Secret Crushes

Dear Journal,

We were having a Tower sleepover the other night when Maeve brought up the one subject that always makes me feel tingly all the way down to my toes: Nick Montoya—aka, my super-secret sorta crush. I know I must have turned 50 different shades of red. I mean, it can be fun to talk about Nick with the BSG, but it can also be SOOOO embarrassing! And you won’t believe what Maeve was saying. She actually thinks I should…get ready for this…ASK HIM OUT!

Of course my first reaction was no no no no NO! No way am I ready for that. And then, when I thought about it some more, my reaction was still NO. Hanging out with Nick is so much fun, and I definitely don’t want things to get weird. We always have an awesome time just kicking a soccer ball around or even working on a school project together! I’m afraid that if I bring up the whole ‘I like you’ issue, things will get messed up.

And you know what? I’m totally OK with feeling like that. I think it’s cool that Maeve would be brave enough to just walk up to her crush and ask him out, but that’s sooo not me. I just want to take it slow and see what happens naturally. For now, the only crush I want to hear about is the one between Mr. Darcy and Elizabeth from Pride and Prejudice!

Meanwhile, Club BSG members can also share their opinions about dating, crushes, kisses and stuff on our NEW survey ! Check it out -- tell us what you think!

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Do you think it's OK for me to keep a secret crush secret?

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Comments (1678)

XxKittyKyliexX writes:

	don't worry he love you....

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starr124 writes:

	I think that you never know wheter they like you utill they know that you like them but some thimes its ok it just depends on who you are and they are!!!!!!!

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PantherPride writes:

	I think that it is not okay for you to keep a secret crush becuase then if he finds out he may be mad and not like you anymore. Be brave and tell him!

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musiclover820 writes:

	i think its okay.even though things get messed up he will know he likes you.And maybe he will tell you if he likes you or not.

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2cute4uxoxo writes:

	no then he might like you

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soccergal179 writes:

	Dear Charolatte, Yah it is cool to keep a crush I have one too!

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bree123 writes:

	tell u the truth no. because you won't now if that person likes you back. and the reason i now all of this is my best friend did the same thing and that guy did'nt like her anymore. so tell that person the truth.

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monky4 writes:

	I think that it is totally OK. However, you can't keep it bottled up inside forever. (I know from peronal experience) I know you don't want things to get weird but if you hang out THAT much then think he likes you too. Otherwise you wouldnt be friends. Do you get what I'm saying? (I hope so)

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starr3072 writes:

	i like 2 boys and i used to go out with k***** but i still like him and a****.i think you should tell him if u really like him how i like those 2 boys

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esse11 writes:

	It is okay as long as you don't brag about it to someone that likes him to

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hollistrchick1 writes:

	Tell ur friends. They are the best ones to tell. Ya. I'm kinda havin the same prob. too! I like a guy who is my friend but I don't wanna ruin the friendship. I'd just say, do what you feel is right. hollistrchick1

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50743 writes:

	Totally!

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angelgal1234 writes:

	It's so totally ok for u to have a secret crush. I have one. It's ok to have a crush. I feel the same way u do about not telling.

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AmyRose writes:

	lol laurkait i have a secret crush 2 named M* C***! i wondr if we kno each other... im nevr gonna know! AmyRose

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alleycat123 writes:

	no chalotte you should tell your friends you have a secret crush

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chrstina1268 writes:

	Well if you like you bf and you want to keep it a secret just do it I wouled say follow what you think would be right and I would just say follow you heart. love chrstina1268.

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starambition123 writes:

yes, but not forever. become his friend and try to find out if he likes you. if he does, let him know your feelings. if you think he's not interested, remind yourself that you can still be his friend and try to get over your crush on him. me, i usually tell only my best friend. if you tell a lot of your friends, especially the loudmouth, outgoing ones that we all have, your secret could travel to your crush before you're ready for him to know.

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flowerprincess13 writes:

	i think you should ask him. last time i had a crush, i waited for a week,and it turnd out he used to like me but since i didnt say anything he moved to a differnt girl.

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may923 writes:

	i ;ik this boy but his my friend bf

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pcms149 writes:

	definatly ur crush might feel really werid if you tell him that you like him. he might start avoiding you. i have a crush to n hias name is t*****!

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keesha writes:

	but a seret crush is not a bad thing.

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ViCtOrIa18 writes:

	Well....I have a huge secret crush! But I rather not said it!

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Tlolove writes:

	no, u sould tell him you like him if he likes u back he will ask you out. Good luck, Teresa

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glittergirl10 writes:

	I LOV SECRETS AND CRUSHS!!!!!!!!!!

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22dude writes:

	you know, a secret crush has to be kept SECRET!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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disney2000 writes:

	I have a scret crush his name is C**.

