trying to make friends with a girl! Yes, boys are different from girls, (VERY DIFFERENT!)but when it comes to friendship, they're basically the same. (trust me, I have lot's of guy friends) Just strike up a casual conversation with the guy you want to be friends with, and if the chemistry is right, the conversation will just start flowing. It's best to not think of him as a "boy" when you're talking to him. Just think of him as a normal person and it might take off some of the pressure. Hope my advice helps, let me know! smilies/cool.gif
xoxo *Jeanzqueen17*
 

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skywriter13 writes:

i really like this boy but i need 2 know if he likes me! how do i know? cos i think he's flirting with me but that might just be whishful thinking!!

There's really no one way or another to tell if a boy likes you. Ugh! I know! Why can't we all just SAY IT? lol! The best thing you can do is be friendly to him and show him how cool and easy-to-talk to you are. The rest will fall into place if it's meant to be. If not, you've made yourself a good friend!

XOXO,

 

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sidnee#8 writes:

Hollywood24,
You can do it I know you can!!!!!!!!!!! Just be your self and if it does not work out then don't sweat it! You are awesome!!!!!!!!!!! And you don't need boys a friends! So just be your self and that is what will work! K! -sidnee#8 smilies/cool.gif
 

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thinkpink16 writes:

Dear Leah512,
oooh thats great that they like you but not so great that you dont like any of them!!
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thinkpink16 writes:

Your welcome bluesisters12!! Please feel free to ask me anything!
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thinkpink16 writes:

Dearjeanzqueen17,
I am so gald i found out about this too! Its great to get advice and give it too!! That would be awesome if all three of us started an advice colmn! I think really anyone can give good advice if you put your self in the situation!
Thinkpink16 xoxo
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bluesisters12 writes:

thankyou guys for helping me out i reallly apprecitie it and i hope it worksout
 

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bluesisters12 writes:

Dear Jeanzqueen17,
If i were you i would not worry so much on what his sister and just think that you are together now and rember think happy thoughts well i hope this works
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Jeanzqueen17 writes:

Dear Sidnee#8, thinkpink16, & babymegan90, Thanks SOOO much for your advice, you girls are awesome. You know, I'm really glad this started. Girls can get so confused about boys, and sometimes we don't know who to turn to. I'll definatley let you guys know how things work oout with me and my boyfriend's sister! Thanks again! smilies/grin.gif
xoxo *Jeanzqueen17*
P.S. thinkpink16, you & Sidnee#8 really should start an advice colum....maybe I could help, LOLZ! smilies/wink.gif
 

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babymegan90 writes:

Dear Jeanzqueen17,
If he really liked you he wouldent just break up with you because his sister said so! She is not the boss of him! Find a new boy friend if he breaks up with you. But if he does break up with you just know it wasent worth it because if he really liekd you he wouldent care if his sister hated you!
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babymegan90 writes:

Dear Bluesisters12,
Just talk to him first and then ask him he if has a date to the dance. Talk to him about somthing you both like. If he says no ask him to the dance but if he has a date dont make a big fuss! You could find another availible guy.
Advice Chica
 

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thinkpink16 writes:

Dear Jeanzqueen17,
That would totally be cool if me and sidnee#8 started an advice colmn!! I would love that!!
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thinkpink16 writes:

Also bluesisters12,
If he says no then do not take it personaly because it might not be you just maybe its that he might not be ready to do that yet. I hope he says yes!
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thinkpink16 writes:

Dear Bluesisters12,
I get so nervous when i have to do things like that! I would say that you should do it somewhere private like in the cafeteria or at recess. and bring up a conversation like something really random then just say "so by the way i was wondering would you like to come to the dance with me" I am sure if he likes you back he would say yes!! I cant wait until my next dance because i want to ask someone too now that we are on the topic! I hope that that helps you out a little!!
And know that i am here for you!
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leah512 writes:

omg!ive got alot of boys that like me!but i really dont like any of them!
 