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rissaroo writes:

	Just write him a letter and sigh your name. mabey it will work.

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wish4pink writes:

	you have a right not to tell your secret telling friends your crush

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tyra banks writes:

	TI'S ,THIS BOY NAMED EIRC HE IS LIKE THE CUTEIS BOY IN THE CLAAS AND I LIKE HIM BUT HE DONSE'T KNOW I WHAT TO KISS HIM

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pennek writes:

	o im sorry charmcast3r go talk to her! Did she know this before she started dating him?

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ilovemonkeys writes:

	I do think that it is okay to keep the secret about your crush but maybe you should tell someone that you really trust. I have a crush on this one boy at school and I told my best friend about it. She respects me more now that I have told her my secret

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prettyinpink9812 writes:

	KEEP YOUR CRUSH A SERCET, BECAUSE- I went out with this one guy, E**** and i went out with him last year and this year i relized that i liked him this year and he likes me so i went out with him but then it got weird so i dumped him and he tryed to kiss me a couple days ago now he looks at me weird!

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charmcast3r writes:

	waaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!!!!!!!! MY BEST FRIEND GOES OUT WITH MY CRUSH

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disney2000 writes:

	I have a crush to.

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applebottom1217 writes:

	I dont think you could keep a crush secret because you might wanna ask that person on a date, but a another girl asks him before you do.

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AmyRose writes:

	KEEP IT SECRET! I told my closest frends that i liked a guy and one of them told a blastd blabbermouth and the bb told the crush! and then people asked him out 4 me. KEEP IT SECRET! AmyRose

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Poison writes:

	I think it is okay to keep a secret crush , but in time you will ask him or he will ask you , just for right now keep it a secret

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vonnygirl writes:

	omg! i like this guy named j but my friend likes him too j and i already went out but he is soo cute. i have no idea what to do

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Taylor1018 writes:

	yes you should i did!

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lady la la writes:

	hiya baby

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arealcoolgirl9 writes:

	Hi everyone, I'm back! Okay, my B.F.F told me she likes a guy who's name is T, and his aunt is Dr. the chriopracter, and I don't want to tell the guy that used to be her boyfriend [who is now the guy I like] Because I'm afraid it will hurt his feelings and he probably won't belive me. And I'm scared I don't know what to do!

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arealcoolgirl9 writes:

	Oh my goodness I have sooooo much to say! first, I kinda like this guy who liked me when I was 5, and he doesn't like me anymore and when he comes over to my house,[like he rarely does] he always bugs me about it and he makes me blush! But his brother is really nice, and I like him, but hardly anyone knows,Exept for the guy I dispiese. Trust me, you would dispiese N** if you knew him!

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the doctor and rose writes:

	i cant choose whos cuter and hotter b or n

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MickeyMouse78 writes:

	Charlotte, seriously ! Your just like me, I had someone I liked and my best friend said ASK HIM OUT ! I'm LIKE no way ! than after, I told him I liked him.. than we talked more and stuff. But, do what ever makes you happy. and that would be your answer.

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BSG Fan writes:

	You go girl! I always tell my bestest friends my secret crush but you have to really trust that they won't tell because I told someone I didn't trust very much and she told him that I liked him. Which I still do.

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sbcool2000 writes:

	hi BSG fan hi I liked the way you said that so but see his brother is like 9 and his brether that i like is 13 and i am so worryed well he has black hair and brown eyes omg my frind tells me that i should go out with him but my dad saids that i am not alowd to date i think my mom is ok with it

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TennisFreak257 writes:

	Whoa, I never knew that there were all these other clubs with the characters!! Sweet! Okay, I have a crush on this really cute guy!

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bronxstreetgirl107 writes:

	well my first kiss was not magical at all and after that i never kissed a boy again! Until now I'm dating this guy and he's so sweet and nice to me don't you think I should give another try with this guy? i need advice anybody could help me out? -bronxstreetgirl107

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4kicks101 writes:

	I LIKE THS BOY, BUT IM ONLY IN 5TH GRADE AND I CANT DATE YET PLUS IN MY CLASS IF YOU TELL SOME1 THE WHOLE 5TH GRADE WILL KNOW BY THE NEXT DAY AND I WILL BE TEASED 4 EVR EVEN BY FRIENDS BECUZ THIS S THE 1ST BOY I HAVE EVR LIKED AND B4 THIS I ALWAYS BEEN AN ANTI-BOY GIRL UNTIL NOW. WHAT SHOULD I DO? 1. KEEP IT A SECRET 2. TELL HIM 3. TELL MY BFFS ONLY 4. TELL ALL MY FREND AND HOPE THEYLL TELL HM

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4kicks101 writes:

	CHAR NICK IS PERFECT 4 U! CLICK THE HEART IF U AGREE

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4kicks101 writes:

	MARTROX005- U GOT 5 HEARTS NOW TELL US!