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thinkpink16 writes:

Dear superstar32,
Wow twin cute boys very cool! So what i would do in this situation is that if you like one thats great but i think you should give the other a chance and see if you like him just as much. If you still like one even after that you can break up with the other. hopefully he will be forgiving that things are not working out between you and him and understand that you would like to date his brother. I am sure if he is a nice boy he will understand! I hope that helps!!! I am here for you if you need anymore advice!!!
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thinkpink16 writes:

Dear Jeanzqueen17,
Wow thats so cool you have known your boyfriend for like ever and now your dating! i wish that could happen to me! Ok well anyway about his sister thats very tough that she doesnt like you. whats not to like! What I would do id to not assume that she is going to tell him to breakup because that would just be plain dpown right mean. So if she does say that to your boyfriend just trust him that he would not breakup with you just because his sister told him to. I hope that helps!! I am here for ya!
ThinkPink16 smilies/grin.gif
P.S. I love the user name jeanzqueen how cool!! smilies/cheesy.gif
 

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thinkpink16 writes:

Dear doubletrouble,
This is happening tpo me to and i know how that feels! Sidnee#8 gave me advice about this situation also she said if it feels right than you should tell her but if it doesnt there is no presure that you have to tell her. The reason why i wasnt going to tell my friends is because they are like HUGE i mean huge blabber mouths because if they tell on person before i know it the whole school knows!! But now i realize since i read ur message over again you want to know how to tell her. well i would say that when you guys are alone you could just say by the way i like someone else.
 

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sidnee#8 writes:

Thinkpink16 and jeanzqueen17,
Thanks for the advice! I will tell how it turns out! K! Thanks again! -Sidnee#8 smilies/cool.gif
 

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sidnee#8 writes:

Bluesisters12,
ok I think that you should just start a simply conversayion like math was hard or how was your soccer practic? Something that he likes. And then after you get talking say I was wondering do you want to go the the dance with me. And if you don't want to totaly scare him say if you don't know tell me later! K! well hope that helps -Sidnee#8 smilies/cool.gif
 

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sidnee#8 writes:

superstar36,
ok well If you don't like him just tell him that you don't want him getting the idea that you realy like him! And when you say you don't like him ask him if it would be ok that you ask your brother. And they again you could just give him a chance! Well just flow your heart! K! And you think you want to give him a chance go for it! And if you don't want to give him a chance then don't! Hope that helps -Sidnee#8 smilies/cool.gif
 

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sidnee#8 writes:

Jeanaqueen,
OK well the thing you can do is just keep spaces between you and his sister and I don't think that he will bump you just because his sister says so! Something else you can do is ask her why she does not like you. And I think maybe that she does not like you because you are spending more time with her brother then she is. If that is it ask her if she does not like you because you are spending more time with her brother! K! Hope that helps! -Sidnee#8 smilies/cool.gif
 

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bluesisters12 writes:

Dear Meave
i have a slight problem and i was wonderning if you could help me or if i could possibly help you well my problem is that we are going to have a svhool dance and i wanted to go wilt this boy but i dont know how to ask him if you could help that would be great xoxoxoxo smilies/smiley.gif

There really is no perfect way to ask a boy to a dance, so think about what you feel comfortable with and just do the best you can. In other words, if you're too scared to do it in person, try a note. Or, ask him on IM. It's hard to take that first step, but you might have a really great time with him once it's all behind you. Also think about just asking him to dance AT the dance. It's a lot less pressure for the two of you :-)

XOXO,

 

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westiegrl95 writes:

Maeve,
I have some friends that are boys and they're coolso keep on trying to do whatever you want to do about getting a boyfriend but i must warn you they like their way and their ideas
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Jeanzqueen17 writes:

Okay, now I'm the one with the problem. Sidnee#8, thinkpink16, Maeve, ANYONE who can give me advice, PLEASE do. Okay, me and my boyfriend have been dating for two mothes. We've known each other for 7 years, and secretly liked each other for 6 years. Everything has been going great, except...his older sister doesn't like me, and he and his siter are REALLY close. I'm really afraid she's gonna convince him to break up with me, someone PLEEEASE give me some advice!!! Thanks!
xoxo Jeanzqueen17 smilies/grin.gif

Hmmm... sounds like she's a bit of a bully. I'm sure you've tried the whole "kill her with kindness" route (meaning, being genuinely nice to her whenever possible). Next, I'd say to be PROACTIVE about it. I wouldn't just wait for my bf to break up with me. I'd approach his sister in a very mature way and ask if you can talk about why she might not like you, and what the TWO of you can do to work it out and settle things. In the meantime, be honest with your bf about how you feel. After all, it's YOUR relationship (aka, between the two of you!) and it's not about his sister.