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4kicks101 writes:

	SASSY564 HOW OLD R U?

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Anglecatplay writes:

	of course, wait how old are u sassyd64

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chidera writes:

	No. Because if you tell someone then its going on and on .In tell evarybody knows.Then it's not a secret.

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sassyd564 writes:

	how old are you actress10105 and do you want to become friends?

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sassyd564 writes:

	It's okay for me too like a 4th grader right Charlotte?

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jonas97 writes:

	i think you should only tell the BSG members because you trust them and who knows, other people might tell more people and then everyone would know

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actress10105 writes:

	Hey beaconstreetmaeve its ok listen if he laughs at u then hes not the guy 4 but ur prince charming is still out there! Good Luck! -actress10105

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laurkait writes:

	i have a crush on M C

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aca567 writes:

	i dont think you should just tell the boy

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dance0419 writes:

	Totally it is OK! I have been doing that all my life! Go with what you think is best, not what your friends think is best!

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cookygirl202 writes:

	i think everybody agrees that... NICK IS PERFECT 4 U! SO JUST ASK HM OUT! From what I heard he thinks that from your clumsiness 2 your glasses that your cool, Char, but he's 2 shy to say so. So step it up and ASK HIM!

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Hinata421 writes:

	I think it would be ok if you only tell the BSG members. DO NOT I repeat DO NOT TELL ANNA AND JOLINE under any circumstances ok?

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cooky writes:

	i think it is ok because almost every person has a secret crush secret

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BSGfan_2008 writes:

	I do think it is OK for you to keep a secret crush but how do you know if he likes you back if you keep it bottled up inside of you.I think it's better to tell him when you're ready.

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tigergirlie writes:

	The way I won my by boyfriends heart(haha that sounds funny but its true)was we started off as best friends. I would visit him every day at his locker. And started giving hints that I liked him. I asked him to a dance at school about a week from the dance. The day after Valentines dayhe asked me out and I was over joyed I was bouncing off the walls. So my advice to you is to start off as friends.

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BSG Fan writes:

	i guess u can keep it a secret because if u told someone the secret would spread.

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poohberry32 writes:

	I like a boy named r**

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17pavmar writes:

	Yes, your buisness. you shouldn't have to tell anyone if you don't want to. Again your choise.

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Daqueencutie writes:

	I have to admit I like a boy named R**. But my friend is going out with him. So im sad.

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Martyroxs005 writes:

	I like a guy. I techincally dont, but its confusing why I do.... Ill tell u all why if I get 5 hearts on this comment. ~Martyroxs005~

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loseanaka writes:

	hi have a crush on this boy named d**.... he is so fine

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Smartipants writes:

	have you ever had a secret crush on a boy while dating another one, cuz its happening to me!!!!!

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Ayaka writes:

	Dear Charlotte, Of course it's ok! You dont HAVE to tell anyone. But then again,you are getting advice from a girl that couldent keep HER secret crush a secret. From your loyal friend, Asaka

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jess779898 writes:

	yes i think so i keep a seceret crush to charlotte

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actress10105 writes:

	I just want to let everyone know I have a boyfriend and we've been 2gether 4 3 months. I really think Char and Nick make such a cute couple! who agrees? press the heart if u do!

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actress10105 writes:

	Sophie11 I got ur back, try and become friends with the boy and hang out with him more then u might feel more comfortable as u and him as freidns and he will too, so then the more u guys hang out the more he will like u and u will feel comfortable talkin to him, give it a try!

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actress10105 writes:

	I think u should just listen 2 ur heart, see who u only want to be friends with and who u want to be more than friends, GOOD LUCK!~ actress10105

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beaconstreetmaeve writes:

	I have a crush on this kid named J. He already knows i like him because my friend told him but i didn't want him to tell him! I need advice! Also J laughed when my friend told him.HELP ME!

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the doctor and rose writes:

	i have a major crush on 2 boys in my class 1 is named B and the other is named N

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tigergirlie writes:

	Charlotte, I think you should tell the BSG. But first does Meave still like or didn't she I can't remeber but you should find if one of your best friends like him and if they don't then you should tell. IF YOU AGREE CLICK ON THE HEART.

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elainecook writes:

	I LOVE a boy named C and another boy M. What do I do?

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icansing2 writes:

	Deat Charolotte. How many people here would go out wiht nick? Im sure alot So Char, since we can't , you should I mean we all want you too! Ask him out! Click the heart if you agree. PLEASE JUST DO IT FOR US!

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beaconst.girl writes:

	there is a cte boi in mi class named k**** he i svery nice i THINK he likes me!! Charlotte go for it i'll ask him if he like s me if u do it!!1 I a m shy though! Try flriting with him!

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Sophie11 writes:

	Help me!!!

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Sophie11 writes:

	I really want to have this guy like me but I don't know what to do when HE sees me i always act stupid and that doesent help.

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mahrukh writes:

	i think that you should just once ask him. be brave n thats no bad keeping a secret crush after all !!!!!!!

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shelbgirl120 writes:

	1.make friends with him 2.get to know him 3.wait until about a year or less 4.if he does not ask you out you ask him 5.if he says no do not act hurt or sad!

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broadwaybeauty writes:

	Charlotte, I would keep your crush a secret (even from your very best friend) because you may change your opinion about this boy, and if you and your friends ever get in a fight, they can use this against you or they may tell him you have a crush on him. Save yourself some embaressment (just in case anything happens). ~brodwaybeauty

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broadwaybeauty writes:

	During the school year, I've had a lot of 'secret crushes' but, there hasn't really been one certain boy that I would think about (unless you consider David Archuleta a secret crush) I don't think I'm ready to go out with someone, but, it's totally O. K to a crush on someone.

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countrysinger writes:

	i am dating this guy and i don't think we are right for each other because i like another guy. the guy i am currently dating took forever to go out with me and ow i want to go out with someone else. the guy that i like likes me and he told me on friday. what should i do?????? help!!!!!!!!!!

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Tracey1968 writes:

	There is this guy at my school that is SOOOOOOO CUTE (just like Zac Efron)!!! He was in my class last year, that year I was like SOOOO Lucky!!!!! One day at lunch well, I look at him sometimes and guess what? Our eyes met!!!!! I had Butterflies in my stomach for days!!!!!! I just kept thinking about it!!! I'm actually thinking about it right now!!!!

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Kiwi11 writes:

	Well I think it is okay...but in my school it has to be a secret or it will be all over the school by the next day.

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kaileah writes:

	go tell him u love him and flirt.

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bouncybubble writes:

	Yes I Kept a secret crush for 2 years then when I was ready I asked Him out and he said yes! Just go for it when you are ready!

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Sophie11 writes:

	There ishe is super CUTE!!! this guy M*** in my class

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Dahia1 writes:

	Just go and ask him out.

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Averygirl124 writes:

	1. make it obvious that you like him 2. tell your friends 3. tell him that you like 4. ask him if he likes you 5. wait till he asks you out if he doesn't then... 6. ask him out

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Averygirl124 writes:

	I think you should make it obvious

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ufoducky writes:

	go for it if doesn`t like u back then never talk to him again

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ddannieela writes:

	yes i think everyone has a secret crush dont you think...

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alexahope96 writes:

	Tell them girl. I told my friends who I like.

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wollaberry writes:

	yo sude flurt with hem to make hem like u and to but let them chas you

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bsgmea13 writes:

	Yes, Charlotte, it's okay! Ur twelve, and u don't have 2 fall in love just yet. Tell him when ur ready. Don't get pressured by ANYONE 2 tell him that u like him. U make that choice, no 1 else. -bsgmea13

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agirl41 writes:

Yes Id do. I have a crush on this guy and I like him alot but I don't think he likes me. I am 2 years younger than him but only 1 grade younger. My best bud used to like him to, She doesn't anymore, but what happens if she likes him too? He will be going to middle school next year. But my best bud I mentioned earlier lives across from him. She says all I talk about is him. Is this true? Whatt should I do?

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Babyboofoo writes:

	Well it depends... If he tells u he likes u then u should tell him what u feel about him. But for nor keep ur secret with u.

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masic25 writes:

	you need tell him.One time i liked this boy so i told him that i like him and i found out that hye liked me too.

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rubyruby writes:

	NO CUZ WHEN I DID MY FEELINGS GOT HURT

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coralrose writes:

	Yes, Because telling someone you have a crush on them that you are really starange.

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theola10 writes:

	i like a boy name W*** he is so cute and fast funny he is cute and everyone says he is ogle but he is different to me i love him

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joejonas350 writes:

	I LOVE ALL OF THEM THE JONAS BROTHERS ARE SO HOT AND I THINK KEVIN IS THE CUTE AND ROMANTIC ONE, NICK IS THE CUTE AND SENSITIVE ONE AND JOE IS THE CUTE AND DOWN RIGHT GORGEOUS ONE IT WOULD BE COOL TO MEET THEM

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lilcutie78 writes:

	help i have a problem, the problem is there is a dance coming at my school and me and my best friend like this guy i asked him to the dance and he said sure but i don't know my friend asked him and he said maybe. If he says yes to her i will be sad and if i go with him my friend will be sad what should i do help me!!!!!!!!!!