XOXO,

 

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Jeanzqueen17 writes:

Dear Sidnee#8, Thanks, you rock to. SERIOUSLY! I've seen the advice you've given some of these girls! You & Thinkpink16 should start an advice colum together, it would be amazing!
 

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superstar32 writes:

Hey everyone .I have a real problem !!!I like this guy named Nick.He has a twin brother named Danile(It's NOT supposed to be Daniel).And last week Danile asked me out .He's just as cute, and popular but I don't like him the way I like Nick.
What should I do ?If I turn him downm and then ask his brother out they might both turn out to be mad at me .
HELP ,I need advice !!!I'll take anything !!!
Thanks !!!

Ugh! Tough situation! It looks like you have a pretty good perspective on the whole situation. Feelings could get hurt here. But, you have to keep being HONEST. If you don't feel comfortable telling Danile that you like his twin brother, then just say that you like someone else and leave it at that. But, then, be extra sensitive to Danile's feelings if you decide to get to know Nick better (and I'd say give it a little time!). Good luck!

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Jeanzqueen17 writes:

Sidnee#8, Thanks, you rock to! I see the advice you give these girls, IT'S AWESOME!!! I've been exactly where you are right now. I had a guy I'd known for a very long time, we both liked each other, we would tell other people, but not to each other's faces. He is really shy, and I'm really outgoing, so I decided to take matters into my own hands. I told him to his face that I liked him, and asked him if he liked me, he said yes. By the next day we were dating, we still are, it's been 2 months. In your situation it all depends on the guy, if he's outgoing, try hangigng in ther a little bit longer, but if he's a shy guy, you might wanna make the first move. I know it seems scary, but it could be worth it in the long run! Hope that helps, let me know how things turn out! smilies/smiley.gif
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sidnee#8 writes:

Horsegrl1,
OK this is NOT the kind of guy you want to be around! You need to find something that gets your mind away from thinking about him! K! Like an after school program! K! Or just hanging out with your friends! K! Or maybe find someone else that is cute funny and nice! He might be cute and funny but it sounds like he is not nice! And that is the most inportant thing you need is someone that is nice! K! So good luck to you and have fun doing something else! -Sidnee#8 smilies/cool.gif
 

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sidnee#8 writes:

angle124,
Well Sidnee#8 here and ya I am a girl! LOL! I am not friends like hang out everyday with thinkpink16 or spellingbee12 but I would love to be! We wright back to eachother So ya I guess you could be friends and you can be too......... anyone that writes we are Friends! So I guess we are all in some ways friends K! So anyone is here for you when you need some advice so just write back if you can help in anyway K! -Sidnee#8 smilies/cool.gif
 

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thinkpink16 writes:

Dear Horsegrl1,
So now your crush knows you like him that can be good and bad. The good thing is maybe you will get asked out by him but the bad thing is he wont stop saying that you like him! I would try to ignore that he wont stop saying that. one reason is he mighnt be probably sayoing that because he is really excited that you like him and it wont get out of his mind!in this situation i think he likes you back and thats great if you still like him too! Hope that helps!
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thinkpink16 writes:

Dear chiomalashae,
Wow you like 4 boys! Thats totally awesome! I actually wouldnt act clumsey in front of boys to be honest with you. i think you should just be your self and try to think about a random subject to talk about.I sit next to a boy in almost every one of my classes so if one of your crushes are next to you , you could try to get into a confersaton about like a big test or something. If you are like me i totally usually get flirty around boys so try to laugh and little to get attention. I hope that helps you!!
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Great advice, ThinkPink16! Smiling and having a good time is always a good way to get noticed ;-)

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thinkpink16 writes:

Dear Angel124,
Thats so sweet of you to say that! I totally enjoy giving all of your girls advice and know that you can come to me for anything! Lol!
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thinkpink16 writes:

Dear Sidnee#8,
Wow thats so great that you have known someone for 10 years and you trust them!! But that can also be a little confusing too. What I would do in this situation is to give him a chance and see if things would work out being bf and gf. and if that doesnt work out i think you should totally still be friends because you have been friends for 10 years. and about the telling him you like him too um i havent told my crush i like him yet but i think you should totally tell him. because maybe he doesnt have the courage to tell you. this sort of reminds me of a scene in lizzie mcguire when gordo would never tell lizzie he liked her. Thats sort of funny but yeah! I hope everything works out for you!! You know u got me to come to!
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babymegan90 writes:

Dear Horsegrl1,
Well he is trying to make you mad and embarrsed or he is trying to tease you. Is he your friend? Well if he is he is teasing you but if he isint he just plain mean. Just ignore him when he says stuff liek that to you.
Advice Chica
 

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horsegrl1 writes:

i have like three boys that like me i hate two of them and i have a crush on one of them asap

pleaaase answer me
 

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doubletrouble writes:

ThinkPink16,
u r so great at giving advice. now tell me how i should tell my bf that i kinda like someone else. not that i would date him or anything but we promised each other that we would tell each other everything. i need help fast!!!!!
Doubletrouble
 

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horsegrl1 writes:

this is perfect1 ive been waiting for somthiing like this
ok i have this crush on a boy that i reallly really like hes funny and cute but my friends all told him il like him and now he keeps saying like im better at this than u and ill say why should i care then he'll say becuz u like me
help!!!!!

Hmmm... do you know what cockiness is? That's when a boy thinks he's SO GREAT and feels like he needs to tell everyone. That's not such an attractive quality, is it? Think about how this boy is treating you now that he knows you have a crush on him. If you don't think he's respecting you or being fair to you, then you need to tell him. If you think he's just afraid to deal with the fact that you like him, then you need to think about that, too. Is this the kind of guy you want to have a crush on?!?

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thinkpink16 writes:

Dear Hollywood24,
Things are a lot different at my school because i have a lot of boys as friends. So what i would do is get friendly with them and think of a random topic to talk about. Like talk about a big test coming up or something you could both connect to. Also what i would do if you sit in tables like at my school try to talk to boys in your group. Hope that helps! Good Luck!
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thinkpink16 writes:

Dear Fleur11,
Thats really good advice to get the nerves out of your system! I will definitly try that! Well at my school we have 4th,5th,and 6th grade. I am in 6th which is basicly middle school. My principle for som,e reason did not want our halloween party to be called a dance , really weird right. so he wasnt allowing us to ask anyone that totally stinks so ya. but i hope if we have a winter dance like you soon we will be able to ask people. And if we can i will totally try what you said to think to your self i am pretty,i am confident,i am smart,and i am cool. That makes me totally relaxed. Really great advice!!!
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angel124 writes:

dear sidnee#8, thinkpink16, and spellbee12,
you guys give such great advice! omg! i always see things u write, and im like---omg! their like awesome!!!! write back!!!

angel124 : )

ps- i bet u girls are totally awesome friends! u r all girls right? im a girl too, dont worry! lol smilies/cheesy.gif
 

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chiomalashae writes:

yes Maeve i so need your help i have a super crush on four boys at my school i cant talk to mom she woul spaz i need your help should i act clumsy to get attention?

Ooooh... acting clumsy to get attention is not always the best way to go about it! Read my little article above on the best ways to get boys' attention. Being clumsy on purpose is not one of them!

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sidnee#8 writes:

Ok Maeve, Thinkpink16 and anyone else who has any advice,
So I like this boy and me and him have been friends for like 10 years! Ya and I think that we are going for girl friend/ boy friend! Well I know that he trust me and I trust him but what if this gets realy weird!?!? I mean because we have been friends for 10 years. And I know that he likes me and I like him but he won't say that he realy likes me and I have not told him that I like like him. So how do I tell him that I like like him? Should I tell him or should I wait for him to tell me????????? But then again I will be waiting a long time if I wait for him to come to me. Some one help me please! Thanx. -Sidnee#8 smilies/cool.gif

Hi! This is your brother's friend, right? You know, going for a bf/gf relationship can be VERY scary. There are so many "what ifs" and doubts about what you are and aren't ready for.

But, even though I've never been there, I can tell you that it IS important to try. And, trust is HUGE. If you do trust him, then this looks like a great chance for you to take baby steps TOGETHER into the whole I-like-you, you-like-me thing. One of you will have to break the ice, though, and say something. Think of it this way -- once you have said something and you have that conversation (even if it's totally awkward), then you'll be relieved. Having that behind you is so much easier than obsessing about it. Gather up all your courage and SAY IT. You're right -- if you wait for him to do it, then you might be waiting a long time!