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leaftoria writes:

	Bballchick6,I think agurlestien is a username.Keep on scrolling down till you see the name.

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sugarbeanie writes:

	Ok, i used 2 like this guy & i thot he liked me but,wen 1 of my fiends askd him if he likd me, he sed no. shuld i still like him, or blow him off? HELP!!! sugarbeanie

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Dogluver1438 writes:

	NO! He will never know if you dont tell him! I told a guy that i liked him and the next week he dumped his girlfriend and asked me out! We have been going out for a year now! We get along great!

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kenzie98 writes:

	Charlotte, I know what u r goin thru! that is the EXACT thing i'm going thru! it kind of hurts to pretend that i don't like him he is so CUTE and i like him a whole lot!!!!

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daizyspring writes:

	thats ok but show some signs that u like him and don't be to pushy

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sbcool2000 writes:

	ok i have a crush and i do not know what to do his brother said that he likes me help me

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sbcool2000 writes:

	hello yes i think that you should tell him what you think

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damiddle writes:

	u should leave it for a while and see but in the end sumthing gotta happen!

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bballchick6 writes:

	Cookygirl202. that was really weird to say. and btw what does agurlestien

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Scout411 writes:

	No. Tell him how you feel and maybe he will feel the same way.

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saltypeanut122 writes:

	Dear gothic.chick, what do u have 4 of??

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ashleyjake writes:

	i have 10

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gothic.chick writes:

	Yeah i have 4 of them

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hottiegirl905 writes:

	just don't tell him.Keep it cool

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saltypeanut122 writes:

	All of my friends always talk about dating and have boyfriends and stuff, but I'm not allowed to date. I really want to go out with this boy though. What do I do??

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lilkarla writes:

	boys are so cute thank you america

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love551 writes:

	dear charlotte i think that you should tell nick that you like him before somebody else does.

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cheerio526 writes:

	Guess what! I told my bff that i liked this guy. she said that she didn't like him. i also talked 2 him and he said he liked me but i relized the same thing as charlotte...i just want 2 be friends.

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pichi2811 writes:

	Totally!!! Go date him Charlotte!!!

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licibear writes:

	keep it a secret until its the end of the school year....it's much better that way

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angel7 writes:

	i like d** d****

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ONNIE455 writes:

	i really like this boy but he like my best friend what do i do?

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burnt9fwmk writes:

	i think its totally fine whats a secret its ur and not any ones busness (i dont know how to spell that)

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corriannsilver writes:

	Charlotte, Like catlover265 saysyou should go for it onlywhen you feel ready!

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cookygirl202 writes:

	YO DUDES! agurlestien-- I KNOW BUT IT HAPPENS! Icansing2-- THANX! ISn't it weird! L8ER CT

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abbigalini11 writes:

	dude ok first guys r soooooo weird so just puttin that out there first. and second if u want 2 take it slow take it slow dont be in a hurry 2 have a bf if u dont even want 1!!!!!!!!!!!!

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catlover265 writes:

	Charlotte, Of course it's OK to keep a secret crush a secret! Only tell him when YOU feel ready. You should be in no rush to go out with Nick! If you are ready, then say something, if not, that's fine! That's what a SECRET crush is all about!

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icansing2 writes:

	dear Cookygirl202, OMG! I had the exact same problem! Except he is not in my class, he doesn't ewven go to my school. Anyways, the best thing to do in tell someone you trust. Like a friend. I told my friend and it is fun to talk about. But then i told every single person in my class and they dont really care! hope that helps I can sing 2♥

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agurglestein writes:

	cookygirl202, that is really weird

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agurglestein writes:

	yeah!!! i once told my guy i liked him and got made fun of.

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ymabenn writes:

	yah but it makes me feel good to tell my best friend.

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Sk8er_Girl writes:

	No I mean why wait tomorrow could be so far away your chance is here so go for it for all you know he could like you too.

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moomoo2121 writes:

	Well I think it's fine to have a crush! I once told my crush that I liked him and he didn't care! He thought it was cool because it was a compliment but he didn't like me in that way and at first I was bummed out but then I told myself you can't make someone like you and we are still friends! I still like him and he still knows and I still wish we were together but it's ok to want that right?

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cookygirl202 writes:

	ok i figured out who i like! finally! all of my friends like somebody but they won't say anything. nobody knows I LIKE SOMEONE! i am DYING TO TELL SOMEONE! plus i think he likes me!

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cookygirl202 writes:

	i like some one in my class but i don't know who! the thought runs thru my mind but it leaves b4 i know who! could be J* could be N* could be A***! IT IS SO CONFUSING!

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Averygirl16 writes:

	don't b shy! i now its different but actually lots of girls when they think there invisible 2 the boy they like they go right up 2 them ans ask them out!

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cloverleafpower96 writes:

	hey charlotte, I used to like this uy but now i absoulutly don't like him because he's a wierdo-pshyco-freak and hes really mea and i ddn't even know it!!! isn't that sad?

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Niya Pooh writes:

	I Think U Should Ask Him Out

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Niya Pooh writes:

	U Should Ask Him Out I Would Or Tell A Friend 2 Hook U Up

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stillpicperfect writes:

	yea why is it called a secret if u don't keep it a secret ...............lol

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SugarRush writes:

	OMG dont keep it secret or ur friends might end up telling him like i like this boy @ school and my Friend k** ended up telling him i ADORE him. The good part is now I have his PHONE #!! HE accally talks to me!!!

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danceee17 writes:

	I would do thesame as u, Charlotte

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evoo writes:

	you should totally ask him out listen to your heart

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love08 writes:

	ur nice add me a comment

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Janie18414 writes:

	yes you should

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Charee writes:

	If you have a crush on someone and he is older than and you can't talk to him cause of that click on the heart

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Charee writes:

	If you have a crush on someone and don't know what to do click on the hearty thingy!!!!!

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ccaabbjj writes:

	I have a question, If you like somebody but it semms like the person does not even know you exist what would you do. Please respond PS if you read this pease heart it thanks!!

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weird_one12 writes:

	Well....I don't know but I think you should just take your feelings out of you bcuz wen u feel bad, you never know what's gonna happen next!

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emyem writes:

	You should just ask him out on a date because if you have bad friends thay would ask him with out your permishin

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bug090507 writes:

	i think you should but im not igarged of your life so whatever you want to do is fine with me but if you dont soon someone else will

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WNW writes:

	NO TELL HIM . IF HE FOUND OUT FROM U IT WOULD B BEST.OK

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bug090507 writes:

	no if you never tell him your friends might and he just might pick somone else if you dont tell him and theres 50 out of 60 he might say yes

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cheerio526 writes:

	HELP! ok i will admit i like this guy in my class. b Sometimes I feel like he likes me 2 but sometimes I think he thinks I am not cool enough. I haven't told anybody except my diary and stuffed animal. I want 2 tell my BEST friend but i think she likes him 2! And I am sorta embarrassed. WHAT SHOULD I DO? should i tell her or not? please help!

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raejean writes:

	sometimes

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Sassy111 writes:

	Nick u rock

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Sassy111 writes:

	i think nick is soooooooooo cute two!But Kevin and Joe are some cute!The JoBros rox my sox!!!!

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Sassy111 writes:

	I think i would tell my crush i like him because it will not get off my chest if i didn't tell and i would go crazy! lol

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icansing2 writes:

	How many people here would go out wiht nick? Im sure alot So Char, since we can't , you should I mean we all want you too! Ask him out! Clickk the heart if you agree.

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BSGlover123 writes:

	let's just say my life is NOT a secret everyone know's who i like and what i do each day! and my crush even know's i like him!!! :") i think he like's me. :s i really don't know he keeps on starring at me in SS,Science and English. how can i tell if he stares at me and how can i "comunicate" back? like take a glance at him or? please help if you can! love, ~BSGL123~ xoxo

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booksmart1 writes:

	I think you should not tell him too. tell ur friends but only really close ones

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nemon19 writes:

	i think it is ok if your really shy but if your not its still ok maby your scared and you may think that your best friend will make fun of you but if there your eally friend they will help you there this love bired time

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worriedoll writes:

	Yah i think it is ok to keep a crush a secret because i think some peopel would make fun of you, but tell very best friends.

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cranberrybuckle writes:

	this is really sad but i like a guy but cant trust my best friends (except 1 0f them)shes a true friend

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timberlyn writes:

	i think u should tell him and c what he says

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Butterflybeauty writes:

	Totally,I kkep a secret crush about a guy in my class.He is cute but I cant tell him that.That would be tacky.Only my two sisters/best buds know.

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Thlayli23 writes:

	You should just follow your heart. If your heart tells you that you should tell your friends, tell your friends.

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aynorcutie08 writes:

	yes i think it is ok to have a crush i mean i have 1

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pocketfullofsunshine101 writes:

	i would keep it a secret too. i like having stuff like that to myself!

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tyandra1234 writes:

	hey yall if i like someone i would only tell the people i trust like my best buds!

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cookygirl202 writes:

	yo dudes... i like a guy in my class and absolutley no 1 knows but if we're all in the same class in 3 yrs (i doubt it tho) then everyone will be fist fighting w/ some one 4 someone. HAHAHA

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yahhgirl372 writes:

	i would keep a crush secret! i like someone in my class, and no one knows!