Remember, though, you're taking BABY STEPS. And admitting you like him to his face is only one of them. You're not signing on for anything more at this point! Good luck!

XOXO,

 

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sidnee#8 writes:

Hollywood24,
Well I know that you would like boys as just friends but sorry to tell you that you can't make boys like you as just friends if they don't want to. But I can tell you that if you just be your self and say hi once in awhile and be there when they need you that is being a friend. K! So be your self and that is what always and I mean always works out! K! -Sidnee#8 smilies/cool.gif
 

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sidnee#8 writes:

Jeanzqueen17,
That is really good advice for Blonde4ever12! And Blonde4ever12 lessen to her it is better to have a good girl friend then to have a good boy friend! K! Well Jeanzqueen17 you rock! -Sidnee#8 smilies/cool.gif
 

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Hollywood24 writes:

Maeve,
I want boys as friends, but i don't know how! None of the boys my age are interested in girls that are just friends. How can i get some!?

Boys as friends are sometimes difficult to make because if a boy spends time with a girl or if a girl talks to a guy, that usually gets everyone whispering, doesn't it?! But, guys as friends can be fun and very handy when you need a guy's perspective! It helps to have known a boy for a really long time -- like a next-door neighbor or a classmate that you used to play with when you were younger. If you don't have that, then focus on having casual conversations with boys WITHOUT the crush vibe. Just be yourself and show them that that's not what you're all about. It may take time to develop, but don't get discouraged -- there's nothing wrong with having boys as friends, and it IS possible!

XOXO,

 

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sidnee#8 writes:

Thinkpink16,
I know you will do the right thing! If it feels right then it is and if it does not feel right don't do it K! It is that simple K! Well I hope everything goes well with that TTYL -Sidnee#8 smilies/cool.gif
 

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Jeanzqueen17 writes:

Dear Blonde4ever12, I think we all go through something like this at one time or another. It's obvious that you like your boyfriend. But, it's also obvious that you have SOME feelings for this other guy. My best advice to you is to look deep inside your heart. The answer is always there, even if it's sometimes difficult to find. If you discover that you like this other guy more then your boyfriend, I wouldn't say anything. The last thing you want is for your friend to find out that you like the guy, ESPECIALLY after she confided in you about liking him. If there's something between the two of them, don't mess with it, it would really hurt your friend. It would hurt her even more if you stole him away from her. Now if this guy likes you and not your friend, DON'T pursue him! That would hurt your friend the most. Keep in mind that friendship is more important then any guy. As for your boyfriend, if you like this other guy better, you should just be honest with your boyfriend. Nobody wants to be led on like that. It might hurt him, but it would hurt him even more if he found out you led him on for so long for nothing. Hope my advice helps, and I hope everything works out! smilies/grin.gif
xoxo, Jeanzqueen17
 

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sidnee#8 writes:

Blonde4ever12 or Lost& confused,
Well I think that you should just keep the boy friend you have for right now. If you like him and he likes you. And once things get setteled down for the new guy then think about just getting to know him as a friend K! And if you like him better then your boy friend first dump your boy friend you have now K! But don't dump your boy friend until you know if the other boy wants to be your boy friend K! Does that help at all tell me if it does K! -Sidnee#8 smilies/cool.gif
 

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Blonde4ever12 writes:

I have a BIIIIIG problem. I am dating this guy. I like him A LOT, and I'm VERY loyal to him. But, we just got a new guy in our class. He is SOOOOOOOO cute. But, my best friend likes him, and there's a rumor going around that he likes her back. I can't even tell if he likes me or not. Sometimes it REALLY seems like he does, other times it REALLY seems like he doesn't. I know I have a boyfriend, and I know I shouldn't let myself feel anything besides friendship towards this other guy. But I keep finding myself caught between them, and what about my friend? I can't just stab my friend in the back after she confided in me about liking this guy! I'm so confused!! Someone PLEASE give me advice, FAST! smilies/sad.gif

Signed, Lost & Confused

Boys, boys, everywhere! lol! In this case, you really need to think about the consequences of your actions. Ha! I sound like my MOM! But, really, your feelings, the new kid's feelings, your bf's feelings, AND your BFF's feelings are all on the line here. And YOU have to decide if your feelings for the new kid are strong enough to be worth risking your friendship and your relationship with your bf. Good luck!

XOXO,

 

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