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Skittlesgirl_87 writes:

	Yes of course its ok. i've done it before too. but it kinda stinx 2 crush on someone if they don't like u back. so if they don't like me back i am just friends with him. but just think that it could mess u guys up if you ask him out or something. so just think about it for a while.

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latifa_angel writes:

	you can only tust your bestfriends

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kimmaey writes:

	yeah,i mean you can't go up to him and say you love him.That means

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uthvwyse writes:

	Dear Charlotte, I personally think you should just go with the flow. You're right, things will probably work out naturally. Anyway, it seems that Nick will be the one to ask YOU out. Hint: I think it will happen pretty soon, so be prepared.

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yankeefever writes:

	totally ok!!

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avniarisha writes:

	i say u should keep it a secret

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shandra16 writes:

	If you want to. If i were you I would only tell my closest friends.

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saddlegaltex writes:

	Well I used to kinda like this guy R***.then i found out his qualities and now i hate him.I KEPT IT A SECRET THATS THE WAY YOU SHOULD ROLL

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karren21 writes:

	no charlotte if u keep the secret u may have to face some difficulties in future u have to face them sooner or later!

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glimmergurl writes:

	If u want 2. if i we're u i would only tell my closest friends. plus most of my friends kno i like this 14 year old. he is in 4th grade. but he's so cute! LOL!!!!

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Parischic writes:

	Sure it's OK for you to ask him out. But, my advice is to never be pressured to ask a guy out. As long as you're compfortable, there are no worries! Best of Luck to all!!!

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JonasForLife writes:

	I totally think that's the way to go. When I decide that I like a guy, I don't tell ANYONE, even my friends, because I don't know how everything will work out. And not wanting things to get weird makes sense. But if you do want to ask him out, go for it! Of course, I think any girl would want to be asked instead of asking. So just go the way you're going, and everything will be fine.

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bria6785 writes:

	Uh...yes and no. It depends on you and how you feel. If you're ready for a serious relationship, TELL HIM! (From reading the books, I'm pretty sure he likes you too!) But if you're not ready, then keep it a secret till you are!

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BAWGirl writes:

	Charolette, I think its FINE to keep a crush a secret! As long as you feel its rights. Do your friends gossip too much? Then I'd keep it a secret. Your Friend BAW.

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lovehorse556 writes:

	Like soooo...NO!!! Start flirting! Who knows, he might give you a kiss!

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skywriter158 writes:

	Do the other BSG know about you liking Nick? Just wondering. I think you can trust them.

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TravelLover writes:

	Char- You should most definetly tell him, I mean, whats the point of having a crush if he doesn't know? Plus, you're not getting anywhere! Now get out there and start flirting!!!

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peppermints writes:

	tweetygurl12: that is kind of awkward!

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peppermints writes:

	i don't think that you should tell!

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pettyboo14 writes:

	well, no you can talk to me about it, it will just be between me and you?

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avyance writes:

	i went wit my bff and i does feel weird but after a while u get 2 no each other more and more and then u feel beetr

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hunnibunch96 writes:

	Charlotte.........YEAH! i think i have had 1, u totally rock. nick is cute i think......(frmo the cover of Lake Rescue) xoxox

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kgirl1 writes:

	i think that you should tell him you like him because he probably likes you 2. so dont b afraid 2 flirt.

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knshufeldt writes:

	well that is a wierd story but i liked it at the same time

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chelz101 writes:

yehhh so why do u call it a secret crush for a secret crush is when someone dont wont to tell everyone there crush dont even tell anyone welll anyway tht is a secret crush well i have had a secret crush brfore he was the hottest boy in my primary years then i went to high skool then everything changed no-one liked him becaus he wasnt the hottest guy anymore there was more hotter guys then just him smilies/kiss.gif

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animalover15 writes:

	why do u call it a secret crush for!?

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obladioblada writes:

	tell em b4 they find out... otherwise things could get very bad...

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4kicks101 writes:

	I THINK ITS FINE TO HAVE A SECRET CRUSH! CLICK THE HEART IF U HAVE A SECRET CRUSH!

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pisofi writes:

	BTW I LOVE PRIDE AND PREJUDICE! (both movie and book

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pisofi writes:

	yeah, but you aren't going to get anywhere in life without being courageous...

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pinky19978 writes:

	I think it's ok to keep secrets

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soccergirl108 writes:

	Okay, so i have a crush(kind of embarassing!!) on this guy in my class and he is like so nice. But, he is my firend, and, like Charlotte, i dont want to mess things up by aasking him out!!!! Help I need advice!!! ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺• ••••••••• HELP!!!

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jonas fisters aka sisters writes:

	WHATEVER YOU THINK CHARLOTTE!

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icansing2 writes:

	Zoey101fan6, OMG!! Tell her. ARe you kidding. seriously, i was like that. and i told my friends and now i can finaally talk to her about it and make jokes it is way better!TELL HER!

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mgoloway writes:

	NNNNNNOOOOOOO!!

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avery4ever writes:

	Dear Charlotte, I need help. My best friend told me that she likes the guy I like. When she asked me who I like I said nowone because i think the guy likes her back. what should I do??

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tweetygurl12 writes:

	dear diary i really like this boy but i dont know if he likes me but the real problem is his mom is marring my uncle

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princessdiva11 writes:

	Im soo shy tht when i go by my teachers so im blush this girl told my teacher i was soo embaressed like ohh my god i blushed that my face turned red so im now tryen to stop shyness!

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mermaidgirl13 writes:

	i have 2 deal with it 2! i like my best guy friend but i want 2 tell him that i like him since the school years almost over and he will be in georgia over the summer HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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BekahSkittles1213 writes:

	No He might like you as much as you like him.

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Sweet110ipod writes:

	talk to your closest friends, and tell them not to tell other people. Best friends usually don't tell, unless they're big tattletales. It'll be all right Charlotte, just take a deep breath, and everything will calm down.

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ddn_222 writes:

	sure Charlotte i think you can keep a secret crush but i think it should be a secret for a little more time

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Zoey101fan6 writes:

	i never told my friend i liked this guy for 3 years

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Zoey101222902 writes:

	iv liked this boy like forever, but i havent seen him for almost a year and im luky if i see him once a year, thing is i like this other guy I just dont know what to do?(crushes can bo soo complicated )

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Zoey101222902 writes:

	Charlotte I think your ausome, and also u and nick ar sooo ment for each other go for it girlfriend!

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sjyrockss writes:

	Click on the heart if you have a HUGE crush and you wnat to tell HIM so much!

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sjyrockss writes:

	I think it's ok to have a secret crush because I have one and I only told my BFF!

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BSG Fan writes:

	Yo you should tell you'r best bud. you never know because she might find out the hard way... It Is Not Pretty!!! trust me u might lose her as a friend also if she finds out the hard way.

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mz.divaous writes:

	I don't think you should not keep a secret crush from your best friend at all I don't even keep a secret crush from my best friend at all.

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payal writes:

	ya u must keep it a secret. be quiet

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AnimalGirl10 writes:

	I don't have any crushes this year. I used to have one on this guy in my class but now we're just friends, or at least I think we're friends. He's in denile. I play soccer with him and that kinda stuff. In my opinion it's easier to hang out with guys. Girls have too much DRAMA.

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cutiepie#1 writes:

	yes because some friends have a loud mouth

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Angel_1997 writes:

	theres this boy at my school he used to b my enemy but now were friends and we both like eachother and we have eachothers cell numbers

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tibetgal writes:

	you know what. you should tell the truth when is you last day of school. because i am doing same thing as yours. because i like 1 boy. he is in my class. so he don't know that i like him. but i think he like me too. maybe. so i ganna tell the truth at the last day of school. thats my plan. so what is your plan Charlotte.

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Popstar99 writes:

	girl dont be shy go up to him and say bla bla bla bla bla bla bla

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WorldWideRisingStar writes:

	This is your crush, not Maeve's. Do what pleases you and what you feel comfortable with.

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annarocks123 writes:

	ya you should really keep it a secret

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yurnotprettierthanme writes:

	I have a crush on a boy named B** and I don't know if he likes me or not. He is always hanging around me and talking to me but I just don't know. My best friends used to like him so I haven't told them but I've told my older sister and my other friend (who never had a crush on him) and I really need help on if he likes me and what to do about it. THANX!

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Zoey101222902 writes:

	Well i have a crush,and I think it is totaly ok to have a crush on Nick, u sould go for it Chalotte

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bayhay writes:

	I have a mager crsh on a boy boy he is so cute duble the cute

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mendiola19 writes:

	It depends on your choice if you feel like telling your friends is easier then you tell them,no one can boss you around.

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xsamy2001x writes:

	i have a crush name a and im testing on him only at my cousin's house my dad does not like me getting a crush not even my crush and i don't know how to do it .and i don't know who will help me do it .it's even stupid and boring to do it alone .can you tell me what to do for a?

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jdrop writes:

	nice3 svery girls

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heart18sandy_star writes:

	i like someone but i dont think he likes me too

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mylittlegirl writes:

	ya its okay to keep a crush a secret and its up to you if you want to tell someone then tell them scream it make everyone star you know what i mean...!!!!!!

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